FretaBWet

I've gone to long movies 3+hrs during the winter and wore my heavy flannel night diapers with two soakers and plastic pants. The idea was to not have to worry about leaks, be able to have soda with my popcorn and not have to miss any of the movie. I wouldn't do this in summer but I wore my long black overcoat so nobody could tell about my diapers. It was heaven.

Thanks Repaid1 for the info. I'm really sqeamish about medical procedures hence the procrastination on the colonoscopy but this sounds like it would be worth having done. I'll have to make an appt. with my PCP and get refered so my ins. will cover it. The only thing that would be better than an outpatient procedure would be taking my *ss off and sending it in for repair.

Welcome to DD PampersPete. I haven't been a member for too long myself but I've made some really nice friends in here and learned a lot too. It sounds like you get it, the more you put in the more you get out.

Thanks for the reply. I had a colonoscopy after turning 51, the doctor wanted me to have it done when i was 50 but I procrastinated a bit, everything was fine. Can they remove them in an outpatient enviroment like a doctors office? I didn't even begin to get them until I was well into my 40's and they didn't really start to bother me until lately.

I have urge and overactive but list as DL since I have always enjoyed my diapers. I have Hemorrhoids and lately they seem to be bleeding. I'm concerned with this since it would leave me open to infection I think. I did a search on this topic but there were no posts dealing with this. I'm wondering if I should be coating them with something like a barrier cream? Anyone else have problems of ths sort? Thanks

In my opinion (which is worth about the same as the wet diaper I'm in right now) you should forget sex with your friend. It sounds from your post that you two are close and have a good relationship as friends. Sex will change the nature of that relationship. The problem is that there is no way to know how it will change it. The question you should ask yourself is: do I want to risk the destruction of a good relatioinship because that is a possible outcome. I hope this helps you to sort out what's important.

Welcome to DD Croweyes. Friends we got, you just have to take a deep breath and dive right in. Hugs, Freda

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Congrats on your anniversary, it sounds like your Mommy is the best gift that a baby could have. You're both very licky to have found each other. May you both have many "happy" years ahead.

My doctor knows, she's new because my former PCP retired, but she has never said anything. She has to know because it's in my medical records. My ex knows and I'm unsure how many people she has told to get back at me but probably everyone she knows. The younger of my 2 daughters knows I have real issues with wetting accidents but she is understanding and doesn't pry. Before I changed my gender I was driving home with her in my car and realized I WASN'T going to make it home even though I was only a short distance away. A traffic light turned red and I told her to close her eyes and keep them closed until I told her otherwise. I pulled a ex large coffee cup from behind the drivers seat and releived myself in the cup with a jacket pulled over my lap. I keep all evidence of my diapering supplies out of sight and if anyone did suspect I can't imagine how they would broach the subject. With access to this site I don't feel the need to discuss diapers with people who don't understand and probably never would even if I tried to explain it.

Hi Mommy, Wet every night until 16. One dry night every once in a blue moon, don't have any idea why. I almost never woke up until morning when I'd wake up soaked. My parents used a bedwetting alarm otherwise I believe I'd still be wetting every night. Hope this helpswith your poll. Frita

Hey Baby, I'm with ya on this one, D + P + B = Pee in D Frita

Hi crys_138, I'm happy to meet you. You'll find that you're not just around a lot of other people into diapers etc but quite a few TG inclined also . Looking forward to hearing from you and I hope to see you in the chat room sometime. Frita

How about a nice resort on a lake somewhere. Only for people in diapers and so's/care givers. Each room could be nursury with crib and changing table etc. The dining room could have large high chairs, bring your own bib . It would have all the activities of any resort and you could just wear whatever floats your boat. I'm actually suprised it hasn't been done yet.

Boy skirts, BOY skirts? Skirts aren't for boys. Just what I need, boys running around in skirts. I guess I'm just going to have to take it to the next level.

Hi K-san, Welcome to DD, I'm from So. NH right on the border. I just found this site a few days ago and it's the best. Frita

Awesome, thank you so much Diaperdragon I can just drive over there and buy them in person and save the shipping cost. I've been using depends max most of the time since I can buy them at the local Brooks Pharmacy but now I can tey some better diapers. You just made my whole day Thanks again, Frita

Hi Wetty Pants, I'm new here too. I'm transgendered and and hve a lifelong interest in diapers and baby things. They go together like milk and cookies, It's just more fun when your milk is in a bottle.

I do have experience in what you're going through. I've been transgendered all my life changed gender 16 years ago. I was a bed wetter until 16 and somehow grew up with a deep longing for diapers and things baby. I was married 16 years and this ended in divorce because my spouse couldn't handle my need to crossdress or wear diapers. I've taught classes for Doctors on recognizing transgender behavior in children at a large urban children's hospital. Obviously, Ive been through a great deal of therapy with both Therapists and Psychiatrists in order to complete my transition. There are a few points you should think about. Do you love your Fiance unconditionally? Will you love her if she gains weight after having children? If she has her breasts removed to save her life from cancer? If she were disfigured in an accident? Does she love you in the same way? Will she still love you when you find out later that you just can't give up your diapers and dresses even though you promise her you will? Do you beleive that the time during your engagement is mostly for the purpose of really getting to know each other. To see the freckles and warts that you missed when you were both trying to mind your manners and put your best foot forward? If you really love her, and you want to give up your right to dress as you need, maybe you should quit now. Maybe you should stop considering other people' opinions about whether you can just quit or that you can never stop and just try it on for size? Maybe you should consider a longer engagement during which you completely give up your clothes. If it turns out that your Fiance fills the void left in your heart then you'll both feel confident about getting married. If it turns out that you can't live without the clothes then you'll both know that you're not destined to be together. The key is being honest with yourself. Good luck and G_D Bless.