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hi everyone!! let me start off by saying im a TOTAL YAPPER, scatterbrained and will just type and ramble endlessly at times, especially when im excited about something, so my posts and updates might be LOOOONG. especially this first one :'3 background info! u can call me glorp! im 23, AuDHD, trans male (he/him), NEET and live in the UK. on the asexual spectrum. been an ABDL babyfur for around 6 years now. i have also been into heavy anal play (for the record im anal only), fisting, and anal prolapse fetish for even longer. you can probably see how these things tie in nicely together - i totally understand if you're weirded out by the idea of intentionally causing prolapse, and if so this thread isn't for you. please don't come here telling me it's dangerous or bad, there is no high horse to sit on when it comes to making oneself incontinent and it should be the same for the other parts of my fetish too. there is a large section of the fisting community that has this fetish and its perfectly safe, the only "negative" side effect being, well... incontinence. 😛 but hey for the most part, i will keep this thread focused on the unpotty training aspects 2 years ago i went diapered 24/7 but only lasted 2 months before i was forced to stop due to persistent rash on my inner thighs. regardless of how much creams or ointments i used it just would not go away. i have pretty sensitive skin and have dealt with dry skin and eczema all my life. in all honesty, i was a noob last time before as i thought i could get away without properly wiping and using barrier cream after every change, i thought just powder would be enough and thats most likely what caused my problem. i also refused to shave my pubic area due to worries it would cause me dysphoria. fast forward to summer of 2025, i get more confidence and it motivates me to get harder into anal training, i start taking my first fists, buying and using much larger dildos, wearing plugs more often etc and making and uploading my own fetish porn. i noticed after each fisting session i would have substantial fecal urgency and some incontinence for 1-2 days after. my stool is almost always soft or loose and i have possibly undiagnosed IBS, it wouldnt surprise me as both my mother and grandmother whom i live with have bowel issues and some levels of FI. they are very accepting of me and my mum knows about my thing for diapers and has no issue with me openly wearing around her, she's the best then i got rejected by my crush which caused depression and made me not want to do anything sexual for 2 months. so i would only play solo and wear plugs occasionally. that passed and im feeling great again, feeling like working on myself and my goals, and the desire to be incontinent and wear 24/7 has never been stronger. i started listening to hypnosis daily to reinforce my desires and started wearing diapers to bed every night. this quickly evolved into, "well maybe i should aim for urinary incontinence during the day too, that would make it easier to wet in my sleep"... and now its "i'm going to stay padded 24/7 and only pee and poop in my diapers". so i got a mattress protector, barrier cream and stocked up on ABDL and megamax diapers. and shaved my pubic area entirely - surprisingly, not any more dysphoric about it than i was when it was unshaven! feels very babyish too ❤️ cut to now, here i am! i've been wearing 24/7 for almost 1 week now. i feel so amazing constantly, just letting go in my padding as soon as i get the slightest urge, pee and poop. ive been hydrating with small sips throughout the day and aiming for 2.5 - 3L of water per day. and i already have huge changes - because im not *just* using my diapers 24/7, im also actively trying to weaken my pelvic floor with reverse kegels *and* stretching my anus. i have already achieved an overactive bladder that constantly feels the urge to pee and sometimes lets out small dribbles without me trying, with small frequent voids when i do let go. my stream is weaker already too but it was never strong to start with. now i will say it is entirely possible that i always had a weak bladder but didnt hydrate enough to notice it, in fact i would avoid drinking because i didnt want to have to keep getting up to use the bathroom when im gaming or sleeping. i think i already have a pretty weak pelvic floor to start with, but intentionally doing reverse kegels and never clenching has rapidly expedited things. every now and then it's like i can feel my bladder refilling and twitching too! i have started wearing my 8" circumference butt plug for at least 2 hours daily; its very comfortable and soon i will increase the duration of wear, then i'll be ready to move up to my 9.5" plug (which i have fit before, but not tried keeping in for extended periods). this morning i messed my diaper in bed, laying on my side (my natural sleeping position), i pushed gently and then filled my diaper with soft shit. once it started to come out after that initial push i couldnt stop it, and it felt sooo right and natural for me. i showered and changed right away of course; i dont like staying messy. its actually currently easier to shit my diaper on command in any position than it is to relax and let go of my bladder. i'm sure this will change soon though lastly im also abstaining from masturbation entirely and it's helping massively keeping me focused on my goals. its like my diapers are my chastity cage! all of these techniques are things i picked up from hypno files and other people in the community here, and im eternally grateful for that ❤️ absolutely no signs of rash or infection so far and i feel clean and hygienic, i'm so happy!!! i will keep you updated here every time i make good progress. please feel free to ask questions or give me praise and encouragement, that helps a lot~

