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Nothing like a lazy day in diapers.

I find pleasing my wife with the strap on very satisfying. Like you I need the cuddles and loving also. I love to please her and since she took over when we have sex all that changed sexually over years. It made me horny a lot and I would be waiting and waiting. When she finally says yes I found myself lasting only minutes and going limp before she was satisfied. Over time her fustration of me going soft made her desire me less. She never seemed to be satisfied lately. I am smaller but grow to an average size and it used to be enough. About a year ago she asked why some times I can hit the deep spots not others? First time I ever felt small. I just could only say it was my level of arousal. Which was true. Problem was she made me wait for a long time to have it then tease me rubbing my diapers so by the time I entered her I was almost done some times. Our play times had been getting farther and farther apart. I started masturbating more than normal just to relieve my pressure. Then after I relieved myself one day she wanted some. It took all I could to please her and she went away only partially happy. Thus even fewer relations between us. Then to my embarrassment one day she teased me saying we should have some fun rubbing my diapers. She didn't know I was laying there for an hour already fighting it off when she started doing this. I burst a powerful one in my diapers almost right away and went limp before she got my diapers off . That only made it worse and finnally one day after she turned me down I caught her pleasing herself only an hour later. She now punishes me if I am caught masturbating. I bought her the strap on for Valentine's day and told her if I fail to please her I would finish with it. It is bigger than me and a bit longer. It pleased her a lot the first time. I have not entered her since and only masturbated a couple times. Both resulting in a punishment I don't want to repeat, but probably will. We have had sex very regular now again but I was never out of my diapers for it since I got the strap on. I find it difficult to get off inside my diapers while doing her and once she is pleased I must stop or I am masturbating. This is if I am not locked up inside the diapers already. I am happy to please her but never intended for it to replace me. I think she loves the size and it never gets limp. I am so fustrated now. I am hoping she is just doing it to let me know her pain. Still it makes me happy to please her. Funny

I wouldn't want to do this. I just posted about hating putting a damp diaper back on after I poo. I couldn't do this just to use the entire diapers. Personally I soak about 75 percent of my diapers just using them normal. Maybe it is because my thing is smaller and sits low I don't know. I will soak most of the way up the back on a disposable and the cloth ones all the way if not changed. By then I am uncomfortable and usually get allowed to change. To each his own but I hate putting on a damp or wet diaper. I can sit in one all afternoon, but don't ask me to take it off and put it back on. I don't care for that. I must be weird.

So mom has a couple rules. I have to do #2 in the potty unless she has my diapers locked or such. And she decides when I can change. I like this as I hate to poo my diapers anyway and her controlling my changes I like. My complaint is she used to let me put on a fresh diapers after I would poo, that was until lately. She has been allowing me to poo still, but not always allowing me to change afterwards. I hate putting on a wet/ damp diaper. Which is odd cause I don't mind sitting in a wet/damp one as long as it is not to wet. She has had me diapered more and ,thankfully, she has had me in disposables more. I am not sure if she just is trying to save a buck or just doesn't care. I even had to pin my cloth diapers back on the other day that were damp so I am assuming it is not about being conservative about the disposables. For obvious reasons I am not going to complain or I may lose my poo privilege. Yet it bothers me. Does anyone else have to, and/or hate to put on a damp diaper? Why should this bother me as the wet diaper didn't bother me before I pooed? Am I goofy or should she be giving me dry diapers? Opinions? Anyone else in this situation? Just wondering if I should chance asking about it or if it's normal? So confused?

First off she knows. I believe that the butt pat was her way of letting you know she knew. I also believe she was telling you more than that. I think she was opening the door for you to talk to her about it. I doubt she knows why you are wearing diapers and may think you have an embarrassing issue and was opening the door for you to open up about it to her if you need. My mother used to do stuff like that and wait for me to open up. She is most likely not thinking you are an ab, but more likely that you are having bladder issues and dealing with it privately and is trying to let you know if you want you can share or talk with her. It may be possible she knows more. Talk with her. Go out to a lunch. Just you and her.

