Marshmallow

Mark, i had exactly the same problem with baby/todler pacifiers. my teeth hurt after sucking on a baby paci. i ordered an NUK5 and my teeth have never hurt since. ive been sucking my paci for years and years and years now and ive goto the dentists every 12months, my dentist has never once talked about movement or damage to my teeth - not that she knows i suck a paci, but dentists would notice some kind of damage/distortion with teeth (you'd expect) and ask you what you doing/eating to cause this, if you have pain/infections etc... they would want to know - or i'd hope they would anyway! so since ive changed to my NUK5 ive never been happier if you havent already mark, order an NUK5! you'll love it

I used to sleep without my pacifier and i'd get a good nights sleep, 95% of the time undisturbed so i'd sleep right through, wake up feeling refreshed and awake the next morning, i had a really good routine (if you could call it a routine) , that was before i had my pacifier. ive had DL tendancies since i can remember from being young, but its only since ive grown older that ive been able to act on them - such as buy nappies/diapers (im from UK!) and to be honest ive never been happier! i started getting the feeling that i wanted a pacifier one day, and a short time later i ordered one of the internet. i was quite happy with my paci during the day, but at night when i was using my paci i'd get a restless nights sleep, waking up repetitively, getting a bad nights sleep on the whole. i'd always lose my paci out of my mouch by the time i woke up - maybe i'd lose my paci and then because i'd lost it, subconsciously my body decided it was time to wake up to find my paci? i duno, seems feasible since this happens to most babies who use pacifiers at night. (when id lose my paci i would find it in the bed somewhere and put in back in then fall strasight back to sleep) after about a week of this i started getting full nights of sleep like i always used to get. id hardly ever lose my paci and i'd wake up in the morning with it still in. after that, ive rarely slept without my pacifier, but the nights that ive not used my paci have been restless and waking up every couple of hour or so. so now i use my paci every night and i get much better sleep, and i feel much better in the morning for sleeping with my paci. i feel theres a small difference between my sleep before and after my paci, but the transition time between using and stopping using my paci definitely affects my sleep. i feel i get a better nights sleep with my paci, but if i lose it during the night i do usually wake up - although i hardly ever lose my paci anymore. i duno if its becasue i actually LIKE using a pacifier or its just been a long time since ive slept for a long timefame without my paci that i feel i get better sleep. im not sure but theres one thing i know. there's few feelings as good as sucking on my paci and gently falling asleep.

After messing my diapers, i clean-up in the shower, give everything a good wash and scrub and get out to dry myself down. its at this stage when im drying myself that i realise my bum cheeks still smell a little bit even though its clean. as far as i know its not noticable by anybody else and not noticable im in wearing clothes but when i touch my bum with a towel or my hands, they then smell ! ummm what im trying to say is... my bum cheeks seem to "absorb" some of the smell and i cant get rid of it! - again its only noticeable by me but i wouldnt want to run the risk of anybody else catching a whiff! does this happen to anybody else and what, if anything can i do about it? thanx!

it took me 2 years to tell my gf, although i wish i had done it sooner! (becuase shes fine with it and loves me even more than before i told her) i wouldnt tell her gf on the first date (but some people decide this is the best way) i would tell them BEFORE we got too serious, for example, moving in together, people develop their own relations at different speeds, for example, some couples meet and are living together after 2-3 months, me and my gf have only just started talking about living together after 2 years! so depending on your relationship i think the time could vary. i told my gf when i thought it was the right time, when we loved each other (enough that i thought she might understand) but when we wasnt to envolved that we was living together/had children/married etc. i'd suggest always tell them before you get live together, get married or have children of your own. i think this would be too far and a bad reaction would wreck everything, espically if children are envoled in the relationship, they might suffer the most from a break-up. sorry 4 long post!, hope that helps!

abri-forms that is, sorry i didnt mention which diaper specifically, wondered if there was one good site for delivery/customer service/price etc... any suggestions?

wheres the best place on the internet to order them in the UK? (are there any UK stockists?)

oh, i forgot to mention, along with great service, the pacifiers are good quality (in my opinion, havent ordered any tohers to compare though) but i did order a NUK5 (original medicproL) and a modifed one with the baby-style guard. both good quality but i must say, the NUK guard seems to sit better on my face, so i think i'll be sticking with the coloured NUK guards for a long time until i find something better. i love it!!

i ordered two pacifiers from inner-child (UK based), i ordered them on the monday afternoon, they was dispatached first class tuesday, delivered wednesday afternoon, couldnt be happier! i am now addicted to my paci..... hehe

i wish stores in the UK did sell them, sometimes its very hard for me to order online and be agurenteed to be at home for when they arrive (i live with my parents) if they accepted large packages while i was at work, they might start asking questions (what did you order) lol! the majority of companies order very descreetly, although some companies send diapers out in large boxes (or cases). Once i got an order in that had two fair sized holes in the side of large cardboard case (so you could carry it easily) and you could see what was inside, (if you looked though the hole!) They delivered while i was at work but luckily i got home before my parents to accept them!

I live in the midlands, north-west leicestershire, close to a town called loughbrough. prob not quite up for meeting anyone yet, since im still fairly new, but anybody who wants to contact me you can, either on here or heres an spare alternate email adress b1859_5835@yahoo.co.uk thanx!

I totally agree! i dont want to "act" as a baby, (if u can call going to bed with a paci not acting like a baby) but yeah its weird, theres probably some AB in most of us somewhere, some are more than others. come to think of it, ive been getting some really great sleep this last week while using my toddler 18m+ paci, i sleep like a baby, literally, lol. I found it funny last night, i woke up and the first thing i thought of was "wheres my paci" (it had fallen out), i found it just next to me on the bed and as soon as i put it back in i was asleep again, easilly within 5mins or so, unless it was some very realistic dream! ive only been using a paci for about 1 week or so and i have a reaction so strong already?! anybody else experience this in the early days of using a paci?

