Evelyn Dellcerro

Pros of censorship 1. Censorship can reduce the impact of hate speech in society.w 2. Censorship can protect children from unhealthy content. 3. Censorship can reduce the amount of conflict that is in society. 4. Censorship can provide another level of security to a country’s profile. 5. Censorship protects the rights of artists, innovators, and inventors. 6. Censorship provides us with a vehicle to stop false content. 7. Censorship can work to improve a person’s knowledge. 8. Censorship can limit the impact of identity theft. 9. Censorship helped to create our ratings system. Benefit comes from the ratings systems that we use for entertainment products, including movies, video games, and music. Until 1984, films went from PG to R, which eventually led to a PG-13 rating being developed after parents called for action after taking their children to Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom. Cons of censorship 1. It represses one group of people in favor for hat the majority wants. 2. It allows people to create a specific narrative in society to call it truth. 3. It stops people from pursuing career opportunities. 4. It reduces the overall intelligence of the general public. 5. It prevents an individual from expressing themselves freely. 6. It shifts where the responsibility of consumption is in society. 7. It creates an adverse impact on the economy at all levels. 8. It allows a false narrative to become the truth. 9. It is expensive to be engaged in the practice of censorship. 10. It creates repression so that it encourages compliance. One of the most-banned books in the world today is The Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkien. Banned by churches & religious groups alike. Banned because it is said to be satanic. Do the words Salem Witch Trials and the Spanish Inquisition come to mind ? I wish to thank the FutureofWorking.com for such insight and its truth of censorship in America today. Censorship is everywhere, and it is up to us as individuals to weigh our choices. George Orwell's 1984 was published in 1949. Still one of colleges biggest read books all over the world in over seventy years. George Orwell did something right in his masterpiece. I read this book at the age of eleven and did a fabulous book report. In high school as a senior I did a term paper based on this book. Finally in college I did my thesis on this book. This book is tried and true. We are the all Winstons and Big Brother is definately out there in some shape or form. Bless you all !!! On this day of Love & Hearts We wish you all the best on this Valentines Day !!

When I pee I depend on megas, and never had a problem. I do admit I have purposely flooded them and made them leak. If I am going to poop I switch to rearz rebels for the durability and extra tough plastic. I dont need gel inside my jeans for sure. Had it once and not a pretty sight. The megas do distribute well if you move in certain positions. Always best when out walking.

I was sitting at work one morning and I just drifted into a nice dream and I dreamt I was on all fours naked and my wife had the paddle with the steel spikes and was really letting me have it good. I am so glad my office door locks automatically. I woke up with one hand on my nipple and the other inside my pullup. was such a good wet dream, I had to change my pullup, it was a bit moist, and it wasn't pee.

Life is too short to not enjoy what you do. If you love what you do for a living, it is not a job, it is something you look forward to

So sorry @Babygeebee I added two more choices to the poll. I knew I forgot something

I sit here with tears in my eyes reading this Jason. I love you so much. You are always so willing to learn and better yourself. Raising you was an honor and a blessing. I will always be here for you. Your demeanor and character seem so familiar to me. You are your Uncle Pete born again. Your heart is pure and mind is sharp baby, and you will make someone very happy one day. For now enjoy your life and live it. Love you so much !

Embarrassed is a word you use amongst strangers Marc. You my friend are no stranger, you know how to move, and you know how to shake. We all have rhythm. Dance is only the vertical position of what you want to do horizontally. My friend I know you have been married for many years, and you are the sweetest and most honest man I have spoken with. Any man than can be married to one woman for over thirty years has my respect and undivided admiration. You have been doing something right whether vertical or horizontal. Remember mistakes are proof that you are trying. Hugs and big kisses to you Gary.?

Gotta love it when its all over the crotch !!

