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  1. I believe I started another thread on this, I couldn’t find it. I’m starting a new one as I would say I’m actively training for complete diaper dependency (probably already diaper dependent, but never actually trained). I figured I should add to the collective knowledge of this lifestyle. 💚🖍🧸🛁⏱🏔 Backstory: I’m male, mid 40s, average build, business owner, former entertainer, canadian, active life style, in a committed ABDL aware relationship (yes, she interacts 🥰), grew up ABDL with minor minor fecal incontinence incontinence issues growing up. That’s the quick version, . I’ve been a member of this site since the long ago times. I’ll start this journey around my late 20s when I found out I had IBS. At the time my IBS issues were minor and didn’t require a diaper and a pad would be enough for the issues. Didnt have any urinary issues. Life happened, I was a performer for a while and my drug of choice was Ketamine, be careful kids. Who knew these things would result in my need for diapers. The journey started about 11 years ago in my early 30s. I would go through periods of wear diapers 24/7. Sometimes it was for a couple of days, a week, or weeks. This went on for a few years, then one morning, while living in a cabin I had to poop, really bad, I ran down the stairs and soiled my self fully. While cleaning up I contemplated why not just wear diapers all the time. I even have a post around 2013 talking about my conflict. This would remain for a few more years. About 7years ago, I had reached a place where my fecal incontinence had reached an uncomfortable level and I went back into diapees 24/7. FTR, I’m not a purest and have worn underwear from time to time… until recently. A couple of years ago I stop caring about using a potty, I just started using my diapee to pee in when nature called. Sometimes I would hold it if I knew I could change or something. I wasn’t actively training to be diaper dependent, it was more that I just didn’t care to go through the effort of removing my diaper. Which has brought us to the present. Where I am at. In the last year it’s been noted on my chart that i have urge incontinence, both fecal and urinary. I’ve been prescribed diapers. I’ve recently had test on my urinary system and have been told nothing found, however, I am not emptying my bladder completely and it’s causing issues. The doctor also believes because of my ketamine usage I have cause urinary incontinence issues, that can’t be resolved. I’ve also been told I’m not drinking enough water. What’s really funny is my doctor has prescribed tamsulosin to help me empty my bladder, the side effect it’s having is it’s causing me to have stress incontinence, as it cause muscles relaxation in the prostate. As such, I figure, why bother holding it!? I was having urge issues so now I’m just letting go when the urge is there. So I have started this thread to document my experience. As I was already kinda training, but now I’m actively training to be diaper dependent. I’ve been on that medication for the last 5 days and am curious where I end up a year down the road. I’m also scheduled for pelvic physio in early December, I’m noticed I have issues relaxing that muscle and well be guided through various technics to relax the pelvic muscles. Thank you for reading, Munkey
  2. Such a big group! Where is everyone located? Any in Houston? We travel often and always looking for new friends!
  3. Hello everyone on DD! My name is Becca and I'm an avid little baby girl! Been reading/browsing always lurking Dailydiapers since I was in my teens. Crazy how time can fly by like that.. I've been wearing diapers on and off through most of my life for fun, usually in a few day to a week stint. Always had those little inner desires and daydreams of being a cute little for another, and moving towards wearing 24/7 forever. Daydreams and fantasy aside the 24/7 desire is something that's never left since I was a kiddo. Still wonder if in my early childhood something happened because I turned out to be the goofball girl. Well this goofball girl decided to start wearing diapers to bed in March 2020 last year, and it's been a full year and a half now of bedwetting. My little journey into bedwetting started with drinking two big glasses of water before bed and waking up constantly to practice letting go.. It took lots of practice and patience, and now I can fully say I'm a bedwetter again! I no longer have to drink anything heavily, and wake up soaked.. Something I don't regret at all, even when I visit family or friends. Just pack a diaper in my go bag and keep a few in my car for emergencies.. For me something inside felt satisfied, I could be myself and enjoy this unique but weird new quirk. Work has been fully remote since the start of the pandemic, and now with my job fully transitioned to permanent work from home my desire to be 24/7 feels like the best time to actually start and see how it goes. Will my body slowly start to change just like it did with the bedwetting? Or will it be impossible for me to actually lose more control during the day? Only one real way to find out but I'm super excited about it.. Yeah weird goofball girl thing.. I now have a closet full of diapers, a stash bigger than I've ever bought before. And while I have not yet tossed out my big girl underwear, they have been put far back in the closet not to see daylight again.. I started wearing 24/7 on Sept 9th and its nearly been a full week of wearing 24/7! Fun and cute little space feelings aside, its actually hard to just relax and let go as easily as I imagined. And peeing while standing feels super weird, same with trying to walk.. I really wonder how long it will take to get used to it and just relax more down there.. Being a bedwetter actually helps me I feel, as I don't hold anything at night and my body doesn't try to fight me at night time Anyway thanks for reading! I wanted to say Hello, and start a forums thread where I can share my journey for the years to come. Hello new friends!
