I will,be 58 In Dec . I have been 24/7 in diapers since 1987 due to an accident I was in . I have fully recovered in all ways but have no control ,.it brought me to a major low point in life so I started to search and find others like me . I found the abdl world and was intrigued .At heart I am an abdl .I met my current wife on an abdl site .at first she was cool with it all but over the last ten years or so she pays no attention to it ,I buy abdl diapers and she makes comments about what if I was in a car accident or something and the para medics found my cute diapers ( I wear ABU SDK ) I said oh well . so I more or less take care of my self in this part of my life ,.she is so used to me now it isn't anything special to her although the only time she sees my diapers is in bed . I wear only that and socks , during the day I stay covered up and don't flaunt it . All my family and friends know so I don't hide it if by chance they become visible , and no one really cares , they like me for me ,not what I am wearing.