Who Masturbates in Diapers?

[Toddler Pampers]

1 hour ago, Little Piglet said:

Most definitely wearing diapers gives one a sense of comfort and a sense of security and you do feel safe. I am so glad wearing for you helps with you anxiety and you can sleep like a baby. There is nothing like sleeping like a baby at night. I literally missed many years of sleeping well at night and like I said at first I chose the conventional way to treat it with two unsuccessful surgeries when all I had to do is start wearing diapers and I would have remedied the situation myself. 

That is really heartbreaking.

My wife has known for 25 years, nearly the entire time we’ve been married, that I wear diapers, to pretend I’m a baby, to address anxiety.  It wasn’t until fairly recently that I understood the trauma I went through—-toilet training that I mistook for mommy distancing herself—-is why I’m ‘desperate for diapers’.  At that point, I told her that I wanted the therapy to include wearing diapers, and just a diaper, in front of her, so that I might benefit from being able to rewrite history, basically get mommy to stop training and continue diapering.

Fortunately, by this time, my wife couldn’t be rattled, even though she’s pretty vanilla.  She absolutely knows that I masturbate in diapers, but was able to understand that being a baby in front of her isn’t foreplay, but another angle from which to attack my anxiety.  But I also see her as my wife in these moments, mostly as we both move about the kitchen getting breakfast in the morning, which is to say that our relationship is now stronger because I’m not hiding, and she’s not ignoring, something that is very unusual, but also very beneficial, similar to medicinal leeches.

[Little Piglet]

3 minutes ago, Toddler Pampers said:

That is really heartbreaking.

My wife has known for 25 years, nearly the entire time we’ve been married, that I wear diapers, to pretend I’m a baby, to address anxiety.  It wasn’t until fairly recently that I understood the trauma I went through—-toilet training that I mistook for mommy distancing herself—-is why I’m ‘desperate for diapers’.  At that point, I told her that I wanted the therapy to include wearing diapers, and just a diaper, in front of her, so that I might benefit from being able to rewrite history, basically get mommy to stop training and continue diapering.

Fortunately, by this time, my wife couldn’t be rattled, even though she’s pretty vanilla.  She absolutely knows that I masturbate in diapers, but was able to understand that being a baby in front of her isn’t foreplay, but another angle from which to attack my anxiety.  But I also see her as my wife in these moments, mostly as we both move about the kitchen getting breakfast in the morning, which is to say that our relationship is now stronger because I’m not hiding, and she’s not ignoring, something that is very unusual, but also very beneficial, similar to medicinal leeches.

One thing I absolutely love about this is the support you have from your wife. That is what really makes this pretty much possible. Sure you yourself could attempt to tackle this anxiety on your own by wearing diapers and probably it would work to some extent, but your wife being supportive of you even though she is mostly vanilla if the key to making this work so well for you. 

I'm so glad you found this way before someone attempted to try and correct it in some sort of "conventional" way. Now I am not a doctor and I am not saying the conventional way doesn't work sometimes, but sometimes it definitely does not and here are two examples that the conventional approach did not work and two people taking the situation into their own hands and doing it the unconventional way made it work. 

[Toddler Pampers]

On 10/1/2024 at 11:51 PM, OneChappy said:

Oh yes. It's not necessary about pain but to humiliate is the goal. My wife will pull my pants down and firmly spank me in my disposable diaper. It has a nice thuddy transfer to it that feels intense and always gets me there. You could call it an effective role play. And I agree, the submissive feeling that brings is a big part of the excitement

I love the idea of women knowing that I’m diapered.  If they know, then they approve, and I feel submissive.  I understand that you can also feel submissive from a spanking.  I would accept one, but mainly on the level that, at that moment, she’s conscious that I’m wearing a diaper, that consciousness translating to approval.  I want her to want me in diapers is the bottom line.😊

[Little Piglet]

2 minutes ago, Toddler Pampers said:

I love the idea of women knowing that I’m diapered.  If they know, then they approve, and I feel submissive.  I understand that you can also feel submissive from a spanking.  I would accept one, but mainly on the level that, at that moment, she’s conscious that I’m wearing a diaper, that consciousness translating to approval.  I want her to want me in diapers is the bottom line.😊

When I had a caregiver/mommy I also loved the feeling of being submissive in everyway to her. When we were together, whether it be for day play, a weekend, or the two times I was lucky enough to go on a weeks vacation as her toddler baby I not only loved being diapered by her, but the entire aspect of being totally taken care of every need I had by her. I was in those situations completely submissive to her. I was a great feeling. 