I don't like messing myself. Long ago when my IBS was bad was when I got braver and would wear diapers at times because of the loss of control. Hated it but was better than poo pants. Did like wearing the diapers though. Even now from time to time I wear for that reason. Still don't like it. Now when my wife locks my diapers on that means I usually am required to poo in them also. It adds to the punishment making it much more hated. The real odd thing is when my head gets in full toddler mode I would rather poo in my diapers, although I still don't like it but after a few minutes it just feels normal and I go on as nothing happened. That is until I am told to change cause my wife won't change a messy one. So it kinda spoils the toddler mood for a while. Odd none the same that I find it acceptable when in toddler mode.

Oh my! I could not imagine how to explain that one if the kids caught us while I was dressed in diapers, locking pants and such doing her with the strap on while sucking a pacifier! Scary thought. Our oldest walked in once when we were having regular sex once and we're covered and forgot to lock the door. He was old enough to understand but even then it was uncomfortable conversation. She does find this an amazing punishment. Me personally am hating it. Since we got it I have not had sex other than by myself of which that I was punished for. She decides when we have sex and the strap on is bigger than me. This has left her completely satisfied lately between my punishments and me fustrated. I want to masturbate so bad but between the spankings I got or the strap on punishment I am to afraid to touch him.

I know as boy when younger my sisters did tickle until I wet myself. Happened a few times.

Yes she is the best. I love her and she has been a wonderful mother to the kids and a great partner to me. Life is not always roses, but the roses need a little fertilizer once in a while to bloom so pretty. She doesn't always participate as much as I want. It goes in waves, but so does my mood to be diapered or little like. With the exception of night diapers of course. Those are almost always a must.

Wish you would have sent this yesterday. Lol it still Cher's me up today. She smokes in the garage not the house. At least she is only hurting her health then. Still you made me laugh. I did go with the flow. Over and over and over..... That's how I got soaked. I don't mind a really wet diaper but soaking until almost leaking is not usually my thing. Plus I cannot please myself without her participation or permission right now or a spanking is in order. Thus I couldn't enjoy the diapers when it was rather wet and please myself like I used to. After my paddling last week for getting caught doing this I wasn't going to chance it. Instead it was just increasing my horny feeling. If I could have removed my diapers it would have subsided sooner. Overall yesterday I just wanted to do what I wanted but was stuck because of my own undoing. In reality we set these rules to help me feel more like a true diapered toddler. I most definitely did feel like that toddler yesterday. I had no control of when I could change, when I could get out of bed, I couldn't go have breakfast, I couldn't run to the store, I couldn't go watch TV, and couldn't play with my little thing. All because of my diapers and our rules. So I got to feel the true fustration a toddler has when he wants to be a big kid. It was one in the same. The only reason I didn't put up a fuss or anything was my fear of being punished as a toddler. So even though it was not what I wanted so to speak. I got what I asked for. But it still made me grumpy. Luckily when she finnally got up with no care in the world to my state and I was back in my big boy undies. To her it was like nothing happened. I may enlighten her later how I felt, not that she will change what she does.

We had a movie night last night for our kids. Thus I drank more than normal. I woke up rather wet this morning. Not the usual since I got my CPAP machine. Anyway on Sundays I am usually allowed to get up and change out of my diapers when I wake because she is already up. I woke up early and curled up close to her. This woke her up and she went to have a smoke. Usually after that I am allowed out of my diapers. During this I said something with my CPAP mask still on and she thought I hinted for sex. ( Not allowed by me) I was not hinting, horny yes but wasn't going to ask. Any how she said," Those diapers are staying on!" Then crawled back in bed and is sleeping in this morning. This is leaving me in soggy diapers cause I can't remove or change with out permission. I am also not allowed to wake her up or ask for a change. Normally this is not as bad but I am wide awake and want to get up. But I can't cause all the clothes that would hidey diapers she put in the wash last night and the kids are around. So I sit here in my soggy diapers for the last two hours just waiting and getting wetter! Grrrrr. If I take them off I will likely be spanked and diapered for the day. Not really in the mood for that today and we'll her last spanking a week ago was not so nice. Yet I sit here hungry wet bored. Grrrrr. Worst of all she won't even phase her when she gets up. Plus if she still thinks I was hinting for sex I will end up diapered today anyway and a possible spanking. Grrrrr. I wish right now I never gave her the right to decide when I remove a diaper.

