BedWetMark

Hi there and welcome! Where are you in the UK? Hope you're finding the site interesting!

Well ... I have gone from almost 24/7 since the first Covid lockdown to now only wearing at night when I need. Such is the depressing state of affairs with the cost of living in the UK. I mean it's saving me about £100 a month, but it's annoying having to stop myself putting another nappy on and only wearing at night. Anyone else 'regressed' (not in the right sense) back from wearing more to less? It's just too expensive!

Fake shock "journalism" at its finest. Typical of the modern world in being closed minded in general.

It's really annoying me, I just don't understand the shortage? Unless there is news I haven't seen .....

There seems to be a distinct lack of plastic pants available in the UK right now, where is everyone getting their ones from? Nappies R Us seem to be permanently out of stock now. Arizona Healthcare seems to have closed down. Amazon only really sell the "Haian" ones which are always a bit crap. Any ideas? I'm completely stumped!!

Drylife is the brand from the same people that run Nappies R Us and Incontinence Shop; https://www.incontinenceshop.com/brands/drylife/drylife-slip https://www.nru.co.uk/brands/drylife Although like most things there, it's all out of stock!

I thought this was just a thing round here, they are frankly horrific in their attitude. Granted they must deal with some real twerps, but there is just not 'customer' care at all.

Sadly, chicken sashimi is most definitely a thing; https://www.livescience.com/60343-chicken-sashimi-salmonella-campylobacter.html A work colleague had some in Japan and I felt like I had food poisoning just from hearing it. On another note to not being able to stem the flow, in my humble opinion, I've found that emergency bowel breaks are hampered by something between your legs. When I've experienced the same without wearing a nappy I've felt I've been able to clench and wait. If that makes sense!?

It has been pretty horrific - I'm just south west of London in one of the many commuter towns into the city. Luckily my town is fairly green and not built up, but I have windows facing every side, so the sun hits 3 sides all day, there's only so much sitting in the dark I can take. Of course we don't have air con as standard, so today I went to the office instead. I have noticed that in this heat it's the back of my nappies that seem to suffer most. My normal WFH daytime is an ABU Simple Ultra - it's pretty solid, but I notice that even the stuffing at the back of these starts to come apart with the sweat ... grim. Odd that I find that more grim that sat there wetting myself, but hey ho. You're right, last couple of nights was not fun - I just couldn't get the bedrooms / top floor below 30c, no matter what I tried and I went to bed at half midnight.

Must admit I'm not impressed. For my personal tastes, I find the sizing weird - I normally wear medium and these are MASSIVE on me and a small is too small. I hate the writing on the wings. I know they are medical, but it just seems OTT and I don't particularly like the way they feel generally. I've worn everything from Rearz, ABU, Tykables, some Bambino, Forsite, Tena etc etc., but Northshore are the only make I won't buy again / have in stock. Just not for me at all. But it is a personal thing, like anything you wear.

Oh that is annoying! My son did that to me a couple of months ago and I said "you know I hate people being behind me, don't do that" and all was fine, nothing noticed. On another note and going back to working with shorts off in just a nappy ... as it's been pretty hot here in the UK, my study was about 37c today, still and horrific. I decided I'd turn the camera off and remove shorts and t-shirt. My wife came in to ask a question, looked me up and down, said "for f**ks sake" and left the room. So I think my normal pulling up of shorts is a good idea ... (Although later, having got over the shock she did bring me a drink and stayed to chat a while - so to be fair I should've warned her)

I think I'd go with the rucksack with a change in. But I would email ahead to whoever is running it and say "I want to come to your festival, but I'm incontinent and need to bring a change with me, is there an entrance or someone I can meet for a discreet search?" - that kind of thing. As for being with people, I have an uncanny ability to slip friends and reappear later. I'd just arrive early or slip them with a lame excuse, then phone/whatsapp/etc to say "I'm in, where are you????"

Funny you bring this up as right now in the south of England it's 30c (currently 2200 hours and still 27c outside). Whilst that might not seem hot to you, in the UK towns with higher density buildings and no air con to be seen anywhere, it is uncomfortable. I'm going to go to the office tomorrow for some aircon ... Anyway, sat in my study today, my t-shirt was a sweat patch mess and my shorts were annoying me. My wife doesn't work on Mondays and will occasionally bring me a drink. To forewarn her, I text down and said "I'm too hot, shorts and t-shirt off" (I was declining video calls, made up some BS about the camera). So I just felt that managing expectations on seeing the husband working in nothing but a nappy, was the best way to handle seeing your husband working in nothing but a nappy. Seemed to work fine. It's only going to get hotter here too. Nothing wrong with the climate though ....... ?

