Reactions To Noticing?

[Kermatt]

Hi,

Mods might delete this post as repeating one that I posted above, but I want to rephrase my question more clearly: I'm practically just a dl. And therefore I don't know:

how to react when an coworker or acquaintance notices my adult diaper or pad?

I find it helpful to wear a pad or ohter protective garment for a whole complex of issues, but it's misleading to say that my reason is medical. Yes, it's happened, but it is an exaggeration to say I really need to, much less that I need so extreme a product as a diaper. So rare that I can and have gone months without more than a drop of leakage. So for the most part I am a dl who wears pads or such at work (sometimes) and am never sure how to react if someone notices.

I end up using the word "need", as in "I need to go to my locker, may I have permission to?" or, if I want a pad and don't have one, "May I have permission to use the restroom that's much farther away?" Or what to do when my neighbor noticed the "guards" pads that I bought? Eventually they might ask!

Am I the only dl who's faced this dilemma?

M

[DailyDi]

The thing to accept is that "need" is a broad word. You do "need" your protection, just not for the reasons people think.

[stork]

This has yet to happen to me, but I figure it will eventually. My response would be a simple one, "I'd rather not talk about it". You dont have to lie or anything, and people will assume you have a good reason for it, whatever that reason may be.

I'd like to think i'd be able to keep from looking embarrassed if confronted, but wont know until it happens, however I doubt it'd give anything away as someone who needed for medical reason could be just as embarrassed if caught as someone who doesnt need medically.

[harmony83]

I've had it happen countless time. A lot of people I know actually know I wear diapers. But when strangers see them they rarely say anything. When I was a kid and teenager in pull ups they would comment on the product but that's it.

[Nat]

I show no reaction. I am sure one of my co workers noticed one on my purse while I was looking through it and it was visible for anyone to see even though I didn't take it out. Maybe she saw it, maybe she didn't. But I don't make a big deal out of it. If anyone does, just tell them it's medical or that I have a problem and who cares if it's a lie. That's what i would say if someone said anything about mine. Now I just keep my extra diaper inside the thing in my purse that zips after I discovered I could fit one in there when I fold it. That way no one will see it when I look in there or if anyone happens to glance over and sees it in there. I would never tell anyone I wear them because I like to. But people don't normally say anything about it so you don't have to even say why you wear them or feel the need to be embarrassed about it.

[Bettypooh]

With care I have gone 3 years of 24/7 wearing and nobody has noticed with one exception and he was chill about it, saying nothing If it does become spoken of then I will say "I need to wear protection and I don't want to talk about it."

[drynot]

In my younger days I certainly worried about people discovering my diapers.

[Amyuser]

Trust mw people if you fit societies idea of a diaper wearer they come out of the "wood work" if you are anywhere near that isle to "help" you find your size your brand etc….

[DavidMW]

[rusty pins]

My wife put it best.

[babystevie]

I went grocery shopping today with thick print cloth diapers & blue plastic panties on under my jeans. When I got home I realized you could not only tell from the bulk that I was in diapers, but ny plastic panties were sticking out of the back of my jeans. Oh well. I wear diapers. So what. I didn't critisize that fat lady in line ahead of me for wearing tight stretch pants...

[pvc_pants]

I can't tell you are diapered, LOL.....

[mommybeth]

I can tell ;-)

[BabyJune]

If you wear a diaper discreetly, no one will know you have one on. I wear cloth diapers with a birdseye soaker layer

[baby-elizabeth]

I wear in public around friends and strangers and never have I had anyone say anything. I wear all the time underdresses granted im not lifiting it up to show off my butt and I wear leggings.

[Guest stephdiapered]

My boy friend in the past found i wore goodnites to school (they showed above my jeans). My Bff knew i was diapered every night by my mother. No big deal for me then. My mother once humiliated me by changing me in a public toielt stall.

[will_k2]

no one is going to find out, that's what you should think. from the little experience i've had wearing in public, today included

[Guest stephdiapered]

no one is going to find out, that's what you should think. from the little experience i've had wearing in public, today included

[wetabenas]

ive been noticed by strangers

[babystevie]

Went shopping today in Attends and you could definitely hear them. Nobody said anything.

[happyindprs]

I wear diapers every day.

[Baby Brian]

Notice??? I once had a coworker look directly at a diaper I had laying out on a sink (he walked in on it as I left the handicapped stall to get a TP refill). He certainly never said anything, has never changed his attitude towards me, acted differently, spread rumors (and I do hear the office rumors- even about me), or anything. I honestly don't believe he realized it was an adult diaper (even though it was

[2sail2]

In malls, I get the feeling that I and everyone else are being watched a lot more after all the shootings and terrorism concerns.

[puffybedwetter]

Some of my customers and clients joke around. But I really dont care and sometimes I am right there going along with it.

[puffybedwetter]

Ohh yeah ive seen that smirk on women