My husband and I both wear while in the bed room and we both have fun while doing this. However we have been wanting to concieve a baby. And well not everything can stay in the diaper. We have the problem of only being able to climax while wearing and that poses a barrier problem. We have tried to climax with out a diaper an it doesn't work. So I was wondering if this is a common issue? If there is a solution? Any advice would be welcome please.