darkravendl

Happy birthday mikey

I am NOT a medical professional, however, I do understand how the body works. I would say that your problem does have to do with nerve damage. Nerves are the telephone lines that connect every part of your body to the brain. You state that your nerve damage covers the entire right side of your body and that it is your right testi that stays shriveled. I would suspect that the nerves in your right testi are not able to tell the brain that they need more or less blood flow therefore your testi stays shriveled. You can test this theory by pouring warm and cold water over the testicles and observe how each side reacts to the temperature change. Feel free to correct me if im worng. best of health and luck to you.

I don'tthink any words said will aid in comforting you during your time of mourning. I know full well the pain that comes with looking someone you love. I wish the best for you and yours. *hugs*

If tena super is available then get those. Also check with medical supply stores in your area.

allen476, not all types of incontinence are sensationless. I have urge incontinence and only suffer from urinary ic. I can tell when I'm going I just can't stop the flow. I don't get that sensation of a full bladder like a normal person does.

My bladder wakes me up most of the time due to painful urges from overactive bladder. I will wet my diaper then go back to sleep. I will sometimes wske up two or three times in a night depending on how much water I drank. Water seems to go right through me at times. There have been times were I have changed three or four times during the night.(my diapers suck but considering that I get them for free I'm not complaining to much.)

I'm a retired hvac technician due to a back injury. I now work for a major soda company.

I do not believe that it sounds strange at all. In fact your rest is what is most important to staying healthy and being able to function throughout the day. Wear the diaper and get the rest you need.

I agree. Let sleeping dogs lie. If it comes up down the road then say it's for a night time problem.

My question would have to be, does your wife know about your diapers?

I agree with DD. Thats emotional cheating since your getting some of your needs met. You should tell your fiance about youre toddler side. especially if it's that important to you.good luck. I hope for the best outcome possible.

Its also possible that she might think that you have a health problem. Unless you had "baby" items in your storage bag. I hope all goes well!

Why would you want to pollute the environment. The sap could cause a lot of damage to wild life.

I have one. I'm 5'10" and about 125 lbs. I ordered the medium and it is slightly too long even after being washed. I have to say it is very comfortable to wear. I will be ordering the small next time.

I was a dl long before I became incontinent. The problem I had with using pullups was changing in a public restroom. It's embarrassing enough having to rely on disposable products. Having to remove my clothes to change would only make it worse imho. Using diapers atleast makes changing while at work and out running errands easier.

Here in ca, I usually get mine ine about three days.

Congratulations. Seems you have found what so many people here long for. Be sure that balance is maintained as that seems to be the biggest problem for the S/O. I am happy for you.

These are procedures that are done on an almost daily basis. After my urodynamics test I made the joke that she should have bought me dinner and a movie first. I had an older female nurse which made things a little embarrassing for me. I still felt violated afterwards but it was necessary to obtain a proper diagnosis.

While one incident may not be anything, it is highly possible that you may be having problems with the other systems of your body. If I were you I would pay close attention to anything unusual that may be happening with your body. Things like tingling/pins and needles in your hands and/or feet. Definitely pay attention and make notes of anything strange happening. Good luck and hope all is well.

No. the tena classic is not the same as the tena slip. I could be wrong but I believe that the tena slip is a european brief/diaper.

Leesee, you did not offend me at all. I can understand that perspective clearly. I was only trying to clarify. Balance in everything is vital to happiness. He needs to understand your feelings and respect them just as its important for you to understand and respect his. That sounds like a tramatic experiance. Anything you may want to discuss ill be happy to answer either here on the board or via a pm. Good luck. You are very welcome for that new perspective.

The love of an object could not compare to the love of a person. It may seem that way at times but you can't truly conversate with an object. He put a lot of trust in your love for him by opening up to you, which you already realize. However, as others have stated this fetish, compulsion, life style whatever you want to call it has very deep roots in the psyche.Think about it as something that makes him feel complete. Not only that it is very rare that this is something that goes away. It is absolutely wonderful that you have accepted him. To me that says a lot about your love for him. IMHO I think it speaks volumes about your character. Do I think it wrong to want the level of emotion that he gets from diapers directed towards you? Absolutely not. Its easy to become jealous of that level of love. While you may not be able to fulfill him the way wearing a diapers does. I believe that its the fact that he has his diapers and is so accepted.by you that makes him as happy as you depicted in an earlier post. The fact that you stated diapers are for babies is a complete misconception. I have to rely on diapers due to incontinence.im not even thirty years old yet. Besides being a diaper lover before I became incontinent I chose to rely on diapers because to me it would have been harder to be intimate with my spouse if I had a catheter in place. I hope the best for you and your s/o.

I was diagnosed with over-active bladder and urge incontinence with the urodynamics test. The cystscopy helped diagnose bph or an enlarged prostate.

I have had both the cystscopy and a urodynamics test done. During the urodynamics test a small catheter is inserted into the urethra, a probe is inserted into the anus. They then pump sterile water into your bladder at the same rate as your kidneys pump urine. The rectal sensor measures the muscles contractions of the abdomen. Basically they are checking the function and want to see at what point your bladder starts contracting. The cystscopy is just a small camera that is inserted into the bladder through the urethra. This is used.to check for any irregularities on the bladder wall. As a male this test was rather uncomfortable, however I also had an enlarged prostate. Good luck