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if you are planning on making yourself incontinet, one word, DON'T. Whilst it might be every ab or dl's dream in reality it's a nightmare, it affects every aspect of your life, can lead to anxiety, depression and even suicide. It affects you at a very deep part of your psyche, alters your body image. Makes intimacy almost impossible without military planning and precision, it can affect your employment. and loys of other ways.

Don't touch them! I tecently broke a rib and couldn't change properly so i ordered some of these at best part of £27. very little SAP where guys need it,leak guards leak. capacity is nowhere near the stated. If you are sitting when you pee expect wet clothes and seat. The only good thing about them is the tapes. I will never use this product again after this pack.

Originally from Yotkshire but now living between Cardiff and Barry, Male AB aslo bladder incontinent.

the abc xlub un london used to allow it.

my mummy usually makes it age appropriate so nughty stool/step. a small spank on the hand. enforced nap time or early bedtime, not letting me have my favourite soft toy or no story time.

Here we go again, you can't reverse continence without some form of medical problem. you have 2 systems the autonimc and the voluntary. at best you can learn to relax your voluntary sphincters to the point that you can wee or poo almost effortessly but what you can't do is override the autonomic sphincter, at best you can wait until your autonomic sphincter is under so much pressure that you have no choice bot to void your bladder or bowels. Secondly 3 or 4 changes a day of a wet and soiled nappy will almost vertainly result in severe (IE blistering) nappy rash as well as UTI aand Kidney infections especially in a woman. You are putting your wife's health at risk and in a serious case she could be facing plastic surgery for an infected rash or even risking her life wih sepsis caused by a severe uti or kidney infection. If you love her, DON'T DO IT.

Whilst my mummy doesn't really have any rules for me other than no squiggling around, when i have my daddy hat on, it'd. 1, lie till. 2,dummy to be used 3, no trying to cover up genitals or bottom. 4 daddies choice on type of nappy (cloth, plain medical or patterned. 5. daddies choice of waterproof pants. 6, daddies choice of action after change (play, nap time, feed etc)

if she has a friend that is aware of her wearing and is willing to take part, then either have her drop round for a coffee and the do a nappy/diaper check in front of the friend or go into another room and then say something like "oh can you just check X's diaper for me" or for what for me is the ultimate embarrasment/humiliation is to be changed in front of one of my fiamcees lady friends or even be changed by one of them/ And whilst it says Baby boy I was a daddy for nearly 5 years to a man who liked public humiliation.

There are 3 ways to induce lactation depending on your age and whether you have had a baby (rather than an AB).# 1. Hormones, available on the internet but inherently and potentially dangerous as even medically prescribed hormones can cause breats cancer. 2. Have a baby, make sure the baby get's the first month's milk and then the baby and your hubby can share and done naturally through childbirth you will continue lactatcting until they both stop nursing. 3. Stimulation, I discovered this accidentally and my wifes and my doctor confirmed it. if the breast especially the nipple and the aureola (the coloured area around the nipple) are stimulated gently and with a sucking type motion then lactation well eventually return. But he has to think about what he is doing to you. He has to be gentle and it has to be a sucking motion if he's not sure get him to start using a baby bottle until the sucking becomes almost reflexive. We all maintain the "latching" process until about age 13 after that we lose the ability to latch on to nipples, so he needs almost to re-learn this and he also needs to be able to put the sexual side of playing with your breasts to one side, Babies get a lot of comfort and security from breast feeding as well as helping them bond with their mothers, so it is not a sexual activity but a nurturing one. It's ok for your husband to rest his hand on your breast (babies do it naturally) but no squeezing or playing with his "food". I hope that helps.

