Snugglebear_69

I don't do anything different as I prefer the feeling of a dry diaper. A wet diaper is not comfortable or enjoyable to me so I'm not about to do anything that makes that more likely or more frequent.

Personally I absolutely wouldn't be going. Whether children are present or not it is still a child oriented play space. There is enough confusion around ABDL that adding to that confusion isn't anything I want to do.

Hmmm, what does your partner suggest? 🤔

My Daddy and I just have a relationship like any other, it just so happens to also have little play, bath time, diaper changes and more. There isn't really any secret as every healthy relationship has give and take already built in. I guess maybe I'm not really understanding the question as every relationship should already have give and take.

Clean only. No interest in seeing other people's human waste.

Definitely out there. My partners don't fetishize me. They just love me for all the different parts of who I am.

There are definitely partners out there who aren't just tolerant or even accepting but who are actually excited about it, my Wife and Daddy are two such folks 💗💗

I'm going to over a different perspective and one that some people may not really like. What you described above to me is a big issue. Whether or not your partner has actively gone out an played with other people or not what he has done and is doing is emotional cheating. He is seeking to fulfill an emotional need behind your back and doing so by hiding things and lying. Diaper boys is quite literally primarily a hook up site and so the fact he is actively on it, with his profile set and written to meet people I think is very telling. Actions do speak louder than words. I understand when people say it's tough to be open or come out about thus but he didn't seem to have any issue doing it with other people. He also isn't just posting messages, he is posting images AND videos. Honestly, it sounds very much like he either has given in to his urges and played with others or he will do so in the future. Only you can decide what you are comfortable with but I know for me this kind if deception and breach of trust would be a massive issue.

Simple, my Daddy changes me. The rest is private between us.

Anything feces related is a HUGE turn off for me. Also crotch shots, they are nit imaginative in the least and being totally honest my Daddy and I don't have any interest in seeing a stranger in a diaper, just not our thing.

That's an easy one, whatever colour my Daddy decides to put me in before He snuggles me up in His arms 💗💗 Honestly, colour is a pretty secondary or tertiary consideration for me as it's about who is putting me in diapers versus a colour.

My Daddy and I don't do that one but we love the 2 we attend every year. Sadly this year we have to forgo one because of our new puppy but she makes it ok not going.

Prefer what . . . . ?

For me a diaper is just a thing. Now, add my Daddy playing with me in a diaper or during a diaper change and yep, huge turn on.

I'll be honest, I don't know how much I'd wear diapers without my Daddy to change me. Yes, before we got together I'd diaper myself but it always felt more like a task than anything else. I liked being in them, yes, but the act of diapering was too much like work. Once I met my Daddy and He started changing me getting diapered became a fun, intimate, relaxing, exotic, safe activity. Having a partner change me made it an entirely different experience. If I were for some reason to go back to changing myself I doubt I'd ask, no. It would go from an emotionally intimate and fulfilling activity to a task not really any different than putting on underwear of any other kind. I don't ask my partners about putting on underwear so wouldn't do it for a diaper either.

My Daddy diapers me every night before bed when He is over. That will be changing to every night as He moves in this month. During the day it more depends on how I'm feeling and my Daddy is feeling. He is more likely to diaper me if we're staying at home or traveling to another city for something. It can all depend but I definitely don't want to be 24/7 although that would be my Daddy's prefence.

Ot works for us. Perfect is in the eye of the beholder 😉 we just discussed and found what work for our household.

I don't get embarrassed at all no. Now to be fair, I don't diaper myself, my Daddy does it or my Wife does it. Diapers are just a completely normal thing in our household.

Not something I would spend money on personally.

My Daddy decides, pretty simple.

If a fetish is having that kind of impact it sounds like it's gone past fun to being a clinical issue that is now interfering with your lives and may need some professional supports.

Posting your phone number online in a forum like this is not wise, presents risk.

I prefer to have artists draw my characters, drawing isn't my forte.

When im cuddled tightly in my Daddy's lap. His arms encircling my body and holding me tight. His scent filling my nose. A stuffie held in my arms as He rocks me gently. Absolutely nothing compares to having a loving partner wrap you up in unconditional love ❤️ 😍 💖

One partner should not have to bend over backwards or indulge the other just to get their physical needs met. The post above feels like "you need to please him so he'll please you" and that is, in my opinion at least, a horrible way to approach a relationship. The last paragraph makes me cringe so hard . . . It just comes across more as a business transaction or almost emotional blackmail. Like if she won't do what he wants (indulge him) then he gets to just turn her away . . . To the OP, consider an adult to adult relationship meta talk. It sounds like there's far more going on here than simply sexual indulgence.