BedWetMark

Tykables unicorns (as per profile pic) - brilliant!

Our black (household waste) wheelie bin gets emptied every two weeks, alternating with the blue (recycling), green (garden waste) and bottle bin on the other week. Nappies do take up f**k loads of room - half way through the bun cycle (which will be tomorrow), I get a step ladder out, climb on the bin and jump up and down. 95KG of me jumping up and down on the rubbish compresses it enough to fill up with the lid shut. Our black waste here gets incinerated for energy, so I have no worries about landfill wastage.

Another great threadlike Oznl's! As I commented on his thread, my wife accepts that I have to wear nappies at night through genuine need. But at weekends and when I work from home, I change in the morning discreetly and wear all day - I think she's assuming I haven't bothered to change, but I have a feeling that she must know and it's just unspoken about. She'll make me take it off if we go out though and often checks my backside while saying "you're not still padded are you?". She doesn't enjoy playing any games involving nappies, but when she mentions anything to do with them, I get excited. She's generally pretty good though, when I get in from work, especially after a crappy commute like a couple of days ago she will often say "I'm just serving up, go up and get changed" as she knows that I like to get ready for bed when I get in and unwind. She's no issue with me emerging smelling of baby powder and crinkling like a crisp packet across the room (with shorts and t-shirt on) and chilling together. But it can go both ways, like on last Sunday, I went and showered about 4pm and got changed again (for bed - we were feeling incredibly lazy, it was a rubbish weather day and were relaxing), I came down the stairs, she rolled her eyes and chunted away about "parading that around like something you should be proud of" as I head to the bin nappy in hand. Or a few weeks ago when there was a strange car hanging around at 11pm with music (we live in a very quiet street) and I mentioned I'd go and see what they were up to only to be told "don't be silly, you're wearing a nappy" .... yeah, that got me excited! Oops. After many years of wearing nappies, I've decided that premium ones (of the ABDL variety) are the only ones worth buying. They last the longest, they fit the best, they feel the nicest and you need fewer of them. I had been wearing the plain white ABU Simple ones, but over the last year I've ventured out. This month I decided to try Tykables Unicorns. I've been seen by my wife in a pink, unicorn nappy and she hasn't batted an eyelid. In fact randomly last week she sent me a unicorn emoji as an iMessage - I don't know whether that's linked or not, but she's never bothered with emojis before. I think she knows I'm happy and chilled in them so is okay with it too. As a side note, these are definitely the best nappies I've ever worn, without a question. They don't tear, they soak up loads, they don't leak at night (I'm wet 6 nights out of 7 in a week roughly) and they don't stretch over night. But even if you need to readjust, the hook and loop tabs are incredible. Well worth the money! Anyway, just wanted to say what a top thread. I'd love to wear 24/7, but I don't want to ruin what I get away with now. Wearing at night for need is one thing, but not being moaned at for wearing at weekends and when working from home is something I appreciate.

This one; https://www.redbubble.com/people/steve616/works/26413580-abri-form?carousel_pos=2&p=mens-graphic-t-shirt&ref_id=24274321&ref=artist-details-portfolio No wording, just the pattern - it actually looks great and probably like you support some sports team, but other people who also had padded underwear would also know. A great way to meet new people I guess, without going on forums. Yes, I think I would have one.

Agree! Why have you killed this off, it's the best story ever, it's like a soup, I can see it going and going ... please type up some more.