[CuriousForPadding]

On 10/2/2024 at 4:36 PM, Little Sherri said:

…but when it comes to what I will now christen #3, there isn't that much chatter. Except here, evidently. 

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Back when I wore diapers as a guilty pleasure when I had alone time, it was almost always a turn-on, although it also helped me relax and it just felt "right". But the turn-on factor eclipsed the other two, at least initially.

A lot of this really resonates with me, and it’s so good seeing other people articulate things I’ve been thinking about. It is strange, maybe, that I feel so hesitant to talk here about the intimate aspects of #3 (love that naming!), but I do fear it would seem gratuitous as I delve into a 24/7 padded lifestyle.

When I just wore on weekends, it definitely had a sexual charge, but I think now that that was simply because I felt more comfortable and at ease with myself and my body. Those weekends became times of really wonderful, intimate exploration for my wife and I, taking a focus on what made us feel good without reference to my padded parts. It allowed us both space to explore our best erotic selves without shame or judgement.

Without writing a big long erotic novel about it, we’ve applied those lessons to our intimate life as diapers move from “unique sexy time” to “just the way I live now.” Still lots of fun for both of us, and my happiness and comfort being high makes everything better! But to answer the actual question here, yes, using for #3 had become a primary outlet for my sex life, and I’m having a ton of fun exploring this more deeply!

[adam4landry]

4 hours ago, CuriousForPadding said:

A lot of this really resonates with me, and it’s so good seeing other people articulate things I’ve been thinking about. It is strange, maybe, that I feel so hesitant to talk here about the intimate aspects of #3 (love that naming!), but I do fear it would seem gratuitous as I delve into a 24/7 padded lifestyle.

When I just wore on weekends, it definitely had a sexual charge, but I think now that that was simply because I felt more comfortable and at ease with myself and my body. Those weekends became times of really wonderful, intimate exploration for my wife and I, taking a focus on what made us feel good without reference to my padded parts. It allowed us both space to explore our best erotic selves without shame or judgement.

Without writing a big long erotic novel about it, we’ve applied those lessons to our intimate life as diapers move from “unique sexy time” to “just the way I live now.” Still lots of fun for both of us, and my happiness and comfort being high makes everything better! But to answer the actual question here, yes, using for #3 had become a primary outlet for my sex life, and I’m having a ton of fun exploring this more deeply!

Curious no offence does your wife changes your diapers ????

[OneChappy]

On 10/3/2024 at 12:21 PM, Toddler Pampers said:

I love the idea of women knowing that I’m diapered.  If they know, then they approve, and I feel submissive.  I understand that you can also feel submissive from a spanking.  I would accept one, but mainly on the level that, at that moment, she’s conscious that I’m wearing a diaper, that consciousness translating to approval.  I want her to want me in diapers is the bottom line.😊

It's a big thing to establish with a partner of course and having that avenue established really can open up some exciting doors we'd otherwise be left on our own with. It really clicked for me when my wife and I got into some general discussion about what sort of unique stuff we've liked or experienced intimately. So I just let my diaper secret out then during that sort of "hostage exchange" of secret desires, and it went over just fine. I had her curiosity in fact. I was very afraid to get that out there with her and I imagine that's common with many folks here from what I'm reading.

[Toddler Pampers]

On 10/6/2024 at 10:46 PM, OneChappy said:

It's a big thing to establish with a partner of course and having that avenue established really can open up some exciting doors we'd otherwise be left on our own with. It really clicked for me when my wife and I got into some general discussion about what sort of unique stuff we've liked or experienced intimately. So I just let my diaper secret out then during that sort of "hostage exchange" of secret desires, and it went over just fine. I had her curiosity in fact. I was very afraid to get that out there with her and I imagine that's common with many folks here from what I'm reading.

My wife is sexually vanilla, completely a lady.  Fortunately, she understands that I wear diapers therapeutically, like someone would use a weighted blanket.  I sleep like a baby, literally, even though I’m not the least bit incontinent.  Being diapered in bed feels so secure.  In bed, you feel a lot more, because your eyes are closed.  At that point, it just feels amazing to be diapered, which is also very distracting, so exactly the effect of a weighted blanket.  Diapered in bed, I feel both completely relaxed, and so fixated on my diaper that I’m incapable of negative thoughts and worrying.  I used to wake up frightened with anxiety.  Not a bit anymore, thanks to pretending I’m a baby with diapers.

[PuraVidaDip]

Almost every night! I love the feeling of staying in my diapers after.

[Toddler Pampers]

2 minutes ago, PuraVidaDip said:

Almost every night! I love the feeling of staying in my diapers after.

