toddmdl

I've been on the receiving end of having poopy diapers changed. I've never been with a woman who wore diapers, much less pooped in diapers. The women I've been with have been willing to change diapers but they themselves have stuck to their potty training and have not wanted to wear diapers.

That's how I've always felt, especially after a very healthy poop. I've always thought they would be better in a diaper. I've also felt a sense of pride of what I made. I've felt that when using a toilet but I've felt it more in a diaper. I'm sure it has to do with negative connotations I have with toilet, namely I associate it with lack of choice and control. I'm proud to have stuck with diapers but not learning to use the toilet. I've pictured my little side telling my mom I'm a proud boy in diapers and that I want to keep them and not use the toilet.

You’ve got a good point. I would probably do the same thing that the OP did.

If you can stand them seeing you with PJ’s and no bra, but you also have a dirty diaper, just let them in and act like you have to go do something else while they do their thing. On the bright side, at least you got more time with that poopy diaper.

I enjoyed the feeling of a wet and dirty diaper when I was little. I think that, among other things, is what caused this for me. I didn’t have many accidents in my underwear, from what I can remember. I never liked the feeling of it in my underwear. Interestingly, it always felt messier that way and I didn’t like pee running down my leg. I laugh about that, since I probably would have been one of those kids who would have potty trained earlier if my mom put me directly in underwear.

I suspect this doesn’t really have anything to do with children at all actually. It sounds like what is triggering is the representation of what you are seeing, the symbolism in other words. You are seeing kids who are in the stage of life of getting to play all day and be cared for by their mothers, most likely. Whatever that triggers regarding the diapers has to do with the fact that those toddlers are experiencing what you want in a loving and caring way. The fact that they wear diapers is not only accepted but they are being treated lovingly while being diapered. You are just wanting to experience all of that yourself again. I agree with the others though, don’t try to set up a play date with real children. Involving children in this is crossing the line.

I think it’s fine that you waited to tell her in order to build a relationship that is separate from diapers. Doing it that way helps ensure she is more likely willing to participate. However, it sounds like she knows something is up. You need to take the dive and tell her. The longer you wait the more curious she’s going to be and the more you hold back the more she’s going to know you are hiding something, and she will feel deceived. Telling her won’t ruin your sex life. At this point, she knows you and likes you. She won’t leave you over this. Worst case scenario is she won’t participate. I get the feeling that is what you are concerned about, which is very normal. I know I’ve felt that way many times. You can’t lose either way. If you don’t tell her though, you are guaranteed to not get what you want.

What is interesting is that it appears that wearing diapers as an older kid or as an adult isn’t a neutral topic. For most people, as others have mentioned, it sounds horrible, even unacceptable to a lot of people. And on the other hand, it’s rare, but there are people like us who feel the opposite way. I think it’s rooted in conditioning during potty training years. It’s hard to teach a kid to learn to simultaneously recognize he or she needs to go and then to hold it. It’s even harder when the kids are obstinate and simply do not want to potty train. I think that leads to a lot of parents to really have to lead and convince kids why they shouldn’t want to wear diapers and to use the toilet. I think that’s enhanced when the parents get desperate and downright neurotic about it. However, I think it also happens when parents are more laid back and are using a child-led approach. Whether people remember their potty training experience or not, I think that’s why diapers for older kids and adults are so taboo.

I last time I pooped in my diaper two weeks ago. I pooped a few times so it was a pretty full diaper. My girlfriend, who was out of the room at the time, asked me if I had a dirty diaper and then asked if I was stinky. She could tell since it was heavy in the back.

The look, the feel and the convenience of them.

I’ve never wanted to do this but I imagine it’s very difficult. You will have to wear constantly and condition your brain to stop the holding reflex. Every time you need to pee you just need to release and the more you do that the more automatic it will get. I’m still not sure if you will get there 100% or not.

Oh yes. I remember wearing diapers at two and three. I remember not feeling the need to pee and poop and don’t remember feeling wet or dirty until I got changed. I then remember starting to potty train at three. I remember after I learned how to use the toilet I was kept in diapers and pull-ups until I was five. I was fully capable of using the toilet but I liked diapers better and took full advantage of it until they were taken away from me.

On the surface, I would say hardly at all. My authenticity to my little self is more symbolic more than anything. It’s a mental head space. I don’t act like a 3 year old. I don’t try to be one. The only way I do is that I wear and use my diapers like one and I get changed by my SO. The mental image I have is that in my head, I’m connected to my caregiver and she’s playing with me all day and accepts my use of diapers and doesn’t pressure me to use the toilet. The actual play is what we do as adults recreationally. The connection is still there. The only thing that is authentic in terms of physical play is the diapering. In a way I’m waving to my 3 year old self and giving myself what I needed then, which was the love along with acceptance and understanding of my need to be diapered.