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i havent even recieved my nuk 5 yet (obviously, i only ordered it yesterday, but i want to order another one! a blue one with a teddy picture on it, oh and a paci clip as well so i dont lose it!!! what do you think? i should order another?

Merry Christmas! I hope Santa comes to us all! Marshmallow xx

Merry Christmas! thankyou again for the replys! much appreciated, i definately agree, the 18m+ paci rests on my front teeth, not any further in, so maybe a nuk5 will solve the problem i know myself theres no reason to fight my feelings, to be honest a few years ago, (when i was experimening with diapers) i decided it was "wrong" (i cant really explain) but i convinced myself that i shouldnt be doing this, adults dont do this etc. a few months later the feelings came back, i repeatedly tried to forget and ignore them, but i couldnt. i dont see any reason to ignore these AB urges, im gona do it eventually, lol just ordered an nuk 5 from inner-child, a nice blue one i know its xmas day but they will be working again by new year ouuh ouuh! New Years Resolution 1)Become an Adult Baby

I've been wondering recently about using pacifiers and what it would feel like, so I recently bought some toddler pacifiers (18m+) and started using them! To be honest i said i wasnt an AB when i first joined here, but reading others stories makes me want to try more things into the AB lifestyle, so im trying new things. the first night i slept with a pacifier in, i expected to fall out and i'd wake up the next morning trying to find it, but that wasnt the case, i slept all night and woke up the next morning with the pacifier still in my mouth! to be honest i couldnt believe i'd gone all night without it falling out. It felt great, but after i took the pacifier out, my front teeth felt very sore, this only happened the first night i did this, BUT they are still abit sore every morning when i wake up (when im using the pacifier) is this normal? since i havent used a pacifier for about 20 years? am i damaging my teeth? usually pain to the body isnt a good thing (thats what im thinking anyway!) i know todler pacifiers are not designed for adults, so should i order a NUK5 off the internet, think this would help? thankyou!

all the FF titles are great games, although FF7 was the major breakthough in the series that got everyones attention (in the EU and NA anyway, the series was already popular in japan) FF7 was sooo addictive! i still play it sometimes! my GF is currently playing ff7 and she loves it! although in past experiences i do find FF games to be like marmite "you either love it or hate it" shes just entered the north crater, wont be long until i get her playing the next one

Diaper Lover You scored 18 diaper purity, 19 baby purity, 5 sissy purity, and 3 Furry purity! Diaper Lover Babies can be babies, but I am adult . . . who happens to love diapers . . . a lot. im suprised how much of the AB stuff i am into! seeing myself differently now x x

hehe, i also have the game, completed it in 5 hours, rofl, although the percentage complete is only at like 52% so i missed a bunch of stuff, i also read the credits and seem the baby referances.. i wonder what these really do mean? i play it on the ps3 atm, so if anybody else plays and u want to play together, or join as friends, just send me a PM, or post your name on here etc.. i'll be glad of the company! xx

Agreed! Anybody got a good suggestion for a date? although i think diaper day is nearly everyday for alot of us xx

Welcome from the Midlands! (NW Leicestershire) Hope you enjoy your stay! xx

Fancy a brew? rofl welcome to DD, always nice to see more UK peeps, to sit and chat and have a cuppa with, hehe, Hope you have fun here i wouldn't say im as experienced as other members but if you need to ask anything please do, im sure we'll all help, the support ive had from here is amazing, thankyou guys/girls!

Welcome to DD! Nice to see another member from the uk Hope you have a great time here! xx

theres probably other posts similar to this but they may be outdated, i wear plastic backed disposables and i dont mind the crinkling sound, but recently im being abit cauious when wearing out in public, i duno if they changed the attends backing slightly (since my last order) but they sound abit more noisy than my last order, i duno if its just me or not, maybe its just me specificaly listening for the rustle. I was wondering if anybody can suggest a good cloth-blacked (that doesnt rustle when you move about) that i can wear out in public? or any diaper that is plastic-backed that doesnt rustle that much (i am a DL but i wouldnt want other people to participate or realise im wearing without them being ok with it) if you can suggest anything else i can do or wear to stop or reduce the rustle it would be much appreciated. thankyou

Eventually i would say yes you would wet uncontroably when u hear water running. (eventually) your body doesnt "un-learn" anything, but u can re-learn it to do other things, and if you keep doing the same thing time and time again, eventually your body does it without you thinking. it will probably take a good 2 weeks before u even start thinking "i need to go potty" when u hear water running, but keep at it, give it a few months and im sure you'll get there. i guess its similiar to bed wetting.... im trying myself but im not doing everything that i should be so im not 100% dedicated at the moment. for example the first month, you'll wake up wanting to go potty and you'll just go while lying in your bed (while awake), after a month or two, you'll wake up into a kinda half-asleep state and "i need the potty", you'll wet and drift off to sleep nearly instantly. give it 3-4 months, maybe longer and you body takes "wetting the bed" as something you do without thinking becuase the past 4-6 months youve been doing it. i think if you can relate this to your sound wetting, i think you'll be sucessful in wetting when you hear water running. i must say i think the sound of keys jingling (trying to get through the door) and oh no! ive just wet before i can get to the toilet sound like a fantastic idea!!! be 100% sure u want to do this and be 100% dedicated, dont let your mind have any doubts becuase it probably wont if you have any. hope this helps! xx