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One thing I’ve tried that helps with diapers like that is to use some sort of thicker tape, whether it be duct, packaging or similar, and make a landing zone on the front of the diaper. The plastic on Abenas doesn’t respond well to numerous readjustments, so having a makeshift landing zone gives you the opportunity to make more adjustments as need be without damaging the diaper.

I feel that. I don’t wear 24/7 to begin with, nor am I diapered every day. For me, my diaper enjoyment is best when I dictate when I want to wear and when I don’t. I find there are times I do need a break simply because I’m burned out or just don’t feel like it. I think for a lot of folks, it is normal to want a break every now and then.

My question is, if you are not incontinent but enjoy wearing diapers to bed as an AB or DL, do you wake up when you need to pee, just go in your diaper and then fall back asleep? Yes, that’s what I do. It’s rare that I actually have to go in the middle of the night though. If so, how many times a night do you wake up to pee in your diaper? Once. Usually it’s a large flood, then right back to sleep. Do you just pee in whatever position you are in or do you roll over on your back and wet to avoid leaking out the side of your diaper? I’m a side sleeper, though if I’m diapered I try to sleep on my stomach or back. I’ve found that sleeping on my side while diapered stretches and loosens the diaper I’m wearing, and usually end up leaking as a result if I do end up having to go in the middle of the night. If you are or are not incontinent and sleep in diapers, do you wet in your sleep without waking up? Nope, at least not recently. I was a bit of a bedwetter when I was a kid, but I haven’t had an episode of that since well before puberty. If so, is that every night or just now and then that you don't wake up when you pee? N/A If you don't wear a diaper to bed, would you still wet in your sleep or not? No, I’d be perfectly fine. I've been under the impression that some people will wet if they have a diaper on but when they don't they will wake up when they have to pee. If you have daytime control, do you still wet in your sleep and would you be afraid you would wet your bed if you didn't wear a diaper? No, I’d be perfectly fine. Has wearing diapers to bed caused you to unconsciously wet in your sleep without knowing over time, or do you still regain control and wake up due to the urge of needing to go to the bathroom? Honestly, the only thing wearing diapers to bed has done for me is give me a better night’s sleep. There’s a level of comfort you get with wearing diapers to bed.

For one thing, it depends on what you’re looking to get out of the other individual. If you’re looking for someone to have a relationship with that includes them being your mommy or other parental figure, basing it solely off of the kink is a horrible idea. You’re much better off going about normal dating and whatnot, getting to know and bond with that individual, and see about incorporating your carnal needs when it is appropriate. As much as you desire to have your needs fulfilled, people still are people and other people have needs that need to be met as well. Value the person first before all else, and then go from there.

I’m no expert by any means, but relationships have their ups and downs, and it sounds to me like you are stuck in a serious rut with your significant other. I think counseling and/or therapy is a good idea for the both of you. Often, speaking with counselor or therapist, being a neutral third party, can help you both to decipher each other’s thoughts and feelings and begin to adapt and grow to each other’s needs. Being there was a traumatic event involved, it might take some time to reach a breakthrough with counseling, but I feel like it would be very constructive for both of you. One thing I would say for your future is try and find a healthy balance of your needs as well as hers. As much as you want the mommy/baby relationship you desire, she needs her desires and needs validated as much as you do. It sounds to me like you need to spend some time reciprocating what she needs being that she’s been so receptive to your needs, and putting your needs and desires on the back burner for a bit. This is just my two cents, but I believe using your kinks or lifestyle as a major focal point of your relationship can be unhealthy. We are all human, after all, and we have other needs that have to be fulfilled as well besides our kinks and deepest desires. Even if your significant other is 100% on board with it, they need their breaks from it and need to focus on their needs, as much as you would. I hope this helps.

The Waddle Cut doesn’t refer to a specific diaper, rather a new wider and thicker core Tykables is incorporating into their diapers. In my opinion, they’re a lot more comfortable and less constricting than other diapers because the area between the legs is wider. On the downside, it means the diapers are less conspicuous and the bulge becomes more noticeable. Unfortunately, Tykables does not offer a plain white diaper, though they have a camouflage design that could easily pass as underwear.

