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My bladder capacity has sufficiently reduced from prolonged nappy wearing.

Drylife Slip is also my favourite nappy.

I don't think I have any prostate problems. I have no trouble peeing but over years have got used to just dribbling without clenching and now I pee in little dribbles and gushes. I believe my sphincters have got weaker from prolonged wearing and maybe thats why the stream is weaker?

When I've had a nappy wearing binge my bladder becomes over-sensitive and the smallest amount of urine in my bladder feels uncomfortable and and I have to use toilet and pee, this will be only a very slight dribble in toilet and I have to remember to clench afterwards. My bladder has become over-sensitive and I'm noticing I'm using the toilet more often when not wearing and my stream is weaker. I'm waking up straight from sleeping to use the toilet in the night multiple times and really it isn't a full bladder anymore and the stream isn't strong like it used to be. I always pee while taking a poo. I go through long binges wearing and I wet at the slightest urge without clenching, this has become a habit now. I just dribble and gush all day without much notice keeping everything relaxed. when peeing in my nappy it doesn't have the volume and its week I like the thought of IC but keep chickening out just going 24/7 for months. Am I becoming incontinent? What will be my next symptoms if I just went 100% wearing? I think I already have a overactive bladder? What would be next?

I think if I was looking for incontinence surgery the best and easiest option would be the Lords Stretch. This procedure was used to treat Haemorrhoids many years ago but got out of favour because of the significant risk of fecal incontinence. It's relative simple and if anal stretching is done properly will result in permanent fecal incontinence. http://fissuresurgerymd.com/anal-dilation-lords-operation Although this procedure fascinates me and I don't think it would be that hard to find somebody willing to do it especially in Eastern Europe or Turkey if I thought about it rationally permanent fecal incontinence would suck. I read that if done right the incontinence would be total and passive which means you'll be unaware that you have messed yourself. If I put this into protective when I have gone 24/7 for urine only incontinence pretending and needed a bowel movement while wearing 90% of the time this was inconvenient and would of caused severe embarrassment had I messed myself and there is no hiding a poopy nappy. With passive fecal incontinence I will mess myself 2/3 times a day for the rest of my life and there is nothing I can do about it.

I wouldn't call you blessed. If I wanted to wear nappies I wouldn't let a partner come between my nappies and me. I can and will wear nappies when ever I want.

I'm trying to lose continence.

I believe my sphincter muscle is becoming weaker from my prolong 24/7 wearing and wetting at the slightest urge and not excising my sphincter by clenching. I'm very good at renaming relaxed. I'm been doing this for a few years in binges but when I hit a purge I start using the toilet again. I have noticed I am getting post-micturition dribble after using the toilet. I have wet drops in my pants. As well as it's taking me longer to get rid of the constant urge to pee, constant feeling I have pee in my bladder and when I use the toilet its a little dribble/stream which resembles when I'm wetting in my nappy as its always a little dribble or gush. What would happen to my continence if I finally carried on with the binge for months and continue wearing nappies wetting at the slights urge. What would the progression be?

I'm wearing a slightly wet BetterDry.

