rosalie.bent

not even close to true. it is a act of intimacy.

In our situation, nappies are the only real underwear although she wears panties over the top. But nappies are not an option. Joanne's 'age' varies from a high of 3yo to a low of 3mo

Ive had quite a few people contact me over the years and this is not a rare practice and even more involved than that. I guess it speaks of a special intimacy and sharing that for some means a great deal.

Do you write on commission? I never knew that actually took place.

'Testing' prayer is a somewhat silly notion because it presumes it is like a science experiment seeking confirmation of a hypothesis that prayer follows some kind of predictable formula. Thats a silly notion. But I have no less that FOUR well-documented examples of literal miracles in response to prayer that defy any repudiation. Prayer is communication with God. The idea that you can 'test' that is a foolish one. I like watching flat earther videos because they are just so stupid but after all their rambling, their silly statements and flawed experiments, just ONE full-frame photo destroys all of their objections. In like manner, just ONE provable miracle in response to prayer destroys the counter argument. Four just nails down every corner. And I am hardly alone in this experience. The rest of your arguments are peripheral and not pertaining to the central argument. What you are complaining about is not prayer itself or even the existence of God but rather that He doesnt do what you think He should. That is as flimsy as it gets.

If only it were that simple! And yes, diapers and AB etc can lead to sin like any other strong drive can (sex drive ??). It is learning to manage your drives and ambitions to stay with the constraints of righteousness.

well, obviously the scripture is not referring to age regression but at the same time, when you see little children and their simple faith-driven approach to God, you see what Jesus was meaning. Adults complicate things but children approach God with a simplicity of heart and an understanding that adults often do not have.

I think you made a good comment that people often wear diapers because... they are diapers and look like them. Whether they work or not isnt particularly important to most people.

It's unfortunate, but the current climate means you need to steer clear of any place that has minors that you know are minors. The reality is that an intelligent mid teen can hide the fact they are a minor fairly well and most of us would no doubt have spoken to a minor without being aware of it. The problem exists tho if you are in a place that openly caters to minors and so you cant easily claim ignorance as a defence. It's a bummer for TBDLs because they are everywhere and need good solid advice even more than ABDLs, but sadly, nothing can be done for them. Not sure that is likely to change any time soon.

We wrote an article on this very question because we have found that a LOT of ABDLs are Christian. https://abdiscover.files.wordpress.com/2018/11/a-christian-response-to-being-an-adult-baby.pdf I hope it helps.

So, just reject the evidence, right? These incidents weren't random. They occurred in direct response to prayer to God. You aren't even will to grant them authenticity. Your mind is closed. The problem with your argument is that it denies the possibility of evidence. Like the other poster, it would simply not be possible to reach your standard of proof because you have none. Science predates 400 years ago. It predates Christ for example.

My early experience in Fetlife was when I wrote my first book. I mentioned it there and the torrent of vitriol and vile abuse truly astonished me. It was vicious and a massive pile-on. It went on for some time and then I decided to investigate... yes, unsurprisingly NOT ONE OF THE ABUSERS had actually read the book but chose t abuse the mere concept of a book seeking to describe and detail ABDL behaviour. wow... Ive met some nice people on there although I rarely go there and most are simply people I've met on Twitter who contact me there. The funniest thing for me was when first abused a small group of people decided that they would 'write their own book' to counter mine (despite never reading it in the first place. They then set up a thread dedicated to the task and got as far as discussing the copyright page and then nothing in the 8 years since. DD is certainly a nice place with seemingly effective moderation but most people seem to self-moderate anyhow. Perhaps it is the black and foreboding design of Fetlife that brings out so many peoples 'dark side'. I got banned from the main ABDL group on fetlife for the 'sin' of posting about a new survey we were conducting. The premise was that the survey was 'making money' although how that was possible is beyond me. And just as a further proof that self-awareness is so rare, the moderator who banned me was the webmaster/owner of an ABDL pay site who routinely mentioned it in the group. There are many, many lovely people I've met during this online/writing journey, but the path has been littered by a pile of unpleasant cretins as well. DD however, is a paradise.

That is excellent! So few families or parents handle it quite so well.