Definitely wear some diapers. About 25 years ago is when I first had ibs. Was very bad and I had the same problem. I found myself carrying a bag of extra underwear and clothes all the time just in case. I also had a couple embarrassing accidents. I liked diapers once in a while back then and wore sometimes for an occasional bedwetting problem, but rarely wore during the day then and almost never out of the house. I decided to wear them when I was in a flare up. It was much better and saved me enough times. Luckily for me it got better and only bothers me a few times a year now or the rare day once in a while. I can usually make it to the bathroom now. Luckily now I have no fear of wearing diapers out and will slip one on when I feel I need. Unfortunately I still hate messing a diaper. But much better than a stain in the rear.

This is an older thread but very interesting. When my wife first insisted I wear diapers every night and not just when I wanted is when I changed to just using my diapers. I used to get up at night when I knew I had to go. I started finding this more of a hassle being I was getting up 2 or more times a night. So sometimes I just wet. Eventually that meant more leaky diapers and wet beds. This lead her to double diaper, stuffer, and add cloth diapers until I ended up in thick cloth diapers that very very rarely leak if I used them all night. With the changes in my diapering style I found it much more of a hassle to remove them and put them back on. At that time I was only wetting accidentally about once a month. Non the less I gave in and finnally told her I was just going to use the daipers. That also when she went from a rare cloth diapers to multiple layer cloth diapers every night. I wet a lot more now with out getting up and sleep better. From time to time I she will give me a free night of no diapers and I will usually stay dry, but find getting up a hassle. Plus if I do wet the bed on a diaper free night I am put in day diapers for a week, thus I don't always take her up on it. Now it doesn't matter anymore cause since she became more involved in my diapers her rules are if I am diapered that's my potty. Day or night.

I agree. You need better diapers. And what is with the underwear? You were in diapers. Try plastic pants instead. Also bring a clean pair of pants.

Ok so I have been a diaper lover forever and been diapered at night for years. It has never been discussed with our children but I do believe they know to some extent. I do try to keep them discreet around them, but thick diapers are hard to hide when wearing. I cover with a long shirt and my wife wash them when they are not home. When I am on diaper punishment I do my best so they don't know and to my knowledge have never found out. I started getting into my toddler or ab side more. This has totally stayed in the bedroom or when they are not home. The other night my daughter came in and I was in my locking onsie. The door wasn't locked. Thankfully I was under the covers and she just thought it was another shirt. But then yesterday one of them crawled into bed and found my new, first ever, pacifier. When I sleep with it I was clipping it to my shirt to not loose it. But last time me and the wife had sex or I should say she did not me. I was being punished for masturbating and was locked so I was doing her with a strap on over my diapers. Anyway I can getting off topic. She shoved the pacifier in my mouth to shut me up from complaining. Afterwards I fell asleep. When I woke she was gone and so was the pacifier. I thought she put it away. Evidently not as this was two days later and my daughter found it asking questions. My wife said it was a friend's of our we watched on rare occasion and she accepted that thankfully. Even though they haven't visited in over a month. I need to be more careful. The night diapers are easy to explain as I can say I am a bedwetter if they ever asked, but pacifiers and onsies are much harder.