Hi everyone! Long time lurker, long time wearer. To keep it brief, I'm in a place in my life that I can start really start unpotty training and I want to take it, and maybe get some support along the way. I've gone 24/7 for 3+ months on two separate occasions, but I never committed to potty untraining before. At the beginning of the year, my contract was unfortunately ended due to a company restructuring. It sucks to be thrown in to the job market, but if I have the time to myself, I want to at least make the best of it. Actually, I want to make it a challenge. I've decided I'm going to to 24/7 and follow the 12 month program until I get a new job. I love using and wearing diapers, and while incontinence sounds fun, I know it's only a fantasy and the reality would actually suck. So, I've decided to play chicken with my bladder and bowels. Every day I'm out of work, I'll get just a tiny bit closer to losing control. If its just a month or two, it shouldn't be a problem. Maybe after 3-4 months I'll have some side effects going back to underwear. Maybe if i hit 6 months I might have to retrain in pull-ups. But if it takes longer? Nah, realistically it should only last a few months and even if I try my hardest, I'll be fine... right? Today is my official start date. Like it says in the guide, I have to start by telling people I need diapers. Still in my morning diaper now, I just went out to buy all the food I'll need for my new diet. Luckily I already have all the equipment I'll need, but I'll have to set up a recurring diaper order. I'm going for dual incontinence. Urinary incontinence of course. I had to think about fecal incontinence, but I decided to try to help with some health problems. I've had IBD for forever, and my bowels have run the gauntlet of moving to quick to not moving at all. Right now I'm in a good place, but weirdly with the inflammation minimized my bowels feel out of whack and I keep getting stuck up. My idea is that I need a bowel reset. With a focused diet and giving myself a little more freedom to go, I'm hoping I'll get some comfort and improve my gut health. I'm making a few exceptions to unpotty training. No diaper use around family and friends, but I'll keep to a discrete pull-up so I don't forget. Looking for diaper recs: I'm currently in Megamax which are great for capacity, but I'm worried they'll be too much since I'll need to change more often for messes. Anyone got a good rec for dual incontinence? I'm also looking for a diaper rec for the gym. I've been using depends pull-ups so I have mobility, but I think I tend to avoid using them. Don't need to be too discrete, but I do want to be able to change into and out of my sweaty clothes so something cheap is ideal. I need a more discrete diaper for social outings too. Places where I'm a regular and socialize, not strongly connected (I'm wearing full protection for all other cases, don't worry). It's fine if they see me in a diaper, but a real incontinent person would do their best to hide their condition. What diaper is good for a wetting or two but is still discrete enough for the public? I'll start updating this thread regularly with my experience. Hoping for your support and advice! EDIT: Just stood up and realize I leaked. Great way to start this journey. \-_- Luckily I already had an absorbent pad on my chair.

Such a big group! Where is everyone located? Any in Houston? We travel often and always looking for new friends!

Hello everyone on DD! My name is Becca and I'm an avid little baby girl! Been reading/browsing always lurking Dailydiapers since I was in my teens. Crazy how time can fly by like that.. I've been wearing diapers on and off through most of my life for fun, usually in a few day to a week stint. Always had those little inner desires and daydreams of being a cute little for another, and moving towards wearing 24/7 forever. Daydreams and fantasy aside the 24/7 desire is something that's never left since I was a kiddo. Still wonder if in my early childhood something happened because I turned out to be the goofball girl. Well this goofball girl decided to start wearing diapers to bed in March 2020 last year, and it's been a full year and a half now of bedwetting. My little journey into bedwetting started with drinking two big glasses of water before bed and waking up constantly to practice letting go.. It took lots of practice and patience, and now I can fully say I'm a bedwetter again! I no longer have to drink anything heavily, and wake up soaked.. Something I don't regret at all, even when I visit family or friends. Just pack a diaper in my go bag and keep a few in my car for emergencies.. For me something inside felt satisfied, I could be myself and enjoy this unique but weird new quirk. Work has been fully remote since the start of the pandemic, and now with my job fully transitioned to permanent work from home my desire to be 24/7 feels like the best time to actually start and see how it goes. Will my body slowly start to change just like it did with the bedwetting? Or will it be impossible for me to actually lose more control during the day? Only one real way to find out but I'm super excited about it.. Yeah weird goofball girl thing.. I now have a closet full of diapers, a stash bigger than I've ever bought before. And while I have not yet tossed out my big girl underwear, they have been put far back in the closet not to see daylight again.. I started wearing 24/7 on Sept 9th and its nearly been a full week of wearing 24/7! Fun and cute little space feelings aside, its actually hard to just relax and let go as easily as I imagined. And peeing while standing feels super weird, same with trying to walk.. I really wonder how long it will take to get used to it and just relax more down there.. Being a bedwetter actually helps me I feel, as I don't hold anything at night and my body doesn't try to fight me at night time Anyway thanks for reading! I wanted to say Hello, and start a forums thread where I can share my journey for the years to come. Hello new friends!

