pctrasher

Normal visa card here. Just make sure that the page is sending/receiving information in encrypted format (SSL) and make sure you don't have viruses or key loggers on your PC...if you go to those naughty video sites, you might want to do a virus scan before putting up your credit card number (that is why they make most viruses after all). Or you can go all out and roll a Linux box so security and viruses are never a problem, but its not for everybody. Either way I've noticed a lot of ppl trying to hack my PayPal via failed BF attacks, attempted password resets and even scam emails with horrible spelling telling me to "clik here to loggin." If you roll with a PayPal acct, be mindful of what links you click in emails and make sure you have a damn good password.

Haven't tried the bellisimos (had too many bad experiences with bambino, plus I hate their new plastic backing on the Teddys that tear way too easily). But I just taped up my first 24/7 about 15 mins ago and I absolutely agree! They are fantastic! Here are the pros that i see so far. Soft plastic that feels thicker and doesn't seem to tear as easily as bambinos. Form fitting, so very little sagging, until wet I assume ( haven't wet it yet). It seems to cradle the crotch much better than any diaper I've tried. It's about as thick as the bambinos (they might fluff up thicker after I get them out of the bag and in the drawer though). Tapes seem to hold well ( I don't have the "omg the tapes feel like they are going to pop" feeling like I do with the bambinos after the initial fastening even if I fasten them loosely. The tapes aren't too close together, the bottom tapes are close to the bottom of the flap so the leg holes are more snug. And finally if you get them from xpmedical, you get them in plain white plastic with very faint wetness indicator lettering on the crotch. The cons aren't quite so numerous. I'm sweating in them more than other diapers (could be solved with powder). They aren't very crinkly, but that's a matter of personal preference. The padding stops about 4-5 inches from the top of the front and about the same in the back. That's about it. So far I love them and will probably stock up on them depending on how well they handle wetness.

Huh, this is my first reply since the forum has been redone, just goes to show how much I post now-a-days. On to the topic about wetting while laying down. I had a topic I started over a year ago based on this very same thing in which I put a LOT of thought and research into. So may I shed some light onto what it troubling you guys. The process of wetting has many steps to it that we don't realize. The first of which is subconcious control over the bladder's ability to squeeze and simultaniously open the internal sphicter, releasing urin into the upper urethra. The pressure of the bladder squeezing the urin out causes the urethra above the external sphicter to expand slightly and applies pressure to the external sphicter aswell. That is where we get the 'urge' to go when we stand up and stuff... Well that little segment is the part that we're missing when we lay down. If you're not in the usual urinating position, the subconcious doesn't initiate this first phase, so the urin get's 'locked' inside the bladder. The only way to get the subconcious to initiate this first phase, is to get into a position that the subconcious knows it is 'allowed/able/and usually' able to wet in. The rest of this process continues as a concious deal between the external sphicter and the brain in the form of the yes/no question to the brain: "I feel pressure, should I relax and let it flow?" And THAT is the ONLY controllable part of urination that we get....and the only part of the process of urination that we know about. So to sum it all up in a basic 'how-to' format: step 1. Lay down with full bladder Step 2. sit up or kneel until you 'get the urge' Step 3. start going a little and immediately lay back down and finish. Step 4. Repeat as much as you can until your subconcious recognizes the 'laying down' position as a possible urination possition. Caution on above steps: Don't let your bladder get TOO full or it will apply pressure on the kidneys, resulting in decreased kidney health or failure. Your kidneys will give out way before your bladder's neck (internal sphicter) gives out. You all want a diagram or some form of visualization? search google for phrases similar to 'urinary tract diagram' detailed diagrams are far and few in between, but they are out there...and horribly graphic. Hope all that brain-food helps in your quest to wet the bed.

How would you get incontinent? I believe the simple answer to a sentence with that kind of structure would be to simply buy it at the store. That's usually how you 'get' many things. Now to 'become' something requires practice, patience, and persistence. So now I guess you got your answer and have become 1% more knowledgeable in that particular subject.

I've played them and they are actually pretty good for their lack of modern graphics. Basically they are all rpg games based on anything ab/dl. If I had the patience to make one of those games with that rpg maker program, I could make one kickass game. However it would be nice if they actually finished the school one, that's by far my favorite.

So, if you were to wear and use your diapers for 24/7 you want to know what would happen. Well, from what I've seen on the forums from people who experienced this. Your bladder does shrink a little, but more importantly, it loses elasticity (it's made of the same kind of flesh that the human stomache is made out of). After a while of not using the sphicters, they will develope atrophy (sp?) to a point of no return and the muscles will eventually die off leaving the incontinence perminent. And yea, you would notice a constant flow as the days go by. The first major change though is the mental change where you train your mind not to bother holding it in. Then once that's mastered, holding it in becomes as hard as it is for most people to wet their diapers. But ultimately, after years of 24/7 without holding in ANYTHING you will become permanently incontinent as some other less fortunate members of our community found out the hard way. Thats about all the information that I've gathered about the subject as I get my info from the experiences from other ppl since I don't have experience in this subject on my own.

