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My first cell phone was a BAG phone it was about 10 pounds, from Radio Shack we had to pay $125 for it then we paid about $100 a month for 20 mins and 95 cents a min after and I was just glad to have a cell phone because my boss wouldn't pay for one and I did a lot of traveling for work .. the phone looked and was as much as my ( shower strap) oxygen portable, I use now. Don't they still have these? If so it's much safer than a credit card, when you get robbed on vacation .

Love it, I may have to try one....

I am now married 29 years in a few months . I thought I could just not do my fetishes , I am not really AB, I am DL with a hint of AB. Anyhow . We were married about 10 yrs and it wasn't till she got cancer ,, I needed my fetish. I had horrible , horrible timing telling my wife. But I just had decided I was cheating on her by having my private diaper plastic , pee play etc. And I tried to tell her. We are still adjusting soo many yrs later. Now after she got through her cancer and mostly good. then my cancer showed it mean ugly years. We thought first hers and it was bad, then mine and it was bad. A few yrs passed after all of that, . And we neither one had any hope of having sex. And we She had issues and then before the cancer's we were into that phase in a marriage the got used to each other and sex was getting boring . We still haven't had any sexual relations . I have just done me and she has done what she needs. Well I rambled , what I am trying to say we have our moments of wishing we were normal . And now afterwards many yrs I need diapers because of being old, so I don't flaunt any diapers stuff I cover my stuff up and I am thankful that she is forgiving of me lying for soo many years, we Love each other , but even now sometimes it is not enough . And we have both in bad moments have said if we could afford it we would separate . But there's a sometimes big part that we are like roommates . But with Health problems . You may just start to accept more of each other . I would set down the ground Rules for him, think about it and figure out the amount of what you can be ok with. Now with you having a kid, maybe in diapers . You will have to say he never shows his Diaper or AB stuff around the kids. I would have concerns that the schools and Police will get involved if your kids when they get older slip and say something , he can end up in jail or accusations that he is a bad influence or he did something . Say he changed his Diaper and a door open just a crack. the baby now will be a Toddler and just may see and say to a neighbor kid?? See my son from my first wife that passed away was a teenager then, and now an adult . He never seen anything of my diaper stuff to this day. I say with kids he needs to be really careful .. If you want to talk ask me anything . If it's much more personal then MM me. I will let my wife know about you if you decide to MM. I do talk to her about a few long time friends on here. Its like I will comment on a guy and she will say how's he doing etc. I hope you can work it out. Any marriage that can be saved should be. But each have to give 100%. And it sounds like you have given 200%

I save my ATN for when I can enjoy the plastic back of it and not just a plastic pant. Well I have a couple packs that are maybe a year old, but kept in a cool dry closet . I had a tape separate from the blue tab, but not a big deal, unless I wanted to re fasten it. But I was able to pull out the inside stuffing that I use for nite,,,,, and play in the left over ATN by itself , for my morning ....

I was one of the TV remotes it depended on what kid was the one that didn't want to get punished . Back in those days we got it when dad took off the belt we knew it, and the pain started in our head beforehand . And also the schools Principal had a wooden paddle and he spanked us for what ever he decided we needed it for. I for one was a daydreamer , and when I floated off while I was supposed to be paying attention to the teacher and I couldn't tell her what she said?? I had to go to the principal and got another ass busting ...

If you start wearing a diaper to bed, you may end up liking it. There are a lot of people on here that started off wearing out of need and ended up Loving it and were hooked. Because from your post you really have a bedwetting issue. I say give it a try.

Yes I would think the state or ins will not give a crap if you pee the bed. If you can't control your pee and bowels out of the home you may have a slim chance to get some help.. But depending on the state you are in. Some state will pay for the cheap stuff,.. But I also agree with FretaBWet check in in new and let us know a little bit about you..

Well I am unfortunately old so I am on Medicare . if I had been disabled and not able to work for 40 plus yrs I may have had the better state medical . I was not disabled till I worked my back and neck to a horrible painful state, for rest of my life. So morphine is one of my normals . I worked to do what my bosses wanted and I pushed my back way too far. So I get to buy my stuff from the second hand stores . I get the money up once in a while to buy new stuff ??? But when the stuff on the DD site is for sale or free, the people here aren't able to ship it, due to there being more disabled than I am. And diapers are in big boxes and costly to ship. But thats life.. Ins etc is a depressing part of life.

I am still trying to master this, I don't chew gum because my teeth are gone due to cancer.But it is a hard thing to pee and walk. I will start to pee then walk and it will work, but stops or slows to a dribble , and I will stand still for a couple seconds then get started . I am hopeful this will keep getting easier . I has already over time. A few years ago I couldn't at all. I may contribute it to my relaxing more,? not sure.

I was told by my Dr that here at least in Ca Medicare will Not cover them. At least for urine . Maybe if you were fecal. Medicare is fairly good, with our secondary . In other states you may get diapers covered. But like Cruiser 03 says they will be cheap ones.

I have 2 places. a 5 gal bucket with water in it and a very small about 1/2 cup bleach. for my cloth. I have very cheap small trash bags I put my daily disposable diapers in , ai tie it up and toss it in the outside trash can.