Honestly, people-watching at Walmart is a lot of fun. You never know what you could see. For instance, I was in the local Walmart once later on in the evening, and over in the pet section, there was a guy who looked more into pet play than furry, but he had a harness on with a leash, dog ears and a tail, was sitting on all fours and barking like a dog. Legit, I had to do a double take. Going back to the OP, there are a number of reasons why they could be diapered, so lets not get judge mental about it. We don’t know their situation after all.

I typically tend to go with something heavy duty for nighttime use. My usual go-tos are ABU LittlePawz, ABU PeekABUs or Tykables Little Rawrs. I’ll wear them sometimes during the day too. I’m not a 24/7 wearer, but if I have less opportunity to change when I wear or have a longer uninterrupted period of time to wear, I’ll go thicker. Otherwise, I’ll stick to a Cushies, LittlePawz, or lighter Tykables for day use. I like the ABUs and Tykables for two different reasons for night use. I’ve been an ABU fan ever since I got into ABDL, and their products just work well. It’s a sense of familiarity over anything else. As for the Tykables, they are slowly becoming my favorite diaper brand. Their fit is 100% perfect for me, the hook and loop tabs make readjustment a breeze, and they perform well. Plus, the designs are great without being too overdone or busy. For context, I am not the heaviest wetter at night, though I am by no means the lightest either. The LittlePawz can make it through the night, but by morning they’re usually close to, if not at capacity. The Little Rawrs and PeekABUs hold up better and still have some room to spare once morning comes. I can usually get through breakfast or that first big morning wetting without issue. I’d say 8 hours in the LittlePaws and at least 12 hours in the other two. Any issues I have from leaks are from one of two different sources: either I didn’t do the best job taping to begin with, or sometimes the ABU diapers will either stretch and become loose, or the taping panels will lose their adhesiveness and begin to detach from the back sheet. I can’t say I’ve ever had that issue with the Tykables, which definitely is a plus. I can say I never have to change in the middle of the night due to my diaper reaching or exceeding capacity though. The one thing I will say is I tend to sleep on my back, stomach or somewhat on my side when I’m diapered, though I’m strictly a side sleeper when I’m not. I’m also in the process of incorporating some cloth diapers in to shake things up, so my answers might change in a little while.

I would say I’m a mix between the two. When I first came into the ABDL lifestyle roughly 10 years ago, my first introduction to ABDL diapers was the early ABU stuff (the one-wet Cushies, the Luvs-inspired Overnights), as well as a mix of Pull Ups and Goodnites, being slim enough to wear them. Over time, I’ve had the opportunity to try and incorporate different diapers and things into my wearing. I’ve tried things like the short lived BKN diapers, early Bambino products, early Snuggies/Tykables diapers, Tranquility ATNs, Abena M4s, Wellness Briefs, and stuff like that while I was trying to shape what I would consider to be my diaper identity and find what works best for me. There’s still a lot I haven’t tried for a number of reasons, mainly because I have so much in my adult stash as it is, not to mention I’ve found diapers that already work for me, in addition to all of the vintage baby and kid stuff I collect. Things like Crinklz, Rearz, Cuddlz, Fabine, Dotty and CTDC I haven’t had the opportunity to try yet that I still want to try. For now, though, I’m mainly faithful to ABU, though Tykables are starting to become more of my favorite. I’m also trying to incorporate some cloth diapers into my repertoire, but it’s really in between those three right now. If I find something else that really works, my answer could change.

Honestly, I like the waddle cut. Tykables have always fit me well, but the waddle cut makes them feel that much better. They feel more roomy “down there” yet still are snug and comfortable. I might have to make them my go-to from now on.

Just my two cents, but this could just be your mind and body coping for the purge period you just went through, and that what you are currently experiencing is possibly temporary. There’s a distinct possibility that eventually the binge and purge will even itself out and you find yourself a balance of wanting and not wanting to wear them. That’s where I’m at with them: I wear when I feel like it, and when I don’t want to, I don’t.

I’m 99% or so sure that Under The Sea and AM/PM are the same diaper minus the print. Regardless, they are a quality diaper. Absorbency is middle of the road compared to similar high quality diapers, usable for both day and night wear. They’re a little on the thicker side which I don’t mind, but some folks might. My only gripe is you can’t buy them in cases on Amazon, only in packs. Otherwise, definitely not a bad diaper choice.

