pax87 Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 I have the hardest time asking my girlfriend to diaper me. So far she's only done it a handful of times because I just can't get the words out. And even though she knows what I'm asking her, she won't help me until I ask. We call them d's because I'm way too shy to call them diapers. Just now she asked if I needed a change before she went out and I was too shy to say yes. Lol, I have issues. >.> 2 Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 I'm certainly not an extrovert, if anything I'm more of an isolationist when it comes to the general public. I've learned to be more comfortable with who I am though, and have gotten over the misplaced social stigma associated with diapers. As former military, I guess I am a bit more secured in who I am and much less concerned with what others might think of me too. 1 Link to comment
minachan16 Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 I'm pretty extroverted, especially with my fiancee, but when it comes to diapers, I just can't get the words out. There's a shame to it that I can't seem to shake, even knowing he is not only okay with it but wants to participate in it. I can do things like call him "daddy", suck my thumb playfully, cuddle with stuffed animals in front of him, but it is so unbelievably difficult to muster the courage to say "can you put me in a diaper?". Even when I take it upon myself to put on a diaper myself, walking in front of him wearing, it feels like I'm doing something wrong, like there's a little voice inside my head that's telling me I should have just asked, but it's so much easier said than done. 1 Link to comment
Toddy Posted November 16, 2014 Author Share Posted November 16, 2014 This is great, everybody! Link to comment
DLdapper Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 Over the years I have strived to become extremely confident with what I choose to do and be in life and as a result I am completely comfortable talking about anything, abdl/kink included. If the situation is appropriate I will talk about that aspect of my life without holding back. 1 Link to comment
WakkoWannaBe Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 It kind of depends on who I'd be speaking to and what the circumstances were. I've only talked about diapers to one good friend (mainly via text), and once very briefly with my mom (face to face). Link to comment
id0ntknow Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 I don't have a SO, but have told my family. That was really hard to do, and I was in tears doing so. I can't bring myself to tell my close friends for the fear of breaking the friendship apart after so many years. Link to comment
captureastronautbywomen Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 Hi, to me it is very difficult Link to comment
Hookedondiapers Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 My wife is comfortable talking about diapers, as long as it isn't too often. Link to comment
BriGuy Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 At first it was tough. I feared rejection and a life of lonliness... but the more I spoke about it the more confident I became the easier the topic was to broach. Now its like talking about anything else, it is what it is. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 Agreed, I believe more than anything you first need to be confident in you self (and diapers). Once you can achieve that then everything else will fall in line much easier. Link to comment
Closet DL Male Posted November 16, 2014 Share Posted November 16, 2014 I am in the "closet", so-to-speak about this part of my life. Link to comment
Toddy Posted November 16, 2014 Author Share Posted November 16, 2014 This is probably not the point of view you were looking for. Link to comment
MuscleBaby Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 Firstly you have to be lucky enough to meet someone you have that special connection with that you can open up with about anything you care about, let alone something like this. I find it's best explained by telling the story of how it began for me as a child. Approach it as this happened and this is how my mind ,as a child, dealt with a bad situation. Link to comment
rusty pins Posted November 17, 2014 Share Posted November 17, 2014 I never talk about diapers when around my family, who have no clue I like diapers. Link to comment
Kodachi96 Posted November 18, 2014 Share Posted November 18, 2014 For me it is a bit hard. I am still feeling my way around. Sometimes I feel too embarrassed to even use my pacifier even if it soothes me a bit. Sometimes I feel my baby makes fun of me for liking baby stuffs. Other times I feel really awkward and just want to hid the fact that liking baby stuff is fun. Link to comment
Guest Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 I find it very easy to talk about diapers my wife even asks if I have to change my diaper anywhere we go sense I don't always know I have to change Link to comment
Rachel Emily Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 It's a bit more complicated with me. Most people who know me know I wear diapers, but it's very difficult for me to tell people the real reason for it. I tell people I wear them because of a lack of bladder control, but it's only partially true. Every time I tell someone I like wearing diapers, I fear they'll misunderstand and think I would harm children. I've been lucky so far, but I figure my luck will run out eventually, so I tell only when I feel backed in a corner and there's no way out of it. Link to comment
CDLover Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 The only one I would talk about this with is my SO. Link to comment
oliver d Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 The only person I ever really talked about it Link to comment
sbbaby Posted November 19, 2014 Share Posted November 19, 2014 I think it is extremely difficult to talk about diapers with people who aren't into the scene because it just seems so foreign. Link to comment
turtlepins Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 Even those of us who are incontinent have to be very careful when talking about how much we like wearing diapers. Link to comment
baby_ryan Posted November 20, 2014 Share Posted November 20, 2014 I've been outed over the last year or so by friends and family and when it comes to discussing it with them they tend to find it harder to say the word 'nappy' than I do. Most of them when bringing it up in discussion people will say 'When you're wearing one....' or words to that effect. Link to comment
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