Dance give me a baffling, indescribable, enigmatic, and mysterious sense of freedom. To move my body, in ways it wasn't meant to be moved. To share with those closest to me things that I never think about and just do. Dance to me is a form of escape from reality. An escape from this chaotic cruel, world around us. An escape from the terrifying, formidable, ghastly, distressing ways of the world and the future of our being. Dancing shows me who I truly am and not the mask I hide behind everyday. I never believed in fake smiles, and fake laughs, or even fake sadness. Dancing makes me free to feel how I truly feel. I learned how to dance from a very young age. I remember the late 60's and dancing to music at the age of three. Music my mother and aunt danced to. Just to name a few The Stones, The Beatles, Jefferson Airplane, Cream, Pink Floyd, Simon & Garfunkel, The Byrds, Creedence Clearwater Revival, Santana, Jimi Hendrix, The Beach Boys. I can go on forever. This was the music that shaped our time, and made the world that much more enjoyable. You will never hear music of this caliber ever again. My dear aunt which I loved, and my moms only sister which I lost to crime in New York, taught me how to dance and move and shake my hips and wiggle my ass. My mom did a great job at fighting back the tears, But I know losing her only sister hurt her to the core. My mom continued to train me and teach me the ways of latin dance, and I practiced every chance I got. School was a very important part of my life and I did my best to excel and be the best. I didn't grow up poor, but there were struggles. My first language was spanish. My parents spoke to me in Spanish and Portuguese for the first five years of my life. I learned english just like every other child did, in school. I always wanted to be the best at what I did, and school was no different. I got into diapers in the late seventies, and never let my fetish interfere with my studies. I did great and excelled in sports, mainly gymnastics. Dance was a big part of me and I knew with my mom as my teacher I would go places. I went to many parties as a young teen and was always the girl guys wanted to dance with. I wasn't the knockout blonde with big breasts and huge butt, but I did my thing. I hung out with girls my age, but never revealed my diaper fetish to anyone. I admit it was a lonely secret, and I had mostly pen pal friends that I met while my parents worked. I remember the parties, and always saw the cute guys sitting out the dances and hiding in the dim light. I hated the excuses even as a teen. "I was born with two left feet...." "You're either born with rhythm or not" "Dancing just isn't for me" "I don't know how" This is the honest truth, anybody involved in an art form needs instuction. No person is born with skill, or rhythm. It must be taught to you. People didn't go out on the dance floor and all of a sudden they were transformed into John Travolta. Remember he had a choreographer and teachers and many retakes and editing. Guys wake up !!! Especially the young bucks that think they are young and hung and the girls are just gonna come flocking over. It just don't work like that. I laugh now thinking of the guys that were smoking pot and shaking their heads like it was a form of dance, sorry y'all.. You were the guys that never got laid. I remember the guys that thought they were cool and could tell girls what to do and who to be friends with.. Sorry dudes I danced to a different drummer and y'all still didn't get laid. Dancing brought out the best in me, it made it okay to be myself. When I danced I couldn't judge, I couldn't hate. My fears and insecurities were let out without hurt. I am the type of person that people can't understand. It takes a lot just to even get close to me and I have to want to open up. I chat here and I talk with people, but I have to feel them out and it takes time. Dancing is a way for me to express myself without fear. When I am sad I dance. When I am happy I dance. When I am angry I dance. Dancing is my haven. Dancing is one of the best forms of stress relief besides masturbation. I was born with Asthma and overcame my illness because of my commitment to dancing. Dancing made me healthy and from the age of seven I never had another attack. Dancing got me out of my comfort zone. It also helped me discover new things and myself. When I place my left foot out on the dance floor and hear the first beat of the song and my adrenaline starts pumping, all the pain, and hurt, and loss, and fears just go away and its me and my wife hand in hand chest to chest, feeling our hearts beat as one. Dance is how we convey our feelings for one another, without uttering a single word. Dance is the universal language which I choose to tell my story. Dance defies all barriers. Dance is joy. To those that are gamers, dance is like your favorite game to me. No matter how old it is and how many times I play it,, its still new and fun to me. If my wife is feeling down, and sad, I will dance for her, to brighten up her day and make her smile and feel happy. The ability to make someone smile just by shaking my ass is fun and don't cost me a thing. I have danced with my wife at clubs and seen men smile and feel good about themselves. Whether its watching two hotties out on the dance floor and staring at our bodies gyrating, all is good. I met my husband back in 1987 at a club in The Bronx on a Saturday night. We danced for hours and I had feelings for him that first night. We dated two years and married in December of 1989. Ours was a love that bypassed all fetishes. We did what made us feel good. I also met Elizabeth at a club and we danced as well. We still enjoy our nights out dancing, and we make an entire night of it with diapers and all. Dancing is a great way to meet people and make life long friends. Don't have that fear of the unknown and enjoy your body, learn how to move and shake and guys ladies still love to be wined and dined and be swept off their feet. Enjoy for now and I must get ready to leave work soon. These are my feelings of dance and the effect it has on me. Love and peace.

