lilstevie

How long do you usually wear your butt plug? She puts it in so as long as she likes , sometimes over night but generally 3 or 4 hours. How much do you like it in your bottom? I enjoy it. Riding in a car on a bumpy road is a whole new experience. Being spanked with it in is another fun experience. What size do you like the most? It depends on the situation. For going out , something medium sized. Large enough to know its there but not so large to where it becomes uncomfortable. I`ve been trained to take large which is a really cool experience . We have found glass plugs works best because your butt hole doesn't dry out as fast . It doesn't absorb the lube. They are reasonably priced . They clean up with soap and water.

Self discipline and prioritizing . You have the power to control it and it not control you .

We don't do punishment spankings only fun spanks because we both love them so much. Not near as much when I was younger but weekly yes .

Yes . It `s just another one of those life lessons. Careful who you trust. I suppose for myself it actually worked out for the good . I`m out with all my close friends. Those that are truly friends have stayed close , those that aren't have left , which is ok.

I am a 34 waist and the reazs rebels fit perfect ! The small sized mega max are a better fit . the mediums were too big for a good fit .

If I`m playing with someone new or someone that isn't in my tribe yes of course safe words , green , yellow , red. For the regular people with in our close knit circle , the safe word is there but I rarely if ever use it. They know me well enough to read me and know when to back off or ramp things up. With Mommy , its consensual non consent because we have so much trust , this is how we like to play , we are both edge players. I don't use safe words with Her.

Sell the house in the suburbs . Buy a small tract of land with a creek or stream running thru it. Build a large treehouse . Retire happily to said treehouse.

We have a few simple rules. Bedtime at 10. Always hold her hand out in public spaces. Ask permission before leaving her in public spaces. Never say No to her. Of course simple basic respectful rules . hold the door for her and etc etc . As far as punishment. The mindset is play is fun so spankings are not punishment. Punishment is more like writing lines or doing something you don't like that will teach you to not do said act again. Punishments ,, btw don't have to be a part of your dynamic.

Tykables' Little Rawrs are really thick as well as ABU Peekabu

Fantasy verses reality. The reality is if you step out of your comfort zone into the bdsm kink community chances are good you will find someone that will indulge you . Call it symbiotic because some really really enjoy the Top side of play and would derive much pleasure from putting you in a strait jacket. Bondage is a big thing many people enjoy.You are in a really awesome part of the country. There are some fantastic bdsm groups in Maryland. ABDL is becoming much more excepted in the bdsm community's. Advice is cheap but that is my best advice .

I wear one at times . My cg enjoys feeding me . Something that evolved with us she really likes. I have purchased some from changing times. Made by Gary Mfg I would think. https://www.changingtimesdiaperco.com/collections/incontrol-adult-vinyl-bibs

I purchased a size 16 . I weigh about 165 and 5 ft 11 . It fits me perfect !!!

I like them a lot. They are pricey but I suppose they are up there with the other new over 6000ml diapers. The outer shell is made better than the overnights . A really tough crinkly plastic . No problems at all with the wings tearing off. It seems like they are thicker in the crotch but I haven't measured . They definitely got the waddle factor. MM likes them for the cuteness factor and the non fussy hook and loop tapes. If it isn't going to bust your budget they are worth a try.

One of the first things we did together was feeding. She just sorta naturally fell into that . It just happened and wasn't planned out. It`s still something she loves to do with me. It`s a very nurturing and maternal thing for her and for myself. Since we first started doing this bibs have become a thing at meal time and now a new high chair. I`m not so much into baby toys but stuffies on the other hand are super awesome. A trip to build a bear is a really fun and exciting activity . Trips to the zoo or park are a great experience . Usually the simple unplanned activities are the best ! She dressing me and then cuddling on the bean bag chair with a kids movie on or just sitting on the play mat and coloring . I fall so easily into my little with her any quality time together is the best ! I suppose if I were to give any advice it would be to let activities follow a natural course and don't over think it. Try one thing and if both of you like it then keep doing it and build on that.

I like the little keeper sleeper too . They make a " shorty " for summer as well as footies . The really cool feature is they are made escape proof . https://littlekeepersleeper.com/

I have a colorful vinyl play mat I put down in my living room when we have other littles over and also for myself. Also have a chair that converts to a high chair . Totes full of coloring books , crayons , markers , and colored pencils so there is a assortment. We have one of those celestial lights for the ceiling that is cool and sets the mood too.

What do you do you prefer to spank or be spanked with? If she is spanking me her hand is the best followed by anything leather . Lately we`ve been buying vintage leather tawse from Scotland. I LOVE these ! When I top I prefer rattan canes and heavy leather straps and single tails. ( I never Top her btw) Canes are my thing , giving and receiving. What do you not prefer? Sail battens leave nasty marks and sting like all hell. I`m not overly thrilled by synthetic materials for spanking. I prefer leather , hard dense woods , organically made. Gentle and sexy, or hard and a punishment? We are both sado masochist. We both like hard . heavy , intense scenes . Marks or no? Yes ! Favorite position as spanker or spankee? Least position as spanker or spankee? OTK or over a spanking bench. I cant think of a least fav position. Outfits, scenarios, roleplay? Not really , maybe school boy related but it is rare, we usually don't roleplay .

I joined 2005 . Time fly's by really fast ! I remember before DD had a full blown website , pictures were posted and there wasn't any discussion threads.

If its just a quickie change 5 mins maybe , nap time changes are longer and I get cuddle time and she likes to read to me. Same for night time changes which are longer because she loves to give me baths , pick out some cute jams , read me a story and tuck me in.

Ours is just a straight back wooden bar chair that doesn't swivel. My feet can`t touch the floor when I sit in it. She found this vest that you wear that has a padded crotch thingy that has ties from the back . When it`s tied and cinched you can`t move. It holds you firmly in the chair. I believe its made by heelbo . She found at good will for really cheap. The bar chair came from face book market place for $20 . Its solid wood and pretty sturdy.

I make a lot of my spanky toys. Being little this is a creative outlet. I decopatch cool stuff on paddles and canes , paint them cool n fun and loud colors , I also do rattan canes and make them littles themed. I just did a hello kitty cane for a friend .There is glitter paint and some that light up under black lights. I cover it with spar varnish and it seals it all up and they last forever !

They sure can . After a while even the thighs can get desensitized . " Mommy`s Paddle For boys who tease And girls who tattle, There's nothing more handy Than Mommy`s paddle.

Wow , so many cool diapers to choose from these days , I`d say any of the 5000ml diapers would be nice and thick feeling . Some won`t get thick till the first couple wettings.

MM ,," once the diaper is on it stays". But she will warm the hinney cheeks up before hand . She likes using a cane on the exposed tender thighs just below the diaper front and back.

I started a couple years ago trying different ones and styles ,, all the cheapo $20 knockoffs . The first was a cb -6000 plastic . I quess I was lucky with the fit although it would pinch at times. One of my friends suggested trying metal. The ones with a solid round ring that doesn't pinch like the plastic ones do. I lucked up again and have found a good fit. It will not come off and is also comfortable to wear . Id say the first thing to do is find the right size that fits around your base .For a few dollars you can go to Lowes or a hardware type store and try different sized metal o rings. The cage part is a personal trial and what works best for you. As for the urethral catheter , I never have found one that fits me. I`m also a little reluctant to wear something like this although the thought of it is intriguing and MM really likes the idea of that tube being stuck up her boys peenie hole . The reality of wearing it to work and on a daily basis doesn't seem very realistic for myself. For others possibly yes.