Oh, my goodness, y'all. I had the most amazing time last weekend!! Thursday night I drove over to a friend's place. We've been planning a Little's retreat for a month or so. We all ordered dips, bottles, pacis, and other little things and brought them. It was just me and another friend who's both a little and a caregiver, and we were both padded the whole time! It was life-changing! I watched Bluey for the first time, we colored, and she changed my diaper every time I needed it. I regressed harder than I ever have before. I giggled with absolute bubbling-over glee so much. I've been trying to figure out how I feel about diapers for years now, and I finally feel like I have a proper hold on what I want. I love wearing all day, and getting changed. I like wetting a lot, and messing isn't as bad as I made it out to be! It's been an incredible thing to experience after all these years. I'm so, so thankful for my friend for giving me a space to be little and padded for a good few days. I regressed harder than I ever have before. When I was changed by my friend, I would hide myself and giggle and squirm like I was being held down and tickled, but I was only being praised and changed. I got some new baby toys that I absolutely adore, and watched Bluey and She-ra for the first time. I got to babble and giggle and go nonverbal and it was encouraged and nurtured. I have so many feelings about wearing diapers for so many reasons. As a trans woman, it's gender affirming to "need" diapers from a small bladder. As an autistic person, I love the sensations of the padding, the crinkling, the warm swelling, and the firm mushes. As someone with an anxious tummy and without a gallbladder, security in being able to mess and know that it's contained and that I don't have to rush or clench. I think I want to wear 24/7. I've been fascinated with the idea for years, and the weekend was an example that it is possible, and I genuinely enjoy it. I'm still scared, but I'm so much more excited and determined to find where diapers fit in my life.

It's been a few months since I've given an update here. I know many people are curious how far they can expect to come when trying to become reliant on diapers over time. It's now been just over a full year of wearing diapers 24/7 and the changes are still happening to me. Slow as they may be to develop. You definitely have to be patient and truly want this because it's a very slow process. That said, I do have some exciting developments. I'm now easily able to pee myself while laying down on my side. I barely even have to push anymore. Sometimes my body just does it on its own and I don't have to put in any effort. I could still stop it if I wanted to. Of course I never try to though. Wetting while laying on my stomach has been one of the more challenging things to accomplish but this is now finally getting easier as well. I have to push a bit to get it started but then once the flow starts it all comes out. At least I don't have to sit up or roll on my side anymore. This is a new development and I'm a side sleeper so this is probably just a result of weakened control rather than practice. I'm usually not on my stomach. Walking while peeing has been the most difficult out of everything for me. Progress is continuing here though as well. If I stop walking then start peeing I can walk again and I can feel it continue to trickle out. Then once I stop walking I suddenly pee some more. Probably just showing signs of overactive bladder and lessened control here? I welcome it if so. If I stay well hydrated I pee every 20 minutes give or take, in small amounts. On average I pee every couple of hours when I am not well hydrated usually in the morning but I always pee in a much smaller amount than I would have when I got an urge to pee 12 months ago. Bladder capacity is probably about half of what it used to be. Sometimes I hardly even feel it coming out but I know I'm peeing because my diaper will get warmer. As for bowels, farts just kinda come out without permission now. Poop can slide out almost on its own sometimes. I still feel when I need to poop and I'm sure I could still hold it if I wanted to. But I don't have to put effort in to filling a diaper anymore. A couple minutes after I get an urge, out it goes without me pushing. I just kinda stand there like a 2 year old and go. I do eat a lot of fiber and drink plenty of water so that of course helps. Don't get discouraged by the amount of time it takes, changes will happen but you have to stay committed. Make sure you push as little as possible. Just make yourself go on your own if you can so you aren't using your muscles down there. Water is your best friend. But DO NOT drink multiple bottles of water in a very short amount of time. Water poisoning is real. Drink a 16 ounce bottle and wait an hour or so then you can drink some more. It scares me when I read people online that drink before bed to the point where they're in pain. Drink over time rather than drinking a whole lot all at once. I know it's exciting to wet yourself, believe me, I know. But dependancy is a slow process. If you want to take a water pill or laxative, only take one in a 24 hour period and don't use them daily. You want reliance on diapers not supplements. Do I have any regrets? HELL NO! I still love this and I'm proud to have come this far. I feel like a toddler failing his potty training. 😝🚼

I am starting my journey towards a 24/7 diapered life after a 10 year hiatus. I was 24/7 for 5 years up until 10 years ago when my partner of 10 years at the time was diagnosed with stage 4 renal cell cancer and she had a nephrectomy(removal of the kidney enveloped by the tumor). At that time I ceased wearing to focus on being a caregiver and my new job that I started a few months before her diagnosis. Well the cancer returned a year later and after years of experimental chemo, renal cell cancer doesn't have a lot of treatment options, she lost her fight with cancer early last year. Before her diagnosis we both were supportive of each others kinks and desires so she never had an issue with me wearing full time and in fact when we met I was already a part time diaper wearer. Fast forward to about 4 months ago I dug out the remaining stock of ATN's, Molicare's and Abena's that I had stashed and started wearing part time again mostly on the weekends. During this time while looking to reorder I discovered the huge amount of new non-medical diapers on the market by ABDL focused companies and the advancements in medical diapers by some companies because of them. I quickly ordered MegaMax's in pink and some BetterDry while reupping my Abena stash in case of disappointment. I've also just received a an order of a bunch of Rearz diapers to try, the DayDreamer being one I can't wait to try. MegaMax's became my go to night diaper and I started them wearing every night. In December I had enough time off saved to take the last 3 weeks of the year of and decided I would try a stint of 24/7 again. This quickly reminded me that this is how I want to be and a week or so in I started planning my eventual return integrating diapers into my work day for 24/7 wear. This included upsizing my wardrobe a bit and ordering onesies to keep my diapers from peeking above my waistband. I also ordered a case of NorthShore Care's new made in the USA MegaMax lite to use as a slimmer daytime diaper at work. I'm transgender(m2F) and have been HRT for 30 years but I think one thing that has made this a little easier to hide under clothing the last time I went fulltime I still has all equipment intact so there was a little more to hide beside the diaper bulge. I had an orchiectomy(castration) shortly before my partners diagnosis so this time I have a lot less equipment to try to stuff into a diaper. After trialing the MM Lite with my new wardrobe over the past weekend and waiting for onesies and additional jeans to arrive after trialing the fit I am planning to start full 24/7 wear this weekend and into the following workweek. I plan to update this thread as time goes on and add all the new joys as well as challenges this decision brings.

