Wet Knight

Thanks Mick, they make some very nice products.

They say that there are two certainties in life:- "Death and Taxes". There are two certainties about wearing nappies:- "nappies leak, fact of life", and "someone will find out, sods law". The only non medical but legitimate reason that I have come across for wearing a nappy is lack of facilities such as on 'a Chinese new-year train journey home'. or going to a 'three day music festival', but you might be able to think of others. If you can experience such an occasion, you could, when found out, have a chance of being believed that you heard about wearing a nappy at events, tried wearing one, surprisingly liked the convenience / confidence / security, and wonder that more people don't do it. This won't work if you are an AB and someone finds baby print nappies and a baby dummy.

It means that you are going to waste a lot of your life and a lot of money.

No, you aren't, I do and Joerg also writes that he has a rubber sheet, but mine is the old red "double rubbered cotton sandwich" hospital type of bed protection, not like your soft white sheets.

I'd be interested to know about your blanket protection.

Would you like it if the medical profession told the world about you?

At home I wear terry nappies and waterproof pants, but on holiday I use plastic backed disps.

A urodynamic sleep investigation showed that I have two large gushes in the night, sometimes three, and thereafter, overflow dribbles. I was told it depended on the state and depth of sleep. I'm fairly confident near the house in the day, but if I go out I always wear a nappy, because, if I need to go, I can't clench enough and leak. Also, there is a naughty something lurking in my bladder, who knows when a leak would be most inconvenient.

NAPPIES LEAK ! fact of life. If you are not incontinent, and don't want wet tell-tale patches, relieve your self in the normal way before your nappy is saturated. If you are incontinent, you will have learned how to cope, on most occasions, and changed before your nappy is saturated.

Years ago, before they became AB fashionable, I had a rubber onesie. It was lovely and snug, but my sagging nappy put too much strain on the popper snaps, and they kept taring out as fast as I repaired it.

As Sport says, in old age, the stigma has diminished enough for people not to wonder. For most of my life I have told hotel staff, and with almost all, the information is received gratefully.

Look up "Kinky Diapers"; expensive but excellent if you ask for them to be chlorinated.

Hello Miki, You are 26 years late, finding us, but better late than never ! As you say, you might find yourself a 'mummy', (don't hold your breath waiting) but you will find lots of baby boys like you, with whom you can be friends.

If I'm away for a night or two, I wear a terry nappy and Kinky Diaper rubber pants. For longer stays it is a disposable and trainer pants. At home, I just wet in the bedpad. At no time do I wear PJ's, onsies, shorts or T shirts.

Arrh, to be sure, One hasn't lived life to the full, till one has been on the wrong end of a drain cane.

"I believe a gay person to be a lesser person than a straight person; less honest, less reliable............ This is the nub of the matter. To someone under 30, gayness is so common place that it doesn't warrant a second thought. To some one over 50, it's something not to be mentioned, it happens, they do it discretely. THEREFORE, they don't want the world to know, they are hiding a secret and maybe pretending it doesn't happen or covering things up, if they aren't being honest about their sexuality, what else? and because of it, could pressure be brought to bear on them? In 50 years it will hopefully be seen as something that was absurd, but, there might be a reaction. 50 years ago, as a nation we all loved Alf Garnet and Tony Blairs's son-in-law talking about "the coons" in "Till death us do part, or "The black and white minstrels" and Spike Milligan's comedy about "Paki Paddies" To me they are still funny, but to someone under 30, hanging, drawing and quartering is too good for me. It isn't the sexuality, or the comedy, in its self, it is the differing perception of it. I once cut and pasted a warning about race and religion, to which Elfy took exception, labeling me "A Dick"., not seeing in it what was real, but what he wished was real. Within a month, terrorists had shot up half of Paris. It is just a fact of life that what is beyond the pail to some, is acceptable to others................................such as:- enjoying being incontinent?

My father and both grandfathers died after a Stroke, so last year I was put on STATINS. I ate smaller portions and more fruit & veg and dropped from 195 to 185 lbs In March I began to get pain in my hips, spread to my thighs, walking became awkward. Doctor gave me exercises , but I was in too much discomfort to do them. Next it was my right shoulder and bicep, and spreading round my neck. By May I couldn't get out of the chair with out sliding on to the floor, getting on my knees and using the arm of the chair to get up. Doctor said I was getting old and gave me more exercises. 2nd June I stopped taking them. I haven't told the Doctor ! Legs gradually working better and much less discomfort; shoulder still painful, even in bed. I am left with muscle weakness, and at my age,75, muscle takes a very long time to build in response to activity.

If you don't mind it being black, the very best long lasting waterproof product is"Butyl Pond liner". No embarrassment about buying it.

About 10 years ago we used to have meets in Birmingham, called munches. We got about 10 people first time, the gradually dwindled down to about three of us. People had other things to do, and there was always next month, it actually wasn't that much to do, and there's only so much you can do talking quietly about nappies in a pub.

I'm so sorry to read about your education problems; I suffer from dyslexia, which makes reading a slab of text daunting. I use Dragon Naturally Speaking to talk to my computer; it is by no means perfect as I have trouble with pronouncing S & R's but it is quite good.

I don't wish to seem 'picky; but for some reason, post are easier to read if you use paragraphs.

I recon that google earth saw nappies and some plastic pants on your washing line.

At 36, there are too many occasions in life that it will be a pain to be a bedwetter. I know, I have been one all my life.

Start bedwetting ! I never stopped.

I had a 19 year old bedwetter in my bed last night, and peed in him a couple of times. He wants me to tank up tonight.