We were very consenting and very adult and lived our lives to the fullest.

What determines our sexual happiness and gratification? I know for me personally, diapers has been my go to solution. But that is not all of me. I have a large capacity for flexibility. I am bisexual, and I can enjoy the female body as well as the male body. I was married for over 25 years to a man that found diapers repulsive, but yet he had an insatiable love for me. Sexually we did anything and everything. I admit to reality and we were swingers of the true nature. We had no dividing lines about sex whatsoever. Many people fall into the jealousy trap. The monogamous fear of behavior that might lead to a full fledged affair. Many people fear that their best days are behind them. Many people fear that once they get married they lost their sexual opportunity. They think getting married is settling down. I married my husband back in 1988 because he was fun, full of life and loved sex. He never admitted to me that he was bisexual, but I knew in my heart. We were swingers and lovers and we were emotionally connected. We didn't value sex the same way other couples do. sex was sex, love was love, and what we shared was above sex and love. I watched my husband have sex with many women, and the honest truth it was a turn on. I felt like his cheerleader, cheering him on to give it to her harder! My husband watched me ride many men and he was right in my corner like he was at a rodeo watching a bullride and cheering me on as well. When it came down to reality, he loved me, and I loved him, and we went home together at the end of a fun night out. There are and still are many judgemental monogamous couples that find swinging cheating. Me and my husband were very espouse and more live and let live. We were never judgemental towards any couple. If it works for you, then you go for it. I don't consider any lifestyle better than another. Not every two couples are alike. Some are more emotional, sexual, and liberal. There are many couples that are not sexual at all, maybe because they have no interest in sex to begin with. Many are old fashioned or religious and sex is for procreation. What is strange is that many of these couples will cheat. Why? Because there was no communication, there was no release. Now being remarried and loving a man that dresses as a woman, and I admit does a wonderful job of looking good for me, I in turn want to look the best for her. I would never cheat on my spouse, and she would never cheat on me. We talk and we plan. We set up a date with other couples (diapered couples included) and we make it happen. At the end of the night we go home holding hands and we know we both enjoyed each other. I have no fear of losing my spouse and I have no jealous feelings ever. I have no ill feelings towards anyone, but I know I am here for a purpose, whether its to help people open their eyes, or to make people feel more comfortable about diapers and sex and themselves. There are many people still in the closet here, thats all well and good. If its not time for you to come out, then at least talk about it. Stop swallowing your feelings and always be true to yourself. This is not the Jerry Springer Show, or the Dr. Phil Show, where peoples lives and relationships are in shambles. This is all real here. There are many married couples here that share a great life together, some not so great. Swingers and ABDL are just like anyone else. They are like you and me, our friends, our neighbors and co-workers, teammates or club friends, some are doctors, others are cars mechanics, cops, nurses, physicians, librarians, politicians, accountants, clergy, devout religious people, hairdressers and military. In a nutshell, Swingers and ABDL are not a special breed of individuals that display a membership mark that identifies them to others as different. We are one race. The Human Race. We all bleed red, and we all have feelings and emotions. God Bless you all, and from the bottom of our hearts we wish you all Peace and Love .... Evelyn & Elle

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Me and my wife have always debated this question and our best two positions are walking and on all fours. or sometimes go for a walk in the park and hug and kiss and hold each others bottom while we release. The all fours is fun because we can face each other and kiss and make funny faces at each other while pushing out a hefty load.

I hear you there Ducky. I remember being in a skirt at work with a pullup on and it was just about ready to leak as I am chatting with a coworker and I can feel a few drops trickling down my inner thigh and trying my best to get out of the conversation and get to a bathroom. That cold wet butt feeling is not my favorite for sure, Finally I was able to get back to my desk and grab another pullup and change. Its never intentional, but it happens.

I watched every second of the game. For me its a tradition. Even my 80 yr. old mom watched it. For as long as I can remember my father would have all his friends over the house and we would eat like kings and queens. After my father passed, I watched it with my husband and all his military friends. The tradition lives on here. My nephew and 2 of his diaper loving friends watched the game, my best friend and his diaper loving gf also watched on. My wife had to cater to a corporate Superbowl party so she worked the 4 hours. As soon as she got home she ate like a queen. Superbowl parties only happen once a year, and to me it doesn't matter what teams are playing. The tradition lives on. Plus the commercials are cute, a bit silly, but none the less cute.

