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Some of you may know him from the original chat days way back when. His name is dlb with a my little pony icon. He was a great friend with a very kind heart. He recently passed away this week. He was a burn victim and suffered with several complications with different organs. But his body said it could no longer keep fighting and he is now resting in peace and hopefully running, jumping, climbing, and playing again. For any of you that do remember him, I just wanted to share.

It was the bear hugz ones!! Yes!! Thank you thank you!!

I’m trying to find this recently new diaper that came out and if anyone could help, i would greatly appreciate it. The primary and noteable thing that stands out is it has Velcro tabs and looks very much like the old Active X or fit diapers (I can’t remember their exact name). But now they have a print on them, something like pastel-ish colors. I can’t remember what the print is exactly either. I understand this is really vague but any help I’ll be grateful for.

Howdy! FtM little boy here! We exist!

Well, I plan on going practically 24/7 by next year. I was an occasional bed wetter as a teenager and still have nights where it happens. I also can't hold it for very long when I do get the urge to go potty. So, I have a feeling this will happen eventually. Going 24/7 will probably result in the regression of being able to hold it.

Right now, I don't have much opportunity for any type of routine since my work schedule and the traveling with it varies so much. But, I'm hoping to make some significant changes here in the next couple of months. I plan on having a routine of baths, pjs, books as quiet time (either being read to or just reading something on my own), and then lights out at a reasonable hour. I have something planned for the mornings as well. But, alas, still having to wait a few months to start.

I used to use goodnight and the biggest sized Luvs (because of their scent. Oh god, what a lovely scent). And I found they were useful in trading out when wearing in public without having to change the whole diaper. Aka, just switch the stuffer. But then I found that tena makes these amazing overnight pads that are oversized and have a sticky side. They are also a cheaper version of the ABDL ones online. With a super sharp blade, you can make them perfect stuffers. I usually make 3 or 4 cuts.

For a beautiful woman to seduce me and catch on to my little side and then make me her little boy. Because clearly, who can say no? Lol. Also, to be directly treated as a baby in front of her friends, despite my age and size not meeting the little baby parameter. Aka, being changed on the couch while her friends are over, being told I'm too little for stuff or being put to bed, etc.

Ideally, whomever is changing me would rub my tummy and tickle me. Play with me or have my stuffies dance on my belly while nursing a bottle or suckling a paci.

I have a history of bedwetting and over active bladder/ short and abrupt warning signals. I think, given those circumstances, I would be able to easily just thwart any types of unreasonable questioning.

Not currently. My job keeps me from being able to as I travel so much and it's not ideal. But here in a few months I hope to be changing jobs and plan to wear daily.

Diapers and little things have always been a part of my life. I just didn't understand it all until I was in middle school. I figured out there was this huge community of others like me who had all these little desires. After a story forum kind of started going down, I joined here in its earlier years and when the chat room was bonkers.

Baby powder under the fingernails also drives me bonkers. When the tapes don't stick or when the tabs tear off when taping up. When you didn't line the tapes up right. When you've padded up and suddenly gotta go number 2. When the diaper sags in a droopy way. When you try a new brand and it sucks.

Meh, once I had that mentality of not caring. Somewhere along the line, I've developed this embarrssment of wearing. So, now I'm trying to overcome that, lol.

It's pretty easy nowadays. In the beginning it was hard to get used to. But the more often I wore over time made it easier.

This is probably one of the best crib threads I have read. I always hear how people want one or build one, but this is the best, hands down. I have thought about making my own based off of an iron day bed that I have. But this is really cool to see how everyone has different ideas or actual cribs. We should have an ultimate ABDL crib thread!!

I enjoy it. I've had instances where I had actual accidents when I did t realize I had to go so badly. But holding it for some time and then getting so desperate is fun. And yes, it is arousing in a way. However, I mostly associate it with my little (non-sexual). As a little boy, it's hard to member to potty sometimes. Especially when I gots big boy unnies on. Paxy

