Constantlywet

It didnt happen for my x and me. Turned out I'm a jaffa.

I always wanted to go back 247 since i stopped getting diapered at age 10. Did all the binge purge stuff, then accepted myself and wore at weekends and evenings. It was at 35, after my mum died that i decided to do it. I had a lot of support from an x girlfriend at the time, and i honestly, couldn't look back. Its not all been rosey, but 10 years later, i am happy being dependent on my nappies.

@Reddy. . . Ive been lurking and following you for weeks. I totally admire you mate. . . . . Pls, pls keep us posted on how your doing because I am rooting for you bro. . . Dont listen to the haters, they haven't got to live with your choices, you have, and as long as your happy, thats the only thing that matters. Were only here once and time ticks on by very quickly. I hope it works and it gives you the results that we hope you have. . . 😁😁😁

Quick bit of background. . . So, 7 years ago, I was kinda forced into following my dreams by a strong woman who helped achieve my urinary incontinence and nappy dependence. I am now totally nappy dependant and wouldn't have it any other way. Since then, that woman and I have now parted company. After a couple of years out, I am now seeing another woman, and it's going really well. We met at hospital at the incontinence clinic ironically, and it blossomed from there. She knows i wear nappies and plasic pants and is very supportive, but she is unaware i am a dl and have an incontinent fetish. She is slim, attractive, and pretty successful but is totally urinary incontinent and has very little bowel control. She will mess in her sleep fairly regularly, less regularly during the day, but it does happen. She, too, wears nappies and plastic pants to manage her incontinence in various different thicknesses. Although always opting for extended wear or good absorbency where possible. she will sometimes wear fairly tight jeans with thinner nappies compared to at home where she wears thick nappies and a booster in her joggers or pjs or if we go walking she will wear a thick nappy and dress to hide it. You couldn't tell that she wears nappies and plastic pants if you met her in the pub or the street. But at home she is really obvious and bulky. She has been incontinent most of her life and is totally adjusted to wearing nappies and is no stranger to all the trials and tribulations that come with being incontinent and in nappies. However, there is 1 thing that she is totally clueless about. She wipes when she changes and has regular showers/baths and keeps everything shaved down there as i do myself, but to put it bluntly, She smells. . . . I can only presume that over the years, she has become nose blind to her own odour. The incontinence odour she has comes in various different degrees or strength for want of a better word. Obviously, when she has had a bm, at that moment, it's at its worst . At night she will sleep fairly heavy, sleeping messy for hours and not realising till she wakes up but during the day if she does have 1, she will clean up almost immediately or as soon as she can get to a suitable space to do so. However, she will sometimes, but not all the time have a faint whiff about her after she has changed. (I can only presume this it through maybe missing some of the mess with the wipes while changing, or it's been a particularly messy nappy). As for the pee smell? Well, at the start of the day, she rarely smells of pee as she is showered and in a clean nappy but by the end of the day, she has an aroma of pee about her and i find it so hot. Her vagina stinks of pee constantly, even despite when she has just washed it. When she opens up her nappy to change or when we have sex, the smell of her slightly stale pee fills the room, but she is totally oblivious to it. When we have sex, her pee smell and her leaks and gushes are such a turn-on for me, like massively. I love her incontinence and her incontinent odour, but sometimes i feel bad for not saying anything to her because i enjoy it so much. I love catching a whiff of her when she is starting to smell or needs a change but i think if she knew she was smelly, she would be mortified. I wonder if the people she works with smell her and are too polite to say anything. Some of her close, close friends know she wears nappies but not everyone, and I'm pretty sure they must be able to smell her sometimes, but they clearly dont say anything either. Her incontinence turns me on nore than my own. I love everything about it. Seeing her bulk, hearing her crinkle , and smelling her incontinence is just so dam hot. So my questions are:- should i let her know when she is smelly?. And, if you have incontinence desires, does it stop with how you are yourself or does the incontinence of your partner (or anyone else for that matter) flick your switch as much as your own incontinence does?. . . . I look forward to hearing your thoughts

Humiliation is a huge part for me. I'm a switch so I'm happy to be the at either end. Humiliation probably turns me on more that diapers.

I know that once I start down this road, I don't think it will take long to actually became incontinent. But I suppose I'm frightened about the smell, mess time to change, and all that. My morning messes are always big and smelly so this scares me. But, after some chat with my fiance, I'm going to do a 72 hour trial, starting at midnight tonight of not using the toilet. I will see how that goes.