Interesting one. I think I'd be okay with that if it were day time and in my study, but would I feel self-conscious, yes I would. I think more to the point though, I wouldn't be able to do a video call as I think they would know what I was wearing, even if they couldn't see lower than chest height - does that make sense? And like you in the heat, I always kick off the duvet and just have nappy + plastic pants on. I find my the morning I've moved the quilt back on though and am hot again ... grrrr

My entire takeaway from this excellent post was that 10-12c was cold ... I love that temp and all my windows are open at night even down to 7/8c. Neither me or my wife can stand a warm bedroom. I know it's a bit weird, but so is my dress sense

I think I've gone from £140 per month to £200 per month thanks to the recent price rises. I need a cheaper habit, like class a drugs ... ?

You're welcome to join me on a walk over the hog's back any time!

I think you do this out of respect for someone - at least that's what I do. My home office has been relocated upstairs as I wanted a view, I sit there all week in a nappy, plastic pants and t-shirt. When my wife gets back I always pull my shorts up out of instinct and I think politeness. We recently went on a couples trip away just the two of us. We'd been out, I said I was getting ready for bed, so threw a snap crotch vest on and went to sit down, I got a "put some shorts on too", fair enough, so I did. Then I wanted to go down to the bar to get a last drink for us and was told to put a t-shirt on as well ... so if your other half is like mine, it's the reluctant acceptance, but just the need to make it more polite for them to look at. I do push the boundaries slightly further every so often, hence sitting down after an evening meal and drink in nappy, plastic pants and vest, but the "put the shorts on" comment was enough for me to know where the line was drawn. Fair enough. I'm happy, she's happy. On another note, one thing I have read of yours was sleeping with dummies / pacifiers. I was intrigued and bought one. I kept it hidden for a while in my top drawer next to the bed (my wife goes to sleep way before me). She was cleaning stuff and in the evening said "oh yes, I found a dummy, why? Is it yours?". I've no idea who else's it would be, so I said "yes, I like it". Left it at that. So now it's known about, I fell asleep with it and left it on the bedside table - next day it was tidied away, nicely. Honestly, I know this is a niche for most of the world, but I do feel lucky. Sorry @Little Sherri, taking over your thread, but I was on a roll!

I don't tell anyone, I just manage it on my own. You'll find a way to be discreet and just make sure if you drink heavily that you've got an extra layer of protection (i.e. plastic pants or even a towel)

Classic binge and purge cycle - we've all been through it, many times. My recommendation is to grin and bear it. If you feel like you can't be bothered, just lay a nappy out on the bed, lay down on it and do something else like read or play a game on your phone. Within a short while, you'll be taping up, even reluctantly and getting on with things again. In my experience, it's EXACTLY the same as running long distance when you hit that wall, you need to give yourself headspace and push on.

Agreed, I'm quite happy to stick to just number 1s as well - those 6 days were just too much, as well as the fact I was paranoid and kept smelling the same smells for ages in my skin. There is still something wonderful about being on video calls all day (I really am) and knowing you're in a nappy and freely weeing! I'm have a 3-a-day habit

Over Easter, my family went away with the in-laws and I took a couple of days off work to do some DIY. I actually had 6 days on my own, which was the longest time I've done that since about 2009. I made the decision to only wear nappies on my bottom half (t-shirt up top) as I was doing DIY and wasn't planning on people coming round or even leaving the house and also, no one can see in my house. I also made the decision to do _everything_ in my nappies, toilet was off limits. I've never done that before for that length of time, so wanted to see how it went. I must admit, after day 1 I was fed up with cleaning and thanking god I had control of my bowels, but I forced myself to stick with it. By day 6 I'd REALLY had enough, but it was fun for a while anyway.

Luckily they are a reputable company with the appropriate certification ;)

We have a fortnightly wheelie bin collection and mine gets pretty hefty. Only once have I noticed them struggle and nearly question it though. The guy went to move it, stalled as it was heavier than he expected, he looked under the lid, shrugged and hauled it to the bin lorry. I did wonder what was going to happen though. Once I missed putting the bin out. During the pandemic and the household waste centres were closed. I found a local company who would empty your wheelie bin for £20, so I called them, paid over the phone and felt happy it was going to be sorted. I expected said company to turn up with a bin lorry, but no, it was a van, not only was it a van, but the guy driving the van opened the wheelie bin and took out each bag one by one and placed into the van. Horrific. Clearly massive nappies on display, some prints too. But he just got on with it and drove away ... ugh.

The best success I had over the years of dating was just being honest about not only needing nappies, but LIKING nappies, fairly early on - obviously as you can't slip into bed and then spring it. The only time I've ever been thrown in my life, was when I started dated someone and we had one of those early relationship very late (very long) phone calls. This was someone I hadn't yet shared a bed with but we got onto the subject of fetishes, likes and dislikes. She went first and said "the only thing I don't like is adult baby boys", which threw me a bit, it was random and no one has ever said it that way. We talked a few mins longer and she said the same again. The relationship didn't really go far, I was thrown, but even now 15 years or so later, I often look back and wonder why that came up - "what about adult baby girls?" is one thing that comes to mind, was she trying to tell me something without telling me? Let's face it, it really is not an easy fetish to bring up, hence this thread. And yes, it still prays on my mind all this time later. So, just be honest.