Windelbaby

Would you be okay with a relative raising you to be a baby? I mean, setting rules about when to sleep, how long you can watch TV and so on, completely without getting sexual of course, really just parenting. What is your opinion on this?

I think I got it, I'll only say it when I'm sure, otherwise I'll keep my mouth shut.

I didn't mean it that way.

It was about the friend who told about your fetish and asked for mine I was unsure whether I should tell it.

Is there actually perfume that smells exactly like baby powder? I could not find any online.

How did you tell friends about your fetish or lifestyle? I told a friend, I don't know. Another has told me her fetish and wants my knowledge but honestly I'm always afraid that it will be told if I tell who I told the other friend I told it because she is much in the BDSM area and therefore I trust her somehow more. I find it generally hard to trust someone and talk about it. The positive is just that you no longer have to hide it extremely for fear of being caught.

Sorry i mean Lifestyle.

I know there are plenty of posts about getting caught here. Nevertheless, I am interested if you have ever been caught by your neighbors and how they reacted? Some also make a large Durcheinender in your diaper since you have already been caught because of the smell? The same applies to family members and friends. What I am also interested in if you have an ABDL Lifestyle who have you told? Because it's hard to keep it a secret. I will start. My mother often caught me in diapers and clothes but she doesn't talk about it but she didn't think it was okay. My aunt knows it too, she didn't like it at first, she caught me too, I explained everything to her and then she saw it neutrally but avoided talking about it.

Yes okay I can understand that girl underwear but I never wear except pink diapers but that is yes fas like underwear It is a pity to hear that you were teased by your classmates because of your illness, something that should not be. I asked the question because, I can well imagine that it goes to some so or it is considered by the gessellschaft also rather than female in my opinion. I think but actually also that it is evaluated with an illness also again differently because one must carry it yes and is dependent on it therefore I think it is somewhat more differentiated with incontinence. You also had a successful love life. You don't have to, but there are also people who think or feel that way. But I find it nice to hear many different opinions from different people with different views. I assozieere them rather with female it is actually just so in my head inside. Would you please explain the reasons that make diapers feminine for you? Since I have not read the other posts unfortunately. I have to admit you get pretty far out. Sure there are many things that influence and what is more feminine and masculine. Most of the time you have but unfortunately no influence on it.

Yes, BDSM is now accepted by the masses, although it was also a long way to go. Who knows if in the future it can not be better for ABDL I think that acceptance builds up over time but here it is probably much more difficult and will take much longer.

There are people in my life who know, fortunately my parents are not one of them.

Let me ask you a question has your diaper made you feel less masculine or made your wife or girlfriend see you as less masculine? I have to admit that my diapers make me feel less masculine because I don't think a diaper is a piece of clothing that a real man would wear and if the diapers are pink it makes me feel more like a girl. Do you know something like that?

First of all, thank you very much for your answer. I understand what you want to tell me but I'm still a little afraid of it when she tells of course it would be advantageous if I meet someone who has nothing against ABDL. However, I would like to choose the people I trust with it. Here where I live there are not many tolerant people. I mean, I also know that it is almost impossible to find out if she has done it, that's why I asked if anyone has had any experience. Thank you for the answer. I hope that it was your personal decision not to fall in love.

I have a problem that is negatively affecting my life. It has something to do with diapers I really hope that someone can help me. But I better start from the beginning and indeed I had a girlfriend a few years ago I met her on the Internet she lives not far from me stupidly I had the idea to tell her about my diaper fetish at the beginning of the relationship. Actually, I also had no problem with it in the time where we were still together and after the separation initially also not. Now we come to the problem is that I am afraid that she continues to tell, I do not know if she does or would do it, we have no more contact. But I would also like to have a relationship again and would also like to try it again on the platform where I met my ex. However, I am afraid that she has told others or possibly also told. I am afraid that someone else will confront me with it and that I won't find a girlfriend anymore. I know that it does not have to be so I also have no problem with my fetish etc. because I know that you can not get rid of a fetish even if you want it. I would also never mention something like that right at the beginning of my relationship because I realize how it affects my life. I don't know maybe I am a bit paranoid in that respect. I would be interested if you know such a feeling? Or if a friend or an acquaintance or a relative has told others about it or if it happened because of a quarrel? If so, how did you deal with it, did you not care or did it cause you problems or was it only half as bad as you feared?

I hope it is now good.