My problem with ADISC.org

[Dubious]

I have been 32 for many years now

[Nat]

I suspect that the majority who are banned about lying about their age had actually put in a fake birthdate. But face it, the public can't see your birthdate but the admins.

[Voksenbleie.Komfort@gmail.com]

ADISC

[willnotwill]

Well that would be nice.

[Dubious]

I have almost been banned on DD for a stupid mistake I did against a mod (long time ago)

I got banned on ADISC for writing "I like kids", so no families allowed there

[PullUpDiaperLover]

My opinion of ADISC is its very narrow minded. Limited to talking about diapers and a couple of other subjects that I cannot remember now, and tries to betray diapers as non-sexual, when they are sexual for 98% of everyone on some level. I was on there for 5 years, back when kids were around (which since its scope of discussion was so limited never seemed like a problem to me) then one day I am booted for "security reasons", no appeal, no reason, no warning.

[Nat]

I tried to ask not too long ago what security reasons examples were

[willnotwill]

Not any different here.

[Nat]

I didn't realize it happened here too except for every time there is a hack or some attack here by a virus and the admin has to restore the forum and it's back to a certain day the way it was and all the posts made after that is gone.

[Elfy]

I can't speak for other admins but if I delete a thread or a post or something within a post I will message/warn the person depending on what is appropriate.

That said I'm not actually aware of many threads or posts that get outright deleted. Ones that do tend to be deleted are personal attacks, spam or off-topic posts will get deleted sometimes depending on how bad they are.

[willnotwill]

Well, I went through this with DD and Repaid1 a few

[Nat]

I wish mods on every forum would inform their member of removed posts because it's so annoying to just see them gone without any warning. Just one of my forum pet peeves.

[Dartplayerinwvc]

I wear them for wetting and sexual reasons. Always knew why and never shy about it.

[Darkfinn]

On 10/2/2016 at 1:10 PM, Spokane Girl said:

I suspect that the majority who are banned about lying about their age had actually put in a fake birthdate. But face it, the public can't see your birthdate but the admins.

[erevu]

4 minutes ago, Darkfinn said:

The thing that always gets me about silly requirements like having to show your "age." Folks, it's the INTERNET... the glory of anonymity is part of the package deal. You are never, EVER, going to know for sure... and having a requirement that people post truthful information about themselves on a site all about alternative lifestyles where if the information ever got out it could bring with it serious real-life consequences... ... ... please.

The consequences for openly allowing minors on such a site could be more severe. Of course you can't know for sure, but you can still enforce the rule to the best of your ability. That's not unique to ADISC. DD does it too.

[DiaperPony]

13 minutes ago, Darkfinn said:

The thing that always gets me about silly requirements like having to show your "age." Folks, it's the INTERNET... the glory of anonymity is part of the package deal. You are never, EVER, going to know for sure... and having a requirement that people post truthful information about themselves on a site all about alternative lifestyles where if the information ever got out it could bring with it serious real-life consequences... ... ... please.

Plausible deniability. If you say you're an adult, and give no indication that you're not, I can truthfully say I thought you were an adult and did not know you were a kid. And the available evidence would back me up. The admins are doing us all a favor here.

[rusty pins]

It's all about covering your site in legal ways.

[rosalie.bent]

While I totally subscribe to the efforts of keeping minors off sites like this, the problem remains that ABDLs dont start as adults. In fact, the 'A' is a misnomer since the vast majority of ABs 'start' as very young children. The opportunity for teens etc to safely discuss this issue is very limited and legally suspect. Im not sure there is a viable solution, but it is still sad.

[Dylan992]

Yes I've been a victim of bullying and not fight every time I will write something they will act like Grammar Nazis every post I would write they made a few accusation that my incontinence was not a real thing and then they'll complain about  posting too much threads I do agree that are like bullies in the playground the admin doesn't doesn't really do that much but make excuses for everyone and the rule is no bullying 

[rusty pins]

9 hours ago, Oscar Stern said:

I'm having this same problem too & I wish there was a way I can get them to unban my account as I'm now 19 years old.

Don't even bother trying!  They suck and will just ban you again for some other trivial thing they construe as an offence against their rules.  Dailydiapers is the best AB/DL site anyway.

[Firefly 35]

I suspect Adisc might just be a pet project of their admins.  Apparently, the site used to be called tbdl.org way back in the day (2008 or so and was led by Cheshire Crinkle Cat) and apparently got bricked due to a "technical error" and a new website had to be created hence where adisc.org came from.

On 10/3/2016 at 8:12 AM, PullUpDiaperLover said:

then one day I am booted for "security reasons", no appeal, no reason, no warning.

I saw that a lot too.  Might have been a security program on the person's computer trying to query the server's MAC address or something like that.  If it had been found to be the exact same as that of the defunct tbdl.org site, it might start raising questions. 

[Dartplayerinwvc]

tbdl.org ??? what did this stand for?

[Firefly 35]

Teen baby diaper lover.  It was from a time when people weren't so paranoid. 

[zzyzx]

16 hours ago, Firefly 35 said:

Teen baby diaper lover.  It was from a time when people weren't so paranoid. 

And I believe from a time before the original site operator turned 18.

[KPAXOR1987]

On 6/9/2023 at 7:51 AM, rusty pins said:

Don't even bother trying!  They suck and will just ban you again for some other trivial thing they construe as an offence against their rules.  Dailydiapers is the best AB/DL site anyway.

Man can you even classify ADISC a ABDL/incontience support site anyways?

Man I honestly can't, It is a depressive and opressive enviroment because of the Mods. There is no support unless you want support in getting depressed as all hell and getting a victimhood mentality. 

There are guides to self harm and unsafe practices. Just because you say "I don't condone this" doesn't mean it isn't a guide, especially when you glorify it afterwards. 

I mean I honestly believe the mods might not be at fault. I mean they all used those guides to make homemade stents and used non stirle ir toxic materials and git a staph infection that spread to their brains it explains alot. 

Sorry man but my anger and outrage in individuals with really fucked up mindsets always trys to find a understandable reason not to unleash pure unadultered anger at anyone. 

I can't really help the way my mind works after the outrage and pure unadultered anger subsides, it is probally my own mind's way of preventing a complete anger fueled meldown after haveing it happen a few times too many for my likeing. 

I don't like feeling angry as I'm not a angry person. 

It is why when there is a misunderstanding I can have a fast lash out followed by a complete depressed like mood, there is a temporary place holder until I get the other person's understanding. 

Anger and rage solves nothing as it blocks anything meaningfull to a resolution to conflict. 

However in the case of ADISC mods I perfer to lock it as feeling sad for them with a likely secnerio of they have staph infection that spread to their brains even with proper care their brains would still be damaged and their mindset and reasoning skills completely fucked up. 

Sorry but I have compassion and useing my mind to alter complete rage towards them seems like a better alternative to me. It gives me a better view point with the aspect of there is some shit you just can't change even if you try, why waste efforts on trying to help when you can't?

It is the only logical way for me to accept how fucked in the head ADISC mods are without pure unadultered anger towards them. 

So I choose to accept it as a logical scenerio and move on as there is nothing I can do to help people with brain damage from staph infection. 

Now moving on because I also choose not to be depressed as all hell..