Wow....just wow...

Well, I spent last night pretty much plastered off of countless bottles of Corona and white wine (never mix the two in a single night, trust me, I'm still recovering). So the group that I hang out with consists of my GF/mommy/LG (depending on her mood), a friend that I've known for a while and is also my GF's best friend, and her BF who is my best friend and has been for a few years. So we were sitting around getting plastered when we decided to do our confessions game (where we take turns confessing stuff that we keep secret from everyone else). Well, I suggested the topic "fetishes" and then my GF went first (she only mentioned something small that turns her on). Then our female friend said something similar to my GF, and when it go to my best friend he dropped a bomb us all (not telling you what he said out of confidence) Personally, I think what he said wasn't really that big of a deal, I mean everyone's got their secrets right? So we talked about his for a sec and then I went on to mine saying that mine takes the cake. And well, when me and my GF told them, their reaction was surprising, they thought almost nothing of it (kind of like how I see my friend's fetish) So we talked a little bit about both of our revealings and then I went to the bathroom to go throwup the last drink of the night. I guess the lesson to be learned in the story is that friends are just that: friends. Tell them a huge secret that you think will devistate them or make them give you a funny look, then be caught off guard when they show their extreme levels of acceptance. And the best part about that is that it works both ways 'to and from friend'. After everything that is shared, you allways feel a little closer to the people that fill your life. Anyway, I hope this goes as some inspiration to some of you all who want to tell friends but don't know what will happen. If they are friends, then they are either in the same boat or swimming right beside you.

Lol, alcohol is awesome. From racism to kittens. And yes I know that 'let the cat out of the bag' is a figure of speech, I just made a play on words.

Wow, all of the posts on this thread and I'm the only one who has a problem with the cat who once was in the bag??? Cats don't belong in bags, it never should have been in the bag, and I have to say that I am very glad that it is now out of the bag. That ranks up there with a kitten dying everytime someone puts on a diaper. Perhaps the kitten only dies when we put on a diaper because it's in the bag. Analogously speaking, maybe we should all tell more people about our diapers thus letting the cats out of the bags before the feline population plummits. I don't know about you guys but I want to own a cat in a few years from now and I would like for there to be more than none to choose from.

Wow, I must have killed a lot of kittens. =wheeps over kittens who gave their lives for my enjoyment=. I do have to say that I do wish diapers didn't turn me on as well. That would put an end to the inevitable sex after an hour or two of AB play with my g/f which kind of kills the moment and starts a new one. But I devinately don't wish the desire for diapers to go away entirely. I still have yet to experience a better feeling than cuddling up next to my g/f in a diaper with my pacifier and stuffed animal. And the funny irony in all of this is that one of my biggest fears is losing the part of me that is AB. Anyway, good luck in your soul searching and quest to find acceptance for yourself.

Wow, I hate that commercial with a passion. The first time it was full of irony and had the wow factor, but the last 800 times I've seen it (and I don't watch a whole lot of tv), it's been VERY annoying with the whining and stuff. And if the people that wrote the commercial were ab/dl aware, they would be stereotyping a bad stereotype and I would have to hunt them down and feed them their face.

Having the freedom to take a box of diapers up to your room without your parents asking questions, you can't simply dispose of your used diapers in the trash??? The first thing you want to do to get rid of the used diapers is to buy a medical mask to cover your nose and mouth and do not breathe while you take the old ones out of the box. If you inhale the fume, you WILL get sick. Then you will need a very powerful anti-airbourn bacteria neutralizer/deodorizer to spray into the box after it's emptied (or before it's emptied if you prefer). And to your room too. But I do recommend that you get rid of those fast before you get put to the hospital with sepsis or something. Storing up a used diaper for more than a month causes health issues, ten years will probably cause death. So yea, good luck and I hope the 10 year-old diaper blob didn't eat you...yet. lol.

That is a very clever idea. If I was one of those artists, I wouldn't put up with that shit. I would be very pissed off that they changed it out. But I guess in the end, it will all depend on who attends and who it offends.

Lol, you all want holes, lemme go grab my friend's shotgun. That should prove rather efficient. No holes or tats here. I don't have a desire for them and nor do I have the cash. But hey, if you're willing to let someone stick your winky with a pin, I'm glad you're you and not me.