  4. Hello everyone! I'm new here and so I suppose this also serves as my introduction (it's nice to meet y'all). Like many of you, getting to diaper dependence has been a goal of mine for a long time. So, at the end of May in 2022 I decided to go 24/7 and haven't looked back. Progress has been slow but steady I've been crossing off little milestones along the way(being able to go sitting,laying down, in various situations and settings,etc.). Recently I almost fully voided (#1)while walking... before the reflex kicked in at the last second-_- still a big step in the right direction, when I first started my muscles would lock up if I even thought about moving. I might be stuck in a rut now though. I've consistently maintained what I think is the open position but it feels like I'm missing something crucial. I can drip and drizzle sporadically but I have yet to see a constant dribble and it still feels like I have to give permission for the bladder to void. On a positive note voids have become noticeably smaller and my flow has slowed. The last void I did I really focused on what was happening and something loosens up in the high bladder area, I tried to keep that particular muscle open but it just feels like it just slowly closes as the void finishes everytime no matter what i do. I'm kinda of stuck until I figure this out and was wondering if anyone went through something similar and how they got through it. Anyways thanks for listening to my story!
  5. Wearing 24/7 brings its own set of challenges, and one unexpected issue can be the difficulty of urinating while driving. Let's dive into some reasons behind this: Body Position: Sitting in the driver's seat puts specific pressure on your pelvic region, impacting your urine flow. This pressure might come from the ureter being compressed or changes in the bladder's position. Standing up or adjusting your position can ease this pressure, making it easier to pee. Pelvic Muscles: Incontinence can affect how you control your pelvic muscles. In certain positions, like sitting, these muscles might not relax fully, making it harder for urine to pass. Changing your position can involuntarily relax these muscles. Intra-Abdominal Pressure: Sitting can increase the pressure inside your abdomen, pressing on your bladder. This heightens the urgency sensation and might complicate urine release until the pressure is relieved. Bladder Spasms: If you have an overactive bladder, sitting can trigger or worsen spasms. Standing up can change the dynamics of these spasms, allowing for a more natural urine flow.
  6. Hi! short intro first. Ive been a life long abdl who had the interest in diapers from a pretty young age and always been fascinated by them for some reason. The recent years my mind have been going towards full time wearing and I think I am getting to a point where its time to actually take the leap. I have been having some small issues with post-micturition dribble, but been doing ok ish with just taking extra time on the toilet before getting off it. I am hoping that having this log will make it easier to go through with the steps during the diaper training. Sort of make me accountable and not chicken out and go back to the good old normal underwear. Recently I found out that the pharmacies here have a subscription, so when you place an order you can make an arrangement that they will continue shipping it to you every 2 weeks, month and so on. This will ensure that I always have a steady stream of diapers and have to take an extra step if I ever get the urge to stop. My plan is to start with pull ups during work and diapers at home. Then gradually increasing time in diapers at work. My choice of pull ups is the tena pants super and tena slip maxi at home for now and during night time, then later on change from the pull ups to tena slip plus or super at work and at daytime when home, while still sticking with the maxi for nighttime use. With the training, I am only settling for #1 and possible bedwetting, allthough I know this will be a long and hard thing to accomplish. The hardest part for me is the social stigma and being worried what others might think, so the psycological aspect is my hardest challenge so far. Any tips is greatfully apriciated! So officialy this is my first weekend back in diapers. I still plan to wear boxers as a fixation pant and also to sort of hide the diapers somewhat at work.
  7. Hey you all! I decided to remake this post as I am starting my journey towards full bladder and bowel incontinence! The last time I did this it was in April and it failed but this time I plan on going at this again threw away my big boy underwear, as this time I won't be crying for it, anyways here is what I am starting out with or what I am getting to sort of remind myself too. What I will have this month: Assurance XL (with tapes) count: 34 (I will be getting more in August) Diaper Creme and Powder What I will have in a month or 2: Plastic pants (about 2 or 3) Some diaper boosters Plastic sheet for mattress (and for anything I sit on) Some proper clothing to wear when in public (to hide my diapers better) Better diapers (like Megamaxes or Northshore) (and maybe some cloth diapers) Some duct tape (just incase a tape pops off) Alright that is all I have! If I missed anything I should need when I start, let me know. See you all in a few days for a update! Stay Padded:) - Diaper Duck
  8. I need advice. I feel really guilty about considering going 24/7. I've been diagnosed with IBS and do actually have times where I need to get to a bathroom quick, but I've only have like 5 accidents in a year and a half. I have a doctor's note saying that I require diapers, but lately I've felt more guilty than ever that maybe I'm just being dramatic or letting my abdl side persuade me. Paddeding up seems to help, particularly by lowering stress and symptoms and I've regretted not padding up for awhile now especially at work, but haven't had any accidents (but a few close calls). My question is if it's justified just to go 24/7? I don't need diapers all the time, but I'm having a harder time predicting when it would help so maybe I should just do it all the time instead. I also have a loving girlfriend how supports either decision 100%. Any ideas?
  9. Find out how continent I still am and go without diapers, risking wetting the bed (idek how my overnight control is at this point), and have to have them stop frequently on road or Take a diaper bag and have very awkward conversations with my sparring partners? I volunteered for the event without considering the implications of it being an overnight trip. I suppose I could also arrange my own accomodations, but idk how that's gonna go over for people. I don't want to seem like I can't be around people. I'm pretty sure I couldn't make it through the day without a diaper at this point, the last time i was out of diapers for a while, I was using pullups and pads to keep from wetting things. I have no real faith in my control at night and I'm not sure if I should test it. These people don't know about this and it would be a new development for them and also they're literally sparring partners and while this isn't high contact, it will change their perception of me and therefore the force and things. idk. plurality is playing in here too bc this activity is from a part that doens't intersect with the ABDL parts in their public persona. I don't mind the actual act of telling them, but they still have to fight me after and I'm worried I'm gonna get kid-gloved and my training will stall.
