1. Absorbency, needs to wick away fast and not get squished out when I’m sitting !
2. Fit, I have to be able to move in it, some of them are so big I waddle like a duck, it’s not such a big deal at home, but I like to blend in with the rest of the world when I’m out
3. It’s a toss up, I want discreetness when I’m out and about, what I wear under my clothes is my business only, I don’t care much when I’m home though.
I want it to fit right when I put it on, constant adjustments just make things fit worst overtime. I do t like the noise of the plastic backed ones, but I have yet to find a cloth backed one that will hold the tapes where I put them