This is probably the most interesting thread I've read in a long time, well done Oznl, please do keep it up and keep us updated. Some of the parallels with my own home life are uncanny and I'm glad I'm not alone, not just Oznl's posts but others. I have to wear nappies at night due to never growing out of bedwetting properly and I do enjoy having some fun with printed nappies - after all, life would be dull otherwise and the "AB" nappies do work SO much better than the medical rubbish. Generally, I get home around 7pm and get changed for bed. My wife massively disapproves, but she's aware that it makes me happy and says nothing. About once ever two months she'll have a whinge about it, fair enough, she does things that annoy me that I sometimes moan about. The post above (or on the previous page) about keeping the same nappy on during the working day peaked my interest. As I do love wearing them, when I'm working from home, I generally sit around in a nappy all day until about 6pm when I'll go for a shower and "get ready for bed" again. But the only thing I do keep hidden is that I actually change in the morning to a clean nappy so I can start again. I am 100% certain that it's known, but nothing is said and we're both happy. Tonight though, the mother in law is staying with us and I'm sat around in normal attire, itching to go to bed, hah! The other thing that caught my attention was the periodic cycle of complaining about it every so often - it is about once every 2 months. It'll be a "you shouldn't need those at your age" or "why do you have that on now when you don't need it", etc. I think it genuinely coincides with us squabbling about something else like a normal married couple. Oznl - very interested to find out more about your gym bin. Are they yours or someone else's? Have you worked it out yet?

I'm on my 3rd pack. I bought a sample pack, then a case of 4 packs - they are absolutely outstanding. I've not had a leak at night, but I guess we're all different in that dept., but they are soft, comfy and the hook and loop tabs are simply brilliant. And no, they won't hold 6000 ml of pee. If you've ever held 6 litres of water, you'll realise that is very heavy ... but it's just a good indicator of the 'thirst' capacity, which to me, when I go to bed not knowing how much I'll wee, is good enough.

As a 70s baby, I think there may have been a choice, but I have no idea. I have 1 or 2 pictures of me and the choice my parents made was definitely cloth and plastic pants ... HUGE pants!

Good grief, only pasta and losing all that water through sweating, they must be blocked up for days ?

My thoughts entirely, I can’t imagine there was much skill involved in that game!! Mind you, the match wasn’t exactly involving countries playing at the best level anyway, probably fairly low standard to begin with. But still amusing

Well, there's something new ... https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/46998968

Do you genuinely see that many in a hotel?? I'm intrigued!

I wear ABU Simple nappies as for me, they are one of the only ones up to the job and don't leak at night. There are others that work, like Tykables and the printed ABU ones, but I prefer the plain white.

It's a tough one, sometimes I still think "absolutely yes, I'd love to wear nappies all day as well", but then the reality kicks in when I'm stood up presenting at work, commuting, or anything where I think I'd be noticed. Wearing for need at night only at least means I can have my fill (pun intended) before I shower up and go to work. When I work from home I'll sit around in a nappy all day, my wife doesn't overly mind as she's mostly at work too. But generally whilst I still think 24/7 is sometimes really appealing, I like having the daytime choice not to wear. I mean, it's bad enough having to sort out night time wearing when at (for example) a family member's house!

Absolutely not. It's not important to my young family to know how I go to toilet (or not!) at night. As far as they are concerned, I'm helping them out of that stage of their lives themselves and we don't do that as adults. Of course when they grow up further, they will realise that not everyone is the same and that's a different discussion. But there is no need to know!

I’m in two minds. I love white nappies and ABU Simple are my choice of night wear as they rarely leak for me. Don’t think I’ve woken up more than a couple of times to a leak. I like the printed ones occasionally as even though I’m night incontinent and not an AB, a bit of fun is okay (oh and sometime when I order the simples are out of stock, and generally I’ve found that ABDL nappies are WAY better than ‘medical’ ones). Anyway only last night I tried a Rearz Inspire Select (I think it was called that). White, plastic, just two tapes instead of 4. When I looked in the mirror, the 2 tapes looked REALLY babyish, 80s style. So if that’s your thing, I recommend

I prefer the night time security of the best nappy available and for the last year have only been using ABU Simple. However, I purchased some ABU Simple Ultra ... tried one ... wow! They are thinner than the normal Simples and look almost see-through, on first impression you’d think they weren’t up to the job. Well they are. They are thirsty and absorb quickly. I woke from my sleep already wet and noticed the Ultra had swelled up massively, but felt there was more to give, so I kept it on whilst I worked from home, it took LOADS and a bit later had swollen so much that I was definitely struggling to walk ‘properly’. A fantastic night time nappy and amazing swelling capability, but not discreet for those wanting to keep it hidden!