LittleAmytheil

I feel like I should specify that I'm not a bedwetter; I wear overnight because I want to. Usually I'm either in a GoodNite or Always Discreet, because I'd have to use/toss it out before work in the AM anyways.

I'll change up the style of clothing I wear. In summer I opt for thinner diapers, less plastic-backed with t-shirt onesies, or simply a tank top and diaper cover. When winter comes it's all about the layers, including flannel footed onesies.

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I get this feeling you might be pushing too hard to fit yourself into a perfect little labeled box. It sounds like the attraction has more to do with the diapers than the person that's wearing them, or perhaps it enhances your perception of that person because they're wearing diapers. I'd compare it to people who have a fetish for certain kinds of shoes, and still find them extremely attractive regardless of whose wearing them. If you feel the need to define yourself there's no shame in continuing to research. If you're happy with exactly who you are, then you're good as well.

Hands-down the best answer for me as well.

That's one of the best parts of an evening diaper change for me. I come home from work and remove my damp/messy day diaper, take a nice hot soapy shower, the lovingly lotion and powder for the evening. If I feel the need to later at night I'll do it again with a bubble bath before bed. There are few better feelings than feeling that clean; even if for only a brief while.

It's been awhile since I've been wearing Goodnites; I was always just on the edge of sizes, and instead opted to use Always discreet as my daytime work-wear pullup. I was pleasantly surprised! I have approximately 36in hips, and could gently stretch the sides of the Goodnites to comfortably pull them up. The last time I tried on the old design I was tearing the sides while wearing for an extended time. Now bear in mind, they're still Goodnights. One wetting and done, and don't flood them or you'll be sorry.

I can control when I go, but for the most part when I'm padded it just happens. With enough practice so to speak you get the muscle training to go anywhere anytime. That being said, sometimes I don't notice I need to wet/mess until I stop what I'm doing and sit.

I wonder if those places at the mall that do screen prints will print on other things? Thanks to those cricuit things, a lot of people make and iron on their own prints! A friend of mine made my Team Rocket dress for Halloween using a cricuit cutter, iron on paper, and a dress I gave her.

3-4? I have no problem speaking anonymously on the internet, and the same goes for people in select close friend/partners circles. I do generally tell my partners just so they know, because maybe they're interested in some form as well. Aside from that, I don't tell general strangers on the street or people I work with, nor my family.

Too far up to see I'm diapered (yay short arms for selfies) Team Rocket this year.

You never know what your partner is going to say until it happens. My partner and I are both big gamers, and he would always joke about "Call of Duty players wearing diapers" and how that's gross, etc. Being me, I nodded and smiled, agreeing with him with a single thought in the back of my mind: He'll never know I like to use diapers. Ever. Long and short, he found my stash while looking for a Renaissance Faire belt I stored for him. I don't know when he found it, but I know he found a guide on how to talk to/engage littles...and he was trying! And of course I'm trying to convince myself that he's just being cute but... HE KNOWS. And fast forward to today, he's the most supportive person about it. We talked about it in the most awkward car ride ever, and talked about the whole thing, and what it means to me. He wants me to do what makes me happy, even if I don't want him involved. I don't want him to see/change them (yet), but he always gets a good laugh embarrassing me and patting my diaper butt.

Hey Anonymous! I completely understand your fear of being found out. Ten years ago I was terrified of what anyone might think of my ‘weird’ fetishes (diapers included). Now that I’m in my 30’s, I’ve discovered that I’m proud to be weird. Even though I don’t scream my fetishes from the rooftop, I’m much more comfortable sharing in experiences with others when we all open up. I happen to be a casual/moderate gamer, and I always was concerned that my partner would be disgusted about a gamer wearing diapers. I was very much wrong (it’s a bit of a tale) and I couldn’t be happier just being me. He has offered to change me, or take part as much as I’d like him to, though for me I just want to wear under my clothes and nothing else. I can’t give advice on being caught or not. People do wear diapers under their clothing all the time and no one bats an eye. That being said, disposal at home can be extremely difficult if you live at home (as well as stashing other items) but living alone is far easier.

I wash my things with the regular laundry, and when I lived at home would do a quick dry (so they wouldn't be dripping) and I'd hang them in my closet. Never had much issue with this method as there was never a reason to go into my closet.

