Brutal

Mat

Great list... I would only comment that while absorbency and wicking are critical, so is fitment. I love the plastic backed diapers with the hook and loop velcro tabs with landing strip. Bear hugs by the changing times diaper company are my absolute favorites from a caregivers perspective (we think of things like practicality and value). I would love it if they offered a 2500-3000ml capacity. It would lower the cost and I don't think overnight diapers are a smart move for my little girl during the daytime unless we are on a long car trip. Daddy's don't want to deal with baby's sick from a urinary tract infection. I would rather change a little one withing the first soaking... not wait for them to pee a whole gallon before a change. The weight of the liquid from a gallon of urine puts 8.3 pounds of down force pressure on the fastening points. Meaning it will be leak city. For me being able to refasten/re-tape and having very durable leg gathers is a huge asset. Absorbency is great but they leak if the fit loose. Wicking is still critical no matter the absorbency. Keeps rashes at bay.

Aviatrix

Dassault

Great post. Thanks for sharing.

It is a slotted system with spring loaded tray stays.

We commissioned that from him. I still owe you some pictures-sorry about that. The quality is superb and we love the highchair that was made for us. It is alderwood and very durable. Not a dent or scratch on it. I will try to post some pictures sooner rather than later. This craftsman does immaculate work. He is also a standup business person. He kept me update and asked all the important questions to make sure we were thrilled. We absolutely are (cause we are still loving it.) Btw, it holds 400+lbs... my buddy and his mommy sat in it. He's a competitive weightlifter and she sat in his lap. No wobble. Held sturdy as always.

It sounds like someone is trolling you. I wouldn't let it bother you. I'm not sure that a Male teenager would take that kind of abuse for long. And neighbors and school mates would find out and not be silent. Hell kids are not silent either. I stopped getting spankings at 12 years old, because I freaked out my mom but just staring at her smiling as she whipped my ass. When asked what's so funny... I told her "Just thinking how I'm going to remember this ineffectual punishment when you need me to help you with anything when I am grown. I just might be petty and hold a grudge." Last spanking I got. Btw, I was taking college level classes at 12 years old. Point is, I don't think it is real. And if it is, then those kids need to say something. There is nothing you can do about it.

I will have to take a look at those sites. The one I had was more than just personality testing, it incorporated financial management style, core values analysis, socio-economic factors, and a few other things that made it great. I know it sounds harsh, but I'd have no interest in dating someone who was extremely political in either direction, nor would I date someone who didn't share my core values or money management style. That is why I think we work together so well. I am a huge fan of personality matches when comparing potential dating prospects. The only drawback I'd see is that the websites are not dating sites. So there is no pool of people that can be pre-screened. I think that those sites would be an asset if you were just starting to date though through conventional means.

So I am not even joking... I met them on a dating site that did extensive personality tests to help you see who was compatible. We were 92% compatible and I think that is the biggest first step to finding someone. The site got bought out and failed shortly afterwards. But I met my perfect soulmate using technology. I will also say that if I were ever all alone again, I would focus my search on a similar type site. It's sad fetlife doesn't have an in depth personality algorithm that the test and run. Might make it easier to find kink friendly people you could stand hanging out or being in a relationship with outside of your kink.

Let us know how it turns out. And all the best with it!

Well money would change me... I'd be absolutely obnoxious. I still buy a ticket even though the lottery is essentially a voluntary tax on those who are bad at math.

So while this was a clear case of extortion-of which blackmail is a subset... You could end up not having yo work again if you sue them. Lawyers don't care, just like doctors don't care about your personal life. You could own the entire property and because she most likely has insurance on her rental property you can probably cash in big. I would be willing to bet a lawyer would take the case on contingency. Me? I'd fight back. She'd be in jail fast. Here are some pro-tips... 1) Buy a few $20 wyse wifi camera from amazon. Mine let's me know on my phone the moment it detects motion. One at each entry and one for the bedroom/playroom. They go with you when you move. Provides proof for breaking and entering charges. Depending on your state landlords can be arrested for what she did. As long as you pay your rent and abide by the lease terms, it isn't their property to enter without notice or special cause (think you aren't home but the apartment below you has water coming into the bedroom below you). 2) Store all your gear in a locking footlocker. (Maybe $30-$40) 3) Password protect you drives and computer. (Free). These are basic cheap solutions. I do this regardless of my sexual interests. One last thing... when someone threatens you in a public place or outdoors (no expectation of privacy) or in your house which you have signs saying "video and audio surveillance in use"... put your hand in your pocket flip out your phone and start recording... then ask, I'm sorry did I just hear you correctly? Because it sounded like you said "fill in here". If they are stupid enough to make the threat audible again, they are beyond screwed. Simply telling her "hey... do you like what you have???, because you could end up in jail and I'll own every asset you have when I sue you for damages. I'm telling you now to cease and desist. Don't get bitchy, call a lawyer and ask. You mess with me and it'll be your last legal mistake. It'll be hard to care for your dogs from a jail cell lady. They might end up in a shelter all alone. But it's your call. Fuck with me, I dare you." Never be a victim... I'd fight her in court. Your secret is out and it has devastated you personally, professionally and monetarily. It won't end up in court either... 9 out of 10 her liability insurance just ends up writing you a check. If it does end up in court, her lawyer would be an idiot to bring it up. It would make his client look even guiltier. So me, I'd go ask a lawyer if you have a case. There are a few on this board. I am only qualified as a landlord and business owner... who knows he'd get sued into oblivion and the insurance company would pay me and then put a lein for the amount against her. She'd be screwed. Publicity might help you find that special someone... an abdl who fought back heroically? What's not to adore?

ATDL? I'm thinking that would take some serious campaigning to make a thing. ABDL has been a blanket term for the last 30 years or so. My babygirl and I consider us a DD/LG couple... but we are fine with abdl. There is already enough division and self branding out there. I'm not sure a rebranding attempt would be anything "value added". It is akin to how everyone wants to come up with an ab/dl design to represent the entire community. It is something that I really don't see the point in pushing. I don't think people outside our community are going to be bothered to learn the nuances. The media isn't going to suddenly switch acronyms either. In my experience- Age play is typically met with destain by the general population. It's not even widely accepted in the fetish community by non AB/DL people. I'd have no issue with a board for those identifying as an adult toddler. But I don't know if there is enough of a population to pull it off.