Most ab/dl's go through what is called the purge and binge cycle often for different reasons. it's called purge and binge because for whatever reason you decide to get rid of your little side, throw away all your clothes and accessories like dummies and bottles, nappies etc. yhis can be through guilt, through being caught, feeling like a freak or because you decide you want to move on and "grow up". the binge part comes later on, sometimes years later on you get all the old feelings back and they build and build until you have to go out and buy more nappies, clothes etc. Being an ab/dl doesn't preclude marriage or having children of your own, it does include being honest with yourself about your feelings it will also include being honest with any serious girfriend you have, you have to be open to questioning, explaining that is isn't about children but about perhaps finding the security you lacked as a child. I have been lucky (if you can call being bladder incontinent lucky) my late wife was a nurse and took me having to wear 24/7 in her stride and would sometimes baby me. My current fiancee actually started out as my mummy, so think things through.

at 64 and very nearly 65 I'm still happily playing with lego nad have been since about 1960. I've never needed an excuse but I now have a perfect excuse, I've recently had to have joint surgery on my hands so all my finger joints are now fixed with plates, wires and screws and one of the senior physiotherapists told me the best way to maintain my finger mobility was to either do jigsaws or play with any sort of lego but not Duplo as the small parts would help my hands, how lucky is that? I usually play with Technics but my fiancee has a friend who is 43 who loves all the castle models and star wars stuff.

if you are on a ventilator you are usually iv fluids and if needed glucose, so you only really need a cath, as you will normally be totally sedated any other problems such as the odd bowel motion would be taken care of by the nurses and you wouldn't be aware it had happened unless you got to look at your bedside notes.

Most if not all people with incontinebce will run into this problem at some time. I've had everything from a little girl asking in a very loud voice "mummy why is that man wearing a nappy" to outright abuse and that included being told i was a paedophile, The nicest comment I had was while in a checkout queue at a supermarket, my t shirt had obvisiously ridden up while I'd been reaching for things and this dear old lady behind me touched my arm and very quietly told me my nappy was in view. The worst experience was when I was out with a friend when my jogging bottoms slipped down exposing my complete disoposable in the middle of a car park. He found it very funny, needles to say i didn't. I've had some form of incontinence since birth so you'd think I'd be used to wearing and changing them, but it hasn't happened in nearly 65 yaers! I think my worst part of the day is morning, (overnight I use a thicker disposable and a washable bed pad over my sheets in case of leaks), I swing my legs out of bed and look down just hoping that for once i won't see the tell tale signs of a very wet nappy. normally I'm just bladder IC, but due to ongoing spinal problems I'm starting to suffer from bowel accidents as well and it is those that I personally find most distressing. All I can hear as I clean up and change is my my mothers voice telling me what a "dirty little boy I am and I should grow up and act my age"

Firstly let's all calm down and look at the current known facts. The Corona Virus and covid 19 are basically the same thing the covid 19 refers to the particular strain of Corona we are dealing with. The Corona virus is fairly common world wide but every now and then kicks out a distinctly nasty one. Hand Washing will help as the virus is very strong and current research says it can survive in an active state on hard surfaces for a minimum ot 72 hours but can survive upto 7 days. Current infection rates double every 4 days, so 1,2 4 8,16 etc. Normal paper surgical masks will not stop the virus, the virus particles are way too small, you need a mask with some form of active barrier so cycling masks, anyi-pollution masks, masks with charcoal filters will help stop the virus. The current mortatlity rate is on average around 3.4%, The Spanish Flu had a mortatlity rate of around 5% and eventually 1 in 3 people were infected Covid ahs Yet to reach anything like that, but unless we take the precautions we are told to we can get a grip on it. If we don;t get a grip on it theneveryone is at risk not just those in the vulnerable groups. So stay home if at all possible, only go out for a short walk once a day mainting 2 meters between people, only go out shopping or to pick up medicines when needed, don't stockpile food etc, there is plenty to go round. If /covis does get bad then the first proffession it will affect will be health workers. Currently in Italy 14% of people affected are health workers/. Fianlly please excuse baad speeling and typos, I have fixed finger joints and they sometime fail to press the key I'm aiming at. Stay safe

about 3 weeks, I am bladder IC but when my IBS is really bad I have the occasional bowel accident. This particular one happened about 5 minutes into a 40 minute bus ride with no changing facilities anywhere on the route, unfortunately the bus was packed, even the person sitting next to me got up to stand. Not a nice sensation at all. I hate soiling myself.