I was just a do until the last few years the ab side has moved in. Maybe I can help. Even as a diaper lover back then I felt like a 4 year old toddler when it came to my diapers. I had no desire for other toddler things, just the diapers. That said I wanted some one to take control of my diapers as it sounds he does. So what does that mean? That is a little different for everyone so use some trial and error. Just cause he may resist doesn't mean he doesn't want it. It may be part of his act so to say. This confused my wife. Have a safe word if you will to say you went to far or as we did wrote up some rules. Then respect the rules. This means both of you. I had to learn that as I agreed to things but when I was less in the mood I didn't want to follow them. I had to remember she didn't always want to do her part either but did. These are ways to take control. Youstop him from ordering supplies and diapers. Talk it over with him at first but you decide in the end what you will get. As time goes on just totally take over. Just don't get what he wants but get some you like to see on him. For example he may want a thick diaper, but you see a cute baby print one so buy it. Or he doesn't normally wear plastic pants but you think jungle print one is cute, buy it as an extra layer of protection. Or you want to see him in a cloth diapers. So get them. Next, don't let him change himself or adjust it. No little one in diapers does. For many this is huge. For me it is. Now this will need to be done on your terms. By that I mean if you don't want to change a messy diaper then don't allow that or make him change himself if he wants to poo then. Something very important here is that you take control of when the diapers get changed. So just because he is wet you may be busy and he can wait no matter who is doing the changing. If he is busy to bad. Interrupt him and change him. He is to little for the potty, then he is to little to know when or where to change.For example my wife won't change cloth diapers, she will remove them sometimes and clean me but I have to pin the new one on. She will change my disposables, but only when wet. If she is punishing me and I have to poo my diapers I have to change it. I may adjust my diaper if loose, but cannot change it unless she says. Another thing is you decide what diapers he will wear and how thick. Be respectful of his views when going out, but take total control at home. Talk first about that but once sorted out then both of you stick to it. Maybe a plain ones, maybe cloth one tonight. Maybe cute baby print. Maybe you don't want to change him for a while. Add a doubler or double up the diapers or both. Maybe you want plastic pants for extra protection or because they are cute. Maybe you want to see him waddle and put thick double cloth diapers on. But after your talk you may let him pick but it is your choice always. Again be respectful when going out to his wishes. For me I didn't mind a little bulge of the diapers at times. My wife wanted every diaper to show a bulge. For her it seemed to be to part. One if I was going to be diapered then I should not hide it any more than a kid could. Second a bulging diapers need fewer changes. I agreed with the exception of work or around freinds or family and that I may hide it with a shirt tail or something when some where I may be seen by people I know. This took some adjustments for me, but made her happy. At first I had a lot of anxiety when we went shopping or whatever. But as time went on I got over that. She reminded me she was putting up with a man in diapers and I must follow the rules or she would not participate. She always respected my part with family and such so I did the same. This little rule did bite me in the butt later but that's another time. You can tell him what he can wear over his diapers thus allowing him more or less decreet when diapered. Diaper checks are a must. Get him to agree you may do it any time or any place. Not just when convenient for him but when it is convenient for you. He may need a change and this may interrupt what he is doing. To bad. How you do it matters to many. Putting a couple fingers down the front of the diapers or in a leg hole is good. Have him stand for it and open his pants a bit if you need to. Then have him turn and pull the back open looking for poo even if he doesn't poo diapers. There is also the diaper squeeze on the front of a disposable to see how squishy it is. A big part is to be vocal about it. Oh my your diapyee is wet! Are you stinky too? Get the point. Do the same when you change him. Now if he likes a little humiliation then I have some more ideas. Even if he is in a discrete diaper you can draw attention to him. When around others, out of the blue say did you poop? Loudly as you quickly look down his diaper in back and say no must have just been a toot. Or you are at a checkout counter ask like you are trying to be discreet but yet loud enough for some one to hear, Do you need to change your diapers before we go? It is a long ride home? Take control and diaper him every night for bed if he is not already. This means even when he doesn't want it. Commend him for getting up wet. Ultimately most of us like some one taking total control. You enjoy this and that is rare. But think about it. You are probably changing him when he wants and diapering him just how he wants. He is still in control. Stop doing that and do it on your terms. He will enjoy it. Do listen to his needs but do it on your terms because you need to enjoy it also. Are you keeping him diapered all the time? Do you want it to be only discreet or are you looking for ideas to push his limits a bit? Do you want some mild humiliation ideas that may embarrass him but not necessarily bring others in on his lifestyle? I have many ideas from my personal account I am willing to share. In my case I am the one in diapers and endured them or wanted them, but later enjoyed most.

