Ames

Hey, it's nice to meet you. Thought I would join in on the welcome party. Feel free to message if you need anything. I'm happy to try to help. I'm fairly new so don't know many things but have been here long enough to hopefully point you in the direction of some people that might. Have fun and hopefully see you around x

Hey how's it going? Nice to meet you x

I found that persistence was key. I did find peeing quite difficult but similar to above, I started to let go everytime I became aware of my bladder. In the first few weeks it was tough and several diapers were flooded and I had issues with leaks etc. As time went on it became more habbit to release whenever anything was in my bladder and then beyond that, I noticed it less. As a result there is never flooding now and I get no leaks and better use. I briefly tried the timer thing but I struggled with the anticipation that I had to try and pee so it became harder. So I worked on being less aware of the urge and just allowing it whenever the smallest urge came along. Keep at it and good luck x

Hey lufa, I'm also fairly new. There are plenty of friendly people about if you need advice or just a chat. Have fun exploring and best of all, enjoy yourself. Hopefully see you around. X

I have found it easier standing. It's my general go to these days. I have never used the wall or anything to hold it up. Sometimes I lay down to secure the bottom tabs and generally I lay down if I'm not changing myself. I have always found doing it laying down kinda awkward. I think it's because my boobs get in the way so I can't see what I'm doing so well haha. x

Underwear? It's diapers or nothing in my house haha. Even before diapers I haven't owned underwear for ages ?

Hey kitt, welcome to the group. Love your picture and I'm envious of the confidence you seem to have. I hope you continue to enjoy life. See you around x

For me personally, my partner knows and isn't phased at all. I do think it's important to have that openness with somebody who you share life with for support and honesty. However, I do agree that it's nobody else's business. I also understand that not all partners are so accepting, open or understanding so it can make things more difficult. I do work in a place that would potentially cause problems if others knew or decided to try and cause trouble so in general, it's stays between the 2 of us and the lovely people on this site haha. I'm greatful to have somebody to share everything with and also for the support of all the people I have spoken with on here x

Hey, from my experience, this site is full of welcoming and helpful people with a bunch of advice. It's nice to see you stepping out of the shadows a little more.

Hiya, I'm also 31 and from the UK. I hope you find lots of friendly people and good advice. See you around

Hey, Nice to meet you. Sounds like you come from a place of experience with a lot of diaper wisdom to share. See you around

Hey, I'm also from the UK and was late on the uptake too. I was 30 when I first wore a diaper. Have fun and see you around sometime

I'm sorry to hear that you are having some trouble. Although tolerance is better than rejection, it's still not what you hoped for I am sure. I agree with some of the other comments. Now you have ripped the hyperthetical band aid off, communication is key. Her acceptance will likely come with understanding and she is unlikely to understand unless you continue to open yourself up. Try to continue these honest conversations with her and in setting hers and your limits and what exactly it is that you both can/will tolerate, she may be able to have a deeper understanding of what you do and why you like to do it. I hope things go well for you. Take care

Haha to be honest I didn't even look at the date. I just thought it was somebody new. Thanks ?