Hello everyone! I'm new here and so I suppose this also serves as my introduction (it's nice to meet y'all). Like many of you, getting to diaper dependence has been a goal of mine for a long time. So, at the end of May in 2022 I decided to go 24/7 and haven't looked back. Progress has been slow but steady I've been crossing off little milestones along the way(being able to go sitting,laying down, in various situations and settings,etc.). Recently I almost fully voided (#1)while walking... before the reflex kicked in at the last second-_- still a big step in the right direction, when I first started my muscles would lock up if I even thought about moving. I might be stuck in a rut now though. I've consistently maintained what I think is the open position but it feels like I'm missing something crucial. I can drip and drizzle sporadically but I have yet to see a constant dribble and it still feels like I have to give permission for the bladder to void. On a positive note voids have become noticeably smaller and my flow has slowed. The last void I did I really focused on what was happening and something loosens up in the high bladder area, I tried to keep that particular muscle open but it just feels like it just slowly closes as the void finishes everytime no matter what i do. I'm kinda of stuck until I figure this out and was wondering if anyone went through something similar and how they got through it. Anyways thanks for listening to my story!

Wearing 24/7 brings its own set of challenges, and one unexpected issue can be the difficulty of urinating while driving. Let's dive into some reasons behind this: Body Position: Sitting in the driver's seat puts specific pressure on your pelvic region, impacting your urine flow. This pressure might come from the ureter being compressed or changes in the bladder's position. Standing up or adjusting your position can ease this pressure, making it easier to pee. Pelvic Muscles: Incontinence can affect how you control your pelvic muscles. In certain positions, like sitting, these muscles might not relax fully, making it harder for urine to pass. Changing your position can involuntarily relax these muscles. Intra-Abdominal Pressure: Sitting can increase the pressure inside your abdomen, pressing on your bladder. This heightens the urgency sensation and might complicate urine release until the pressure is relieved. Bladder Spasms: If you have an overactive bladder, sitting can trigger or worsen spasms. Standing up can change the dynamics of these spasms, allowing for a more natural urine flow.