  10. I am writing a sort of essay that encompasses my life up until this point, mostly to vent and get things off my chest. And to ask for advice. There are going to be three parts. First are my childhood and history with desires. The second is how I got to this point. The third is to ask for advice on how to best become completely and uncontrollably urinary incontinent. I am writing this post mostly to try and get rid of any personal mental blocks. Also, because I have had this brewing inside me for as long as I can remember, I am not brave enough to explain and be honest with my friends or therapist. Like so many others, I have ghosted this website since my childhood, and only now do I have the confidence to actually make a post. I have been wearing diapers on and off since I got kicked out of my home as a youth. First off, there is the trauma and struggle I've had as a DL. I have been interested in diapers for as long as I can remember. I remember being like 7 or 8, and me and my cousin would take diapers from family members, hide under the bed, and put them on. The desire never went away. I know I had a difficult infancy, from what I have been told. My mother said that when I was diagnosed with autism as an infant, I would cry and scream nonstop, and it drove her insane. My father was neglectful, and when he was there, he would not treat me well. My mother said that once I was just laughing and playing on the couch and my father would just push me off as a toddler. My family is an old Mormon religious bunch. That is a story for another day; however, it relates to the topic. My fairly well-off grandparents would host giant family reunions at their house. With over 20 people at a time. Most of my cousins were chronic bedwetters, so I was able to steal pull-ups and stuff, but as I grew older, it kind of stopped happening. At some point, I got so desperate that I stole packs of diapers from the store. I even got caught one time and brought to upper management with my mother. The whole ordeal genuinely traumatized me. I was also in foster care for a stint and got caught stealing diapers from my disabled "brother". As well as a couple of other incidents. I always wondered back then why I was such a freak and how I could make it all stop. I obviously didn't try anything for a while after that. The thoughts and desires persisted on and off through my teenage years, but I couldn't really do anything about them. After I came out of the closet and me and my family had a huge fight, I managed to get into a housing assistance program. I had complete independence and lived alone for the first time in my life. It was so liberating. By that point, I had all but forgotten about my desires until I was settled. Then one day, it dawned on me. I was a legal adult and could do whatever the heck I wanted. I then ordered my own supplies and had a kind of binge-purge cycle of wearing them occasionally. I ended up hanging out with the wrong types of friends and got wayyyy into marijuana, and they even got me addicted to nicotine. After growing up a bit, maybe a year or so later, I moved again. This time, however, I had more freedom as I ditched the wrong people and just stayed to myself. I don't know exactly when it happened, but I just kept wearing padding more and more. At one point, if I wasn't wearing a diaper, I would be wearing absorbent period pants. With or without a leakage pad, it just felt better. I don't know when, but at some point I just stopped purging and would periodically just wear diapers more and more. Then I decided I would commit to a modified version of the 12-month program. Double urinary. I stuck with it for a while, then I decided to go on vacation, and I got intimidated and didn't wear it. I packed planning too, but just stuck with the absorbent pants. Then, after I came home, I wore off and on again until I decided to go on another streak of 24/7, only pausing partway through due to a lackluster schedule and laziness. That didn't last long, however, and as of March 20th, 2023, I have been acting like I am completely urinary incontinent. I do wish to ask questions and go over some things. First, at this point, I am intimidated not to wear any kind of protection as I tend to drip and leak randomly. It isn't like a constant flow; it is more like LBL. I even had a couple bedwetting episodes that I was so excited and proud of. Typically pretty sporadic. That leaves me now. My only problem is that I seem to be a kind of Plato. I am trying to quit smoking, and my bedwetting has all but disappeared. Sometimes I feel like I am clenching "hard," and it is super hard to relax. Like I can't completely empty at all. Other times, it seems perfectly fine or normal. Just a constant flow that I'm only paying half attention to. I do take hormones, and one of them is a type of water pill. I don't know if that does anything. Personally, I feel it made it a bit easier. The only time I use the loo is for #2, and I go at least three times a day to try and weaken my muscles. Anything else is in my pants. I am not intentionally trying to lose fecal control. I am, however, not too concerned about it. I have already had some messy accidents and had to stay in them for a while. Not too often, but it does happen. Basically, I survived, and it wasn't comfortable, but it wasn't awful or the end of the world. more manageable. My biggest question is: how do I release a seized bladder? Also, to keep developing my bedwetting, I was making progress, then it just stopped all at once. I'd wake up having to pee like crazy and having trouble releasing. After I post this, I plan on quitting cigarettes cold turkey and only allowing myself "one" single cigarette a day if withdrawals become too hellish. That's all I really wanted to get off my chest. I am seriously hoping for and looking forward to any kind comments, reviews, and answers.
  11. It seems that I have a perpetual interest in returning to diapers 24/7. However there has always been a reason I have given myself not to. But my intrigue still exists on what that is like to be back in diapers full time. if you are 24/7 and have a S/O, I’m curious on how you approached the topic of 24/7 and how your relationship has changed due to your permanently diapered status. So some questions How did you approach your return to diapers 24/7? How has being diapered 24/7 changed your Sex life? Does your S/O change your diapers?
