Snugglebear_69

Not to be a downer but the post you replied to is 15 years old with no updates. It is very unlikely it is still active. You may have more luck posting your own thread or ad vs replying to threads that are by any account dead.

Whether it's in a nonsexual capacity or not isn't really the issue, the actions are still based on lies and not just once or twice but four YEARS worth. If he didn't think it was wrong or an issue he probably wouldn't be lying about it now would he. I get wanting to offer people the benefit of the doubt but for people who've been in this community at a long time this, sadly, isn't a new narrative and it's very rarely one that turns out well. Folks, if you can't be honest and tell your partner the truth then you aren't being fair to them as an adult. Yes, you have rights but so do they. Let's be real, not everyone wants to have a partner that wears diapers and they have the right to make that decision. Whatever the motivation, lying, for years, to the person you are supposed to love and trust . . . . I just don't see how that is acceptable or excusable behaviour.

My first reaction is do you mean gender or do you mean sex as they aren't the same thing. Second as someone who is genderfluid would it be less complicated to have a static gender, absolutely. Would having my sex change biologically to match my gender be nice, 110% but that isn't possible. Last, my gender and sex are what they are and although there are easier combinations of the two I am who I am and I wouldn't ever change that fact even if I could.

I leave the diaper buying to my Daddy.

I leave that question in the hands of my Daddy as that's step one for a good daily routine, trust your partner/caregiver.

It's amazing to me that so many folks have spouses or partners who aren't supportive. Being involved is one thing and I can see spouses or partners not necessarily wanting to actively participate but not even being supportive . . . I couldn't and wouldn't be able to live that way, life is too short.

I wear what my Daddy puts me in and He loves prints so that's what I wear 😁

Sounds more like a furry con than ABDL or kink.

Absolutely a huge no for me. What you are describing, even with no physical sexual component, has a strong emotionally intimate component and that's not something I want to share with a relative. That wmotional connection is something I want to share with a partner, not someone related to me.

I don't really care about them one way or the other. My Daddy is doing a proper check to see if I need to be changed so it isn't like He relies on them.

My Wife and my Boyfriend/Daddy who change me all the time. My Daddy specifically would prefer I wear diapers 24/7 but that's that's too much for me. There are probably quite a few folks here who's spouses change them honestly.

I mean there are quite a few male baby girls on here abd quite a few looking for a caregiver so you've got pretty good odds.

Companies always discount the cheaper item or they would get absolutely ripped off by customers during these types of sales. Saying buy beware in the title implies they are doing something underhanded when what you've described is simple and a very commonly used and logical sales approach.

Not really what this forum is for. You'll get more responses from and find the lifestyle section more appropriate for a thread of this kind.

I don't think one is better than the other. Both are equally valid. Personally I don't try to pick a certain age. I'm just me and like whatever I like.

I don't do anything different as I prefer the feeling of a dry diaper. A wet diaper is not comfortable or enjoyable to me so I'm not about to do anything that makes that more likely or more frequent.

Personally I absolutely wouldn't be going. Whether children are present or not it is still a child oriented play space. There is enough confusion around ABDL that adding to that confusion isn't anything I want to do.

Hmmm, what does your partner suggest? 🤔

My Daddy and I just have a relationship like any other, it just so happens to also have little play, bath time, diaper changes and more. There isn't really any secret as every healthy relationship has give and take already built in. I guess maybe I'm not really understanding the question as every relationship should already have give and take.

Clean only. No interest in seeing other people's human waste.

Definitely out there. My partners don't fetishize me. They just love me for all the different parts of who I am.

There are definitely partners out there who aren't just tolerant or even accepting but who are actually excited about it, my Wife and Daddy are two such folks 💗💗

I'm going to over a different perspective and one that some people may not really like. What you described above to me is a big issue. Whether or not your partner has actively gone out an played with other people or not what he has done and is doing is emotional cheating. He is seeking to fulfill an emotional need behind your back and doing so by hiding things and lying. Diaper boys is quite literally primarily a hook up site and so the fact he is actively on it, with his profile set and written to meet people I think is very telling. Actions do speak louder than words. I understand when people say it's tough to be open or come out about thus but he didn't seem to have any issue doing it with other people. He also isn't just posting messages, he is posting images AND videos. Honestly, it sounds very much like he either has given in to his urges and played with others or he will do so in the future. Only you can decide what you are comfortable with but I know for me this kind if deception and breach of trust would be a massive issue.

Simple, my Daddy changes me. The rest is private between us.

Anything feces related is a HUGE turn off for me. Also crotch shots, they are nit imaginative in the least and being totally honest my Daddy and I don't have any interest in seeing a stranger in a diaper, just not our thing.