Chapter 1: For Her Good I will add the story here as I can. Full story already available here: https://www.wattpad.com/user/AFictionalPhile and https://www.deviantart.com/afictionalphile/gallery/91841094/for-her-good-15-chapters The problem was that she had three roommates. Yet, Sir always said that never being alone was for her good. Sir said it just like that, in a text message, in response to her worrying. Sir said that life goes on. Sir said that... I will not bury the lead. I will not sugarcoat it. Consent culture rightly necessitates that I lay this more bare than anything. We are trying to change your life. Remind yourself once again, Mari. Are we entering this agreement purely for sensation? It was conversations like these that made Mari blush more than the details of their agreement. Sir's language stripped Mari like she'd brought a bomb through TSA. Sir had so effectively undressed her fantasies and fears, in these months, Sir had so quickly probed and unwound her proclivities, that she still felt like a child going to a parent with something as trivial as a hopelessly knotted shoelace. Except that in the case of Sir, she'd shown up presenting her tangled up psyche. Sir had unraveled her problems just the same. Sir had found her mental G-spot with the precision and command of an award-winning chiropractor. Sir never had to say things like: You will cum for me now. Instead Sir would just say: ahhh...that got you there, didn't it? And Sir, as if they were in Mari's head and not in her phone, would always be right. Big girls would respond with more than just emojis, wouldn't they? Sir's presence was digital yet encompassing. Texted but seemingly scriptural. No manager, professor, teacher, or other esteemed individual in her life had so thoroughly outclassed her. She was a rowboat bobbing beside a cruise ship, when Sir's messages crowned her phone banner. Never before had she been so blissfully cowed. Nothing crossed her mind that Sir had not thought of first. No mental caverns existed that Sir could not, with just a few whispers, lead her out of. I understand what you mean. Know this. You are the brave one. You are facing who you are. Take your sense of unworthiness, Mari. Let us say that you're the fuckup. The dropout, the girl with the dead end job. The under-performer. Let's pretend that your three roommates are indeed smarter, better grown-ups than you. Let us say that you've screwed up every relationship you've been in because you're a needy crybaby. Let's own that, Mari. Let's ball it up – put it in a diaper. Change it often enough and it won't leak. If we do this, perhaps none of your faults will leak into your worthiness either. *** A few days before the beginning of her agreement, the first cardboard box (Sir said that there would be very many), lay unopened beside her bed. The box was tucked between her bedside table and the closet, wedged in the space so that she could not even exit her bed to that side without crushing it. It stood out little among the messiness of her room – another token of fuckupery that even Sir did not know about. Even her roommates called her Monster Mari for the way underwear, socks, and clothes were piled on the floor. At her best, she told herself that it was organized. That there was a method to Monster Mari. At her worst, she knew the panties were going in a shoebox, destined for the mail. For Your Good. Just days away from the beginning of her agreement. Sir's last question burned on the phone. Is this thing we are about to do purely sensational? She shot off a message. "No Sir," she said. She knew it was a little girl's answer, and that Sir wouldn't be pleased. Sir was going to coach her through her fears, once again, and in the end Sir would be right. Mari rolled over and groaned. Sir had owned her orgasms almost since they'd begun messaging. She'd almost begged Sir to take them; without prompting, one night when they were first messaging each other. Before diapers and all that took over their DMs. She'd just asked for permission, Sir ignored it. She'd asked again, hot, her fingers moving fast. The question had prompted another lecture from Sir – one of the hottest things she'd ever experienced. Sir would do no half measures. Sir played no games. Permission now is meaningless without a totality, Mari. And I won't get into something so serious, so flippantly. That night, she'd wanted it. "Can I?" she asked. Again and again. Mari. You can do whatever you like tonight. We can have a serious conversation about it, and I would like to. But we will not have it now. They'd had that conversation just a few days later. Mari, for all her distractibility, for all her reprimands at work for not being on the phones long enough, for not working as hard as she could be, had never been more focused on a thing in her life. Selling her pussy to Sir was a divine urgency; it was the only thing that could get her heart to stop beating through her ribs. She sat on calls at work, at her desk in her Monster Mari room, one hand constantly between her thighs. I have a standard for this, Mari. This isn't my first rodeo. You will only cum with my permission. When I command you to go to your room to play and cum, you will do so. I will not ask when this would be disruptive. Though it may not be what you want, I will always ask For Your Good. Honesty is up to you. You can have sex with any person and any outcome is acceptable, so long as you report it to me afterwards. The last part always struck her as odd. Almost disappointing. She was hoping at least for something savage. Anal chastity, the purchase of some grotesque implement to rail herself on camera. It took her months to test Sir's nugget of freedom. When she returned to Sir with reports of a cocktail-soaked conquest, she was surprised about how happy Sir was for her. "Aren't you...I used YOUR pussy like that? You know?" Use big girl words. "Aren't you jealous?" I get to talk to you as much as I do. You don't know who I am. I have no right to feel jealous. And least of all no cause. I'm proud of you. "But it's YOUR pussy and I just...used it..." It was a guy, right? And he fucked you? "Yah. It wasn't, like, amazing. But yeah." And did he cum inside of you? This sort of question, with anyone else, would have made her roll her eyes. But with Sir it piqued her. She was once again disrobed with a text and it took great discipline for her to not respond with an emoji. "Well...in a condom. But yeah." That's what pussies are for, Mari. I am like an underwriter for your car, if you had one. I would not be displeased if you drove your car. I would, however, like to know if you were spinning donuts in a parking lot with it. Think of it this way. Your pussy doesn't belong to me. Rather, it simply does not belong to you. We do not live in a world where a public pillory to display your entries is safe or acceptable. But know this. The world is a better place when you have been mounted and used. In the same way that the world is better when food is eaten and not left to spoil, just so I hope that those who want to enter you, may. It is the same with your eventual diapering. When the day comes, Mari. You are not giving up your adulthood. You are simply accepting that everyone – everyone – is more adult than you. She remembered thinking about this for a while, and almost forgetting to ask for permission. "Will this be the case when I'm in diapers?" Yes, of course. "Will I get an exception for my diapers when it comes to...sex?" Do you want an exception? "No..." Then why does a little girl ask this question?

Hi there, I have been lurking, like many others, before actually post something. It is so great and inspiring to read so many success stories of people going 24/7. Whilst I am not at this point (yet?) of choosing this path, the idea of doing it comes frequently. While reading so many stories here, I noticed, that the major changes happend around the 6 month mark (like in the 12 month program). However most of the people, that shared their story seemed to agree, that wetting (even tough consciously) became easier over the first three months. I was especially wondering about, how the first month was. Apart from mentally preparing for the journey, the new habits are not there yet. Means you clench, hold it, allow to pee and (probably) flood your diaper. If so, how did you handle that considering leaks, thickness of diaper, frequency of changes and when did you experience this state of 'it is getting easier to wet' I think at some point of wetting in smaller amounts and more frequent you are probably less likely to leak and do not need a super max capacity diaper and can switch to thinner less visible diapers. Same goes for messing in the first time. I need to wait very long to have this real strong urge to void. Did you wait until you literally couldnt hold it anymore or did you focus on voiding as soon the urge was noticable? Thank you so much again for sharing your experience so far, and thanks for reading

It seems that I have a perpetual interest in returning to diapers 24/7. However there has always been a reason I have given myself not to. But my intrigue still exists on what that is like to be back in diapers full time. if you are 24/7 and have a S/O, I’m curious on how you approached the topic of 24/7 and how your relationship has changed due to your permanently diapered status. So some questions How did you approach your return to diapers 24/7? How has being diapered 24/7 changed your Sex life? Does your S/O change your diapers?