  12. So my last post was about how I had been wearing for a few months and was gonna have to stop because I was getting a new roommate, but I never came back to updated it. It turns out its not a problem for her, as long as we manage it bc she has an adjacent kink anyway. With that said, I've been wearing on and off for most of the year since she moved in. Mostly stopping due to activity levels, money, or shame. Cadence has been something like 2-3 months on 2-4 weeks off. Every time I stop my bladder control is worse off than before. At first it was just urges becoming more frequent or dissociating when walking around and nearly wetting unprotected. Then I started having small accidents in my pants, more than dribble wet spots, like straight up boom I started going bc I wasn't thinking about it. I went through a lot of laundry and decided to go back in them through the holidays. I wet the bed once and had to dry out my futon, which was the breaking point. I wore through December, but then for new year's a part of me decided we were gonna be uber athletic, active, and on top of our physical health, but they went too hard all at once and that bacfired, and ended up siezing our thighs and calves. But we were still in grown up pants during that time and our bladder control was wayyy worse, having to go every 15 or 30 minutes and needing to wear liners to keep us dry. Then forgetting its just a liner and flooding.... Anyway, we got a new job and our FSA just turned over, so we're gonna burn through our entire old FSA on diapers and when we have a cadence figured out put them on auto-ship. The new job is work from home and will pay enough for us to move to an apartment with separate bedrooms and hardwood floors so I don't have to worry about leaking. Also will pay us enough that we never have to worry about running out of diapers again. I also found someone local on an abdl personals page and it seems like we get along pretty well so I might have moral support too and a safe space to regress. Once we start getting paid from the new job I'm gonna cut up and throw away all our old undies and never ever ever look back!!!
  13. Hi there, I have been lurking, like many others, before actually post something. It is so great and inspiring to read so many success stories of people going 24/7. Whilst I am not at this point (yet?) of choosing this path, the idea of doing it comes frequently. While reading so many stories here, I noticed, that the major changes happend around the 6 month mark (like in the 12 month program). However most of the people, that shared their story seemed to agree, that wetting (even tough consciously) became easier over the first three months. I was especially wondering about, how the first month was. Apart from mentally preparing for the journey, the new habits are not there yet. Means you clench, hold it, allow to pee and (probably) flood your diaper. If so, how did you handle that considering leaks, thickness of diaper, frequency of changes and when did you experience this state of 'it is getting easier to wet' I think at some point of wetting in smaller amounts and more frequent you are probably less likely to leak and do not need a super max capacity diaper and can switch to thinner less visible diapers. Same goes for messing in the first time. I need to wait very long to have this real strong urge to void. Did you wait until you literally couldnt hold it anymore or did you focus on voiding as soon the urge was noticable? Thank you so much again for sharing your experience so far, and thanks for reading
  14. So yeah, I don't post much. My girl might do some travelling, for work. 2wks, maybe a month. Everything is up in the air right now. No one seems to know when it'll happen. I'll hate to lose her for that long. Maybe, soonish, getting some no-potty time. I don't know if I'll like it, but I'm going to stick too it. If it happens. If it happens I'm going to post daily, I think, and give it to her when she gets home. I rambled, a bit there. Sorry.
  15. Hi Everyone! I had an amazing experience this morning and I wanted to get some feedback and see if others have had the same thing.
  16. Hi there, I usually just read posts on here but I'm looking for some advice on how to tell my partner i want to go into diapers 24/7. I wear them around the house alot and we've had sex with me wearing a diaper a few times, he seems to really like it. The only problem is i want to wear them all the time and I really want to know if he would be okay with me using them (wetting) from time to time. Any ideas on what to say? Thanks, Mel
  17. Recently there have been a lot of great discussions regarding the desire to wear diapers permanently and diaper dependency. Many of us share these desires and thoughts amongst our community which has led to the twelve month diaper program and mulitiple guides of how to unpotty train oneself. I will share with you my own personal experiences of wearing diapers permanently as I continue towards my desire of diaper dependany. To begin with I do not like the phrase "24/7". In this post I will use words such as "permanent" and "full-time" to describe being diapered. There are no right or wrong choices when it comes to YOUR decision to persue wearing diapers permanently. You are the only person that truly knows what diapers mean to you and how strong those desires are inside of you. Before you decide to wear diapers full-time I recommend you ask yourself some questions. "Why do I want to wear diapers for the rest of my life?" Your mind is telling you that you desire to wear diapers all the time but why do you have these thoughts. Maybe it is as simple as you are experiencing some physical control issues with your bladder or bowels and you want to save yourself from the embarrassment of having an accident in your pants. Are you running to the bathroom all day and you are just tired of the potty marathon? Is it the wetspot that forms in your pants with the untimely sneeze or laughing hysterically? Choosing to wear diapers permanently for a physical reason is why adult diapers were designed and this is a great reason to make the decision to do so. It releives the mental anguish and stress of the potty monster and provides comfort and security. Maybe the reasons are more in your mind. Where diapers provide security for those with control issues they also can provide a secuirty blanket for one's being. Does being padded relieve your anxiety or mental stress? Does being in a diaper all the time take away your worries and fears? Maybe they regress you back to a simplier time and help to relieve the stress of everday life. If wearing a diaper all the time makes you fell better on the inside then put a diaper on and be happy. Is this need fueled by sexual desires? Are you an exhibitionist and seek a constant form of sexual excitement from being in diapers permanently? Maybe the humiliation and degradation of being forced into a diaper drives you to want to wear them all the time. The sexual component of wearing diapers that many of us experience can and does fuel a lot of the desire to put a diaper on and never take it off. Do those desires remain after you have experienced sexual release or do you rip