My niece has come to live with my wife and I because of some unforseen reasons. she's 40. needless to say, that has put a damper on my dl fun. always worring about leaving something laying around. i've left my plastic pants laying in the bathroom floor before when rushing out to work. left a unused diaper laying on the couch one day and my daughter grabed it when she came to visit ( she knows) and put it in my bedroom before my grandkids came in and saw it. since my niece has been taking the garbage down to the ally for pick up, i'd worry about her seeing one in the garbage. so i haven't been wearing. well maybe a couple times.anyways, i talked to my wife and we decided that she should tell my niece that i developed a night time problem a couple years back and now wear protection. i know so many on here are concerned about others finding out thier love for diapers and i feel the same way. but if my niece believes it's a problem that i have no control over, i feel she'd be inclined not to tell anyone. if she did, it would look worse on her for telling someone. i'd be able to wear more often ( not in front of her) without so much concern. so, what do you all think. as for me, i'm just tired of hiding it and worring about it. that's been my mindset lately. though i will hide it to an extent, i'm not going to worry about anyone finding out about my night time problem ( though it's not a night time problem but they won't know that.).