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My nappy stash. Got more Abena L4 coming today. Here in the UK the Abena's are rebranded Drylife slip plus and they are an amazing nappy.

When I’m drinking I desperately need to use the toilet every 20 minutes and I need go! I need a met a British guy and he needs use the toilet every 10 minutes when he’s drinking. He definitely had some DL vibes. He wanted me to care for him in slight conversation. I wish I was more confident in talking about AB/DL, you know it isn’t anything to be shameful about.

I hate having erections. I don’t have many anymore like I used to do when I was much younger. I also like the fact I have a small penis. I just need double incontinence where I’m dribbling 24/7 and passive messing and I’ll be set. Also lose 30 IQ points I’d be very happy.

I know this is an old thread. I would love a lobotomy and be mentally disabled, being cared and looked after.

I don’t see how this is anyway worse than taking about if you’ve seen teenagers wearing nappies in public? I’m living in a group home and been hospitalised many times I have seen this, and it’s not fetishised.

I got diagnosed with Attachment Disorder as a teenager for my love of nappies, as a baby the only comfort I got was from my nappies. My mother was neglectful. Me loving nappies is lifelong. When I was 12 that’s when I knew I wanted to be double incontinent. I also want to be loved and cared for. My child psychologist didn’t think my needing nappies was wrong, just a damaged child needing comfort. I was allowed to wear every night at my foster parents, I had a good behaviour chart, my foster mother put a plastic cover on my mattress. Etc. it become normal wearing every night. It isn’t until I was 18 I started buying my own. I have been hospitalised many times for psychosis. My current care team know that I wear nappies. It’s never been a problem. I think being a AB/DL isn’t wrong or you have something wrong with you. It’s just a lifestyle.

First time I heard what being incontinent meant was aged 12 and my foster mum threatening me if I continued to steal adult nappies from school I’ll end up incontinent and wet all the time, did I want this? She was a retired nurse. Instantly on hearing this I knew what my calling in life was, I had to be double incontinent and permanently in nappies, wetting and messing without noticing. These feelings have been a very big thing in my life. I also remember reading a lot about incontinence on the internet, in the early days on here I would always ask questions about ways to become incontinent, extreme ways. It was an obsession, I would have done anything back then to be double incontinent. Now I wear 24/7. The important people in my life know I wear and it isn’t a problem. The obsession is less but my passion for incontinence is still there.

I told one group home staff member when I was drunk that I’m a diaper lover. He’s asexual like me and openly talks about his bondage so I felt comfortable. All the other staff think I wear nappies due to incontinence. Which has it happens I’m becoming more incontinent from wearing 24/7..

I only have an attraction for me being incontinent and in nappies 24/7.

I would say waitering, the posher restaurant the worse have double incontinence would be. It would be disastrous to have an involuntary bowel movement while serving people their food. What other jobs would be hard to do with double incontinence?

That asks the question - can you be sexually attracted to nappies/incontinence but find sex repulsive with anybody? Does this define you as asexual?

I also can’t control diarrhoea, I have some kind of latch key bowel movement which means I need to go very soon when it triggers, near doors. I had an accident just now and I wasn’t wearing a nappy. My shorts are messed but I was able to shower in hotel. Hopefully the hotel laundry will be okay with messy pants and shorts. I’m not embarrassed anymore. This is definitely from wearing too much. I’m constantly going for a pee every 20 minutes when drinking which makes it obvious with people. The bowel incontinence isn’t a new thing. I will give in a tip to room cleaner some money as I made mess of my bed. I can sleep other side.

To make sure they haven’t soiled themselves. I seen this practice many times when I was in this group home but sharing with more disabled people with double incontinence, who wore nappies. Staff would lift their T-shirt and pull the back of their joggers at the top as well as their nappy to see if they had soiled themselves and needed changing. I seen it that many times I think it’s common in group homes? Have you ever had it happen to you? I would love it to happen to me.. I also hear them often say ‘so and so’’ needs his nappy changing. With the intellectual disabled they don’t use words which are more respectful to more able people. Nappy is a nappy. People with low IQ don’t care or understand.

I have urge IC. When I’m drinking with people it’s very noticeable how many times I visit the toilet compared to them. There 1 to my 5 visits. My bladder suddenly feels full, I pee and it’s only a small gush. My bladder is very sensitive. I also pee 3 times a night. I might had this from previous long 24/7 binges.

I desperately want to wear nappies. Stuck in Sri Lanka for another week, with no access to my beloved nappies, I wish that I packed some tena slip maxis now. I’m going 24/7 on 1st June for 6 months. Would rather be at home in a wet nappy than in Sri Lanka.

I live in supported living with 3 other people with disabilities. I’ve worn nappies 24/7 for months at a time and it’s hard to keep nappies discreet. They soon found out. Even the staff found out but you know what they’ve never said anything negative about them. George wears nappies, so what! I’m fortunate that I get disability benefits for my mental disabilities, I live in a group home where I’m well looked after. I lack capacity managing money so my deputy buys my monthly supply for me.

I’m going 24/7 for everything for 6 months. I’m going to continue to wet at the slightest urge without clenching my sphincter muscle, I’m very good at doing this. I already have a small bladder from wearing very often. What I would like out this 6 months 24/7 nappy wearing is reduced bladder capacity, an increase in my post-void dribbling, some stress incontinence. With my bowels I want to mess reflexively in the mornings. If I mess during the day in front of my housemates or support staff so be it. Im not going to hold anything back. I think being double incontinent will add added value to my other disabilities I have.

Do you think my need to be dependent on other people and cared for comes from my diagnosed attachment disorder? I’m diagnosed with a IQ under 70. This in old terminology I have a mental age of 10 year old. I live in a group home. I would love an IQ under 40. Mental age under 6 years old. I sit with the other service users at my Day centre for people with intellectual disabilities and they are more unable then me and I wish I was more like them. I don’t want to understand the world, the childhood abuse and the rejection I think about often. I want to be disabled. I guess I am already? I do feel cared for and well looked after at my group home. I would love to talk about these feelings with my therapist but can’t cope with rejection.

Do you think my need to be dependent on other people and cared for comes from my diagnosed attachment disorder? I’m diagnosed with a IQ under 70. This in old terminology I have a mental age of 10 year old. I live in a group home. I would love an IQ under 40. Mental age under 6 years old. I sit with the other service users at my Day centre for people with intellectual disabilities and they are more unable then me and I wish I was more like them. I don’t want to understand the world, the childhood abuse and the rejection I think about. I want to be disabled. I guess I am already? I do feel cared for and well looked after at my group home.

I can buy all the nappies I want and different varieties nappies too. I currently have 9 different nappy brands in my collection. Are you poor where you can't afford nappies?

I have my stash open for all to see if they come in my bedroom.

4 -5 years old.

I like drylife too. Good value for money and they hold cut very well with my dribbles and gushes.

BetterDry is my go to nappy when I'm having a few beers and these handle brilliantly for large gushes. They still sold on nappies R us in the UK. I know they recently had some distribution problems and they were hard to get hold off.

Should look on fetlife for your desires. Just search and you will be happy.