So my last post was about how I had been wearing for a few months and was gonna have to stop because I was getting a new roommate, but I never came back to updated it. It turns out its not a problem for her, as long as we manage it bc she has an adjacent kink anyway. With that said, I've been wearing on and off for most of the year since she moved in. Mostly stopping due to activity levels, money, or shame. Cadence has been something like 2-3 months on 2-4 weeks off. Every time I stop my bladder control is worse off than before. At first it was just urges becoming more frequent or dissociating when walking around and nearly wetting unprotected. Then I started having small accidents in my pants, more than dribble wet spots, like straight up boom I started going bc I wasn't thinking about it. I went through a lot of laundry and decided to go back in them through the holidays. I wet the bed once and had to dry out my futon, which was the breaking point. I wore through December, but then for new year's a part of me decided we were gonna be uber athletic, active, and on top of our physical health, but they went too hard all at once and that bacfired, and ended up siezing our thighs and calves. But we were still in grown up pants during that time and our bladder control was wayyy worse, having to go every 15 or 30 minutes and needing to wear liners to keep us dry. Then forgetting its just a liner and flooding.... Anyway, we got a new job and our FSA just turned over, so we're gonna burn through our entire old FSA on diapers and when we have a cadence figured out put them on auto-ship. The new job is work from home and will pay enough for us to move to an apartment with separate bedrooms and hardwood floors so I don't have to worry about leaking. Also will pay us enough that we never have to worry about running out of diapers again. I also found someone local on an abdl personals page and it seems like we get along pretty well so I might have moral support too and a safe space to regress. Once we start getting paid from the new job I'm gonna cut up and throw away all our old undies and never ever ever look back!!!

I am writing a sort of essay that encompasses my life up until this point, mostly to vent and get things off my chest. And to ask for advice. There are going to be three parts. First are my childhood and history with desires. The second is how I got to this point. The third is to ask for advice on how to best become completely and uncontrollably urinary incontinent. I am writing this post mostly to try and get rid of any personal mental blocks. Also, because I have had this brewing inside me for as long as I can remember, I am not brave enough to explain and be honest with my friends or therapist. Like so many others, I have ghosted this website since my childhood, and only now do I have the confidence to actually make a post. I have been wearing diapers on and off since I got kicked out of my home as a youth. First off, there is the trauma and struggle I've had as a DL. I have been interested in diapers for as long as I can remember. I remember being like 7 or 8, and me and my cousin would take diapers from family members, hide under the bed, and put them on. The desire never went away. I know I had a difficult infancy, from what I have been told. My mother said that when I was diagnosed with autism as an infant, I would cry and scream nonstop, and it drove her insane. My father was neglectful, and when he was there, he would not treat me well. My mother said that once I was just laughing and playing on the couch and my father would just push me off as a toddler. My family is an old Mormon religious bunch. That is a story for another day; however, it relates to the topic. My fairly well-off grandparents would host giant family reunions at their house. With over 20 people at a time. Most of my cousins were chronic bedwetters, so I was able to steal pull-ups and stuff, but as I grew older, it kind of stopped happening. At some point, I got so desperate that I stole packs of diapers from the store. I even got caught one time and brought to upper management with my mother. The whole ordeal genuinely traumatized me. I was also in foster care for a stint and got caught stealing diapers from my disabled "brother". As well as a couple of other incidents. I always wondered back then why I was such a freak and how I could make it all stop. I obviously didn't try anything for a while after that. The thoughts and desires persisted on and off through my teenage years, but I couldn't really do anything about them. After I came out of the closet and me and my family had a huge fight, I managed to get into a housing assistance program. I had complete independence and lived alone for the first time in my life. It was so liberating. By that point, I had all but forgotten about my desires until I was settled. Then one day, it dawned on me. I was a legal adult and could do whatever the heck I wanted. I then ordered my own supplies and had a kind of binge-purge cycle of wearing them occasionally. I ended up hanging out with the wrong types of friends and got wayyyy into marijuana, and they even got me addicted to nicotine. After growing up a bit, maybe a year or so later, I moved again. This time, however, I had more freedom as I ditched the wrong people and just stayed to myself. I don't know exactly when it happened, but I just kept wearing padding more and more. At one point, if I wasn't wearing a diaper, I would be wearing absorbent period pants. With or without a leakage pad, it just felt better. I don't know when, but at some point I just stopped purging and would periodically just wear diapers more and more. Then I decided I would commit to a modified version of the 12-month program. Double urinary. I stuck with it for a while, then I decided to go on vacation, and I got intimidated and didn't wear it. I packed planning too, but just stuck with the absorbent pants. Then, after I came home, I wore off and on again until I decided to go on another streak of 24/7, only pausing partway through due to a lackluster schedule and laziness. That didn't last long, however, and as of March 20th, 2023, I have been acting like I am completely urinary incontinent. I do wish to ask questions and go over some things. First, at this point, I am intimidated not to wear any kind of protection as I tend to drip and leak randomly. It isn't like a constant flow; it is more like LBL. I even had a couple bedwetting episodes that I was so excited and proud of. Typically pretty sporadic. That leaves me now. My only problem is that I seem to be a kind of Plato. I am trying to quit smoking, and my bedwetting has all but disappeared. Sometimes I feel like I am clenching "hard," and it is super hard to relax. Like I can't completely empty at all. Other times, it seems perfectly fine or normal. Just a constant flow that I'm only paying half attention to. I do take hormones, and one of them is a type of water pill. I don't know if that does anything. Personally, I feel it made it a bit easier. The only time I use the loo is for #2, and I go at least three times a day to try and weaken my muscles. Anything else is in my pants. I am not intentionally trying to lose fecal control. I am, however, not too concerned about it. I have already had some messy accidents and had to stay in them for a while. Not too often, but it does happen. Basically, I survived, and it wasn't comfortable, but it wasn't awful or the end of the world. more manageable. My biggest question is: how do I release a seized bladder? Also, to keep developing my bedwetting, I was making progress, then it just stopped all at once. I'd wake up having to pee like crazy and having trouble releasing. After I post this, I plan on quitting cigarettes cold turkey and only allowing myself "one" single cigarette a day if withdrawals become too hellish. That's all I really wanted to get off my chest. I am seriously hoping for and looking forward to any kind comments, reviews, and answers.

