PreciousBabygirl Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 From what I hear, people are are into this tend to just buy it all back shortly after throwing it away anyway. 1 Link to comment
beallucanb Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Don't do it, because in just a week or maybe a month you will have to spend money to buy it all over again. Link to comment
Rockies Fan in Diapers Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 Eventhough your reasoning is what it is, I would say hold onto your stuff. You said you're currently living with your parents, if you're paying rent of some sort, in that case, if they found & Link to comment
Codymoogle Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 You're going through the purge part of binge/purge. Don't throw things out, because you'll regret it when you want or need them again. Pack them away securely, instead. Link to comment
lilme` Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I've personally never gone through a binge/purge ... but what I've heard from many friends of mine who have, they regret throwing out afterwards. I'd hang on to it, but I can't really weigh in on this personally. Link to comment
Eggster Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Do you have a car? At times I keep my stash behind the seats in my truck. Most people don't go nosing around in your car and if they do, keep it a little junkie to hide everything. Link to comment
rosalie.bent Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I think you are asking the wrong question. Link to comment
Benjamin Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I would recommend that you keep your baby stuff for at least another week. If you still feel the same one week from now, than go ahead and toss it. At least you have the perspective of a few days after the event to really think on it. I get the feeling that you are still a little shook up from the incident (rightfully so, I totally understand the feelings you describe and why you would feel that way). What about if you were to just put your baby stuff in a drawer under your regular clothing? 1 Link to comment
erevu Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 I also suggest keeping it. You'll want it a day after you throw it away. Link to comment
Bettypooh Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Almost never is life as simple as a single answer I'm glad you feel some repsect for your parents and their feelings- that's a good thing. But you also need a life of your own, which isn't happening when you live under rules that don't fit you I think I would decide based on what I believed would happen if they discovered the locked box (which I would not open, YMMV) since that seems to be the main issue here And regardless, I'd make every effort to get out on my own so I could have my own free-to-be-myself life ASAP Link to comment
rusty pins Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 The fact of the matter is, no matter what you do or how much rent you pay, parents will snoop around your room if you live with them. Link to comment
curiositykilledthecat Posted August 14, 2013 Share Posted August 14, 2013 Don't toss it. I am at the tail end of my first purge but I didn't throw anything away, just kept till i felt like partaking again. Link to comment
diaperpt Posted August 14, 2013 Share Posted August 14, 2013 Oh no, Curiosity!! Don't tell me YOU'VE gone into a purge mode! Seriously, I'm surprised, but for the OP, this only shows how many of us have already gone through a purge cycle or two...or five... Link to comment
Baby Amber Posted August 14, 2013 Share Posted August 14, 2013 I've thrown away many times and gone at the longest a year without any need or desire to be a baby, but like some have said it all comes back. Link to comment
jakob88 Posted August 16, 2013 Author Share Posted August 16, 2013 I ended up compromising with myself. I threw about half of the diapers away. But these were diapers that either didn't fit or I didn't like. So I kept the types I liked. Don't ask me why this makes me feel any better. I have bipolar disorder so my thinking process is weird at times. I still keep them in the steel box, because I don't really have any better alternative to hide them where no one could potentially find them. Maybe I feel better knowing I have less and don't have ones that I don't need or like. If anyone has a degree in psychology, feel free to analyze my choice. I do go to a shrink, but I'm not about to get him to analyze this Link to comment
jakob88 Posted August 16, 2013 Author Share Posted August 16, 2013 My experience says...NO! Link to comment
babybb Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 i did that once and threw everything away. Link to comment
Kaidus Posted August 16, 2013 Share Posted August 16, 2013 The only thing I buy is diapers, but I'm limited to only one brand: Depend; it's the only one available where I live. Link to comment
diaperpt Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 jakob88, I think the compromise you reached was very reasonable. Why hold onto diapers you wouldn't be using anyway? Since you're concerned about being discovered, keep your inventory small and simple. It won't completely solve the worry about being discovered, but should make life easier for you. Link to comment
Shawnie Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 I dont live at home anymore and really didnt have to hide anything because no matter how sneakie i was i alwas got busted diapers wrre s totally night only thing for me.I did tell my shrink about ab side, he ahout fell his old a** out the chair. I was obvisously talking about something he never heard of. He told me he wanted to do some research for our next session. I thought myself this our last session. I believe the others are right you got to be at peace within yourself to relax and stop worrying yourself to death. Life is truely short lived dont waste it wonder and worry about rocking the boat jump out of the damn boat life is too short Link to comment
BigC300 Posted August 17, 2013 Share Posted August 17, 2013 You just cannot have any privacy if you have a family. They will find your stash. If you put a lock on a closet door, you add to the drama and suspense of looking behind the door. If you lock it inside a vault they will hunt for the combination. The only way to maintain your privacy is do not mingle with other human beings! Link to comment
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