Jumping in here with night time wetting. On my first/second/third attempts at gaining nighttime incontinence I tried the drinking loads of water before bed approach which they suggested in the Diaper Training Program. This would result in me waking up shorty after with a bursting bladder and unable to relax my sphincter meaning I had to get out of bed and wet, this often saturating my nappy which then needed to be then changed. Over time while wearing during the day I would concentrate at wetting and keeping my sphincter completely relaxed trying not to clench. This was hard to do as my sphincter would reflexively clench as soon as I started to pee. I would have to concentrate to un-relax it then wet. Urine would build up meaning I always flooded, after wetting I always reflexively clenched shut again, had a bit of stinging as well. I practiced and practiced not clenching and remaining completely relaxed. It took some time to be able to wet freely, it was a slow progression in my wetting abilities. I know wet in dribbles and gushes without automatically clenching, this is throughout the day and my nappies hold up pretty good without leaks. I can wear a Tena Slip Plus for hours without leaking because I'm wetting in dribbles. I never flood now. Back to the night time wetting I practiced wetting while lying down, this keeping my sphincter relaxed and open. That took some doing but after a while I was able to wet lying on my back, then I started lying on my side, surprisingly I took to wetting lying on my side much easier than on my back. I can now wet in any position in dribbles and gushes. Before bed I have a glass of water and when I awake I made the habit of wetting then falling back to sleep. When I can remember its only a gush or dribble, I do this multiple times a night and I wake up in a wet nappy. I noticed when I turn over I have involuntary dribbling I wear BetterDry during the night and they never leak even when sleeping on my side. I'm not IC as I have strong bing/purge cycles and in a purge always retrain myself but have never lost my ability to wet at the slightest urge when wearing nappies or even when lying in bed. I have lost some continence. Also since my antipsychotic medication change my libedo has come back and I've been in a binge constantly wearing for 6 weeks straight. Got the constant urge to pee all the time. When pee is in my bladder it feels uncomfortable. Got post post micturition dribble also with weak stream. I have to actively clench my sphincter when out of nappies.

Middle/late 1990's Tena Slips were available in the U.K. So were Attends and Molicare. I wore Tena Slips from 1997 to 2003 when I was a teenager every night not due to IC but child psychologist told my foster parents I had attachment disorder from being a abused child so they were a comfort to me. My foster parents let me wear every night from 11 to 17.

I found the best approach to wet wile lying down is to be on my back with my knee bent up and concentrate to wet. Keep sphincter relaxed and open. At first you're going to have sphincter reflex clench. I did, with practice after a few days it become second nature like with standing/walking/sitting. I am now able to wet in any position without clenching and this is a learned behaviour so even when not been wearing for a week or two I am still able to wet in any position without clenching. I do believe this has had an effect on my continence since I've been doing this.

I'm able to wet in drips and dribbles without excising my sphincter muscle. This way I never leak too. After a few weeks doing this wearing 24/7 I have to do sphincter clenching excises as I have a contact urge to urinate and when I do it's a small weak stream, I have to use the toilet multiple times a hour to to relieve the urge. I know if I continue wearing I would defiantly lose continence.

I forget what progress I've made over the years. I am able to wet anywhere.. Walking, chatting to people., etc I think I already have a weakened pubococcygeus muscle as I have post void dribbling, find it hard to get erections, small penis, weak urine steam. I'm also getting overactive bladder as have a content urge to pee. I just wish I could brake the binge/purge cycle.

I'm very adapt at just dribbling and gushing without pushing and keeping my sphincter open without clenching. I get a near content feeling of an urge to pee. When I pee it's a little dribble and urge doesn't go away. Its taken many years of binges/purge to get to this point. What happens if I keep this up for until 1st Jan 2021? Thats the goal I've set.

I think being a permanent baby is basically being wanting brain damage or a severe Intellectual Disability. I like the idea of being severely mentally impaired. It's going to be hard to find a partner that will take care of you. You would need residential care or group home, most people with severe intellectual disabilities are effectively treated like babies.

Most sites look like they haven't undated the information on Molicare Slip Supers. On the link their still using the old Molicare product details from years ago. They stoped the Super Plus line many years ago.

I do believe they discontinued that product line. Last time I received Molicare nappies like that were around 2007/8/9. Here in the U.K. one website describes them as having ''Breathable textile side panels for increased patient comfort.'' This is wrong for the Molicare Maxi Slip. They are plastic sided so the description here is wrong. This is on https://www.nappiesrus.co.uk/molicare-slip-maxi I have purchased many Molicare Slip Maxi for years and they have always been a plastic backed nappy. I do believe unlike some companies like Tena and Attends, Molicare are the same nappy in both Europe and America. Made in France. They don't make them in America.

They are plentiful in the U.K. Been having a continuous shipment every month since 2017. Never had supply problems I also love them.

