From my perspective things are much different. Though I am not anyone of note, my life has been far from ho-hum. I lead an interesting life, and bring joy to others around me. I am content not being famous or in the public spotlight for doing "great" things. I do great things on a small scale every day. I am a listening ear when my neighbor needs it, I give things to people who would otherwise do without, I make a point to smile at someone who looks like they are having a hard time, I create beautiful artwork, and I take care of my families needs. To me, those things are greater and matter far more than those people out there screaming "Look at me! I can lip synch a pop song! Pay me millions! Oh, and here, I'll sell my bra for a charity (that takes 80% for the organization. Non profit my aft.)" Having unrealistic expectations is the reason people are disappointed in their kids. You should expect them to be themselves, not some mold you make for them. I won't deny they cost money, but I am still left with a desirable body that even looks good in a bikini. I had no hips and C cups before having a baby. Now I have an amazing hourglass comparable to Kim Kardashian. Having children can be frustrating, but it is also a very rewarding experience. There will never be a person who loves you more than your own child. If you show them love and nurture them, they will give you love back, unconditionally. If you treat them and raise them right, they can become something great, even if it is only to their loved ones and the people they are kind to. True greatness is not measured by the number of deeds you accomplish, how popular you are, or the skills you have, but by trying in the first place, the quality of your deeds, and recognizing your own strengths and weaknesses.