First off, congratulations on what type of little time you do have! You have by far more than what most generally do. All things considered, step back and evaluate the situation. Look from her perspective, try and figure out what she can get out of it, etc. Don't force what she can get out of it on her, but keep these ideas present. This will come in handy in a moment. Questions you should consider about the situation from her side... How old are you both? How serious is your relationship(her side and yours)? Has she talked about wanting kids? Chances are if you're in a relationship as a young couple, her maternal instincts may not be as present as you'd like. If your relationship with her isn't really serious, her finding that bond.. That thought of having kids, may not be what she has going on the back of her mind. If she hasn't brought up kids, etc, then she might not be ready to dive into her maternal needs. Mind you, this isn't a bad thing. But it does help you gain perspective from her side. Now, breastfeeding might not be something she is interested in. It's possible that is a limit she isn't comfortable satisfying for you and if you care about your relationship then you will respect her boundaries. Back to the topic of her getting something out of it. Given some time, that maternal bond may develop. Imagine her as if she just adopted a baby. There is going to be a period of time where both mother and child learn each other and become synced. Patience will be your best friend. Communication will be your second best friend. Open, honest, vulnerable communication. This will establish that bridge to understanding. She's not a mind reader and neither are you. At the same time, try and make more free time for her. Caring for any baby, adult or not, is a lot of work. So help out extra around the house, buy her some nice flowers, a nice shirt or write her a letter about how you feel about her and what she means to you(little or not). Fair enough? Try those things. Give it time. Be patient. Clearly communicate. And give it more time. Good luck!

Ermmm... There's a lot more to that. You have to mimic what a baby would do because without a proper latch, you are doing her no good and it won't help induce. First, you both need to find a good position for the both of you. As a larger baby, the cradling position is harder. For my Mommy and I, we like to snuggle up in bed side by side. Mommy puts my pillow at her breasts and I lay up close with a fuzzy blankie. Again, you'll have to find what works for you both. In terms of getting a good latch, you need to open your mouth wide enough to get a majority of the aereola and nipple part to the further back part of your mouth. You shouldn't have a lot of meaty/fleshy part in your mouth, but enough that when you suckle you aren't solely suckling on her nipple because that's painful for her. Wrap your tongue around her nipple and create a soft suction. Imagine the sides of your tongue being attached to the roof of your mouth. Once you have a good latch, draw your mouth open and closed, this jaw movement is what helps create the let down. It's similar to mimicking marmette breast massage, which will tell her breasts to produce milk in addition to the hormones that will be released. Your tongue should move in a wave-like motion from front to back consistently. Every two to four suckles you should swallow. Swallowing shouldn't be after every suckle. My rhythm is suckle, suckle, suckle, swallow. To promote the best induction of milk, you should only nurse between 5-15 minutes on each side. Once you are done with that side, you are finished with it for that particular session. Any longer can be detrimental to the induction because it puts stress on the breasts. Think about it, a typical baby wouldnt nurse any longer to begin with, but breast milk is produced on supply and demand. If there is no demand, no supply. Suckling frequently with many sessions will tell her body to produce milk. Like 'woah!! There's a lot of nursing going on and not enough milk to go around. We need more milk!!' Lol. So then her body will make more. You can get by with at least one nursing session, but there needs to be stimulation at least 4 times a day. The more actual suckling sessions vs massaging, the better. If you really want some good info check out a profile called Bainnes from fetlife. She has pics, journals, how to's, and is open to questions. Hope that helps get you started! Happy suckling! Paxy

spaghetti or any kind of noodles, mushed foods like mashed potatoes, applesauce, finger foods can be any meal without utensils, veggies are fun to eat with your fingers, chicken fingers/nuggets, fries, tater tots, cut up chicken to baby size, etc. have fun!

Hey, just curious, im interested in a romper or onesie and am on the chubby baby spectrum. any pricing yet?

Hey guys and gals and pretty unicorns, Just wondering how people feel about diapers and how it relates to their dysphoria. I'm am transitioning to male and notice some days my dysphoria is so bad that I crabe being diapered. So, my question to you all is do you notice of diapers help minimalizd that feeling in regards to your bits downstairs?

Basically just about any pair you see for toddlers in Walmart, boy or girl. It's possible that it's easier to find toddler type underwear for girls. However, not so much for boys. Walmart, target, and the likes used to carry undies close, but now all they make are cartoon boxers. Specifically, I'm talking about the kind with colored piping and a print on the butt and/or front. Even carter's and Gymboree and giranimals makes a fun design. Google is a friend here. I'd post pics, but my phone doesn't let that happen.

I no longer live in Texas, but there is a group from FetLife called Cake+++ that meets monthly. It's a small group, but they are super friendly. You have to be approved before meeting up and going to an event. It's age appropriate play only, so don't get your hopes up on anything sexual. They don't do that and there are rules. It's to keep everyone safe. But it's a lot of fun! Check it out.