I made a comment on this thread a few days ago But some of the comments I read gave me more Ideas , so I thank you. This is why we do all of this. Us old farts can learn old new tricks. See. I got soo used to my second hand stuff, that I was cutting off the trim and trusting one XL diaper to hold up all of my several layers . Well since I do have a large assortment of LG and MED, I am able to tape them up one at a time, and I have soo much less problem keeping it all up when I am soaked and 5 pounds heavy a diaper in the morning .

I like the Hypnosis files from these guys and others also, they have been helping me with the strong mental blocks I have from growing up where peeing beds pants etc are taboo , files from sarnoga, champtheotter, there are a lot of good files on warpmymind.com and others for help in many other issues . Sarnoga uses his own voice and he has a nice one. and champtheotter also has a good voice, both nice. If you want other things FEM etc they have a lot.

I have the 40 yr old tens and a few yrs ago I got one of the big tens type unit they used to use at the chiropractors,,, from eBay. I got it cheap about $40. I had to do repairs on it , it wasn't working when I bought it. But anyhow this unit is soo much more powerful that the little ones they sell, the small ones have to be safe enough for the public to use. Anyhow ,I made a 2 ft mat ( from a static Mat) so to speak with the real duct tape metal tape and I took an old metal butt vibrator that died a long time ago. I attached the big tens wires to the back pad and then to the metal butt insert, Now I haven't used it more than a few times, but I think it will work since laying on the back pad covers the whole back. This is reusable without paying for the stick pads over and over. Just be careful because the big 30 yr old unit is made to be used by a Dr so they don't have the limits built in like the pocket sized ones. I did do some experiments with putting a pad on the front above the crotch where you push on the bladder to make you pee. But I think it's better back and butt. I only have about the price of the nice butt probe in my setup . But I do think the list of parts that DAQ listed is a really good idea . If you don't want to take a chance on getting a non working large unit that needs repair, I had to replace a relay and do some soldering in mine.

I commented already , on this thread. But to add, my biggest thing back then and some part even now it pee and plastic and just laying in pe soaked in pee and sloshing around on a plastic mattress soaked in pee and just hump and enjoying it till I run out of time or I complete ........But I was sorry I didn't pee the bed at age 10 because I would have been able to sleep in the big king size bed my brother and step brother shared. That mattress was soooo good smelling and soaked all of the time I would get un dressed and play in the wet blankets and I was in Heaven .

I have a crib mattress I use at nite for my enema, what I do for a distraction is I pee a little on it and hump it. I won't go into details on this thread. I would talk more on a MM if you want. But I hav the mattress covers with a good plastic backing and I put it on with the plastic side up, its so nice, I use lube Also. But, I have a invocare hospital mattress also I will use for pee play, face down of course ....

I wear 3-4 diapers inside of an XL cheapest I can get. I trim off al of the tab paper on the front and back of each of the inside ones, I then just lay them down, I take one at a time and use sharp good pair of sizers and cut 2" slats down the bottom middle of each , just leave a 1" of diaper backing between each cut. And one by one stack them up, and I do add a very thin cotton cloth, (I use a 24" square thin baby blanket ) and make this be the top layer of the diaper. And it will be heavy , so when you get it taped up and on, I use girlly tights and thin almost see though mens underwear with a good elastic top, its to help hold it all up after a 12 hr night of peeing and peeing, it will weigh 5 pounds or more in the morning . I keep doing experiments and welcome any ideas to help hold it all up when I get up and try walking around in the morning , I Love it its a natural leg spreading diaper, and GOOD and Smelly when you take it off if you love the old diaper smells you will love it after 10-12 hrs.

I do appreciate it you trying to help a new person . I for one didn't know it was wrong to read and post in an older thread. I have learned a lot form the old ones. I do look to see if the people on that thread are still posting? or if they haven't posted in 10 yrs, then I may not make a comment . But if I read an old posting and I go and make a new thread of the same thing is this the way we do it? I can see if we want to start a new one up and get new people making comments on the new one. I also am only asking questions about what we should be doing to keep the site running 🏃 🏃‍♀️ smooth. Sorry if I am taking the thread the wrong direction , just wanted to know. Thanks

I think someone that owns the site is against or they were offended by an ABDL BUT that should be that ASS person problem not ours. But I say there Loss.

There's a lot of lawyers that take a case just like this and if you win they will get a part of it. Please don't give up , I would think 🤔 you may be able to get a lot less money up to just do the move to your parents house, then you might be at least in a safe house to go forward with the lawsuits , you maybe able to find a conversant place for a temporary housing also . Call a welfare to see if they can get you some emergency money, Red Cross may help also.

Is it only ABDL's or are they purging others off the site, I have followed a few people on that site, it sucks either way.

Hey if they want help I'm here?? LOL

Deffently not Approved by OSHA, Now I can see one of the OSHA inspectors wearing that LOL

I have a hard time peeing in any restroom even at home. It has has gotten worse with age in the past 5 years . I just have learned to make sure I have one of my nite rated pull-up on most every day, and carrying extra diapers. I am going the way I want as to peeing in my diaper when my inside is ready, and I don't have any notice of it, I just have to try to regulate the flow,,,,,, so I don't have a flood.. So I do say I have had shy bladder all of my life , as even yrs ago I would do my best to wait till I got home to pee. But back then I could hold my pee....