your diaper off and throw it away? For some of us the answer of "why" is complicated and complex. For me personally it is physical, mental, and sexual. Physically I have an over active bladder and sometimes experience anal leakage. Mentally wearing diapers full-time greatly reduces my stress and makes me happy. Sexually, diapers leave me with a constant since of humilaition and helps to actually control my sexual urges. "How will my life be effected with the decision to wear diapers permanently?" Your life WILL change once you decide to put diapers on and leave them on. Some changes will be positive and some will not be so fun. Your attitude towards those changes will be what determines if you stay in diapers or decide to take them off. You wanted to wear diapers full-time and now they are going to become a focal point of your day to day life. Here is an example. Before wearing diapers full-time I would wake up in the morning and simply go potty in the bathroom and be done. The biggest concern for me then was did I leave the seat up. Now you will wake up and make sure your diaper did not leak through the night. If so that becomes your first problem of the day before it has even began. If I feel the urge to pee pee I do so in my diaper of course which will be generally very full from overnight use. Your diaper may leak or it may not leak. Something I hope you do not worry about when going potty in a toilet. Before wearing diapers permanently I did not always shower in the morning but now it is an absolute necessity after spending the night in a used diaper. Next, you go to simply rip the tapes off of your sagging diaper and jump in the shower. But will my children hear that sound? Will your roommate or family member hear that sound? The sound of untaping your diaper is unmistakable unless you work at a packaging company. Now you are in the shower scrubbing your private parts, trying to rid yourself of the stale pee pee smell. I get out and grab a towel. I may be leaking pee pee onto the floor as I do so. Something else to think about and another mess to clean up. Now I am right back into a clean diaper and protective briefs. Is everything all cleaned up? Leaving the bathroom....oh wait a minute, I left my used diaper in the linen closet...but why is it in there? Well obviously so that if one of my children for some reason came into the bathroom they would not be greeted with a used pink Rearz Princess diaper on the bathroom floor. It definately is something that can not be thrown away in the bathroom trash. Getting dressed is now much more complicated since I started wearing diapers permanently. Once I am diapered I almost always wear a pair of GaryWear Active briefs which are essentially my plastic panties made of PUL material. Next comes a pair of Abena fixing pants. Once those are in place I reach inside my diaper and make sure everything is situated. Lastly, I put on my all black onesie with a snap crotch and then finally my work clothes. The days of throwing on a pair of jeans and running out the door are over. I now leave for work trying to focus on relaxing my bladder sphincters to help maintain a constant drip into my diaper. When I first get to work every morning I have a bowel movement. Luckily for me I am one of the first to arrive at work so I simply slip into the private restroom, shimmy my fairly fresh diaper down, and do my business. Because hardly anyone is at work yet I do not have to be so quiet pulling my diaper back up. If I have a bowel movement throughout the day I have to be much more cognizant of the sound I make. I hope this accurately shows you how much my life has changed in just the first fifteen minutes of my day because I chose to wear diapers permanently. Planning and logistics becomes an absolute necessity. The things you do, the people you visit, and even the clothes you wear now will revolve around your diapers. When can I change my diaper? Where will I change my diaper? How will being in a diaper effect what I am doing? How I will I date? How do I explain this to my significant other? These are questions that would you do not have to answer when you wear panties or boxers and this is why your life changes forever. "Am I going to use my diaper as a potty?" A lot of people think in order to be in diapers permanently then you have to use them for their intended purposes but that is not always the case. You can still wear diapers all the time and simply remove or pull them down to take care of business. You still have the comfort and security of the padding between your legs but not the mess. Some may have no choice but to make your diaper your potty because of control issues. For those that do you have a very big decision to make. Are you just going to pee pee in your diaper or poo poo too? This is a very big decision and one that MUST be given a lot of thought. When I first decided to wear diapers permanently I wanted to lose control of both my bladder and bowels. Physically I had less control of my bowels with anal leakage than I experienced with overactive bladder. Mentally I just felt it was something I wanted and needed. Sexually I new I would be excited from the humiliation of knowing I just messed my diaper uncontrollably. I communicated this with my wife and she was adamant that I do not loss full control of my bowels. She said, "What if we were out on a nice dinner date and in the middle of eating you uncontrollably shit your pants?" She said she would be horrified, disgusted, and embarrassed. She also felt that it would be impossible to hide a messy diaper from our children and we both agreed and accepted that I would only try and lose control of my bladder. That choice has made my life a lot easier and wearing diapers full-time much more manageable. What is my life like while unpotty training my bladder. First and foremost you will not start wetting uncontrollably overnight. It takes a lot of mental focus to constantly keep your bladder sphincters as relaxed as possible. Changes to your bladder occur slowly and for me started with a lot of post void dribbling. After a bowel movement I would drip a fair amount of pee pee without out even knowing. After that I began to experience bladder spasms which felt like butterflies swirling around inside of my bladder and at times would have pee pee leaking from my urethra. Urge incontinence sooned followed. At this point I have yet to wet uncontrollably at night. If you decide to use your diaper for all your potty needs it will be almost impossible to hide unless you remian isolated in your house. It does not mean that it is the wrong choice to make but it does mean that a lot more people are going to find out that you wear diapers. You can mitigate how much your mess smells by taking charcoal activated pills or a chlorophyll pill such as Nullo and regulating your diet. Despite taking these steps a messy diaper is still going to have an unmistakably aroma that will not be able to hidden at some point. If your bowel movements are fairly regular that may give you an opportunity to mess your diaper in some privacy. Just remember you may eventually reach a point when you have no control over your bowels and you will fill your diaper uncontrollably