Eddie thats the sweetest thing Ive ever seen. Underneath all that rough and tough skin you are a soft and very sweet man, and I envy that woman that latches on to you. We have spoken countless times, and I have enjoyed our many conversations. We will chat many more times I am quite sure. I will be the first to admit that I am very opinionated and I can be a bitch, but I am also a person that has a heart and care genuinely about people here. I dont have work tomorrow so I will be in chat. My wife worked the 4 hours of the game and she is back home and safely in my arms and ate her dinner. I am here with a few DL friends and just chatting about the Superbowl game. Extra kisses and hugs for you my friend.

To have a loving wife that accepts every part of you is a blessing. @kasarberang I have five diaper lovers sitting in my livingroom right now, and everyone of them had tears in their eyes reading this on a sixty inch screen. This is how we spend our weekends. A loving family, and my loving wife at my side. That is what love is all about. Diapers are just a small part of who we all are. You made us all very happy. Happy tears are a wonderful thing. Cherish her with all your heart.

That would be a dream job for sure. I would last maybe a week. I would definately get fired for destroying company property. I would test every diaper in stock.

If I could be any age in the world I would be seventeen years old once again just to relive that wonderful part of my life. The parties, the orgies, the people, that time in history. I had just graduated high school and Michael Jacksons "Thriller" was out, Joan Jet and "I love rock and roll" The tylenol scare where 7 people died of cyanide poisoning, the death of John Belushi, a rally against nulear weapons in central park. Movies like E.T. , Tootsie and Porky's which I watched over and over at the theatres even. The magazines that I loved and read avidly, Screw, Nugget, Gourmet, Sex Bizarre, Pirate Private. Sex was so free and open, diapers were no big deal at diaper lover parties. I can just imagine if I knew the things I know now back then how much more fun I could have had. It sounds like a fun overload, but I know I can handle it. I never claimed to be an angel and I know that things I did was very risque even to todays standards. I was not one to stay home and watch things happen, I wanted to be where the action was, I wanted to be a part of it and live my life not saying I could have, or I should have, I did it. I have nothing against virginity, but that is just not me. If you want to save yourself for that right person may God bless you. I can at least say I have lived and loved and enjoyed sowing my wild oats. I don't know if anyone here has read about honeymoon disasters. Just married and have no clue about sex or what to do, or how to hold or touch a mans penis, or a womans vagina. My husband may he rest in peace had a wedding night that men can only fantasize about. I made sure he was treated like a king. I was his and he was mine, and no one can take that away from me. But for me to be seventeen once again and relive that wonderful age and stay as a woman, because that is one thing that has been a constant. I love being a woman. The thought has always crossed my mind about being a man for a day, to feel what an erection feels like, to thrust it into a man or woman and actually feel what it feels like. Lets face it a strap on works, but I feel nothing, but I hear the moans and see the smiles. I think back to my graduation and seeing the smile and the smug reaction of my father seeing his daughter recieving a diploma. To be seventeen once again and be female would be my choice. Don't try this at home !

Hugs and kisses Eddie, and miss you. This is the original that I posted babe. I agree so much with you @anisencouches. There are many that are gonna be ewwww and thats gross, but behind closed doors they are yelling "GIVE ME MORE" I started going to poop and pee parties when I was just a teen. I have been to DL scat parties at the age of 15 and 16 and have volunteered to be the diaper changer, and just as recent as a few months ago me and wife attended one that we still talk about. Many people are too vanilla to even know what these parties mean, and some will never want to know. To dance and feel free and roam around with nothing but a diaper on and hugging and greeting life long friends. To stand there and have an orgasm in your diaper watching a group stand in an empty hot tub and pee on a person and just enjoy it with gusto. To walk up to men and women and just put your hand in their diaper and have them pee on your fingers. There are so many things I wish I could right about, but I kmow the censors will have a field day. If only people of the internet age knew the secrecy with which many of these parties were planned. In the 80's there were no cell phones or text messaging. We had beepers and good ole public phones. To wait for a phone call at an undisclosed location just to get information on where a party was held. Then to relay the message to other party goers. Many of the people here are young. Hell, most 40 year olds won't even know what I am talking about. Changing 20 to 30 diapers a night and seeing so many older people that know how to party and enjoy themselves. Husbands and wives, boyfriends and girlfriends, mistresses and paramours. To hold in your hand so many wet penises and vaginas. Nobody being shy or covering up their privates. People were proud of their bodies and enjoyed each other. No discrimination of any kind. Blacks, whites, hispanics, greeks, columbian, american, french, canadian the list is endless. We were all human and we all had fun. I don't usually use obscene language, but when I see people say things like they are shy and prefer to speak in private, I wanna pull my fucken hair out !!! When I was a teen there was no watching, you participate or you were escorted to the door and not so kindly. I enjoy poop to a point where even the smell is an aphrodisiac. Many will never get close to this or reach my level. It takes years, and when I say years I mean decades. Golden showers are great and very enjoyable. There are many couples that will never even reach that first stage without a fight or an argument. You all know the phrase "different strokes for different folks" I am at my plateau, and I am just waiting for y'all to catch up. I have to include some names here because they are pioneers and some that just want to know how good life and diapers can be. @philmydiaper, @~Brian~, @Transfusionelle, @amorfraldaJR, @rusty pins, @DiaperboyEddie12, There are so many more that I love here dearly, I just can't think names, but you all know who you are.

