Might Have Been Found Out :(

[suzuki2011]

so i went to town to day and left my gf at home because she had to work at 2.

i come home and my email is open. idk if i left it open or if she went in to it. any way i got an email from bambino sying my order has been shipped.

it was sent at 415 according to my email. but i dont know if the time is correct or not. im hopeing it is that means she didnt see it. i do get a lot of spam in my inbox. so if she says anything ill just tell her its some stupid spam i get but im hopeing she didnt see it cause im pretty sure that would be the end idk what im going to do i geuss i will find out when she comes home tonight.

i cant tell her cause as i said be for she finds it gross and weird. so im hopeing she will beleive me when i say its some stupid spam

[InD]

Two things...

One, don't hide this from your GF. Sharing is way more fun.

Two, if she is reading your email get rid of her...

[suzuki2011]

id love to share with her. ive brought it up in passing and she said thats fing weird ad i would date any one into that bla bla bla. and idk if she saw it like i said it was just up when i got home i might have jsut left it up and she never saw it idk

[suzuki2011]

wouldnt*

[sarah_ab]

so why are you dating her if she wouldn't want to date someone into it? I mean right there you already know she isn't the one for you.

[curiositykilledthecat]

Sarah hit the nail on the head.

[DailyDi]

so why are you dating her if she wouldn't want to date someone into it? I mean right there you already know she isn't the one for you.

'nuff said

[suzuki2011]

short awnser. daipers arent 100% of my life and she has a great larger percent of my life and i love her. if that means that i dont get to wear diapers around her so be it.

i dont know what im going to do if she found out. but i guess i shouldnt have asked this comunity cause you guys just say oh screw her shes not right for you if she hates diapers.

there are plenty of ppl on here that wear and no one knows ive talked to plenty of them in the chat.

so what ever guys

what ever happens happens i geuss

[BabyGizmo]

OK, Don't take this the wrong way, but if she went though your email, its not a good relationship right there.

Now YOU may be able to handle not wearing around her, but lies and hiding things ruin relationships. so take it from someone who has had this happen, tell her. if she is that against it, you saved yourself years of guilt and remorse. if she is willing (like my fiancee) to ignore it and be content to not participate, then you are fine. if you are her world too, a little thing like that is not going to break you up.

and as for asking the community, we don't mean its all about the diapers. we mean its about being who you really are. if you have to hide your interests for fear of a breakup, you will be in constant fear for the rest of your life that she will find out. and that is no way to live man. you will resent her, and that will eventually come through, no matter how hard you try.

[InD]

short awnser. daipers arent 100% of my life and she has a great larger percent of my life and i love her. if that means that i dont get to wear diapers around her so be it.

i dont know what im going to do if she found out. but i guess i shouldnt have asked this comunity cause you guys just say oh screw her shes not right for you if she hates diapers.

there are plenty of ppl on here that wear and no one knows ive talked to plenty of them in the chat.

so what ever guys

what ever happens happens i geuss

No no no... I'm not saying she is not right for you because of diapers. Your point is very valid. If she fits 99% of your life and diapers are not a part of that then by all means, she is the one for you, we should all be so fortunate to find that close of a match.

What I am saying is if she is going through your email that warrants a very serious look at the relationship. Such a violation of my personal "space" would not be tolerated.

[gah!ghost]

She very well may not going through his email, it sounds totally possible. Not sure what kind of email he has but he stated he might have left it open and if it's web-based she might have just got to check her email and he was still logged in.

I do agree though that it doesn't matter is she's into it. What does matter if she's accepting of it and that you don't keep the lie from her. That's just my take on things tough.

[sarah_ab]

If diapers are not a big part of your life, than thats fine, but i'm not sure they aren't a larger part of your life than you think as your first thought about your girlfriend going through your email was not to examine why she would be going through your email, and why she would need to sneak around, but to post on a fetish website that she may have found out your fetish.

But you will never know she read your email unless you ask her. If you ask her though, than she may wonder why you would think she would go through your email and not trust her. So conundrum.. Honestly, i don't know what you should do, because i don't know you, your girlfriend, or your relationship dynamic, but if diapers aren't that big of a deal, than if she did find out, it shouldn't be a big deal, just up and stop .... than problem solved.... except for the whole reading your email thing....

[DailyDi]

She wouldn't date a guy who wears diapers... so for your relationship to last you have to be honest with yourself and answer one simple question:

Can diapers be not 1% of your life, but zero?

Not saying you need to make a snap decision... but maybe you need to hang up the huggies for a while and find out.

[Valisia]

She wouldn't date a guy who wears diapers... so for your relationship to last you have to be honest with yourself and answer one simple question:

Can diapers be not 1% of your life, but zero?

Not saying you need to make a snap decision... but maybe you need to hang up the huggies for a while and find out.

That was beautifully put

[Eir]

There are many levels of wearing diapers as an AB. For me, it is for stress relief. I would rather wear a diaper than alcohol in my stomache. I drink for pleasure every so often, I just wont do it to relieve stress, there are better ways to handle that.

[Eir]

Maybe if you explained to her that you would never go AB 24/7 she may be better with it. Agree to an our each night, week, every so often.