no matter who you are with and where you are at. "Who are you going to let know you wear diapers permanently?" Many people believe it is just inevitable that if you decide to wear diapers permanently that everyone will find out. I respectfully disagree with this based off my personal experiences. Work and your family does not need to know assuming you take the necessary steps to be discreet and are always diligent to keep things hidden. I have worn diapers and had diapers around my children now for over ten years. They do not know I wear them. Many people have told me that if they did find out they may not say anything about it. Trust me, that is just not the way my children are. Something would be said to my wife or I if my children found my diapers or if they thought I was wearing diapers. We are just a very open and comfortable family. Despite working a job that makes it hard to change my diaper at times I still have managed to keep the fact I am diapered to myself. Often times I feel as if I want to give in and just tell work as things would seem so much simplier but I have refrained from doing so. If anyone knows, I am unaware. My wife and best friend know everything. My wife and I work together as a team to keep my life in diapers hidden from the family and my best friend is a person I can talk with about anything, including my diapers. Some people may find it easier to let the world know as it does simplfy things as you do not have to be as discreet all the time. Only you can decide what is best in your own personal situation. Wearing diapers permanently is not something you should start on a sudden whim. It takes a lot of time, commitment, planning, and patience particularly when just starting out. The cost of diapers is the biggest reason people do not stay diapered. I am not familiar with cloth diapers but since they are reusable they would of course cut down on cost. Since I only wear disposables I will only speak here from a disposable diaper perspective. I can promise you I budget for about $300 a month for just premium disposable diapers. That cost provides me with at least four premium diapers a day and I rarely ever need more. Take advantage of memberships and holiday deals as much as possible as this will save you a lot of money. You can never have too many diapers since you are going to be wearing them the rest of your life assuming you have a safe place to store them. Aside from diapers you will also have cost with plastic panties and protective briefs. You will need diaper supplies which I buy in bulk to save money. If you are going to be diapered full-time you will use everything so do not be concerned about quantity. For those inexperienced wearing diapers you need to gain the experience so that you can determine what is the best diaper to use. Not all diapers are equal and not all diapers are good for permanent use. Things such as fit, capacity, discreetness, cost, and comfortability are all factors that have to be weighed when preparing to wear diapers the rest of your life. The best diaper for you can very easily not be the best diaper for me. You need to experiment with many diapers both in private and in public before you really truly know what works for you and which diaper is optimal for full-time use. For me, Rearz Princess, Inspire+Incontrol, and ABU Simples are my diapers of choice for daily use. I also love DC Amor and My Diaper Princess diapers but they are not my everyday padding. The best diaper exercise to test which diaper works for you is to get out and walk around in them. Go to the mall. Walk a nature trail. Some diapers will start chaffing you almost immediately and others may not irritate you all day. The ones you are both physically and mentally comfortable wearing are the diapers to wear day to day. You are going to get diaper rash. It is inevitable. What will you use when you do? If you can not answer that question I highly recommend you do not wear diapers full-time. For me I use both Calmoseptine cream and Balmex Multi care Healing ointment. I did not settle for these creams after wearing diapers only once. Remember, if you are going to be diapered permenently your diaper is going right back on after you apply the diaper rash cream. It is absolutely imperative that you find something that will work and work fast. If your diaper rash becomes too severe you are almost guaranteed to remove your diaper. Another thing to expect is fungal infections. Yes, I have been to the doctor wearing a diaper and had to pull the waistband down so she could look at the Ringworm I had. This is not such a big deal, a little jock itch cream and you are on your way. I do not even recommend going to the doctor unless the over the counter medicine does not work. I do not share this to scare anyone away from wearing diapers permanently. I still need to be in diapers and love being in them despite the occasional diaper rash or ringworm. Changing your diaper regulary and applying baby powder and barrier cream liberally almost completely mitigates these problems. After being in diapers so long sometimes you just get lazy and do not take the proper prevention measures and you end up paying for it. The same can be said for diaper leaks. Your diaper is going to leak at some point no matter the steps you take to prevent it. It could be that you were lazy and did not change your diaper when you should have. It could be that you were unable to change your diaper because you were in a meeting or at a family get together. Maybe your little guy was pointed off to the side and that is why. The bottom line is if you can not accept and deal with the potential embarrassment of a diaper leaking then you do not need to be in them all the time. You need to have a leak plan in place. For me I have Leakcon 1, 2, 3, and 4. Leakcon 4- No leaks at this time, my diaper is new or barely used. Leakcon 3- No leaks yet but my diaper is getting full and there is a potential for leaks especially from sitting down (press out leaks) Leakcon 2- I am experiencing an active leak but it is small and contained by my protective briefs or plastic panties. A trip to the restroom is required to determine further actions ie. diaper change, re-situate my wee wee etc. Leakcon 1- Emergency leak situation. Risk of exposure to co-workers or family is imminent and leak needs to be addressed immediately. This leak will almost always require a diaper change and will require a change of pants. In your diaper bag you should ALWAYS have at least one spare set of clothes should you experience Leakcon 1. This includes pants and a shirt or a onesie if you wear them. You should also have a roll of packing or duct tape to repair the occasional diaper failure like a faulty tape or a tear in your diaper. If you can not change your diaper in public then the decision to wear diapers full-time will be very challenging. This does not mean that you have to leave the stall door open and throw your used diaper down onto the floor however. It is actually quite easy to change your diaper when out and about particularly in today's world. More and more family restrooms are available at airports, malls, and amusement parks. Smaller, private restrooms are all over the