So I have been slowly feeling better. I even worked almost 20 hrs this week. Only fought mild anxiety one morning. Couldn't breathe yesterday and my inhalers / nebulizer didn't work. My bronchitis is still not gone and the new med was making it worse. Ended up in the ER to get treated and change of meds. Ahhh breathing much better today. Had a good day. One day at a time.

I used to have a teddy bear when I was little. Mom talked me into getting rid of it when I was in grade school. I miss him. Second favorite was a cookie monster. Gone also. Funny thing is for my sleep study I was joking with my sister by text and it came up they should bring me my teddy bear so I could sleep. ( I don't own one) With me being sick she bought me two soft, adorable, small teddy bears as a joke. Little does she know how much I love them and have slept with them every night since I got them. A few jokes have come and gone, but they fit perfectly in my little mind when I sleep. If she only truly knew.

Basically what everyone else said. Talk! Communication with your partner is always key in all parts of your relationship not just this. My only suggestion is have your talk with her while you are in adult mode not when in little space. Your adult self needs to communicate this.

I started the year off not well. Bronchitis and back pain. Not bad. TIA stroke in January followed by three weeks of allergic reaction to a med from the hospital. All the while still fighting bronchitis and the back pain. Decided to have my throat fixed. They stretched it so I can swallow correct again. Bronchitis is finally going away after about 20 days of meds and physical therapy is helping my back. Added a new med to my cannot use list. My IBS has been up and down. To top it off I have developed bad anxiety attacks since the stroke thing. Now trying meds for that and therapy. Hope they work. The anxiety has gave me a nervous bladder and wetting during the day sometimes. Good thing I like diapers. I will have appointments for that just to make sure it is only anxiety. Since Christmas Eve I have been in the emergency room 5 or 6 times. Had a hospital stay and felt like crappy most days until recently. Had many doctor visits. Things are going on an up swing. Hope I keep healing. Feeling a little down and depressed due to my lack of work meaning I have no income coming in. Hopefully my insurance gets sorted out before I lose that on the first. My family has been a great help. My faith in God is helping also. So I push on looking for better days. Pray for me or wish me well depending on your beliefs. I could use it the last few days.

What did the hen say when she saw scrambled eggs on the plate?... What a crazy mixed up kid.

Personally I had no problem back in the day toilet training our kids. Like others said we are still an adult. I did have a lot more sympathy for my son who was much older before we got him dry at night. Doctor helped with that. The only accward thing for me personally was when I was telling them something like "you want to wear underwear like a big kid don't you". As I stood there thinking to myself diapers are better or as I took them to the bathroom in the middle of the night while I wore a wet diaper. Not that they knew I was diapered. Other than that I did all I could to teach them.

So I have been on my CPAP machine for a little while now. I love it. I sleep much better. Sadly being ill I couldn't wear it for about a week. When I do wear it I am waking up in dry diapers many nights. Desperate need to wet in the morning and wet before I get up for breakfast, but still getting up dry none the less. If I wake wet I am usually just slightly wet. I almost think I could get by with no diapers or a good disposables for bed, but as of yet my wife still wants the thick cloth ones. Makes me wonder if this was my problem most of my life? Now on a side note I have had an anxiety problem going on since my Tia stroke thing. The anxiety thing has been causing me to wet during the day sometimes. So I am getting dry at night but ironically I am now having trouble during the day. Wearing diapers is slowly becoming more regular all day. I have thought about 24/7 before but if this doesn't change I may be there want it or not. At least I don't mind wearing diapers. For may this increases the anxiety if it happens. I actually find it comforting to be diapered on my bad days.