PullUpDiaperLover

Paypal refunds anything, legit or not. Just say services not delivered. Lesson is, money should never be sent to someone like this in advance. No reason for it. Still sucks.

I have those clips! Cute ones.

Similar experiences here. I like you I suppressed my ABDL side until much later in life, picking it back up again in my 30s in earnest and actually becoming consistent in my 40's . Not sure if there is something to it or not. Maybe with maturity it becomes easier to except your immature side? Anyhow, I have boundaries as well. Making sure my 2 kids don't see stuff, no wearing on Sundays, family outings generally, holiday trips and vacations, ect. Not always being in a diaper for sex. Once those boundaries are set and your wife accepts you for who you are, things work out. It takes time for sure.

I would go large, you have to account for diaper. Honestly, I found while its possible to go too large for a onsie, generally the larger the more comfortable you will be. Since you are border line, I would go the larger size to be safe.

I also cannot handle more then about 3/4". Curious where you found one that small that worked as a tunnel? I love plugs, but most are just too large for me.

I sometimes wonder what employees think about never seeing me use the restroom. WOW! His bladder.....?

Don't have anywhere to go for a few hours, so a Lavendar Diaper with Little Monsters Onsie and a set of Tykables Short Alls over it. Paci, Bottle, princess socks and plushy finish the attire for the morning. Been more little boy then girl lately for some reason.

I am very much like you personality wise. Work 60-100hrs a week in business, professional, responsible, and a family man. Its been said above already, just except it. I think that is how you become whole, stop fighting this irrational mental disposition. Some therapist attempting to cure you of being an ABDL is about as fruitful as attempting to make Gay Teens not gay. It just is not going to work. I wear diapers to work every day, no one notices or cares. In bed, or when the family is out I wear ABDL clothing and suck on a pacifier. Heck I even have a stuffy as I type this. If a business call comes in I will switch mental gears and answer professionally, got to make a living. I get what you mean, some times ordering 300.00 of diapers and clothing seems ridiculous. Or sometimes you feel a bit immature wearing diapers to a sales meeting....But there is absolutely nothing wrong with it if you are being successful in life. Getting into your little space and all dressed up does occasionally require you to set work aside for a little while. I would say for workaholic you NEED that time to relax and decompress so don't have a heart attack from stress. Its Sunday, go put something cute on, grab a bottle and a stuffy and relax. You can grind on work tomorrow.

Sounds like fun, losing control over wetting naturally. But I am scared about the pain of insertion....

Paci Clips are mandatory. Otherwise they get lost in bed, fall on the floor....I also like it because I can answer the phone and just let it fall out of my mouth. It also adds yet another babyish element.

Online is the only way to go. Finding the perfect person in the wild is going to be nearly impossible. But in the end you must meet to know if its going to work out. Do not spend months just chatting online, get down to the business of dating in person quickly.

My wife recently laid down the law. With new ABDL products coming out all the time my diapers over flowed the closet, a trunk and ended up with some in down stairs storage. Every time a cute new print comes out I just want to try them! So I am running down my stash and ignoring posts about cute new prints right now. Jeesh, its like being a woman with shoes!

There are so many, its hard to pick. I use Tykables regular diapers in the summer because they are cool, but Rearz Princess in the winter when its cold. ABU Lavender is soothing and always comforting and just the right thickness. Velcro types like Little Rawrs and new over nights are great when involving sex, or for using the bathroom while wearing. The Pride diapers are great for showing your LGBT side......If I had to pick one all around diaper I would have to go with the old ABU Lavender I guess.

So I have 3 types, all similar nook 5. However very different textures. I have an extremely soft rubber from Ebay that I use at night as to not tire my mouth out. Rearz produces a very nice mid range one, and Little for Big are very firm for play time or total day time use. I use all 3 depending on mood, but the softest one only at night. The other trick for a Paci rookie is you need a clip strap. As far as larger nipples, I am not sure they would be comfortable.

I do that exactly. Always have to resist ordering more diapers as my stash gets too large. Not only do I want more of my favorite but all the new options coming out I always want to try. Sometimes I miss the days of 1 or 2 ABDL diapers.?

My wife has told me about the same, these sort of events our out. Wish I would have tried more things before I married, but it is what it is.

Estate Sales. I could care less if someone notices at my age

Yep, join the club. I was like, what the hell do people suck on Pacis for...Now I have different ones for night and day and carry one in the car with me.

I do Estate Sales, and keep waiting for that ABDL Estate. Unfortunately I think a lot of stuff gets tossed out after death by an embarrassed family. I would put ABDL stuff in that category.

Onsies are out now, so have to watch that waste band at work!

I am with you, I actually emailed them. Other then the strange chemical smell they had they were my go to diaper in the summer. They dont hold together very well as far as the absorbent material, however they were the thinnest ABDL diaper for summer use. Thankfully its been cool this year so far, so thicker diapers will work. But certainly I will not wear something like Little Princess Rearz diapers in the summer, just too hot. I bought a case when the Little Builders were on sale, so I have hot days this summer covered at least.

If she is so straight laced to be worried about sex before marriage, then a a pretty radical sexual fetish like diapers is going to of course be way out of the realm of acceptability. Either you have to find someone more open ( generally not extremely religious) or work it out so you can wear, enjoy diapers but keep out of sexual encounters. For the most part that is my situation as its a turn off for my wife. Just is what it is.

I wear 5 days a week at least, paci at night. But as for an all day session? Family has to be out of town, which will happen this weekend. 3 Days of hanging out as a little girl or boy with out a care. And a couple of trips out with appropriate AB clothing.....

I want to try those colorful Pride diapers from Tykables

I have a Minnie Mouse blanket now, but of course my original baby one is long gone. Also have a little plushie and rubber baby doll, even a rattle toy.