Jilly Poo

Mark, I so wish you had added more options to this poll. My husband will only put a clean diaper on me and even then, it is a very rare occasion and usually involves me having to beg for it. You see, he is not a fan of me wearing diapers at all so on the off chance I actually wear one while he is home, there is no way he wants to change even a wet diaper. He will put a clean fresh diaper on me if I offer him sex prior to the diapering. and ONLY ever in the bedroom. Now if your poll had asked "Where would you LIKE your partner to change your diaper" or "where have YOU changed your own diaper", I would have been able to answer a few more questions. #2 Where would I like him to change my diaper? In a family bathroom or in a fitting room in a department store, Out in the open on a blanket in our yard or on the beach and In the back of my car in a parking lot. Where have I changed my own diaper? In regular and family public restrooms and of course at home. #3 Who initiates? well, just to get him to put me in a diaper, it is usually me but I would LOVE it if it was his idea once in a while and after wearing it, I would love it if he would do a diaper check (pinch the front to feel how wet it is) in public and proceed to change me if need be. Actual fantasy of mine is to have him put me in a diaper before he leaves for work and NOT allow me out of it all day until he comes home to change it. It will NEVER happen but its nice to dream about.

It's complicated! My father passed away 13 yrs ago and my mother lives 400+ miles away (my choice to move) When I was in my early 20's my parents were going through a bitter divorce and they each used us (kids) like pawns against one another and I chose Mom's side. I began to hate my father almost as much as my mother did. After my father had finally moved out of the house, my mother turned on me and forced me to move out as well even though I was helping her with my younger siblings. When I got married a few years later, I had to choose which parent to invite to my wedding. Everyone said that if I invited my Father, they would boycott my wedding. Nice, huh? So mom got the invite and the rest of the family attended but after the wedding I mended my relationship with my dad. Soon after, he remarried and he and his new wife moved from NJ to Florida. I would talk to him every so often but he mostly wanted to know how my mother was doing. I believe he still loved her and wished he could have her back. After a few years, his wife told me to stop calling because she believed my calls were upsetting him too much. Sadly, I complied and a year or two later, I found out that my father had passed away and she didn't have a funeral for him or tell either of his 2 sisters. My mother on the other hand has always been a very negative person and has found fault in everything I do/have done. She couldn't even pay me a compliment on my wedding day without getting her digs in first. When my husband and I had the opportunity 24 yrs ago to move from NJ to NC, I jumped at the chance even though it meant leaving everyone I knew behind. Now, I talk to my mother on the phone 2-3 times a month, visit with her once or twice a year and I can shake off her negativity so much easier from 400 miles away. I love my mother but it is so much easier to love her from afar.

If only for a day I would choose to be either a 6 month old or a 12 month old baby girl. As a 6 mth old, I Love the idea of: being held and fed a bottle secured with straps in a high chair & spoon fed baby food strolled about in a baby carriage having no control of my bowels and bladder being bathed & changed frequently being put into nice warm jammies & placed in a crib having a pacifier to suck on all night being carried about. As a 12 mth old, I would love: to be learning how to walk speaking in baby babble still drinking from a baby bottle & sippy cup Still having no control of bladder & bowels Still sleeping in a crib so many cute clothes to wear. having toys to play with

I mostly wear diapers during the day so I am usually sitting while wetting but I can wet in just about any position (haven't tried it hanging upside down yet but that might be interesting) I don't generally mess my diapers but on the few occasions that I have tried it, I found it easiest to be standing during the deed and "loads" of fun to sit down afterwards.

Tricky question because like the Dos Equis Guy "I don't always poop in my diaper, but when I do, I get out of it as fast as I can." I can't say I have never messed my diaper. I have intentionally tried it a few times but it just isn't easy for me to wrap my head around. I also have accidentally pooped in my diaper and pretty much try to get out of that as fast as possible. Either on purpose or by accident, I can't bring myself to stay in it very long. Now if I had someone to FORCE me to stay in it (ie Husband and a pair of locking panties) I might find it a bit more interesting.

I was home for the day watching the Sally Jesse Raphael show (Yep, that long ago before the Internet) and she had on as her guests "Adult Babies" It amazed me because I had been wondering my whole life why I liked wearing diapers and was I the only one who wanted to dress like a baby. Watching that show made me feel like I wasn't really a freak. That there were others out there that thought like I did. It wasn't until years later that I found DPF and after they closed, I found DailyDiapers. Over the years I have upped my diaper wearing, my wardrobe and started buying better diapers. I've created a few of my own baby accessories but still don't have the support of my husband.

That's awesome! Wish my hubby would buy me diapers and give me coupons like that. Forget Diamonds, Diapers are THIS Girls best friend.

My biggest and possibly my only regret is not telling my husband sooner, like when we were still dating.

That's what I do too. Slip it down like undies, do my business than pull it back up. Also helps if you use reasonable tabs.

A stroller that could accommodate my adult body. Baby shoes like the old white leather walking shoes, a crib that can be transformed into a regular bed so I can easily hide it when not in use. A high chair Car seat Cradle

The best thing I can tell you

Can I please add a peeve to the list?

Most of the time I have strawberry milk (Quik) in my bottle but sometimes I have Cran-Mango juice or lemonade or iced tea.

Who said my candidate LOST?

1.) Have had plenty of Wetting accidents in my lifetime, mostly as a child and into my teen years.

Okay, Diaperalways, you need to calm down, maybe take a little nap and grow a sense of humor.

What part of Currituck are you from hoyboy2?

Welcome to the club.

You mentioned in one of the above responses that she doesn't like to wet (I'm assuming she's wearing a diaper/pull-up) then why not try "Potty Training" as an activity if she is willing to use the Potty in front of you.

I don't have a VR headset (as of yet) but I used my son's one day and was amazed.

Easter Sunday.

Trying to stay ON Topic of the Safety Pin vs. ABDL Flag

I prefer to be diapered right after sex with my husband (and preferably by him) so that all the "wet stuff" gets to stay in a nice fresh diaper and I get to stay in it a whole lot longer. I would think the smell of a messy diaper would be too distracting any way.

I wet my pants in the 6th grade so bad that it left a huge puddle under my chair.

Found these body suits in my local Target and couldn't help from thinking of them as adult onesies. They are in the women's department and go up to a women's xxl. And yes they have snaps in the crotch