i have been with my boyfriend for over 7 years, we met right here on diapermates.com. he is a daddy, i am an ab. For us it is sexual, but he is naturally a caring loving person, and so when we just living our day to day regular lives, he will always still be caring and loving, and protective of me, and he knows me so well, he knows what upsets me and when i'm getting tired, or sick, or whatever, just by looking