Kinkypants99

I told my partner flatly shortly after we met - said I was kinky and that it was part of who I was; I know in the log run that I didn't have an accepting partner, the relationship couldn't last.

I'll echo what others have said, and say again it's not worth pushing a partner to do something they're uncomfortable with - ethical issues aside, it tends to have a souring effect on the relationship. Any relationship is a compromise of course, so you have to respect you won't get *everything* you want sexually, however badly you want it. More to the point though, it's simply no fun being changed by someone who doesn't really want to do it, or taking part in any kink for that matter. You can usually sense they're not happy, and it takes all the fun out.

That's perfectly fair enough. Although I'd consider myself an AB or sissy now, I got into this via the diapers themselves rather than anything else - so I quite like "unusual" things like this as well as more regular diapers, despite the lack of a personal connection. That being said, I'm not a big fan of things designed explicitly for incontinence, as compared to things like this which have an AB/DL flavor.

Have you had a chance to try the adult version? They look like they'd feel quite different to a regular diaper.

I came across these a few years ago, while browsing for ABDL/Fetish gear: https://shop.kinkydiapers.com/bambinette-393-p.asp I've never seen one worn, or seen any comments on here on their use. Has anyone got one - how do they feel? Do they work, for pee and for mess, or is it just an interesting alternative to diapers? I'm guessing you can stuff them with booster pads or smaller diapers. I'm quiet tempted, I'll be honest - I'm a fan of humiliation and I'd feel very exposed wearing one, while keeping that diapered feel.

Same here - I haven't wet my pants in public, but I have been paraded around in a wet diaper at our local BDSM club. I'd like to do the same again, when thy re-open, in a dress/knickers or dungarees and make a puddle. It's more visual and humiliating in a slightly different way, with the wet patch showing.

Me too - naughty, but fun. I take it your something of an exhibitionist Transfusionelle?

I do - and another who's name is "Afro": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8maBsuhHr4

I think you'd be surprised, even with the professional firms. Kinky diapers do very similar for about Eur.90: https://shop.kinkydiapers.com/ . I know that's not cheap, but it's not astronomical either. I'd say with WRT the more amateur makers, have an ask around on the rubber groups on fetlife. There may be people in your area who can help, or at least point you in the right direction. Even in our local area, I know three people who make rubber clothing. If people are further afield, I'm sure they wouldn't mind posting them - only downside is they can't measure you directly. What I'm getting at really is it took me a very long time to find waterproof pants that worked well. All the types I've bought off the shelf have leaked, so it was worth a bit extra to have custom ones made.

Do you have any issues with leakage/wicking around the legs with the elastic though? I appreciate though plastic/rubber pants are very particular when it comes to sizing. Not sure of the "not all rich" comment was aimed at me? I'm not either, I payed about $50, which Isn't much more than the overnight pants you shared? I went to an individual latex maker on fetlife though, not a large company.

I'd say it depends what you're after - the custom made ones are very effective, and it matches my mental picture of what they should look like. We part filled them from the shower when we first got them, and they didn't leak until I started playing with the legs! All the same, I like the moulded vintage style ones from the second link you posted. I have a pair of the daytime pants already in fact - I have to admit, I find they leak because of the bare elastic seal. Are the night time ones any better?

I'll just jump in here on the plastic pants - I had issues for years as well with leaking; the best plastic pants I've found are the "Gary" pants Nappies'r'us do, but the best leak protection I've got is a pair of custom made rubber pants, made by a friend. They're not exactly discrete but I've had no leaks yet, despite very heavy wetting in cloth nappies. There are plenty of rubber fetish sites that do custom clothing - try those if you don't know anyone in person. Just be sure to be clear with them about sizes; you'll want an inch or two off your thigh measurements to make sure you get compression for a decent seal. I'd get them chlorinated as well, so they don;t stick to everything.

I should probably elaborate a bit on the pee play as well. I've had a few sissy dresses made in full PVC for that purpose, for sploshing a variety of watersports games. Has anyone else gone down that road and got a full waterproof sissy setup for getting wet in?

I think you're both on the same level as me on that - the humiliation of *failing* at potty training, so you have to be put back in diapers. I'll admit I do like the physical sensation of leaking/wetting in knickers, and being left in your wet clothes as punishment.

Just thinking out loud here; humiliation is obviously a big thing for us sissies. Most of us like the comfort of a diaper, but it's not necessarily the most visual thing if you have big skirts on over the top - you can't tell if you're wet unless you go in and check. Does anyone else like wearing and having accidents in knickers, so you leave a nice big wet patch and puddle for all to see? I'm a fan of that, and also of being put in diapers that won't hold what they need to - pull ups, training pants etc, so you get the double shame of being diapered *and* leaking. Similarly, do many of you gurls enjoy pee play and games with your diapers while dressed?