place to include many gas stations and Starbucks. For the most part, unless you are in a Leakcon 1 emergency situation you have a lot of options that gives you plenty of privacy to change in public. What if you have to go into a multi-stalled bathroom? Can you rip the tapes off without being ashamed? Can you throw your diaper away without being embarrassed? The more you change in public the more confidence you gain. At one time I would have to wait for other people to leave the restroom and then stop and sit on the toilet and wait if someone new came in. Now nothing matters. I walk into the restroom with a spare diaper in hand, go in to any stall regardless of how full the restroom is and change my diaper. When I am finished changing I walk out with my dirty diaper in hand and simply throw it away. Everything is about planning and being prepared. At first it may seem overwhelming and insurmountable but it really is not. Eventually what was unknown becomes routine and what once seemed like a pain in the ass becomes tolerable. For majority of the day you live life normal, simply living it while diapered. Wearing diapers permanently for me was the best decision I have ever made. It has made me a much better person both inside and out. My need to be in diapers no longer controls me as I am in them all the time and my need is met. There are challenges to this lifestyle. To stay diapered you will need to be patient and have a positive attitude. You need to accept that uncomfortable and embarrassing situations will arise due to you being diapered permenently and you need to be prepared for them when they do. I do believe that this decision requires a lot of practice and planning before you become padded for life. The best part about making the choice to wear diapers permanently is that you do not become incontinent or diaper dependant overnight. It takes months or years before signiificant control is lost. This should give you an ample amount of time to help you decide if being diapered permenently is truly what you want. I hope this will help some understand what it is like to wear diapers permanently and please feel free to message me at anytime with individual questions you may have.
  18. so I'm tommy, been diapered 24/7 since high school, lol its funny to think back how it was as if my whole world ended I just had my 24th birthday and wouldn't stop wearing diapers even if i could lol but the reson i finally decided to hit up some chattboards is cuz i just turned 25 and I'm a virgin lol i was 14 er 15 yrs old when i first needed to wear diapers 24/7 and that made school really hard and meeting a girl or guy impossible lol so i decided this is gonna be the year i find that special someone
  19. Hi everyone! My wife and I have been in a 24/7 femdom relationship for the past 5 years (I am her slave), and we both have a big thing for humiliation. A few weeks ago, my wife and I were reading a book on female domination which listed diapers as a humiliation tool, and by her mandate, I've found myself wearing them 24/7 since then. It's really taken our dynamic to an entirely new level of intimacy, and we are both discovering new aspects to our own sexuality. That said, I'm here to meet people, learn from others, and hopefully contribute to this community! My interests outside of my sexuality are music, video games, learning, inventing or building things, coffee, and self improvement. I love to read non-fiction and I love to meet people. My personality type is ENTP. I look forward to interacting with this community!
  20. I wanted to share with the forum how I feel wearing diapers permanently has been benificial both behaviorally and physically. There has been a lot of discussion about diapers controlling one's life and before I made the decision to wear diapers full-time they definately controlled mine. Thoughts of diapers where always on my mind and when I was not wearing one I continually desired to be. This unfortunately would often times lead to me having negativity as I felt unhappy and miserable at times. It affected myself and those close to me as my attitude was full of grumpiness a lot of times. Since wearing diapers full-time this personality has completely disappeared. I find myself almost a completely new person. I am much happier and I feel much more relaxed mentally. My mind is no longer consumed by diapers and it is free to wander to more healthy and normal thoughts for my wife, my family, and my life. My desire for diapers began when my abusive step-mother used the threat of them as a way to humilate me. It is so hard to understand why a child's behavior forms the way it does but for me I felt that at least I was getting some sort of attention from someone who hated me all of the time. Diapers reminded me of a hurtful time in my life and desiring to be in them all the time would confuse me at times. As long as diapers where controlling my life so where the sins of my stepmother. Since wearing diapers full-time I have accepted this is a part of who I am and my step-mother is nothing but a past nightmare. She will never again control my life and I learned I have no reason to feel guilty about wearing diapers when I want to. Should I desire to never wear diapers again or wear them all the time, it is my choice and not hers. My relationship with my wife is definately what has benefited the most. The biggest difference is I am so much happier and pleasant to be around. Over the last few months her attitude towards me being diapered full-time has proven that she completely accepts me for who I am. Our communication both about life and diapers has gotten so much better and I feel more and more in love with her everyday. We used to fight a lot about me weaing diapers and honestly since wearing them full-time we have not fought at all about them. We now work together as a team when it comes to diapers and it makes life so much easier having her support. It has also allowed for a lot less confusion in the bedroom. My wife is not sexually turned on by me in a diaper at all and before I wore them full-time she never knew if she was going to be with a man today or a babygirl in diapers. This back and fourth in diapers one minute and out of them the next was frustrating for her especially sexually. Now that I am always in a diaper there is no longer any confusion and it simplifies things. We have happily adapted our sex life for this and it has sexually fulfilled both of us. Obviously happiness in the bedroom is a necessity in a relationship and together we found a way to make that work despite the fact I am in a diaper all the time. As a diaper lover I obviuously desire diapers sexually. Since wearing them permanently those urges are much more contained and a lot less controlling. Diapers have now become normal for me and a part of everyday life. Physically I sleep a lot better in the night because I'm not getting out of bed to constantly go pee pee. It also is easier on a long car ride as well as having an aisle seat on the airplane. I always find myself laughing inside when someone gets up to go to the bathroom on the airplane. I think to myself what an inconvenience. It's a lot easier for me just to go right where I am seated.
