Jilly Poo

So cute. Makes me wish I lived in the Midwest (I am SouthEast) Mind if I ask why you are selling? By the comments, it sounds like you got New Furniture. Also, what size mattress does the crib take? Others who can by it might want/need to know. Good Luck and again, I wish I could buy them.

Welcome PunishedHusband. Glad you found us and the time/courage to tell us about yourself. This is a great site to find like minded individuals, advice and hopefully friends.

I wonder because I do not have a partner that accepts my diaper wearing and is concerned about me becoming diaper dependent at some point for wearing diapers 24/7 and what that entails for our life together. I love my husband very, very much and would never leave him over my diaper desires but at the same time, I have tried to quit wearing diapers a thousand times and I just keep coming back to them. So my diapers are my (pardon the pun) Dirty Little Secret that I usually only partake of a few hours a month if I am lucky but for the last few days, I have been experimenting with wearing 24-48 hours straight and I must say, I have enjoyed it tremendously but I know with my home-life, it will not last very long.

I agree but for myself (and maybe for a few others) the little side helps heal the part of you that was lost or broken after the end of adolescence. Many adults, if you ask them if they would like to re-do their High School Days (Glory Days) would jump at the chance to go back and do it over, maybe make a few changes but for some of us, our glory days were also our diapered days. I see being an AB as a little bit of that nostalgia feeling but since most of us don't have strong memories of being infants or toddlers outside of the smell of pampers and the sounds/touch of a special toy, we make up for it by being one as adults. It returns us to a time of innocence and frees us from the burdens of responsibilities that Adulthood has saddled upon us. So how you tell your partner, family or loved ones is all leads to making yourself very vulnerable. Make sure you can trust them, don't dump it all on them at once, give them time to process and accept that they may not ever want to play along.

How long have you been 24/7 and was it by choice? I am glad that you have become comfortable with it. I've often wondered myself if I could go 24/7 but having a partner who understands and assists you must make it a lot easier.

I am working on this as well but also limited success. I have been listening to hypnosis tracks on YouTube on loop with earbuds. I can't say whether it has been working because I still wake up and wet but don't remember if I was already wet but it has become easier to wet and fall back to sleep. I am not looking to become incont. either but if I could wet the bed a few times, then maybe my husband will insist I be diapered at night. For now, I am sneaking into bed diapered after he has fallen asleep. Good Luck to all.

Besides the mess it made, how did the formula taste? I have tried one a long time ago as an adult and didn't much care for it so I was wondering how you liked it and what brand you had. It's nice that you and your wife have found a way to have some fun while cooped up at home. Wish I could say the same but I still have a kiddo in the house and a Husband who doesn't play diaper games.

Sorry Stroller, I forgot to add an option for retired but glad you are doing okay. ValentineStuff, Sorry you were laid off only to be replaced by management. I hope you were able to collect unemployment during that time. I was laid off too and the unemployment actually paid way better than my regular job but It stopped in late June/early July. Still waiting to be called back to work but now I am not sure I even want to go back, not because of Covid, just because I like being home and I might try to find something that pays better.

Just a bit curious to know how everyone has been holding up during the pandemic.

I was about 6 or 7 years old and had wet the bed.....again. Mom and Dad were getting so tired of me waking them up in the middle of the night to help me get changed and to remake my bed that my father took one of my baby brother's diapers and but it on me and then wrapped duct tape around it so I couldn't take it off. He then made me wear it in front of my 2 older brothers before I was allowed to go back to bed. When I started having day time accidents as well, my mother took me to the doctor and they discovered I had a bladder infection that was causing my accidents. I started having such frequent infections that I ended up in the hospital with potential kidney infections. I was never punished again for wetting the bed but was told I would grow out of it (which I eventually did) but that 1 time left me longing to be back in them ever since.

I feel the same way when i come on here but also I love to shout it when I am either home alone or alone in my car (neither of them happen very often.) Sometimes I wish there was a support group like AA but for Diaper-wearers, call it Diapered Anonymous so we could meet friends in person and not feel judged.

In my early days of wearing, I would wear a diaper and wet it on my way to work. Since I was the first one to arrive at the office every morning, I would duck into the bathroom right away and change out of it so I wouldn't get caught. One day my car ran out of gas on the way to work and I ended up getting a ride from a cop to a nearby gas station to get gas. I was so nervous that someone would notice my diaper that I ducked into the ladies room at the gas station and took it off before going back to my car. I was late getting to work that morning and by the time I got there, the office was full of co-workers who would have noticed too. It has been many years since I worked in that office and now I teach swim lessons so wearing at work isn't possible but I have gone to work in one, changed into my bathing suit and then put on a fresh diaper afterwards.

MindyLou, With the new invention of PooPouri potty spray I have found that spritzing a little of that into the trash can each time I deposit a used diaper seems to help with the odor until I fill the bag and take out the trash. Perhaps spraying it on the inside of the used diaper before tossing it might help too. Hope this helps.