That’s interesting.  Most guys take them off right after ejaculating, if not throw everything away in disgust!   I take them off right afterward, but not because I’m disgusted.  They just don’t feel particularly sexy anymore.

[PuraVidaDip]

1 hour ago, Toddler Pampers said:

That’s interesting.  Most guys take them off right after ejaculating, if not throw everything away in disgust!   I take them off right afterward, but not because I’m disgusted.  They just don’t feel particularly sexy anymore.

Got to shift your mindset!

[Tony1988]

Yes please 

[Three Rivers]

A Magic Wand and a wet diaper are a very good combination. After release I stay in them until my diaper is at capacity. I used to want them off right after as well, but now I just keep them on and go about my day. Different mind set.

[notababy]

On 8/3/2024 at 3:40 PM, msjy said:

I have masturbated a couple of times in my wet diaper but it gets me out of headspace and lose interest in wearing.

I actually take advantage of this.  Very much the same - post orgasm, the desire is gone.  It's then, though, if I re-diaper and stay that way that the emotional side really takes hold.  The comfort.  The security.  It's 100% not sexual anymore and just the base appreciation of the diaper.

[Hannah YMS]

On 8/3/2024 at 7:23 AM, Toddler Pampers said:

Who Masturbates in Diapers?

I saw this post from someone's profile. I just had to enter the fray and say, Who Doesn't Masturbate in Diapers?  

[Snugglebear_69]

16 hours ago, Hannah YMS said:

I saw this post from someone's profile. I just had to enter the fray and say, Who Doesn't Masturbate in Diapers?  

I don't  masturbate in diapers because my Daddy prefers to take care of me and that's waaaaayyyy more fun than masturbating. Why would I masturbate in diapers when my partner likes doing much more interesting things with me instead 😁

[Goerge]

I've masturbated once in 24 days and couldn't get a hard on or climax... So I'm going to go the whole month of jan without a wank and just 24/7 wearing for both 1 and 2.

[2sail2]

3 hours ago, Goerge said:

I've masturbated once in 24 days and couldn't get a hard on or climax... So I'm going to go the whole month of jan without a wank and just 24/7 wearing for both 1 and 2.

Hopefully, you aren't squeezing too hard.  I found if  I am a little loose, I get teenage rock hard.

 

 

[le Hollandais]

I wonder how much age may make a difference. I still enjoy a good wank in a dirty diaper. But it seems I don't get as erect as I did a few decades ago.

[dlsafrica]

Oddly enough, being in diapers doesn't make me want to masturbate at all... Until I'm wet and changing.. then only maybe 

[Dee Cee]

On 8/4/2024 at 7:45 AM, rusty pins said:

I think the better question would be, "Who DOSEN'T masturbate in diapers?"

I don’t think I have ever busted a nut , ever in my diaper , every once in a blue moon , I try and beat my dick , at 70+,  but it takes way more effort than it did , back in the day , and it doesn’t even come close to the way it felt , back when  “Bob”, was in his heyday 😕, so it’s not worth the effort …really ! 

On 12/26/2024 at 2:52 AM, Hannah YMS said:

I saw this post from someone's profile. I just had to enter the fray and say, Who Doesn't Masturbate in Diapers?  

I don’t have a clue what fluid means , but shit yer still a kid at 40 , rubbin one out , should be like pissin off the porch ! Back when I was 40 , I never thought about beatin , my dick ! Their was way to much ,eager , and willing , cute chicks , that liked a good “throw in the hay” at the drop of a hat , to waste any of my , cock juice on rubbing one out ! 🤣😂🤪

[Mez]

It doesn't  seem  that  Women seem  to  Masturbate  like  Men do

[PoopyDiaperDude]

On 1/13/2025 at 10:09 AM, Mez said:

It doesn't  seem  that  Women seem  to  Masturbate  like  Men do

My wife...back in our younger years....masturbated as often or more than I did.  We had lots of regular sex, and we both had solo time too.  

Now, sadly, her libido is gone.  I've taken a lover as a result.

[Spanky]

I rubbed the front of my wet and messy ABU PeekABU diaper earlier today and went #3 in my diaper while watching some spanking videos,  seeing cute bottoms getting paddled.

[foreverdl]

I used to rub my diaper a lot, till I got carried away a few times and rubbed myself soo sore that I had to not use a diaper for days, I had to medicine up till he healed up.. I love to rub it, but just don't do it for a long time, see, with all my pain meds I can't feel the good stuff as much as I like to, so rubbing to completion is more rare..