Brian I love you so much and you speak words of wisdom. I have been called confused from the age of thirteen. How can you love men and women ? You have to choose one or the other.. I am the last person to quote or bring religion into my posts. Does the Quote "Father forgive them for they know not what they do" ? I was raised and baptized in the Catholic church. How many children are dragged to church every Sunday morning even though they don't want to go. My parents gave me that choice at seven. Do you want to continue in religious practice (parochial school) or would you like to go to a regular public school. I chose public school and never looked back. It did not stop me from reading a Bible or knowing in my heart that there is Good vs. Evil.. Do you get mad at a puppy for eating your new shoes ? Well, first of all, you know puppies like to chew on everything. You need to secure your things in a safe place if you don’t want the dog to chew on them. Second, you have to train the dog not to chew. What would the uneducated person say ? I think it should be obvious not to chew on a human’s things ! It’s not obvious to a puppy until you train it. Forgive your puppy, for he knows not what he does. Same goes with people. Many are not educated in these matters. My own brother because of his homophobic ways ejected his son from his house, for being gay ? A child is playing in a sandbox with another child. One childs parent snatches him out of the sandbox and scolds the child for playing with a child not of his color. This child knows nothing of the color of a persons skin, and now the child is taught racism. How many times have I heard fathers belittle their sons publicly " Boys don't cry, boys are strong and don't show feelings like girls " Now they are taught sexism. This is one of the reasons I love both of my parents. I was never given limits as a child. I never went through censorship. I watched it all on TV from the assassination of RFK and MLK the Watts riots, the Vietnam war, Nixons impeachment, Race riots. The governments dealings of guns and drugs. There are many things wrong in the world, but we are here for the simple love of diapers. Is that so crazy ? Okay love you all ! Here at work and must get my butt in gear. Love you so much Brian.

@foreverdl This will give you a big soft poop, only if you can hold it in for a day.. But dont eat all this at once, these are things you should be eating. Your poop will not crumble apart like small pebbles believe me

@DipGuy365 I like this post only because it is right up my alley. First of all stay away from suppositories and any kind of ex-lax and/or chemicals. Rice, oatmeal, cereal, vegatables, fruits, prunes, yogurt, beans, bread, lots of salads. chia/flax seed, coffee, milk, nuts, peppermint, avocados, green tea, coconut water, popcorn, figs. If you are not on a diet, go on one. exercise regular, and when I mean regular (get up off your ass). The more you move around the better for your system. Do not be an idle lump. If you are going to sit on your ass and play video games you will just get fat. If you have a bike ride once a day five miles, jog two miles. keep the body working. Lubricate the intestines by drinking lots of water. Top of the list is to get good diapers. Don't waste the diaper on pee if you want poop I am telling you what to do. You say you want to contain it. Wear plastic jogging pants and tuck them in your socks, or get the knee length workout trainers. You want the truth. I have taken poops that would choke any toilet. You are a young man and I am sure you can follow simple instructions. I repeat do not use chemicals or anything that will affect you when you get older. And I beg of you do not shove bananas or marshmallows up your ass. Graham crackers are a great source of fiber. Save them for the smores and eat them because they will fiber up that poop. I don't know if you understand what workout pants are I sent you a pic from amazon. Good luck sweetie and keep me informed. Drop me a message if you wanna chat.