I don’t have any memories of wearing diapers as a baby. I have memories of wearing diapers and pull-ups ranging between ages 2-5. I potty trained by the age of 3. I kept wearing diapers and pull-ups until I was 5. I’m not entirely sure why but I’m guessing I regressed. I know we moved when I was 3. As time went by, I definitely developed some independence in a way and decided I wanted to wear diapers just because I liked them better.

I’ve loved messing since I was pretty little. Since cleaning myself up, I’ve never found a good method. To be honest, the best method in my experience is if you can get someone to change your diaper and clean you up with wipes. If you have to do it yourself, I use the shower. I hate doing that though. If anyone has a better method, I’m all for it.

Over the years I have noticed that when my bowels are working optimally I poop once a day, sometimes twice a day. The consistency is usually pretty firm and large.

I’m not entirely sure but I would say somewhere in the 1 to 1 1/2 age range. I have no memories of wearing cloth diapers. I have seen pictures of myself in them and I was definitely at least 1. Although, I have seen pictures of myself at that age range in disposables as well.

From what I can tell, I was in cloth diapers until I was 1-2. Then I wore pampers until I was over 3 years old. Then I transitioned to pull-ups.

Not too much. I have a couple of memories of pooping in my underwear when I was little. I really didn’t like the feeling. I always preferred pooping in regular diapers or pull-ups.

I have recently started to take it as a fiber supplement in addition to normal dietary fiber intake. I have not noticed a difference in overall consistency. I have not noticed a more gelatinous consistency, unlike others. Like others, I have noticed a longer rope consistency, and it is easier to pass. It doesn’t have a laxative effect on me. In addition to adequate dietary fiber and water intake it bulks up and adds water to my poop. When I get a chance to wear diapers again, I’ll look forward to having healthy dirty diapers.

I’m on the other side of the spectrum. I didn’t start to potty train until I was three. I got out of diapers long after I physically trained, at the age of five. It seems that those of us who were affected by potty training in relation to ABDL did not feel heard or understood at that time. Whatever the specific reason varies from person to person. What’s interesting is that people who were both taken out of diapers “early” and “late” are represented here.

I’ve done it plenty of times but not in a number of years. I honestly believe I used to think people couldn’t easily smell it. I know now that was not true. The last time I pooped in my diaper in public, I was with a girl I was dating. She knew I was in diapers, liked changing them, even the poopy diapers. Since I was in public I tried to poop stealthily. She didn’t notice as she didn’t say anything. That was confirmed by the fact that she did smell poop but she thought a toddler nearby had pooped in his diaper. I told her it was me. Everything worked out well, she changed my diaper when we got back to our hotel room. But before we went back I was definitely paranoid. I would probably be careful if I were to ever do it again.

I like to think it started while I was still in diapers when I was little. I remember I was one of those kids who didn’t want to be changed right away. I wanted to enjoy my diaper. So I would lie when I was asked if I was wet or dirty. I was kept in diapers/pull-ups for awhile even though I was potty trained and could have been out of them. I still used them quite a bit so I’d say my desires have been around since ages 3-5. After getting out of them, I stole some diapers that were laying around the house when I was 7. I started buying pull-ups again when I was 9. I didn’t wear tape diapers again until around 18.

Between the ages of 3-5. Once I truly became consciously aware of diapers and what they were, I liked how soft and comfortable they were. I liked how they looked. I liked what I could use them for and I liked being changed out of them. Even as I continued to wear pull-ups at age 5, and I started to realize I was “getting too old for them,” I still had a fondness for them.

Four different memories stick out to me. The first one was when I was either 4 or 5. I was playing with my mom just in pull-ups. I felt a very strong urge to poop. I asked my mom to leave. She did. I squatted down and pooped in my pull-up. I then took it off and threw it away in the trash can. The second one was about nine years ago. I met a girl off diaper space. She was a mommy. She was all in to changing diapers. At some point I had to poop. I felt shy and told her. She just said you can poop in your diaper. So I squatted down and did. You could tell it was a little different even for her to watch me, as an adult, squat down and poop in my diaper like a child was wasn’t potty trained. But I did, and she cleaned me up. The next couple of memories were a few years later with a different woman. I met her just while dating and confide in her about my desires. She was pretty comfortable with it but I had never pooped in a diaper in front of her. The time had come when I was wearing a diaper while I was with her and had to poop. We were traveling and while checking in I felt a pretty strong urge to poop. I was shy again and went to the car to unload some bags and decided to just drop a load then. After I did it, I honestly wondered what she would think, even though she knew I liked to poop in my diaper. I went back to the room and just sat down. Within a few minutes she simply just said, lets get you changed because of the smell. She then gave me a very thorough diaper change. About six months later, we were out in public, and I had been wearing a diaper for most of the day. I was pretty wet at that point but in the afternoon I had to poop pretty badly again. I asked her if she was alright with me using my diaper due to the smell or if she would rather me use a toilet. She just said, you have a diaper on, go ahead and poop in your diaper. I was able to poop pretty easily in public without being obvious but she did say I can smell you. When we got back home, she gave me another wonderful diaper change.