Joey DYLAN Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 I was wondering how many have or have not had success in coming out to their mate, for me , it was 32 years ago now, I saw the relationship getting serious, so I knew I had to tell her I was abdl and wore diapers, thankfully she accepted this part of me and have been married ever since 1 Link to comment
Babyqtboy Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 19 plus years married here, told her about my DL side a week before we moved in together. She was completely understanding and supportive from the beginning. Well, I mean she had questions and was curious as to what it was all about at first, but after talking and then diapering me, she was supportive and understanding 1 Link to comment
iluvmydiapers Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 My wife knew of my diapers when we where dating. It was not until after we were married I told her the real reason I wore diapers. Link to comment
Joey DYLAN Posted September 24, 2017 Author Share Posted September 24, 2017 For me, and I don't know if this is the case with some of you, I did not have any physical affection from my mother, and I long for that, so I think I was looking for that in a mate , so I think our physical relationship is more like that of mother/son, with the diaper changing and nursing, Link to comment
iluvmydiapers Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 1 hour ago, Joey DYLAN said: For me, and I don't know if this is the case with some of you, I did not have any physical affection from my mother, and I long for that, so I think I was looking for that in a mate , so I think our physical relationship is more like that of mother/son, with the diaper changing and nursing, 1 Link to comment
diaperguy85 Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 i came out to my g/f about 8 or 10 1 Link to comment
Babyqtboy Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 5 hours ago, Joey DYLAN said: For me, and I don't know if this is the case with some of you, I did not have any physical affection from my mother, and I long for that, so I think I was looking for that in a mate , so I think our physical relationship is more like that of mother/son, with the diaper changing and nursing, Link to comment
duluthdiapers Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 Yes, you are correct about many of us looking for the Mommy in our wives, that we never had in our real mothers. Link to comment
Babyqtboy Posted September 24, 2017 Share Posted September 24, 2017 57 minutes ago, duluthdiapers said: Yes, you are correct about many of us looking for the Mommy in our wives, that we never had in our real mothers. Link to comment
Joey DYLAN Posted September 24, 2017 Author Share Posted September 24, 2017 Sorry about your divorce Link to comment
duluthdiapers Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 No, I haven't found anyone. Link to comment
MattyMax Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 I told my partner while we were still just "friends". Link to comment
oliver d Posted September 25, 2017 Share Posted September 25, 2017 It took me 17yrs of marriage and a bad accident my wife had to come out to her about my diaper wearing.She doesnt take part but lets me wear whenever I want witch is mostly to bed and around the house on weekends. 1 Link to comment
LittleAmytheil Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 My boyfriend of 10+ years found my diaper stash hidden when he was trying to find his Renaissance Faire belt. 1 Link to comment
Babyqtboy Posted September 26, 2017 Share Posted September 26, 2017 1 hour ago, LittleAmytheil said: My boyfriend of 10+ years found my diaper stash hidden when he was trying to find his Renaissance Faire belt. Link to comment
dlnoir Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 I came out to my girlfriend about 10 months into our relationship. You can imagine I was afraid she'd Link to comment
FullyLoaded Posted September 27, 2017 Share Posted September 27, 2017 I told my GF ALL about my diapers last weekend. Link to comment
LittleAmytheil Posted September 28, 2017 Share Posted September 28, 2017 On 9/26/2017 at 5:11 PM, Babyqtboy said: See, I always thought this would be an easier revealing for women, 1 Link to comment
Babyqtboy Posted September 29, 2017 Share Posted September 29, 2017 10 hours ago, LittleAmytheil said: Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. Link to comment
username Posted October 1, 2017 Share Posted October 1, 2017 I told my best friend yesterday I wanted to start wearing nappies again. He new because I wore openly while around him 10 years ago when he came to live with me when he became homeless for 3 months. He thought it was a faze at the time. He's fine with it. I wasn't uncomfortable explaining it to him. I'm in the mindset that I'm going to wear 24/7 now and achieve incontinence and if people are not happy with me wearing or make me feel bad about it I don''t want them in my life. He did ask me how long I've been wearing nappies for and I told him one week and he said he couldn't tell even though I have been wearing Molicare Slip Maxis under jogging bottoms (sweatpants) That make me feel good although I don't care if people know I'm wearing. I'm not going to flaunt I'm wearing. I'm more accepting and I'm going to become incontinent, something I have wanted since I was a young child. Link to comment
tndyperboy Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 I told my husband about diaper wearing when we while we were dating, I think it was 4 months after we met. He was actually good about it right away. That was 19 years ago. He has tried them a few times but doesn't really get the attraction. Though he will wear for convenience once in a while, i.e. long road trip, sick, that sort of thing. Link to comment
le Hollandais Posted December 11, 2017 Share Posted December 11, 2017 When my wife and I were beginning to date, DL was pretty far off the radar. I have what I'd call DL episodes where I'll be into it for months, or a few days, and then forget all about it. Right now I'm into one of my episodes. I'm learning how to fold diapers, and how to make DIY diapers out of flour sack towels, bath towels, or large pieces of absorbent fabric. The last episode happened maybe 10 years ago. I have no idea how long this episode will last. I've never let on. Link to comment
Fulldiaper Posted December 11, 2017 Share Posted December 11, 2017 My ex knew before we got married and shut me down the day we said I do, she didn't and wouldn't. Other girlfriends I have told were quite understanding and many even participated. Link to comment
Zuesbaby Posted December 11, 2017 Share Posted December 11, 2017 It's been six since I told my girlfriend at the time and she is my wife who loves the way I am. There was an adjustment period For her learning about it. Link to comment
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