Unless your goal is to walk about the house in front of your kids in nothing but a diaper, I don't know that you really HAVE to tell them anything about your diapers or need for them. I certainly don't talk to my kids about a need for tampons or maxi pads or my desire to be diapered because It's NONE of their business. If there comes a time that you get discovered or NEED to share, then do so then but don't worry about it until you have to, Kind of like the sex talk you'll eventually have to have. Don't make a big deal of it, answer only the questions they ask and be open to talk if they come back with more questions later.

since I mostly wear ONLY during the day, I like to wear my diapers during the day when I can. Sometimes I will wear a "pull-up" and a pad when I go out shopping but I have also sported a nice thick diaper to the store as well. Always afraid I'll show up on one of those "People of Walmart" videos. LOL When I get to wear to bed at night, I usually wear a nice thick diaper and put a pad in that and add a pair of plastic pants in case my diaper leaks but I usually end up having a hard time sleeping because I am not use to wearing them to bed.

I can Usually wear more often in the Fall or Winter than I can in the Summer because of who is home during the day. When the kids are at work/school, I get to wear more often but when Summer Break comes around, I have a harder time hiding them. Since my Daughter and her fiance moved in with us, it has been a LOT harder because they never have the same schedule.

Hi Mindylou, Would love to be friends with another female diaper girl. I live in North East, NC. How about you?

What a lucky little girl you are. My hubby isn't a fan of me wearing diapers so I don't get to wear them to bed very often. Ha Ha. the joke is on him though because I signed him up for a boy scout camping trip with our son so I can wear diapers all weekend and even to bed at night.

I hate wearing a diaper when I have my period too. Just like you, I don't like wearing because Babies don't get periods.

Telling someone you love something you have kept secret is never easy and once the cat is out of the bag, the tendency is to share all of it at once just to relieve that burden you've been living with but be careful. Sharing too much at once can be devastating. Go Slow. As Clr224 suggested, maybe find some way of bringing up the topic without incriminating yourself first. Celebrities in diapers photos might be a good way to start a conversation. Once you do tell her your secret, expect her to have a lot of questions and don't overwhelm her with information. Answer only what she asks after you drop your bombshell and give her a few days/weeks before you show up with diapers and expect her to play along. Let her set the pace. Don't believe that she is ever going to want to wear one too but when you are wearing one while she is with you, tell her how much YOU enjoy them and never force her to try it. And if she wants to try it, don't expect it to happen over and over again. She may be open-minded to try new things but its not for everyone. You said you two have been together for 4 years and that is amazing. Congratulations. As stated above, making sure that this is a long lasting relationship before sharing is important and knowing you can trust one another with your deepest darkest secrets is extremely important especially among your social groups. It might be a good idea to share equally your deepest desires to help keep the "playing field" even. For me, when I told my husband, I simply woke up one morning and felt I had to tell him about my diaper desires. While laying in bed, the song Maggie May by Rod Stewart came on the radio. The words "Maggie I think I've got something to say to you..." rang out and got stuck in my ears. They were rattling around in there and gave me the courage to say to my husband "I think I've got something to say to you too...." and from there I told him about my desire to wear and wet diapers. At first he didn't believe me and I had to give him proof, I pulled a diaper from my stash to show him. I told him that it was something I had been doing for a very long time and that I had been afraid to share with him. I let him ask me anything he wanted and gave him honest answers. I made the mistake of expecting him to play along too soon and it lead to him not wanting to be part of it after a while. We are still married and I still wear diapers but MOSTLY when I am home alone. Go Slowly and Good Luck

I've probably answered here before but I wanted to update a little. I LOVE to be bald below but getting that way can be a pain. Using depilatory creams like Nair or Veet have often left me with unpleasant burns in an area you don't want burns at all. Well the other day I bought some Nair for Faces. I figured if its safe enough for my face, it might be safe for my "Other Lip Line." The directions said to leave it for 5 minutes but no longer than 10 minutes. I split the difference and left it on for 7 minutes and it worked wonderfully. It took off the hair and didn't burn me down below. I will continue to use this method now because it gave me pretty darn good results without the discomfort of the original strength Nair.

I mostly use the words Pee, Poop, bottom, butt or Hiney. Personally I hate when anyone uses the word "Crap" for feces and my son says it all the time. "I have to Crap" or "I have to take a Crap" and the same goes for the word "Piss." I don't know why but I really don't like it. Mostly I think they sound very crude and I tried teaching my kids to say "I have to use the restroom/bathroom" because once they no longer need me to wipe their butt, bottom or hiney, I don't care what they are doing in there.

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Let me start out saying I am a mother to 4 children and in my early 50's. I do occasionally experience stress incontinence and it is getting a bit more frequent. I also suffer from heavy periods and use the largest tampons I can find and still have blood leak through them. I have seen ads selling products similar to tampons that are supposed to help PREVENT stress incon by pressing on the urethra pinching it closed but my question is about AFTER using a tampon or one of these urinary control devices. It seems that after using these Ultra sized tampons for an entire week I have been having more urinary leaks (aka mini accidents) that last between 4-5 days. Sometimes they are not enough to even dampen my undies but other times I know that without protection or a drop everything quick trip to the restroom, I will soak completely through. I am not opposed to wearing protection but sometimes I am not even aware that I need it until I am,out for the day or its too late. I have tried researching this on-line to find answers but all I can find is articles saying to USE tampons to prevent leaks but I want to know: 1. Can using tampons CAUSE mild temporary incontinence or make it harder to control leaks after using them? 2. Have any other women experienced the same or similar?