I know it's been over a month, but I have a little bit to weigh in myself. I've been with my partner for almost 20 years now. We've lived together for the last 3 years (we lived on and off together in the past; it's a long story why we had a long distance relationship) and I've been an AB/DL for about 10ish years. My partner only found out maybe a year or so ago that I'm a DL, even after we knew one another so long and even when we lived together. Heck, 3 of my closest friends and play partners knew. I too was scared of chasing him off. One day my partner found my diapers. He was looking for his Renaissance Faire belt, and looked through my dresser just in case. Lo and behold he opened the bottom drawer and found my diapers and a bunch of supplies. He did the smart thing. He researched it and dropped 'hints'. (Encouraging me to snuggle my stuffed animals, brought me treats while I played games, offered to make me a bubble bath, etc.) I clearly didn't get it. I noticed and was nervous he knew, but played it off. He did the next smart thing and asked my play partner. He played dumb that he knew, but he did have experience with other ABDLs and DD/lg relationships (his past partners). He bridged the topic awkwardly in a car ride, and we had a long heart to heart of what I wanted out of it and how I'd like it to go forward. We opted not to change much, except that I no longer hide my diapers in the shed/car/etc. Same with my wipes/creams/clothes/paci. Clearly, we're still together and he's shared to me his own fetishes that he was embarrassed about and I think we've grown closer as a couple.

I'm from a bit further north (NYC) but also second a professional in this case. I'm saving funds for a straitjacket myself, and presently have 2 play partners who would be willing to use it with me. That being said, I've also met a wonderful professional Dominatrix and can confirm they are not as scary as you think! They're trained professionals, doing a job. They want to give you the experience you want, not the 'television dominatrix experience'. Now as for finding a professional, or knowing how good they may be, I unfortunately can't give guidance. I was referred by a friend of mine who went to school with her and he had also hired her in the past. (Great story, because it was an accident. A friend paid for the experience and chickened out so she offered it to my friend instead!) We even went out for dinner and drinks after our session (her treat.) to cool down and just talk about outside interests.

I have a Build-a-Bear Eevee that I love! When Lets go Eevee came out, I had her sitting by my side for hours of gaming.

I'm female, so that could make my situation a little different. (Assuming you're male based on the username) At first I found it easier to wet while sitting on the toilet in diapers, or occasionally wetting the diaper first with water to encourage the sensation. For some people, some positions are easier than others. It took a lot of practice and training to learn to walk while wetting, and I still need to push if I want to wet while laying down (in bed).

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Yes. A lot of different fantasies, but for me there is usually a sharp divide between sexual and AB/DL fantasies.

When I use pull ups, yes I do change far more often. As far as diapers go, if I'm using a good premium brand, the changes are about the same.

So I've found diapers hit/miss when it comes to heavy flow. Cheaper brand diapers such as depends/good nites have a tenancy to shift under my clothes when dry. If they're only absorbing blood not wet, they also have a tenancy to leak through the leak guards. That can create an awkward/embarrassing situation quickly. On the same vein, if things dry up too fast and you don't use the right creams/powders, you can cause a painful rash! That being said, the more expensive brands are wider and don't move as much. I feel confident both wetting and bleeding into them for better absorption. Since I've been wearing 24/7 and using most of the time (dry pull ups at work, diapers at home), I do wind up just using my diapers for all intended purposes.

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It might also help to spread the wetness around. I'm safely assuming you're female based on the gender you've provided; and as women we have a distinct problem of wetting in one concentrated spot. I haven't used that brand, but I can confirm that I've run into issues with the crotch of a diaper ready to leak while the front and back are totally dry. I'll often lay on my back for a slow wetting so the wetness spreads around and makes it easier for the diaper to wick into the remaining dry areas. It isn't foolproof, but sometimes helps. I also sit while wetting often, and that also seems to help as the SAP is compressed as it absorbs, thus absorbing less but pressing out less too. If you'd like to talk further with me via PM I'd be delighted.

I second this on many fronts. It's as someone once pointed out to me; when there is more of one gender than another in a particular field, the minority can pick and choose. Though it rarely works the other way around. If a DL girl is looking for a partner whose also into the fetish, she has a larger pool of gents, and she can pick and choose based on what she's looking for in a relationship, where as a male likely wouldn't have the same ability. I can unfortunately also second the diaper photo parts. It's the DL equivalent of dick picks and REALLY is a huge nope/swipe left moment. That being said I'm super numb myself to being part of male dominated communities, thanks to being an AB/DL, loving video games, and making chain-link armor for LARPs. I just treat diaper pics like a mouse my cat brought in: I don't even look at it, I scoop it up in a dust bin and throw it away.