Bret2

Hello all.. I’m looking for the story where a an18-19 year old girl comes home from college for summer vacation, gets drunk and wets the bed out of nowhere. Her step mother walks in on the scene and forces the girl, through black mail to become her baby girl for the summer while dad is away for the summer on work.

For me, I’d say within the 10-20 wet nights, I had developed a very difficult habit to break! I trained myself to bed wet several, 15+, years ago and have had limited success with correcting it. Thinking back, in the beginning stages, where “true” accident nights were few and far between, and I’d attempt to go without protection, I’d find that I could stay dry as long as I hadn’t had any alcohol but with alcohol, it was wet bed every time. Add 5 years and accidents were up to a few nights per week: trying to stop over a 3-4 week period resulted in still wet with alcohol in my system and otherwise wet nights were unpredictable enough to make me return to diapers in order to avoid the interruptions at night. Approximately 10 years in I made another attempt which only lasted about 2 weeks before I gave up because of the wet sheets. By this point I was waking up wet probably 4 nights per week and going without diapers and taking precautions with fluid intake didn’t seem to make any difference. now days, 15 years after beginning this adventure, I’m wet every single morning with the occasional dry one. My day control has slipped significantly but not quite enough to justify protection under most circumstances. Trying to stop bed wetting now I think would obviously result in complete failure.

For a long time, my wife would say “you left one of your things on the floor in the bathroom”. Or “would you change the bathroom garbage, you left one of your things in it”. Anymore it’s often the same case except she’ll actually say the word diaper rather than things. I take as a sign of acceptance

Same boat buddy, you’re not alone. I used to hate the fact but anymore I’ve decided that it doesn’t matter, and at least it doesn’t ever get in the way. Plus it’s better for a good diaper fit. It’s has shrunk considerably over the past few years and wouldn’t bother me a bit if it continues!

This is an avenue I’ve often considered taking. My wife knows of and accepts my need for diapers but I worry, that in the event of a divorce, if things were heated she might just use it against me as a form of humiliation. I hate to think she’d ever do such a thing and that’s really not the type of person she is but people venture out of character in time of frustration and it scares the shit out of me!! On the same hand my wife herself has actually brought this avenue up and suggested that she’d be willing to go along with the lie, if it meant that I could be more comfortable and relaxed about my need for diapers.

I have an adult diaper genie from akord, works great. Used diapers are hidden out of sight and the smell is contained. Highly recommended

Approximately 12+ years into training, I now wake up 6-7 nights per week in a wet diaper with no recollection of wetting. Typically I’m wet within 4hrs of going to bed even if I empty my bladder before going to bed. It no longer matters whether I’m diapered or not, the outcome is the same

I went through this phase for several months before breaking the habit, now it doesn’t seem to matter either way. You’re close, just keep doing what you’re doing

Thanks for the update, sounds like good progress. How are things going as far as the mental aspect of things? Such as, are you becoming less self conscious about the diaper being seen? Do you find yourself thinking about diapers less and able to focus on other, more important things in life? Maybe neither of these two item I mentioned have never been a problem for you but they definitely have an impact on me so I’m just curious how they have evolved for you if in fact they are/were previously present

As I said, No regrets, apart from the occasional situation where it becomes very inconvenient. But it is definitely a rabbit hole, at least for me it has been. It’s a slow process so one has plenty of time to opt out if you decide it’s not worth the hassle. I opted out successfully a few times early on, when it was just 1-4 nights per month but as stated previously, at 3-4 nights per week it was too late for me and the habit was burned into place.

As much as I’d like to experiment more with 24/7, life keeps getting in the way and interrupting. However, I have managed to achieve bed wetting. I’ve attempted to correct this a handful of times but have failed miserably. When I last attempted to correct it I was at a point where I was wet 3-4 nights per week without memory. After 3-4 weeks of attempting to correct it I returned to the use of diapers because the anxiety of waking up to soggy sheets got to me so I figured back to diapers but try to keep them dry. As you can imagine I quickly regressed right back to 3-4 nights per week. I gave up the good fight and now it’s a nightly occurrence. So I can only assume that it’s the same spiral as daytime would have to offer. The fear of the inevitable accident convinces us to just wear a diaper which subconsciously permits the accident hence the acceleration of control loss. I have no regrets and hopefully someday I can move forward with 24/7 untraining. I currently wear protection 24/7 and use it more as a convenience which has had led to a small dependency but not to the extent of which I desire.

I can do it With ease and very little thought

In my opinion and experience, I’ve never felt like it was beneficial unless you perforate the 1st diaper so that fluids can flow through. Even then I’ve experienced leaks from the leg cuffs of the inside diaper once it saturates.

This is true for many!

I can relate to this, for the most part. I often times feel like I could be making better use of my time rather than spending 1-2hrs. sometimes more on abdl sites trying to find comfort in what I do and crave. Often times I find myself feeling frustrated because I put the phone down still questioning my feelings. I to have had a handful of individuals who I’ve exchanged messages with over the period of several months who just ghost me. I don’t get offended easily by people who choose to be rude by way of hiding behind their computer screen. But I do get your frustration

My wife knows about and tolerates, even encourages sometimes when she knows that I’m battling with the whole diaper thing. But, she only engages at times when I’m unable to do it myself which is a rarity.

I trained myself with diapers and I think your theory holds some weight. If diapered I’ll be wet most every morning with no recollection of doing it. If I sleep without diapers (a rarity), I tend to wake several times a night to use the bathroom and stay dry MOST nights. However if I’m over hydrated, really tired, or have been drinking I’ll likely still wet the bed

The fantasy exists but I know I could never allow it to happen nor would my wife ever be willing in the first place

After several years of actively training myself to wet in my sleep, it has advanced to waking up wet 7 nights a week. Typically I’m wet within the first 4-5 hours of the night. The only time I wake up dry is if I’m dehydrated.

This is excellent progress. Exactly how my bed wetting habit evolved. It’s a very slow process. Once the habit has taken hold though, I’ve found it to be extremely difficult to break

In my case, I hate the fact that I want to wear and be dependent on diapers. The whole idea of it is insane to me, yet I have an uncontrollable urge to wear and make this happen. I don’t believe that I’ll ever be able to rid my mind of these feelings for my addiction to diapers. So in my opinion if if I can somehow achieve a true 24/7 dependency (incontinence) then at least it will no longer be a choice of mine to make, therefore the guilt will subside to some degree because I’ll no longer have to choice as to whether or not I wear diapers

I rarely ever purge anymore but when I do it only lasts a max of 3 days and I’m right back to the same ole desire to being 24/7. So I never throw anything away. I’ve also found that by forcing myself to wear diapers 24/7 for 2-3 days even when it’s inconvenient or I don’t want too, it helps ease the chronic thoughts of needing to wear

I wake up to a soggy diaper every night. i’m not even safe taking a nap without a diaper anymore

I had some bed wetting issues into my early teens, probably average 1-2 nights per week. No precautions were ever taken, my mom just simply dealt with it and never said anything negative about it. I had a great childhood so I think my wetting now is do to conditioning with the use of diapers later in life (19yrs - current)

Excellent survey question, thanks for adding!