This is in erectile tissues atrophy and sphincter atrophy... I think my penis has shrunk.. I never get full flaccid erections. I have practise since being young to message my penis for orgasm and stopping when my penis got flaccid, this overtime as had a effect on my ability to have a erection... This as well as wetting at the slightest urge.

U.K. different spelling!

Your probably not far off. I think George did get institutionalised.

I would like a hypnosis tape/sessions that reinforces my need to wear nappies and trains me to become anxious if I'm not wearing a nappy.

I'm going to find it difficult to stop wearing especially when I'm in a binge. I have struggled with maintaining a wear/not wear life balance. I find myself drinking moderate amounts of fluids over a long duration and sitting on my computer chair reading things on the internet.. I lean slightly with my arms resting on my computer table... Because I have slight pressure on my bladder when my bladder fills I get a very strong urge to pee. I can very easily wet and I begin to pee and its only a slow flow as it feels like my urethra is kinked but I can still continue a steady flow. (I will stand up without clenching and it gushes in a small/fast flow without the clench at the end) The amount I've peed is disproportionate to how my bladder has felt as it does feel much fuller. I can wet while maintaining a completely relaxed and open sphincter muscle without even a slight clench. When sitting I start feeing the urge to pee even before I have any urine to pee... when it reaches the right pressure I wet in a little stream/gush again... This happens all throughout the day. I practice concentrating on the feeling of a completely relaxed and open sphincter. When I'm doing this I always have a mild urge to pee even when I've just peed..When I'm standing or walking I can pee very easily and its more like weeping and little dribbles throughout the day. I practice concentrating with a open sphincter while I'm walking, sitting, laying on the settee and laying in bed.. I can pee in all positions. The only time I automatically clench is when I sneeze.. I practice this every time I'm in a binge. It takes some time to adjust to wearing underwear again. It only used to take a couple of days before the urge to want to pee all the time died down...Then it was back to normal. Things I've noticed with decline in my continence... First it was post micturition dribble, I would and - still do - involuntarily pee on the floor while I'm having a bowel movement.. I always leave a puddle on the floor when having a poo... I can't last through two beers or through a cinema showing without having a strong urge to pee and using the toilet. Occasionally when peeing in the toilet I end up leaving a large wet patch on my trousers as my stream has been very uneven and not a strong straight line in the toilet bowl like it used to be. The bladder twinges which leave me needing the toilet straight away. I don't want incontinence, incontinence will ruin my trips abroad but I can't stop the binge cycle.. and I like simulating incontinence.

My worst getting caught moment was when I was arrested for drunk and disorderly about 12 years ago. I was going through a 24/7 wearing binge and got arrested while wearing a thick Tena Slip Maxi. Lucky I was arrested outside my house and told the arresting officers I was incontinent and needed my pads. They went in my house and fetched my backpack with my supplies. I got taken to the police station and the arresting officer must of told the custardy sergeant about my incontinence issues. He asked a few questions about my 'disabilities'. After taking my shoe laces they asked if I had any lace in my sweat pant bottoms which there was and it couldn't be taken out so they gave me some blue police issue sweat pants. I had to undress in front of an officer in a private room/cell exposing my wet nappy in from the the officer and change into the police issue bottoms. They were very tight and low cut and they definitely exposed the outline of my nappy and bulge.. They took me to a cell to sleep it off.. I remember waking up really wet and sober thinking I better play along with this plus I needed to change so I rang the cell buzzer and somebody came and I had to tell them I needed to change my pad, he came back with a clinical waste bag and a nappy. I changed and put my nappy in the bag, I remember is being heavy, he came and I gave him the bag. I managed to make that nappy last me all night.. When they released me the next morning I to walk into the main custardy bit which my tight sweat pants and bulging nappy. There was quite a few people in the area, I was sure everybody was looking at me... They gave me a ticket and fine to pay and let me change into a fresh nappy and my own sweat pants.. It took me awhile to not cringe about that moment for quite awhile.