Check out Babykins, I have a couple of their pull-on and velcro cloth dips that are very nice and very durable.
Consider cloth dips an investment, it will cost you to get several dips and pairs of plastic pants, but cared for properly they can be used for years.
As far as "giving away"... I wouldn't want pre-worn cloth. You wouldn't buy used underwear, would you? Same thing.
If I may suggest, get a J-O-B and save to buy your own. The economy is doing better today than it has in the past decade, there are jobs everywhere.