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  1. Bel George started following A Perfect Fit , The Landlady's Lesson (Chapter 3 - Complete) , A Done Deal and 7 others
  2. Bel George
    I miss the adventures of Daphne and Mary ...
  3. Bel George
    I hope everything goes well? I am really enjoying this story, and I look forward to the next chapter.
  4. Bel George
    You might be looking for this story:
  5. Bel George
    There was a mention of side effects of the drugs. If those are bad enough, maybe taking such a pill could be one-time thing, and another solution for the bedwetting would be needed.
  6. Bel George
    Did you publish your stories in Dutch? I am Dutch speaking as well, and I would really like to read more of your stories.
  7. Bel George
    I can recommend all of the books by E.L. Haley. If you read "My last night of D.R.I." here in the story forum, you'll get an idea of the kind of stories to expect. I also really enjoyed the book "Back to her Teens" and "Stuck in het Teens" by Clarine Klein, but those are more spanking stories and much less pull-ups and/or diapers.
  8. Bel George
    To avoid this thread becoming cluttered with Kindle suggestions, I would suggest creating a separate thread where I would like to share which Kindle books I have enjoyed reading. And I'm also curious about what others liked to read.
  9. Bel George
    I did want to do this as a child and as a teenager. But I never did because I did not want to disappoint my parents, and also because I am very bad at lying it would have been abvious really soon that I did it on purpose. But to this day I often wonder what could have happened if I had dared to wet the bed on purpose. Maybe this story will be able to answer that.
  10. Bel George
    This is a great story. Already looking forward to the next chapter :-).
  11. Bel George
    I'm very happy to see the continuation of this story here. It is without a doubt one of my favorites.
  12. Bel George
    I suppose there are multiple ways to define "acceptance". In Dr. Rhoda's book "You're Not Broken" there is a chapter for the partner of an ABDL with a few paragraphs about "approval, acceptance, tolerance and acknowledgment", acceptance is defined like this: Acceptance is about your ability to show your partner that you are truly okay and comfortable with this side of them by your words, actions, facial expressions, and body language. In these early stages, they will be paying close attention to all the ways you communicate your acceptance of them and especially this side of them. You will need to do more than tell them you accept their AB/DL side; you also must show them. Often acceptance will include having more of a role and involvement with your partner, even if it is not as much as they may want or desire. Acceptance means you are not resentful and can give to them freely. ( Lipscomb, Rhoda. You're Not Broken: Dr. Rhoda's Guide to Strong Self Worth for AB/DLs (pp. 184-185). Red Quill Press. Kindle Edition. ) What I actually want is to feel accepted as a DL by my wife. To feel accepted, some minimal form of involvement or participation is required, even if only verbally. Without that, it feels more like tolerance, a very different thing.
  13. Bel George
    I'm not quite sure how to take your message. At first I thought you meant this in general, but in a long-term relationship you're allowed to have expectations, right? But when it comes to wearing and using diapers, I can kind of understand. My partner should not do anything special against her will. On the other hand, this desire is very important to me, and I have talked about it from very early in our relationship (30+ years ago). Then I can expect my partner to make some effort to at least understand my desires. And once that is the case, I can hope that she is willing to show that she accepts this. Showing it through small actions like these that I had in mind. The things you are suggesting (Are you wet? Do you need changed? Did you mess your diaper?) are, in my opinion, already quite advanced expectations, as they are not just about wearing a (dry and clean) diaper, but because they are responses to its use. If she ever gets around to interacting with me and my diapers in this way, she will even exceed my expectations.
  14. Bel George
    We have talked about it. I think 3 (pats on the diaper) wil lbe easier for her than 4 (cuddling while I'm wearing a diaper). ABout that last one, she was very clear that for her this was more "advanced" and not "basic". I guess it is different for everyone, that's why I was asking for more ideas. It's not easy for her to find something to show her acceptance without feeling uncomfortable. Thank you for those suggestions. I do think these are more intermediate or advanced, and I hope she will be able to do those things sometime in the future.
  15. Bel George
    Thanks for you input. I know that making her do things against her wishes is a bad idea. I have been in a romantic relationship with my wife for more than 30 years, and this "diaper thing" was known all that time, tolerated but not accepted. However, my desires are not going away, on the contrary. That is why I have contacted a sexologist to assist us in being able to talk about diapers without ending with a fight. That is possible now and it already a huge improvement. Her asking me what I want her to do is something that came up during these talks, but I don't want to rush the more "advanced" stuff like changing wet (or messy) diapers. I would be very happy if we could find small things that she can do to show me that she is aware of my desire and to show me that she is okay with it, Actually, just yesterday we discussed a few of the things I mentioned initially. Now it's up to her to find out for herself which of those things she wants to give a try or not. Or we can just keep talking about it from time to time, as a way to get more comfortable with this desire.
  16. Bel George
    We both enjoy it when I give my wife oral sex. I have never done this while wearing a diaper, because it is mixing wearing diapers and having sex. My wife is till very uncomfortable when she sees me wearing a diaper, and this decreases her desire for sex. However, I could suggest it as one of the options for things we can try. I would consider this not a "small thing" though, but more intermediate or even advanced. I suppose starting with smaller and easier things (easier for her) is preferable if I ever want to be able to experience these kind of intermediate or more advanced things (things like her putting me in a diaper, allowing/forcing me to wear a diaper in the house uncovered, having sex while wearing a diaper, ...). Thanks for your input.
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