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@rusty pins: This reminds me of another related issue that’s been getting griped about by the same user — where another user is posting in their native language (German) instead of English. I haven’t brought it up to @DailyDi because, while I am in some ways bugged by the non English response, I’ve also appreciated that it took extra effort to read the response, when I’ve cared to have my browser do the automated translation for me. In this case the German speaker has a cultural difference when it comes to acceptability of corporal discipline from what is now commonly accepted in a lot of the US. I can tell the machine learning model handling the translation still has some difficulties. But I expect a lot of folks would have negative feedback if the reply was in (very good) translated English instead of the posted German. To the best of my knowledge, I only remember being spanked once in a (public) school - by a teacher, and that is only because that teacher exercised giving each student a (normally lite) spank on the student’s birthday with the paddle the teacher left hanging under the blackboard at the front of the class room. A sibling with a summer birthday found out (probably with my parents’ blessing) how that teacher handled summer birthdays near the end of the year. And yes, this was in a US public school. Standards change over time. The browser provides an easy way to see a (usually) reasonable translation that isn’t a real inconvenience. In the cases I’ve seen, there is no reason to pester the user for posting in their native language. -
By widdlemikey · Posted
As I mentioned to someone else, when I write about Francine, I have Sheldon's mom from the show The Big Bang Theory in my head.... "I see... And just how does that make you feel....?" OOPS!!!! You caught me! You're exactly right! I'll edit it. -
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Pure nostalgia but I'd love to have the old school Attends. The 6 tape diapers from back in the day. I'm sure they wouldn't hold a candle to what we have these days but I wouldn't mind putzing around in one for a while... -
My best advice is to be honest. I think it's the hardest thing to do, but it's the only path that lets you actually sleep at night in the long term. I have been through a divorce and a new partnership myself. To consolidate a very long journey... my first marriage, to my high school sweetheart, was one where diapers were never actually supported, tolerated is probably the most generous word I could use. Yet, we had an amazing relationship otherwise, kids, etc. However, I was never comfortable sharing my real feelings for fear of being rejected and this led to so very many repressed feelings and wishes that things were different. I never knew how to name it at the time, but looking back, I just wanted to accepted for who I was, no more. I didn't want a miracle, just to be seen. I wasn't able to find that, no matter how many conversations, couples therapy, and work we did. When I started dating again, I promised myself that even if I couldn't find someone that liked or wanted the same thing as I did with diapers, that I would find someone that I could be 100% honest with and that our relationship was about helping each one of us live the most authentic life that we could find. It is life on hard mode in some ways, but I have never known a love like this. She doesn't understand diapers the same way I do of course, but she knows how importnat they are to me and we work together to find out how our love can incorporate them, not reject them. It does mean that we talk a lot and it can get uncomfortable. But, it is also how I know that we are aligned or working toward it. I don't want to tell you what to do here, only you get to decide that. All that I will say in conclusion is that I feel 100x better getting the truth out and trying to live this life more authentically then I did with this constant hiding, suppressing, and that bubbling feeling in my chest that I just wish things were different. My old life was a lot more stressful and anxiety filled than this one is. Good luck with whatever you decide.
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