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This would be a dream come true for me.

And the security wearing nappies will give you. Like a mental dependency instead of psychically. Is this easier to achieve?

I never noticed this SPH before but I guess I kinda got it. I would love nothing more then never getting an erection again, total incontinence and a very small penis just dribbling constantly. I like the thought of being changed by a care giver and them laughing at my penis.

I would love the operation, but I want all my prostate taking out, left 100% incontinent, with no erections ever again. Also a smaller penis would be nice. Also I would go for the bowel surgery as well which will leave me permanently bowel incontinent, with passive incontinence where I'm unaware I've messed until I can smell it. This would become a dream come true.

I just purchased another 4 cases (12 packets) of Drylife slip super. Starting my incontinence journey again. I already have a tone of IC nappies stacked in my bedroom.

To help with achieving stress incontinence, I don't want to automatically clench when coughing. I'm very good at remaining unclenched and wetting at the slightest urge in any position. Do you think if you can manage to not clench and actually wet when coughing will this help with incontience training?

@Reddy. This a wonderful thread and I'm sure it brings hope, (like me) to many people who want to be incontinent. I look forward to reading your progress.

I would prefer to have my anal sphincter cut so I'm rendered with permanent fecal incontinence. Would this be an easier procedure to have than being made bladder incontinent. I think if I achieve fecal IC I will be in nappies 24/7 anyway so can naturally become bladder incontinent by wearing all the time anyway, I heard surgery for fecal incontinence is easier and once it's done it's done, no complications? I prefer passive IC where I mess without knowing.

I can pee almost instantly in front off people and its very easy, without any problems.

I think most people who see a person wearing an incontinence nappy will just assume it's for incontience. I've been wearing nappies for 25 years off and on (mostly on) and a lot of people know I wear them and I've never been asked those questions below, or have even implied it! The question I'm most frequently asked is if I want to see a doctor? have I got enough 'pads' etc. They think its for incontinence, The people who do know the real reason (attachment disorder) never mention it and its not written down anywhere in my medical notes that I wear nappies for attachment difficulties.

My sexual feeling only mean I only wanted incontinence and seeing myself as incontinent and wearing nappies 24/7 and fantasying about iC, in my teens and early 20s this was a massive thing for me. I would have done absolutely anything to be double incontinent. I 'm more mellowed now but it still can be extreme feelings.

When I was 21 I would have took a bullet in the spine to be double incontinent, but at that age I couldn't have incorporated it in my lifestyle being so young. I'm in my late 30s now and been wearing nappies 20+ years. If you are committed to wearing a lot you'll have some level of decreased bladder capacity by the time you get to your mid 30s's like me, and you'll be more comfortable wearing 24/7 and peers will be more understanding.

It's so much better and feels wonderful. The clean up isn't too bad as I use deposable gloves and dry wipes with IC cleaning foam soap, the foam is very clinical smelling so smells wonderful combined with a messy nappy, it makes me feel really dependent and helpless. I'm sure people who work with special needs people who smell me after I changed will know the distinct smell and can tell I'm in nappies. I think I could 100% manage fecal incontinence.

I think many people who desire instant incontience who are in the late teens/early 20s, had the desires for many years. - Like me when was in my early 20s I would of took a bullet in the spine for incontinence! I do think now I'm in my late 30s - me not taking any dramatic steps and just wearing 24/7 I can wet at the slightest urge, dribble without clenching. I'm showing signs of IC now and my IC becoming progressively worse I think from wearing 24/7 and wetting at the slightest urge I think I will be bladder incontinent by the time I'm 50, no stopping it - I will be incontinent. I think many people here on their journey for IC and on remaining sphincter's completely relaxed with find themselves Incontinent when they are older too without even trying.

I'm don't think I'm weird. I have a genuine disability called attachment disorder from past childhood abuse which means because my parents didn't give a shit about me and I was neglected I got comfort in my nappies, this turned into a love of nappies and the emotional comfort it gives me. Since age 5, my earliest memories I have loved nappies. I'm in my late 30s now and still love nappies and incontinence. My only sexually desire is incontinence so I think I'm asexual.

I only see myself being incontinent . I'm not turned on by other peoples IC. I think with bowel incontinence you can't hide it and it's the lack of control and vulnerability it portrays. I think people would think because your incontinent and have to wear nappies 24/7 they see you as less intelligent and dependent, or dependent on others!. I love the dependency aspect.

As well as double incontinence. I like the idea of being helpless and can't control my bladder or bowels. My incontinence would be dribbling 24/7 and I would have passive bowel incontinence where I'm unaware I have messed myself until I smell or feel it. If only dreams can come true.

I like this website for AB/DL content, I met some awesome local people there. I think it's also a good website if you have unusual kinks like forced lobotomies and ECT, body modification like amputee stuff. I'm a disability devotee myself They cater for everyone. What do you think of FetLife?

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And not a hint of embarrassment being videoed wearing it. Babe he's an DL. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-12610297/Britains-fattest-man-weighs-47-STONE-eats-10-000-calories-day-fears-die-unless-gets-miracle-weight-loss-jab.html

ay up me duck. I should have a common Mansfield accent but went to speech and language therapy as a child so according to Mansfield people I sound posh now. I think the East Midlands/Nottinghamshire accent is very natural anyway. When I was in Sri Lanka according to a group of Birmingham people I drank with I sounded posh.

I can't believe how much google has gone down hill. What do you think? What search engine do you now for good content on AB/DLism and anal stretching and good adult diaper pics? Google SUCKS!!!

No don't push, just relax. During the day when you get a moment just pee, no matter how small it is in your bladder and try and remain totally relaxed. Eventually you'll get to the stage where you won't involuntary clench. It does take practice but you want to remain relaxed at all time and just pee no matter where you are. You need to learn to pee in all positions. Eventually you'll trinkle and drip in little dribbles without clenching.

I'm going to push myself to the limit and continue to wet and mess 24/7 until I hit the purge. I've stopped masturbating so I can go longer. I'll face the consequences of possible incontinence when I get there. Incontinence is very exciting because I'm in a binge but I know I will hate having it in a purge. I'm not even sure I'll even become incontinent from wetting at the slightest urge? Also I'm unsure of my continence level at the moment. My bladder is super sensitive, I feel a dull ache in my bladder all the time that I need pee and when I do its just a dribble, this gives me some relief from the urge but then the urge starts again, I've got the urge to pee without anything in my bladder... I can go ahead with my daily business and dribble as soon as I feel it, when I've had my large mug of coffee I can walk around cleaning, talking to my support staff and just dribble away, even very small weeping like a tidy little droplet in my nappy without any clench reflex at all. This happens all day. When I'm sitting my bladder builds up a little a bit and it feels like I desperately need to pee and when I do its only a small gush and I'm surprised at how little pee has come out. I'm waking up with a desperate need to pee just just pee and go back to sleep, in any position. Is my bladder shrinking? I'm messing every morning without clenching, its feels a smaller poo than my usual toilets poos, but when I change it looks like a large amount. I've promised myself I'm going to go until the New Year wearing 24/7 and see what happens. I don't think incontinence will happen that fast? If it does I will just have to live with it and be in nappies for awhile. What do you think is happening to me?

I'm just going to go for double incontinence. I mean it's whats I've always wanted so I'm not going to flight it anymore.