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It sounds like you're on the right track to become fully diaper dependant. Your bladder control is still in the process of transitioning. And the urges and discomfort you're experiencing should dissipate as you loose the remaining control you have. Once your transition is complete, and your external sphincter always remains relaxed, there shouldn't be any reason to need an external sphincterotomy. Though it's possible you may benefit from an internal sphincterotomy. The internal muscle is the one we don't have any control over. It relaxes based on how full your bladder is. And it staying clenched is what will cause your bladder to fill, spasm, and generally feel uncomfortable. You'll have a hard time finding a urologist who will do the surgery though. Not unless you have other, more severe, issues related to your continence. But @Reddyurologist in Mexico would probably be a good one to seek out for it. Personally I'd give it a few more months for things to settle before going there, but give it some consideration. -
By Dartplayerinwvc · Posted
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I'm going journal my development on this thread from now on, as over the last 11 months I have made a lot of progress with the 24/7 nappy wearing and wetting and messing at the slightest urge. I have purposely been inactive here because reading up on incontinence makes me horny as hell and I wanted to stop masturbating which being inactive here has been very helpful and goal motivating. Its only recently I have maintained a completely relaxed bladder/anal sphincter from practicing keeping completely relaxed and not clenching at all, this is second nature now and my continence has spiralled quite quickly from storing urine to dribbling as soon as I feel urine in my bladder and this is near enough constantly as I do keep well hydrated. I definitely have a very overactive bladder because I feel a need to constantly pee all the time now and its very uncomfortable , the only relief being when I've done a dribble then a few moments later the strong urge to pee comes back even if there is nothing in my bladder, I repeat progress all throughout the day and its quite bothersome. I have noticed significant post void dribbling and weeping when moving around, my bladder does feel full all the time. I'm leaky at the tip of my penis and noticed some incontinence when not wearing a nappy. When I push out a poo in my nappy I uncontrollably leak as well. When I poo there is not reflex clench anymore, it does feel very different to pooping then before and I'm averaging 2/3 smaller BM's a day. Now I put my continued progression into google AI and over several wording formates it does say I'm heading towards passive double incontinence and that if I carry on doing what I'm doing I'm going to end up with passive overactive bladder and bowel incontinence which is very severe and it would take as little as a few months as I'm at the stage where I'm remaining completely relaxed and leaking at the slightest urge. It warms me if this progresses I'll be leaking continuously 24/7 but in a severe overactive bladder style where my bladder muscles become so weak and open they won't stop the dribbling as soon as I have a little bit of urine in my bladder so basically this will have a impact on my kidneys and will cause problems. I'm hoping to get to this stage on purpose then seeing my GP and urology. I'm hoping further down the line urology will do an external urinary sphincterotomy that is the procedure specifically designed to protect your kidneys from severe damage caused by dangerously high bladder pressures. This will result in permanent and total bladder incontinence. This is kinda scary that continuing wearing and wetting at the slightest urge it could damage my kidneys but I am determined to follow through with it... It's not the stress incontinence I was hoping for. What things do I need to look out for with complications? Its kinda scary thinking about it. -
Sometimes I'm surprised by just how much I can pee all at once. Especially after sitting for a while. Being functionally incontinent, I shouldn't be retaining very much in my bladder, if any at all. I recently had a urodynamics test and wasn't feeling anything as they slowly filled up my bladder. I did keep peeing past the catheter though, so it felt like my bladder wasn't filling up at all. To my surprise, I was being filled up WAY more than I was peeing out. My bladder actually hit 700ml before I finally got a sudden and slightly painful urge to pee. That really surprised me because I thought my bladder had shrunk over the years. I don't believe I've had more than 50 or 100ml in my bladder for the last decade. And back when I had a normal bladder capacity I couldn't hold more than 500 or 600ml as it was. Then I suddenly hit 700ml during the test. Surprise.
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