technomonkey Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 So i am not sure what is up with this week. It all starts with Monday i get my 8 year old son asking why there is a pull diaper in the trash. I ask why u digging in the trash, i got (i lost something in bottom) me i tell him don't know what you’re talking about and change conversation. Link to comment
Elfy Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Wow you have a little kid at the age of 99, must be a lot of work... Link to comment
rusty pins Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 I guess the question I have for you, since you listed yourself as "Incontinent" and not AB or DL, is, are you actually incontinent and need some protection or do you just wear now and then for fun or recreation? Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 I also agree it's time for you to talk to your son about your diapers, obviously he knows about them. Trying to ignore or skirt around the subject is likely only going to make things worse for you. Link to comment
AwakenEvil Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 This is something I honestly dread about having children. I don’t want to expose them to my kink or fetish lifestyle but I know sooner or later they would find out and how to deal with it is a huge "What If" and how to handle it. I wish I had some answer's for you but sadly I don't. Good luck and hopefully someone here with your same experience will come and tell you how they handled it. Link to comment
technomonkey Posted July 18, 2014 Author Share Posted July 18, 2014 it use to be off on fedish / wear for confert convenience till i had a back injury. was bed riden for a few weeks so had to wear. had discectomy back to normal for a while did not wear for long time till herniated discc come back. had a fusion and that is when i became fill time user. surgery went wrong( over streached spinal cord during fusion) now nerve damage doctor will not admit it and way big legal mess. now family doc told me i have to use the rest of my life. now new surgeon to fix last fusion that was done 3 year ago and 50/50 change on fixing the prob. Link to comment
Midwest Babygirl Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 My kids knew when I had to wear diapers after my ostomy reversal. Link to comment
redneck diaper boy Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 My ex-wife made an issue of my night wetting in divorce court and the judge looked at her and said "I really don't care what he wears at night". 1 Link to comment
Nat Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 My ex-wife made an issue of my night wetting in divorce court and the judge looked at her and said "I really don't care what he wears at night". Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 If it's in the house, kids will find it. Exploring is part of being a kid And nowhere attracts such exploration more than declaring the place 'off limits', such as the parent's closet or computer. I see two approaches here, and both have merit. One is to open the discussiopn and then explain things, the other is to wait for them to open that discussion. The one thing that is certain is that if they know you are avoiding the discussion they will dream up a gazillion bizzare reasons with their acticve imaginations, and if there's no discussion they may have problems dealing with that To 'blow them off' may be a good short-term strategy to buy you time to figure out how to deal with this, but it doesn't work in the long run Make a plan then follow it; if you plan well it will always end in success Link to comment
BabyGizmo Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 My wife is due in December with our little girl. Though i may have to scale back the DL play for Financial reasoning, (no cushies or bambinos.... sad) Link to comment
Nat Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 People are most likely to think it's medical if your kid announces you wear diapers. Link to comment
Elfy Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Honestly, this is like reason number 298 that I never want children Link to comment
Dill_Pickle Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 OP: Look...two out of three of my GRANDMOTHERS ended up needing diapers. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 Three grandmothers? This reminds me of a guy I used to work with who liked to lay out of work One morning he asked the foreman for the next day off because he had to go to his Grandmother's funeral, to which our foreman replied "Dam# boy, that's the forth one you've lost this year- how many Grandmothers do you have?" Link to comment
Nat Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 I take it that he was lying about losing his grandmothers and he got caught in his own lie? It sounded like a joke. Link to comment
rusty pins Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 Three grandmothers? This reminds me of a guy I used to work with who liked to lay out of work One morning he asked the foreman for the next day off because he had to go to his Grandmother's funeral, to which our foreman replied "Dam# boy, that's the forth one you've lost this year- how many Grandmothers do you have?" Link to comment
DiaperPony Posted July 20, 2014 Share Posted July 20, 2014 I have 4 grandmas. Both sets of my blood grandparents divorced and then remarried before I was born. They've always treated me like their own descendants. So, they might not be blood relatives, but they are grandmas. Used to have 4 grandpas too, but they have all passed away. Link to comment
DiapermanAl Posted July 23, 2014 Share Posted July 23, 2014 sounds like its time to have a talk about it. If your incont tell him. Refer to the depend ads on tv. Im sure he has seen them. Link to comment
Baby Dee Posted July 24, 2014 Share Posted July 24, 2014 About 6 years ago my step daughter died, leaving us with two grandkids to raise. A couple years ago the youngest (12 or 13 then) asked why there were so many adult diapers around. Told him they were for me and then my wife took over and explained about the incontinence due to MS. No questions about it since and he does see the diaper pail and diapers in our bathroom when he empties the regular garbage there. I don't ask ANYONE to empty the diaper pail. My problem so I take care of it. Link to comment
Dill_Pickle Posted July 27, 2014 Share Posted July 27, 2014 Miss Betty: I have memories of one of my teachers in high school complaining about students who would kill off several grandparents per year. Link to comment
diapered1964 Posted August 20, 2014 Share Posted August 20, 2014 When my oldest found out that I wore diapers he was 12, (31 now) Link to comment
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