So as some of you may have read, I've made myself bladder incontinent over the last 5 years with the help of my fiance. She has been very supportive and has no issues with the pitfalls that come with incontinence. Lately, she has hinted at moving towards not using the toilet at all. Now, as much as I love the thought of this, it scares me a little. So my question is, who out there has gone down this road and how do you deal with messy diapers at work and in daily life around friends and stuff?

I do like reading your blog. You cover some really good points. Keep up the good work.

All I'm gonna say is, training to become incontinent is a long slow process. Learning to wet without thinking about it isn't just a physical thing. It's mental too. Took me over 4 years to get to the point where I get about a 1 to 3 second warning before my nappy starts filling. It's only about an egg cup full or so every time, multiple times a day. When Im busy doing things and moving about, I don't feel the need, I just feel myself getting wet. One of the biggest things that you need to do is shrink your bladder. That takes time, especially if you still wake up with a full bladder because essentially, during the night, your disstenting the bladder and training it to hold more for the hours you sleep. During the day, learning to wet in small amounts contantly is the key to shrink it, but mastering bed wetting will get you to daytime incontinence quicker in my mind, or at least that's what worked for me. Now I wet without any control day and night. So much to the point where I pee on myself when changing/showering regularly.

Tena slip maxi active fit with a booster and plastic pants. Permanently except for changing and showering.

I wear polyurethane pants all the time when I'm out the house. They do work for any small leaks but most of all they help with smells. They do a great job in holding any pee smells at bay.

I wear a booster in every nappy I put on. It's only a attends deo but without it I would be changing every 4 hours. With the booster, I can go 6 to 8 hours depending on how much I drink. Much better for when I'm at work and stuff.

I was completely incontinent and constantly messy up until I was 9 and a bed wetter till 11. I wore Terry lined plastic trainer pants and nappies. The nappies were a really light green colour and were really crinkley. I was changed and checked regardless of where we were or who we were with us until a was about 7. From 7 till 9 it was a bit more private. I remember being made to sit on the toilet for hours, scolded when I wet myself after my bowels had voided, was told how smelly I was and what a dirty disgrace I was for wearing nappies. . . . I was called the smelly kid at school. I could always stand up for myself and I remember I wasn't the only kid in nappies so apart from the occasional remark I didn't get too much grief. We had a few kids with disabilities in our school and it was always a zero tolerance policy for bullying and such for them/us. I was never changed at school by anyone apart from the once when I had a really bad tummy. It was my teacher. I was probs about 7 then.I was taken home for lunch everyday and changed by my gran or mum as we didn't live more than a 5 min walk from the school. I had absolutely no control of my bowels. I would be anywhere, doing anything, and I would just fill my seat. It was always a substantial mess. As soon as my body got near the end of the void, I would wet myself too. I was doing a karate grading once doing forms while I was filling my nappy. It never really bothered me being dirty and wet. I never asked for a change or indicated that I was dirty and I think that really upset my mum. I remember being in the same messy nappy for hours sometimes though. Not for any other reason other than time and what I was doing . I.e karate or other activities.. Mum never let it stop me growing and playing. When I was around 9 and a half, I was admitted to hospital, had a small operation and after a lengthy stay I kinda got re toilet trained by nurses, had all kinds of extra dietary requirements and supplements for months. Still had the occasional messy accident. Usually in my sleep. Got totally clean and dry at 12. . .

That's one of lie reasons that I chose to go 247 all those years ago.

Yes there were questions but more like how long have you had incontinence and how do you leak and stuff. Why was I wearing such large pads. I.e. nappies.. Not really how it happened. I was truthful and told them I flood allot so need heavy protection and told them that I tried all the other pads and they just leaked. The nappies give me freedom to carry on with life without wetting everything. They were fine with that. They were more worried that there was something more sinister going on. Once I was cleared of any other illness, then it was down to control measures. Hence why I was sent to the continence clinic. They were really nice. Very understanding and just wanted me to be comfortable. They did try to push pills and sheath, but I dug my heals in and told them no. The nurse did understand and agreed the side effects of the pills were not good and the fact I'm still sexually active so why on earth would I want something glued to the end of my penis. After we sorted that out, and she realised I wasn't worried about wearing such heavy protection, she then turned her attention to my skin condition. Once she realised I was ok and not full of rashes and stuff, she was happy to prescribe pads. Although she wanted to try out the pad and pant system. I explained that didn't work as I've tried them already, she then prescribed nappies, but they were rubbish so just kept buying my own. Now the docs are cool with my nappies. Lol