1) daughter born with spina bifida - hole in the spine with nerves exposed and damaged and full diagnositic testing and confirmation. Diagnosis was wheelchair, incontinence and reduced life span. after prayer by several people at age 3 days, the hole closed over completely and full restoration of nerve function. 30 years later, no evidence of it having ever been there. Hospital staff were in shock and called it a miracle. 2) 18 months ago I was diagnosed with viral cardiomyopathy and told that I would likely die from it. My cardiac performance was below that 'consistent with life'. I managed to survived those first few weeks in hospital on medication and for a couple months took things very slowly and carefully. Then one day I was prayed for and a subsequent echocardiogram howed that my heart was 'completely normal and no indication of any disease or weakness'. Both my cardiologists were stunned and said they had NEVER SEEN anything like it before. A year later, my heart remains completely and totally healthy with zero signs of disease or damage. I am well-known in the hospital as the 'miracle lady'. There are two other examples that are just as impressive. Theses are both demonstrable miracles complete (in the latter one) with extensive medical records. Both of them ae far more impressive and far less likely than winning Powerball. Neither of them are remotely possible.

Our survey results would suggest that at least some certainly will be and after you get used to it... you have to find a reason to stop and that might not be so easy.

I understand your price-related concerns. One of the reasons we were for most of the time a cloth-nappy household was the pricing issue. All costs factored in, cloth nappies are a third of the cost of disposables and far less subject to supply shortages. Our current circumstances (new, very small and not very discreet) house) preclude cloth nappies and it is quite the loss. My baby always prefers cloth anyhow citing better absorbancy, comfort and 'babyness'. Kite-folded terries are bulky but comfy while dependeco velco nappies are discreet and good value. Sorry that baby-theme nappies are still a no-no. been there and been the one with the negative reaction as well! Fetlife is more like a sewer than anything. There are some nice people on there for sure, but the angst and vitriol there is worse than pretty much anywhere else although Reddit certainly tries.

ON no less than FOUR occasions on my family we have prayed for and received miraculous healings that defy medical science. After experiences like that (and others) how could you ever convince me that there is no God? Faith is belief without direct evidence but when you have actual direct evidence....? Ive studied the Bible for decades now and God has never let me down.

You can request the results of all the surveys now on the website and they will be emailed to you.

Since so many of you are bored and at home, take the time to fill in two of our new surveys or get the results of our other 9 surveys. https://abdiscovery.com.au/surveys/

since ABDL is a private thing, there needs to be a demonstrable reason for telling ANYONE about it at all. If parents need to know, that is fine, but otherwise they shouldnt.

It is one of the ironic aspects of ABDL community in that people everyone knows and trusts suddenly disappears and no one knows why. The reality is that much of our connection is tenuous.

You make a good point, but for the purpose of the survey, it is more-or-less restricted to ABs. The question of 'emotional security' is a valid one, but I also question that if a diaper becomes a security object that it is related to infantile desires at the same time. I'm not saying that it couldnt be, but I would suggest that a lot of people who wear for emotional security do so because they are AB. We have considered reworking our 'diaper attraction' model to include non-fetish, non-regressive and non-roleplay reasons, but have not done so yet. Does anyone else have thoughts about what other reasons for wearing diapers other than medical need and convenience in certain occupations or situations?

It uses term 'regressive adult baby' very widely because the survey is not aimed at purely fetish users as that is very different to ABs for whom it is part of their identity. Also, to be honest, the question was mainly aimed at keep fake tossers out of the survey.

While it would never be mainstream news, it certainly seems as if extended confinement is going to change the diaper-wearing habits of a lot of people. It has always been true that the pressures and committments of real life - jobs, social interactions etc - limit us and put boundaries around is but now, all that has changed and we ironically either have far more freedom to wear diapers or a great deal less. We have a survey on COVID19 and how it is affecting ABDLs and can be taken multiple times to try and track how things are changing. https://abdiscovery.com.au/surveys/ I'd encourage you all to take this survey.

Keeping souvenirs of your diapers is kinda curious. It certainly indicates that they are of more than mere passing interest or of simply functional value. It suggests a very deep-centred connection that transcends what most would understand. In a way I get it, but as a non-ABDL I also DONT get it. Nothing like being of two minds!