I feel that about women’s clothes in general, especially when it comes to ABDL and ageplay stuff. Now I wouldn’t ever wear any of it, but just seeing the variety of things that they can choose from and get away with wearing makes me jealous. There’s a lot more cutesy stuff for the other sex in my opinion. As for the OP, no way in hell. You might be more on the exhibitionist side, but I wouldn’t be caught dead doing something like that.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it looks like they’ve discontinued that product, per the description on several various medical supply websites. I’d say you hit the nail on the head regarding what is currently available to be limited stock, and once they’re gone, they’re gone for good. Another user here ran into a similar dilemma a few months ago: As for what they’re being replaced with, I honestly don’t know. Your best bet would be either to buy up what you can or start looking for alternatives.

1. Absorbency/Overall performance. What use is a diaper if it won’t perform well from the beginning? 2. Fit. Obviously, actually being able to wear a given diaper is important, and the right fit makes all the difference. Things like how much the backing and wings stretch over time, how well the tapes hold, and how the cut is all factor into fit. 3. Design. I know I might be nitpicking a little here, but just like anything else presentation does bear somewhat into what diapers to buy. It’s just like buying a car: as much as reliability and performance matter, so does the look. If you want something stylish, you buy something stylish. If you want something simple, you buy something simple. Same goes for diapers, and some definitely look better than others.

Can’t say I was ever forced, it just took me a little while longer than normal to potty train. As for having anyone to diaper me, I don’t have anyone, nor do I ever think I will.

You might have some luck on Fetlife, once you get past all the overtly sexual stuff on there. Worst case, you can at least find info on munches and other ABDL events.

Woke up in a soggy ABU Cushies, sweats and a t-shirt. Roller out of bed, stripped down and hopped in the shower. After, I get dressed normally and went on about my day.

I did something similar when I used to buy Abenas, only difference is I used duct tape. It gets the same result, but with different designs on the tape, you can have some fun with it.

Honestly, I don’t do anything special. I will use powder on a rare occasion, but I generally don’t wear consistently enough or for long enough for rashes to even begin to develop. I don’t usually eat or drink anything to encourage any sort of damage down there, and I shower almost daily. 99% of the time as well, I only do #1 in my diapers, almost never #2. Even if I do mess, I don’t spend very long in it. To me, any sort of powder or cream seems like an unnecessary step, at least in my personal diaper use. I have to really be in the right mood to powder up. I’ve tried plastic pants before and I have a pair of them, but I seldom ever use them. I hardly ever leak and headspace-wise don’t really do anything for me. I prefer the feel and crinkle of my diaper’s plastic backing by itself, unless I’m wearing a onesie. KISS, that’s how I look at it.

Personally, I probably have too many diapers in my stash as it sits. I don’t want to put an exact number, but 150+ probably wouldn’t be too far off. I have a bad habit of restocking anytime I’m down to my last pack of something. I do think there is such thing as too much. Obviously, if you don’t have room for your stash, then that’s too many, or if you have a certain amount more than what you’d usually use in a given time period, then that might be a bit much. Ultimately though, you’ll probably get through them all at some point, so really whether having too much or not enough varies from person to person.

Honestly, I might be in the minority here, but I actually like a saggy diaper. For one thing, I like my diapers a little looser to begin with, especially when it comes to giving my nether region space to breathe. Not only that, a saggy diaper to me is one of the best ways instantly change my headspace. I even buy diapers a size up sometimes just to feel like I’m swimming in them. The more helpless I can feel in a diaper, the better. I will say though that saggy doesn’t necessarily mean leaking. I like my diapers loose and saggy, but still snug enough not to leak. It’s a fine line to walk, but when pulled off right feels amazing.

First off, I think this is a great question to ask. I can’t say I’ve really seen this topic touched on before, so kudos! For me personally, I can’t say that I strive to fully replicate the baby/toddler lifestyle for a number of reasons, the biggest being there are certain elements that are difficult to reproduce as well as certain elements from other young ages I like to intermix. Really though, I just like my headspace to be the way I want and the way I like.

Honestly, I buy oversized diapers sometime just for shits and giggles (pun intended). For me personally, sometimes a diaper that’s too big really gets me into little space. All that extra padding and material you swim in makes you feel that much more little and babyish.

The few times I’ve tried sleeping with it in either it pops out and I lose it, or it becomes too uncomfortable to sleep with. I’m more of a daytime paci user anyway tbh.