  21. Hey everyone, I have a question for the 24/7ers out there. Do any of you play sports? I am big into playing sports like Basketball, Golf, Softball, Racquetball, Tennis, Running, Disc Golf and more. I always wondered for the people that are 24/7, does this limit your ability to play sports? If you do play, how do you hide it? How do you do with all the sweating and the diaper coming apart? Thanks everyone!
  22. One thing I've found to be a useful consideration as I considered and discussed pursuing intentional incontinence has been the idea of 'reinforcement'.
  23. Where do i begin........well im a 29 yo male married to my best friend since kindergarten we have 2 beautiful children together she is a stay at home mommy and I am a maintenance man by night and little by day. I kept my little secret well guarded growing up as most of you have so my wife never found out about my little side until we decided to go steady about 8 years ago now. It took her some time but she grew to accept it as first thought was omfg hes a pedophile. Weve now worked up to the role play thing slowly and over time shes been much more participant so much that she has even wore a handful of times with me though she likes pullups better. Our sex life has struggled because its very difficult for me to achieve orgasm without it being abdl related and shes growing tired of a little boy shes told me quite a few times that sometimes she just wants her Man and i have a very hard time being this grownup everyone wants me to be. Fast forward to this month i have made the decision to go full time with the diapers and my wife has agreed given we hide it from the kids. We are at a crossroad now as she wants to baby me but doesnt know what to do and frankly neither do i. I want held i want rocked bottle fed but i also want random checks praise and punishment for the good and bad i cant describe how it makes me feel bit to be treated with an infantile status is what i want. So now for you guys im begging for ways to explain to my wife how to treat me as well as advice for me on how to man up in the sack. Please dont be hateful this post is 100% true so please help dont hurt.
  24. Hi Folks, TL,DR: Wear at the hospital, do not invent bullshit medical reasons, people are generally lovely and helpful if they find out about the diapers. The place where I live (europe) is pretty conservative. I was for one week in a hospital, and I wore 24/7. I said I needed them, no questions were asked they showed me the hospital diapers and told me to use them, I refused and brought my own. Before the surgery I had to fill out forms and answer questions about my general health, I write down "incontinence" and waited for the doctor to pick up on that, and I prepared a lengthy statement to explain how I had a strong emotional attachment to diapers, etc, etc... but luckily he did not ask questions about it. I asked if it was ok to wear protection during the operation, and he affirmed that. I went to the surgery with diapers and after the surgery I woke up in pain and realized I had been given a bladder catheter. I was only half awake and asked the nurse to remove it, and explained that I have had an injury in the uretha which still hurts. They removed it some time later, which was very painful. then they placed a bottle between my legs such that my penis was inside. After a while I asked them to give me a diaper, I don't rember what exactly I said (half asleep), but it was something along the lines of: "I assume, you don't understand this, but please replace the bottle with a diaper, this bottle irritates me, it just calms me down when I know I have that diaper, sorry". This was no problem the nurse gave me a diaper which I put on. I did not have clear vision at that time and everything was fuzzy to me, I don;t know how much time passed and who was there, but I did not care. Later at my room I had to get assistance when getting up for the first time after waking up. I had to call a nurse and I told her I wanted to change something and hinted at the bag beneath my bed with my diaper supply. She helped me get a diaper out (I could not bend down) and walked me to the toilet. Tthey told me where to dispose of the diapers and made it super easy for me, and not at all embarrassing. No one, not even any doctores asked any questions. Only a few days after being home I had an incident that required me to go to the hospital again (for the same medical issue) to the emergency doctor, and she had to put a finger into my butt. I had to open the diaper, she saw it, checked my behind and asked me if I had problems hodling stool, I said "no", then she aksed if I had problems holding urine, I replied: "This is closer to my problem". But she must have misunderstood me and said: "Okay, so it is something else, you wear for other reasons." And she was sweet and friendly and did not ask any more questions about the diapers. No where in the documents they send to my primary care physican(/doctor?) was something about incontinence or the diapers. Heck, why did I stress my self weeks ahead about the reactions to me wearing diapers without any medical diagnosis? I am in conflict with me, since I know that I also like to wear diapers for sexual reasons, but I don't know what they put into to the tap water in that hospital but I did not once think of sex at all in that whole week, and I still "needed" to wear. I at least try to make the impact on others psyche and budget as low as possible, so I am somewhat ok with me wearing at the hospital with only the minimal impact (resources, help and awareness) on the staff and hospital. thanks for reading till here.
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