So, I was sent to the urologist because of my prostate last year. I made the decision over a couple years ago to let my gp know I'm incontinent. I do have a history of back problems and he sent me for investigation. I.e. ultra sound scans, and MRI to check that my back wasn't any worse. That was ok so he referred me to the continence clinic. They gave me all the help they could and suggested I wear a sheath with a bag. I told them no, I am too active and I don't want a bag with something glued to the end of my penis and I deffo want nothing to do with catheters. The nurse actually agreed and said they offer that stuff cos generally people don't want to wear pads. . They then gave me pads and stuff but they were rubbish. . Lol. . So my history was already on my notes, and when the doc sent me to the urologist, they investigated everything, prostate and incontinence. I was offered to speak to someone about a prosthetic sphincter, to which I declined. All my docs and medical people know that I'm not going for any surgery that isn't life dependant and I'm not having anything stuffed inside my body. I.e. catheters so it's down on my notes that I wear pads. Now when you start going for appointments in hospital and stuff, it's a given that the staff are going to see, hear and know your in nappies. I've had to open my nappy for people to investigate. Its on big deal and the medical staff are always very professional. Even when I went for the camera up the urethra, the nurse there asked what type of pads I wear and went and got some clean ones for me to change into after the exam. She even put them in the changing stall with my stuff for me. Its really not a big deal for anyone involved. It's always treated with the up most of respect and sympathy.

Well, sorry to rain on any parades but I've made myself incontinent by wearing nappies 247 for over 5 years so I'm politely telling you, I am living proof that I can be achieved. . . I've been for tests and the urologist has told me, after a camera up the urethra that my internal sphincter isn't working . . . So not only am I living proof, I have a medical diagnosis too. . . And don't think I will regret it later in life, I am loving it. I'm finally who I want to be. . . Yes carrying spare nappies everywhere can be a bit of a pain, but hey ho. I'm very well adjusted to wearing thick nappies with plastic pants and now, it's just a part of normal life for me. . . . . .

Well it sure looks like you have. . . I'm happy for you pal. . . I'm lucky, I have a Mrs who is happy I'm in nappies too. . . Had a few bumps in the road kinda like yourself along the way. Suppose that's why I liked reading your story so much. .

Lol. . . Yeah, that could be interesting. . Lol. . . Although seriously. . That's a really cool account of things and I would love to hear the rest of your story.

I'm completely dependant on nappies for wetting. 6 years ago I went 247 and I can attest to constant wearing making you incontinent. . . Do I regret it? . Not in the slightest. I still love the fact that I smell sometimes. I love the way I crinkle and I'm totally comfortable with people finding out now. . . I wouldn't change it for the world. . . .

Where's part 3? . . Lol. . . I gotta admit, I was hooked reading that. . . ?

Ah, ok. Sorry, my bad. With it being posted in the incontinence forum I thought that was why you were going. You should bee fine then. Just lay there and relax. It really is pain free and I doubt you will leak like I did if that's not the reason why your going. It will feel a little uncomfortable afterwards when the numbing gel years off. Just drink lots of water and you should be fine.

I wear boosters in every nappy I wear. I change my nappy and my booster around 3 to 4 times a day. I honestly would be changing allot more if I didn't use boosters. I absolutely swear by them.

When I had mine, I had drank plenty of water before hand just to keep things flowing. The procedure was pretty quick and wasn't uncomfortable. I would suggest taking some pull ups to wear for the procedure as once the tube is taken out, you'll be leaking everywhere. I filled a tena maxi pant to the point of leaking between when it finished and when I got back to the changing room. Also take a fresh change with you to get into afterwards. The nurse did have some nappies but they were rubbish.

I suppose obvious nappy leaks in public can be a bit of a pain. That and the smell. Although I don't mind the smell of a wet nappy, I don't always want work colleagues and customers smelling my wetness. I've found that when people do get a whiff, they look at my trousers and it's possible that allot of people put 2 and 2 together. Unfortunately, I have to time my changes as changing at work isn't the easiest so it's a fact of life that I do smell by the time I get chance to change.