[Honu]

You are what you are and as a guy over 50 and on his 3rd marriage, please let me assure you that if you like wearing diapers now, you will when you are my age as well. If that is who you are, you're deeply in love with a woman who doesn't love the real you. So, are you going to try to hide the real you from her, only to do what so many other guys have admitted on this site and sneak in a diaper when you think she is out? Read what is on this site! Those guys are not happy sneaking around, not able to keep themselves away from diapers and many get found out and read the riot act.

Do you wonder why so many people here are telling you what you don't want to hear? We've been there and done that! If you are smart, you will learn from other people's mistakes and experiences.

Bottom line: if she loves you, she will accept all of you, even if she doesn't share it with you. If she doesn't accept you the way you are, you are in a VERY scarey situation.

Your life and your choice.

[baby frost]

Not trying to be rude but if you know bow she feels about people in diapers why still order the diapers if you know she doesnt approve. If your in love with her and dont want to share your secret. Might as well mold yourself to be what she wants you to be. But if she has a fetish she hasnt told you about would you make her change for you?

[Diapered Jason]

Lol, Google is accurate. Even if your email server isn't, 4:15 is very far from 2. Also, being that your girl friend is freaked out by this, you would have heard something from her already, unless she plans on saving it for ammunition later on in an argument. In any case, good luck explaining the package. The fact you would try to explain away an order confirmation email with your information in it as spam tells me you will be unsuccessful in this unless your girlfriend has less intelligence than Brian's ex-girlfriend from Family Guy. Most girl friends are not that stupid. They can sense a lie or tell that something is amiss. They can tell you are holding back or that you are not interested. They may second guess themselves, but the intuition is there. I wouldn't try hiding it, but it is your choice. Best of luck in your relationship.

[suzuki2011]

ok first every ones point is valid to an extint. i shouldnt have to hide this but i do hide it from everyone except on here.and she hasnt sadi anythign about it and i brought up the "spam" that gose through my email and she said nothing about it. it looks as if i just left it open. she said she didnt even go on to the computer to day. and i trust her.

and i also trust if she saw somthing iffy she would have said something.

and i agree i should tell her. and the topic of the abdl world has come up we even watched rileys special on tlc's my strang addiction and she was totaly werided out by it.

as far as telling her i dont think thats going to happen ive hinted at it enough to know it aint going to happen. and as i sadi diapers are about 1% of my life. i do it as a stress relever in my alone time. and thats were it needs to stay.

do i wish i could tell her and she would be cool about it? of course but im content with keeping it a secret.

as far as our relationship its fine one secret that no one needs to know about isnt going to ruin our relationship. i dont condon lieing to you gf/bf but everyone has secrets

i appologize for my last comment i was a little stressed out and i didnt feel that saying break up with her shes not for you was inapproiate considering no one on here knows her.

but thank you for taking intrest in the topic and for everyones input you are all intitiled to your opions and thats exactly what i asked for

[suzuki2011]

Lol, Google is accurate. Even if your email server isn't, 4:15 is very far from 2. Also, being that your girl friend is freaked out by this, you would have heard something from her already, unless she plans on saving it for ammunition later on in an argument. In any case, good luck explaining the package. The fact you would try to explain away an order confirmation email with your information in it as spam tells me you will be unsuccessful in this unless your girlfriend has less intelligence than Brian's ex-girlfriend from Family Guy. Most girl friends are not that stupid. They can sense a lie or tell that something is amiss. They can tell you are holding back or that you are not interested. They may second guess themselves, but the intuition is there. I wouldn't try hiding it, but it is your choice. Best of luck in your relationship.

ha ha ha you wouldnt beleive what gets through my spam filter on my email. porn, diapers,mail enhancement and about twice a week i get a random email form a random company saying my oder is ready

[suzuki2011]

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[suzuki2011]

Not trying to be rude but if you know bow she feels about people in diapers why still order the diapers if you know she doesnt approve. If your in love with her and dont want to share your secret. Might as well mold yourself to be what she wants you to be. But if she has a fetish she hasnt told you about would you make her change for you?

if she had a fetish would i make her change or supress it NO. but she comes form a closed minded family (and a closed minded comunity) and i order them and do it in my alone time and my mail doesnt come to my house i hide the diapers under the floor board of my trunk were the spare tire should be. and theres a difference between doing somthing secret in my free time and doing it in front of some one who doesnt like it. and im not sure what you mean "might as well mold yourself to be what she wants"

this is the only thing i hide from ANYONE other than this i have no secrets and thats the truth for the most part i dont talk to many people so there for i dont care waht they think but i dotn want this out in the open. the only reason i have this secret is because its such a taboo. that i would rather do it in secret than be humilated

[suzuki2011]

She wouldn't date a guy who wears diapers... so for your relationship to last you have to be honest with yourself and answer one simple question:

Can diapers be not 1% of your life, but zero?

Not saying you need to make a snap decision... but maybe you need to hang up the huggies for a while and find out.

ive thought about that 100's of time and have done it for almost a year be for but i always go back. but its not somthing i do regulary its kinda a once in a while thing. here latly its been more so cause our work shifts have been oppist of each other so i get a little more alne time. but thats it i do it alone and thats if i do it at all, i dont do it every chance i get . could i stop doing it compleatly? no probly not its safe to say this is an addcition but i can cut down ALOT i have enough self control to know when i should and shouldnt do it

[Repaid1]

without going into the whole thing. Doesn't your email client tell you when something has already been read. If it is in your inbox, then it should say new message or not?