I believe I started another thread on this, I couldn’t find it. I’m starting a new one as I would say I’m actively training for complete diaper dependency (probably already diaper dependent, but never actually trained). I figured I should add to the collective knowledge of this lifestyle. 💚🖍🧸🛁⏱🏔 Backstory: I’m male, mid 40s, average build, business owner, former entertainer, canadian, active life style, in a committed ABDL aware relationship (yes, she interacts 🥰), grew up ABDL with minor minor fecal incontinence incontinence issues growing up. That’s the quick version, . I’ve been a member of this site since the long ago times. I’ll start this journey around my late 20s when I found out I had IBS. At the time my IBS issues were minor and didn’t require a diaper and a pad would be enough for the issues. Didnt have any urinary issues. Life happened, I was a performer for a while and my drug of choice was Ketamine, be careful kids. Who knew these things would result in my need for diapers. The journey started about 11 years ago in my early 30s. I would go through periods of wear diapers 24/7. Sometimes it was for a couple of days, a week, or weeks. This went on for a few years, then one morning, while living in a cabin I had to poop, really bad, I ran down the stairs and soiled my self fully. While cleaning up I contemplated why not just wear diapers all the time. I even have a post around 2013 talking about my conflict. This would remain for a few more years. About 7years ago, I had reached a place where my fecal incontinence had reached an uncomfortable level and I went back into diapees 24/7. FTR, I’m not a purest and have worn underwear from time to time… until recently. A couple of years ago I stop caring about using a potty, I just started using my diapee to pee in when nature called. Sometimes I would hold it if I knew I could change or something. I wasn’t actively training to be diaper dependent, it was more that I just didn’t care to go through the effort of removing my diaper. Which has brought us to the present. Where I am at. In the last year it’s been noted on my chart that i have urge incontinence, both fecal and urinary. I’ve been prescribed diapers. I’ve recently had test on my urinary system and have been told nothing found, however, I am not emptying my bladder completely and it’s causing issues. The doctor also believes because of my ketamine usage I have cause urinary incontinence issues, that can’t be resolved. I’ve also been told I’m not drinking enough water. What’s really funny is my doctor has prescribed tamsulosin to help me empty my bladder, the side effect it’s having is it’s causing me to have stress incontinence, as it cause muscles relaxation in the prostate. As such, I figure, why bother holding it!? I was having urge issues so now I’m just letting go when the urge is there. So I have started this thread to document my experience. As I was already kinda training, but now I’m actively training to be diaper dependent. I’ve been on that medication for the last 5 days and am curious where I end up a year down the road. I’m also scheduled for pelvic physio in early December, I’m noticed I have issues relaxing that muscle and well be guided through various technics to relax the pelvic muscles. Thank you for reading, Munkey

Find out how continent I still am and go without diapers, risking wetting the bed (idek how my overnight control is at this point), and have to have them stop frequently on road or Take a diaper bag and have very awkward conversations with my sparring partners? I volunteered for the event without considering the implications of it being an overnight trip. I suppose I could also arrange my own accomodations, but idk how that's gonna go over for people. I don't want to seem like I can't be around people. I'm pretty sure I couldn't make it through the day without a diaper at this point, the last time i was out of diapers for a while, I was using pullups and pads to keep from wetting things. I have no real faith in my control at night and I'm not sure if I should test it. These people don't know about this and it would be a new development for them and also they're literally sparring partners and while this isn't high contact, it will change their perception of me and therefore the force and things. idk. plurality is playing in here too bc this activity is from a part that doens't intersect with the ABDL parts in their public persona. I don't mind the actual act of telling them, but they still have to fight me after and I'm worried I'm gonna get kid-gloved and my training will stall.

Hi! short intro first. Ive been a life long abdl who had the interest in diapers from a pretty young age and always been fascinated by them for some reason. The recent years my mind have been going towards full time wearing and I think I am getting to a point where its time to actually take the leap. I have been having some small issues with post-micturition dribble, but been doing ok ish with just taking extra time on the toilet before getting off it. I am hoping that having this log will make it easier to go through with the steps during the diaper training. Sort of make me accountable and not chicken out and go back to the good old normal underwear. Recently I found out that the pharmacies here have a subscription, so when you place an order you can make an arrangement that they will continue shipping it to you every 2 weeks, month and so on. This will ensure that I always have a steady stream of diapers and have to take an extra step if I ever get the urge to stop. My plan is to start with pull ups during work and diapers at home. Then gradually increasing time in diapers at work. My choice of pull ups is the tena pants super and tena slip maxi at home for now and during night time, then later on change from the pull ups to tena slip plus or super at work and at daytime when home, while still sticking with the maxi for nighttime use. With the training, I am only settling for #1 and possible bedwetting, allthough I know this will be a long and hard thing to accomplish. The hardest part for me is the social stigma and being worried what others might think, so the psycological aspect is my hardest challenge so far. Any tips is greatfully apriciated! So officialy this is my first weekend back in diapers. I still plan to wear boxers as a fixation pant and also to sort of hide the diapers somewhat at work.

I need advice. I feel really guilty about considering going 24/7. I've been diagnosed with IBS and do actually have times where I need to get to a bathroom quick, but I've only have like 5 accidents in a year and a half. I have a doctor's note saying that I require diapers, but lately I've felt more guilty than ever that maybe I'm just being dramatic or letting my abdl side persuade me. Paddeding up seems to help, particularly by lowering stress and symptoms and I've regretted not padding up for awhile now especially at work, but haven't had any accidents (but a few close calls). My question is if it's justified just to go 24/7? I don't need diapers all the time, but I'm having a harder time predicting when it would help so maybe I should just do it all the time instead. I also have a loving girlfriend how supports either decision 100%. Any ideas?

Hey you all! I decided to remake this post as I am starting my journey towards full bladder and bowel incontinence! The last time I did this it was in April and it failed but this time I plan on going at this again threw away my big boy underwear, as this time I won't be crying for it, anyways here is what I am starting out with or what I am getting to sort of remind myself too. What I will have this month: Assurance XL (with tapes) count: 34 (I will be getting more in August) Diaper Creme and Powder What I will have in a month or 2: Plastic pants (about 2 or 3) Some diaper boosters Plastic sheet for mattress (and for anything I sit on) Some proper clothing to wear when in public (to hide my diapers better) Better diapers (like Megamaxes or Northshore) (and maybe some cloth diapers) Some duct tape (just incase a tape pops off) Alright that is all I have! If I missed anything I should need when I start, let me know. See you all in a few days for a update! Stay Padded:) - Diaper Duck

so I'm tommy, been diapered 24/7 since high school, lol its funny to think back how it was as if my whole world ended I just had my 24th birthday and wouldn't stop wearing diapers even if i could lol but the reson i finally decided to hit up some chattboards is cuz i just turned 25 and I'm a virgin lol i was 14 er 15 yrs old when i first needed to wear diapers 24/7 and that made school really hard and meeting a girl or guy impossible lol so i decided this is gonna be the year i find that special someone

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Where do i begin........well im a 29 yo male married to my best friend since kindergarten we have 2 beautiful children together she is a stay at home mommy and I am a maintenance man by night and little by day. I kept my little secret well guarded growing up as most of you have so my wife never found out about my little side until we decided to go steady about 8 years ago now. It took her some time but she grew to accept it as first thought was omfg hes a pedophile. Weve now worked up to the role play thing slowly and over time shes been much more participant so much that she has even wore a handful of times with me though she likes pullups better. Our sex life has struggled because its very difficult for me to achieve orgasm without it being abdl related and shes growing tired of a little boy shes told me quite a few times that sometimes she just wants her Man and i have a very hard time being this grownup everyone wants me to be. Fast forward to this month i have made the decision to go full time with the diapers and my wife has agreed given we hide it from the kids. We are at a crossroad now as she wants to baby me but doesnt know what to do and frankly neither do i. I want held i want rocked bottle fed but i also want random checks praise and punishment for the good and bad i cant describe how it makes me feel bit to be treated with an infantile status is what i want. So now for you guys im begging for ways to explain to my wife how to treat me as well as advice for me on how to man up in the sack. Please dont be hateful this post is 100% true so please help dont hurt.

So basically I have a desire to wear 24/7. Now I saw on Amazon you can get 44 Pampers Underjams L/XL for only $23. With this price I could probably buy a whole years supply. I would only be buying Underjams due that they are small, thin, and quite. Also I am pretty sure more absorbent then Goodnites, correct me if i'm wrong. Now I am still living with my parents ( No i'm not underage, just haven't moved out yet lol ) and I would like to keep it to my self as there is no need to involve your parents into this fetish .